Fire Starter Mum

Gosia Scarrott

Fire Starter Mum podcast is dedicated to mums who are change-makers at heart yet feel they’ve lost their inner fire (and want to find it back!). It features fire starting conversations with mums and experts around the topics of motherhood identity shift, re-inventing yourself and feeling on fire again! Our vibe: we take the mask off, speak our truth and challenge norms about motherhood so that as mums we feel adequate, seen and empowered! Follow us on Instagram: @firestartermum (https://www.instagram.com/firestartermum/)

  1. 10/11/2025

    The Secret to Authentic Visibility? Seeing Yourself First.

    In this spontaneous episode (recorded in the quiet before preschool pick-up), I share raw reflections about what visibility really means — beyond the nervous system, beyond Human Design, beyond strategy. Because before you can be seen out there… you have to learn to see yourself first. We explore: 💭 Why visibility begins in your own eyes Before content plans, before strategy — it starts with acknowledging your worth, skills, and lived experience. 💡 How early experiences shape how we “receive” success I share a childhood story that shaped my belief that I didn’t deserve to receive success — and how that pattern quietly echoed in business, motherhood, and money. 💰 Why visibility and receiving are connected The way you receive love, money, rest, and even responsibility mirrors how you receive visibility. If you don’t feel worthy of being seen, you’ll unconsciously block what’s trying to find you. ⚡️ The difference between managing and receiving So many of us say “I’m managing money,” “I’m managing motherhood,” “I’m managing my time.” But true power comes when you stop managing — and start receiving. 🧘‍♀️ A gentle challenge: This week, see your life through the lens of receiving. How do you receive your ambition? Your rest? Your role as a mother and a business owner? ⸻ This episode isn’t about visibility as performance. It’s about visibility as self-recognition. Because before the world can see your brilliance — you have to see it too. ⸻ 🧠 Mentioned in this episode: 🎧 Find Her Again™ – Free 7-Day Voice Note Journey A gentle audio experience to help you reconnect with your voice, visibility, and self-worth — on your terms. 💌 Connect with me on Instagram @firestartermum Join the Firestarter Mum community for honest conversations about motherhood, identity, and visibility. 🔥 Find your fire and shine! Gosia x

    19 min
  2. 08/03/2025

    Visibility After Motherhood: Why You Feel Mute and How to Reclaim Your Voice

    You’ve been told that mums don’t show up because they’re afraid of being judged.But what if fear isn’t the real reason?What if the actual block is that you’re no longer sure who’s doing the showing up? In this intimate, late-evening recording, I talk about visibility from a place no one prepares you for:The messy middle.The in-between.That liminal space after a major identity shift — like motherhood, midlife, or a business reinvention — where your voice feels distant and your message… unclear. We explore: ✔️ Why visibility blocks are often identity blocks✔️ The 3 stages of transformation: separation, liminality, reintegration✔️ Why you might feel muted — even if you were once confident and clear✔️ The business beliefs that no longer fit post-motherhood (and what’s replacing them)✔️ Why voice notes and raw reflections can help you reconnect with yourself✔️ The nervous system truth no one tells you: “Safety comes before strategy.” This episode isn’t about bouncing back or powering through.It’s about naming the invisible — and giving yourself permission to be seen before you have it all figured out. 🧠 Mentioned in this episode:🎧 Find Her Again™ – Free 7-Day Voice Note JourneyA gentle space to reconnect with your voice, identity and visibility — on your terms. 🧭 Ready to navigate the in-between with support? DM me @firestartermum or email firestartermum@gmail.com and let me know where you are on your identity journey. You don’t have to skip the messy middle.It’s where your magnetism lives. Find Your Fire & Shine! Gosia x

