Fathering Our Future

Anthony Vandagriff
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Fathering Our Future is the podcast for dads who are dedicated to embracing this God-given identity and fulfilling the mission of fatherhood. We explore fatherhood from a biblical perspective focusing on identity, relationships, and mission. You’ll get scriptural guidance and wisdom that will help you as a dad. You’ll also get to hear from other dads and special guests on. topics you care about.

  1. 5D AGO

    Treat Your Kids Like They Are People

    If you want to become a better father, one of the most important questions you can ask is this: Does the fruit of the Spirit show up in the way I treat my children? In this episode, I challenge Christian dads to examine whether their parenting reflects the character of God. Too often, we justify impatience, anger, harshness, and control in the name of discipline. But biblical parenting should be marked by love, joy, peace, patience, gentleness, goodness, faithfulness, meekness, and self-control. This episode provides a litmus test to whether or not your parenting style is Spirit led or self led. You need to know how you are parenting because your children are the ones most impacted by that. If you are ready to father more like our Father in Heaven, grab a copy of my devotional here: https://fathering-our-future.kit.com/products/digital-devotional-following-our-fa

    19 min

  2. MAY 4

    How Do I Get My Kid To Do What I Want Them To Do?

    Why don’t my kids listen? If you’ve ever asked that question as a dad, you’re not alone. Every father reaches a point where he wonders how to get his kids to listen, obey, and follow direction without constant frustration. In this episode, I break down what actually works when it comes to getting your kids to listen. This is not about yelling louder or repeating yourself more. It is about learning how to lead your children in a way that builds trust, respect, and long-term obedience. I walk through the two things that make the biggest difference in Christian fatherhood: modeling the behavior you expect and having the patience to teach it over time. In this episode you will learn How to get your kids to listen without yellingWhy children follow your actions more than your wordsThe mistake many dads make when trying to disciplineHow to lead your home with patience and consistencyBiblical principles for raising obedient and respectful children If you want to grow as a father, strengthen your relationship with your kids, and lead your family well, this episode will give you practical fatherhood advice you can start using today.

    23 min

  3. APR 27

    What Christian Dads Get Wrong About Parenting

    A couple of weeks ago I shared the best idea for Mother’s Day, but some moms did not agree. So I found out what the issue was. The problem was not with the moms or with my idea. The problem was with their husbands. This week on the podcast, I am addressing something Christian dads seem to miss when it comes to parenting. We are quick to define ourselves as protectors and providers, but we miss the fact that we are partners. I want to help you understand what it looks like for you to be a partner in parenting and provide tips for you to faithful serve your wife as Ephesians 5 instructs. If you are ready to dedicate yourself to your identity as a dad and better serve your home, grab a digital copy of my devotional (discounted) here: https://fathering-our-future.kit.com/products/digital-devotional-following-our-fa

    22 min

  4. APR 20

    Strong Fathers Raise Independent Children, Not Helpless Ones

    Many fathers want to help their children succeed, but sometimes our help can quietly become control. If we are not careful, we can do so much for our kids that we never teach them how to do things for themselves. In this episode, I talk about why healthy fatherhood includes preparing our children for independence. I share how dads can raise capable, confident kids by giving them responsibility, teaching practical life skills, and allowing them to grow through mistakes. From cooking in the kitchen to packing lunches to handling chores, small daily moments can become powerful discipleship opportunities. As Christian fathers, our goal is not to create children who always depend on us. Our goal is to raise children who can walk with wisdom, responsibility, and faith long after they leave our home. This is biblical parenting that builds strength, maturity, and confidence. Items mentioned in the podcast that help you empower your child’s autonomy: Kitchen Knife Set for Kids - https://amzn.to/4vAEfdj (Amazon) Clothes Folding Board - https://amzn.to/3ODK20K (Amazon)

