Fathering Our Future

Anthony Vandagriff
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Fathering Our Future is the podcast for dads who are dedicated to embracing this God-given identity and fulfilling the mission of fatherhood. We explore fatherhood from a biblical perspective focusing on identity, relationships, and mission. You’ll get scriptural guidance and wisdom that will help you as a dad. You’ll also get to hear from other dads and special guests on. topics you care about.

  1. 4D AGO

    Every Dad Would Die Would For Their Kid But Not Every Dad Will Live

    Every dad would say, "I would die for my kid." It sounds powerful. It sounds noble. And in many ways it is true. Most dads would step in front of danger without hesitation. But what about the everyday moments? The challenge is not simply being willing to die for our kids in one dramatic moment. The real challenge is choosing to live for them every single day. In this episode you will learn: • The difference between dying for your kids and living for them • Why personal success alone does not automatically benefit your children • How intentional sacrifice builds generational impact • What it truly means to give yourself for your children If you are ready to live for your kids, take a good step forward and get a copy of Following Our Father: https://fathering-our-future.kit.com/products/digital-devotional-following-our-fa

    18 min

  2. MAR 2

    The Heart of Fatherhood: What No One Tells You

    Have you ever poured yourself out for your family and wondered if anyone even noticed? As fathers, we work hard. We sacrifice. We provide. We protect. And if we are honest, there are days when we wish someone would simply say thank you. In this episode, I talk about what I believe is the true heart of fatherhood, and it is not easy. A comment on one of my reels inspired this episode. A dad shared how he had given over 20 years to his family and felt like there was no appreciation in return. That struck something deep. Because many Christian fathers wrestle with the same thing. We want respect. We want gratitude. But what if biblical fatherhood calls us to something deeper? I walk through what Scripture teaches about love, respect, sacrifice, and what it really means to follow Jesus as a dad. This episode is about fatherhood advice rooted in the character of God, not in our feelings. It is about trusting Him when appreciation is absent. It is about leading your home the way Christ leads us. In this episode you will learn Why respect from your children is earned, not demanded How biblical love gives without seeking something in return What Jesus models for fathers through sacrifice How to respond when you feel unappreciated at home Why trusting God matters more than trusting your emotions If you are a Christian father trying to lead well, grow spiritually, and raise children with integrity and strength, this conversation will challenge and steady you. Keep following Jesus. Even when it feels unnoticed. If you feel and believe this is a step you need to take and are ready to take, start by getting a copy of Following Our Father today. https://fathering-our-future.kit.com/products/digital-devotional-following-our-fa

    13 min

  3. FEB 23

    Forget 'Good Dad' — Aim for This Instead

    Most dads want to be a good dad. But what if that’s the wrong goal? In this episode, I challenge one of the most common and most misleading pursuits in fatherhood. Because being a “good dad” isn’t determined by how much we provide, how hard we work, or how many things we do right. It’s determined by our relationship with our child. Using biblical insight and real-life fatherhood perspective, we unpack: Why “good dad” is a status you don’t get to assign yourselfThe danger of doing all the right things while missing what your kids actually needHow provision, protection, and presence can still fall short You can give your kids the world, but if they needed your shoulder and didn’t get it, you missed the point. This conversation will challenge you to stop chasing fatherhood checklists and start building the kind of relationship your kids will one day thank God for. If you are ready to be the dad your kid needs you to be and the dad God has created you to be, grab a copy of Following Our Father today: https://fathering-our-future.kit.com/products/digital-devotional-following-our-fa

    20 min

  4. FEB 16

    When Expectations Make Fatherhood Feel Like Failure

    Fatherhood changes everything, especially our expectations. Many dads step into parenting with ambition, personal standards, and a vision for what excellence looks like, only to feel frustrated when they cannot seem to measure up once children enter the picture. In this episode, we revisit expectations and why so many fathers quietly wrestle with feeling like they are falling short. Looking at Luke 14 and the principle of counting the cost, we talk about what it means to see the full scope of fatherhood. This includes not only the daily responsibilities, but also the long term calling of raising and discipling children. You will hear: Why unrealistic expectations create frustrationThe shift from individual success to family leadershipHow fatherhood reshapes priorities and convenienceWhy you do not have to win every daily battleThe importance of seeing the long term vision for your children If you have ever felt overwhelmed, behind, or inadequate as a dad, this conversation will help you reframe your expectations and lead your family with clarity and patience. NEW PRODUCTS! Check out my new digital question card sets, Talk Time.  There’s one for dads and kids and one for husbands and wives and right now they are BOGO 50% off. https://fathering-our-future.kit.com/products/talk-time-dads-kids-50-simple-quest?step=checkout  My devotional for dads, Following Our Father, is now available in a digital format and it is only $6! https://fathering-our-future.kit.com/products/digital-devotional-following-our-fa

    24 min

  5. FEB 9

    Do Your Kids Love You or Manage You?