    17 min

  5. APR 13

    How Better Conversations Make Better Fathers

    Most dads think the key to leading their home is having the right answers. But sometimes what we really need is to ask better questions and listen. In this episode, I share a simple conversation I had with my five-year-old daughter (thanks to my digital question cards - link below) that caught me off guard. I asked what she thought was most important to our family. Her answer was not what I expected, and it challenged me in the best way. That moment reminded me that our kids do not always see things the way we do. If we slow down and listen, they can reveal what matters to them, where they feel safe, and where we may need to grow as fathers. If you want help having conversation with your young kids, grab my digital deck of question cards that you can access on your mobile device anytime, anywhere. Get yours here: https://fathering-our-future.kit.com/products/talk-time-dads-kids-50-simple-quest?step=checkout

    11 min

  6. APR 6

    The Perfect Mother’s Day Gift

    When it comes to being a great husband, there are a few days we need to remember: her birthday, Valentine’s Day, your wedding anniversary, and of course, Mother’s Day. I grew up watching my dad spend lots of money on purses, perfumes, and other luxuries for my mom on Mother’s Day, while simply sharing the credit with me and my sister. That’s what I thought I was supposed to do… until I cracked the code. Mother’s Day will be here sooner than you realize, and I want you to be ready. This week, I’m sharing the formula for giving your wife the perfect Mother’s Day gift every year. I’ll keep it simple and walk you through exactly what I did last year with my three oldest kids, who were between 4 and 8 years old. Being a great dad is tied to being a great husband. Now you’ll be able to show your kids just how much their mom means to you by working together with them to give her the perfect Mother’s Day gift.

    15 min

  7. MAR 30

    The Power of Proximity in Fatherhood

    Some dads think being present means just being around but your kids can feel the difference between being there and being close. In this episode, I talk about something simple that has a massive impact on your relationship with your children. Proximity. Not just physical presence, but intentional closeness. As fathers, we are called to model our lives after our Heavenly Father, and one of the most powerful things He offers us is nearness. He draws close to us, and we should be doing the same with our kids. I break down three practical ways you can pursue proximity in your everyday life. These are not complicated strategies. They are simple, intentional choices that can change how your kids experience you as their dad. In this episode you will learn Why proximity matters more than you think in fatherhoodHow doing what your kids love builds connectionThe power of bringing your kids into your everyday lifeHow physical touch creates lasting emotional security If you want to be a father your kids feel close to, not just one who provides from a distance, this episode will challenge you and give you clear direction on how to start. Ready to be like our Heavenly Father? Get Following Our Father today. https://fathering-our-future.kit.com/products/digital-devotional-following-our-fa

    13 min

  8. MAR 23

    Enforce Your Word With Grace

    If our kids don’t take our words seriously, it’s not because they’re stubborn. It’s because something is broken in how we communicate as dads. In this episode, I talk about what it really means to be a father of your word. Not just saying the right things, but actually following through in a way that builds trust, respect, and strong relationships with your children. I walk through a real story with my son and how one simple opportunity revealed a powerful lesson about discipline, consistency, and grace. Too many dads either enforce rules without compassion or offer grace without structure. Neither works. Your kids need both. In this episode you will learn: How to enforce discipline without damaging your relationshipWhat it looks like to include a “window of grace” in parentingWhy consistency matters more than intensity in discipline If you want to lead your family well, you must value your words. This episode will challenge you to slow down, think before you speak, and become the kind of dad your kids can trust.

    17 min
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Fathering Our Future is the podcast for dads who are dedicated to embracing this God-given identity and fulfilling the mission of fatherhood. We explore fatherhood from a biblical perspective focusing on identity, relationships, and mission. You’ll get scriptural guidance and wisdom that will help you as a dad. You’ll also get to hear from other dads and special guests on. topics you care about.

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  • Creator
    Anthony Vandagriff
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2026
  • Episodes
    253
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Anthony Vandagriff
  • Show Website
    Fathering Our Future

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