    Are your kids doing things for you because they love you… or because they feel like they have to manage your emotions? In this episode, I unpack a powerful conversation that forced me to look in the mirror as a father. Using Micah 6 as a backdrop, we explore the difference between how pagan cultures tried to appease their unstable gods versus how our Heavenly Father actually relates to His children. Then we bring it home. Because the real question is not theological. It is practical. Do your kids feel safe around you… or do they feel like they have to keep you happy to keep peace in the house? I share personal childhood stories that highlight the difference between affection and appeasement, and why that distinction matters more than most dads realize. If you want your kids to love you out of connection, not fear, this conversation will challenge you in the best way. NEW PRODUCT! Grow your connection with your kids through communication with Talk Time, a digital set of 50 question cards designed to spark meaningful and memorable conversation.  https://fatheringourfuture.com/talk-time/

    18 min

  6. FEB 2

    Stop Sending Your Kids To Their Room: It Does Not Work

    Many parents say it without thinking: “Go to your room.” But biblically, psychologically, and developmentally it’s a mistake. In this episode, I explain why isolating children during discipline does more harm than good. Scripture shows us that isolation erodes identity, value, and hope. Add modern research on loneliness and child brain development, and the conclusion is unavoidable: connection, not isolation, is how kids learn, grow, and heal. If we discipline our kids without connection, we aren’t teaching reflection, we’re teaching shame. And shame doesn’t produce wisdom; it produces withdrawal. I am challenging a deeply ingrained parenting tactic and offering a better way. A way that more closely mirrors how our Heavenly Father disciplines us. If you are ready to become a dad aligned with our Father in heaven, grab a copy of my devotion, Following Our Father: https://fathering-our-future.kit.com/products/digital-devotional-following-our-fa

    17 min

  7. JAN 26

    Why You Need To Let Your Children Backtalk

    I was raised to believe backtalk was disrespectful and had to be shut down immediately. But when I started looking at Scripture, especially the psalms of lament, I realized something uncomfortable: God invites questions, frustration, and hard conversations from His children. So why don’t we? In this episode, I explain why silencing your kids may be damaging trust, weakening your influence, and working against real discipleship, and what to do instead. If you’re a dad who wants strong relationships, not silent obedience, this conversation matters. – Grab a copy of my digital devotional if you are ready to align yourself with our heavenly Father. Click here.

    20 min

  8. JAN 19

    How To Talk To Your Kids About The Old Testament with Chad Bird

    You’re a Christian dad. You want to teach your kids about the Bible but the Old Testament makes you uncomfortable because it can feel intense with the bloody stories, tough questions, and a God who seems “angry.” That’s ok. I’ve got you. This episode I connect with Chad Bird, Scholar in Residence at 1517, who specializes in the Old Testament. He helps clear up some misconceptions about the Old Testament and provides guidance on how to talk about the Old Testament to our children. You’ll learn: The Bible is one unified salvation storyMoralism is not the point of the ScripturesHow to see Jesus in the Old Testament storiesHow to answer questions like, “Why does God kill so many people?” If you want to learn more about Chad, follow him and check out some of his resources below. Facebook: @writingsofchadbird Instagram: @chadlbird YouTube: @chadbird1517 https://www.1517.org/articles/is-your-sunday-school-training-good-little-pharisees www.1517.org/oneyear Hitchhiking with Prophets (Book): https://amzn.to/4b24YHN (Amazon) Untamed Prayers (Book): https://amzn.to/3ZkY7C2 (Amazon) — Get your FREE 7-day devotional download: https://fatheringourfuture.com/2025/03/22/free-7-day-devotional/ Get your copy of my devotional for dads, Following Our Father: https://amzn.to/45m9ldR (Amazon) Get your free gift, a copy of Cut The Crap (E-book): https://fatheringourfuture.com/2024/08/04/free-download-for-new-dads/ MERCH: https://fatheringourfuture.printify.me/products  Become a financial partner with Fathering Our Future and make a direct impact on dads: https://fathering-our-future.kit.com/products/anthony-vandagriff

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Fathering Our Future is the podcast for dads who are dedicated to embracing this God-given identity and fulfilling the mission of fatherhood. We explore fatherhood from a biblical perspective focusing on identity, relationships, and mission. You’ll get scriptural guidance and wisdom that will help you as a dad. You’ll also get to hear from other dads and special guests on. topics you care about.

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  • Creator
    Anthony Vandagriff
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2026
  • Episodes
    244
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Anthony Vandagriff
  • Show Website
    Fathering Our Future

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