    25 min
  3. 07/28/2024

    MOMS Find Fire: How to Cherish Time and Ignite Your Inner Fire -with Helen Zeida

    In this episode, I sit down with Helen Zeida, a coach specializing in helping leaders in social care, particularly women and mums, to manage their stress-heavy roles and find balance in their lives.  Helen shares her unique approach to keeping the inner fire alive—a force that drives purpose and transformation. Drawing from her eclectic life experiences, including training as a firewalk instructor, Helen provides profound yet practical strategies to cherish time mindfully.  We talk about how this inner fire shapes our identity, builds community, and boosts well-being, especially for those in caring professions. I really liked Helen’s candid insights staying connected to our inner fire by being fully present and appreciating small moments so we can find fulfilment amidst the demands of motherhood.   Join us for a deep, intuitive, and empowering conversation that left me inspired with insights that are perfect for anyone juggling demanding roles and seeking a fulfilling life.    You can connect with Helen and learn more about her work at: https://www.linkedin.com/in/helen-zeida/ https://theboostproject.co.uk/ https://shareitstrategy.com/ https://www.thecoachingapproach.co.uk/     Find Your Inner Fire & Shine! Join Fire Starter Mum community on Instagram @firestartermum for inspiration, empowerment and honest motherhood and self-discovery POVs.   Join the Firestarter Mum Club to receive fiery updates & new episode releases!   Grab Your FREE Firestarter Mum Prompts to start re-igniting your Fire, one Spark at a time! ✨

    48 min
  4. 07/14/2024

    MOMS Find Fire: How Purpose Became Her Inner Fire with Morgane Burke

    Today, I’m joined by the lovely Morgane Burke, a Colorado-based fitness professional and mama of two. Born and raised in the South of France, Morgane now helps women achieve sustainable healthy lifestyles through her BODY TRANSFORMATION ACCELERATOR program. In this episode, Morgane shares how her inner fire is fueled by her "why"—her purpose and passion for helping others. We dive into the importance of self-care and resilience, discussing how physical and mental strength are key to maintaining that inner fire. Morgane also highlights the essential role of self-care in sustaining her energy and commitment through the highs and lows of motherhood.   What I loved most about our conversation was Morgane’s holistic approach to inner and outer strength. It was truly inspiring to see how these elements work hand-in-hand to create a balanced and empowered life.  Her energy and insights are sure to resonate with you and offer valuable tools for your own journey.    You can connect with Morgane and learn more about her work at:   IG - https://www.instagram.com/morgane_burke?igsh=cWtpbndoYTRwbDdx&utm_source=qr FB - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61554646521081&mibextid=LQQJ4d Google - https://g.co/kgs/cgubK6B     Find Your Inner Fire &. Shine! Join my small but warm and friendly  community on Instagram @firestartermum for inspiration, empowerment and honest motherhood and self-discovery POVs.   Join the Firestarter Mum Club to receive fiery updates & new episode releases!   Grab Your FREE Firestarter Mum Prompts to start re-igniting your Fire, one little Spark at a time ✨

    37 min
  5. 06/30/2024

    MOMS Find Fire: Discovering Confidence as Your Inner Fire with Emma Benyon

    Welcome to the new season of “Firestarter Mum Podcast,” called “Moms Find Fire.” This season, we’re exploring what it means to find and hold onto our inner fire, with inspiring stories from amazing moms who each define and experience it differently. In this candid and relatable episode, we chat with Emma Benyon, a self-care and motherhood coach. Emma shares her unique perspective on inner fire, how it has fluctuated throughout her life, and the journey she took to reignite it. She also reveals her powerful three-step strategy for boosting confidence through journaling, offering practical and inspirational advice for all moms. Emma’s story shows the diverse ways we can find and nurture our inner fire. Join us to hear her insights and see how her journey can help you discover your own spark.   You can connect with Emma and learn more about her work at:          •       Website: Emmabenyoncoaching.co.uk           •       Instagram: @emmabenyon          •       Positive Wellbeing Zine for Mums: Positive Wellbeing Zine          •       Podcast: Self Care and Motherhood Edit   Find Your Inner Fire &. Shine!   Join my small but warm and friendly  community on Instagram @firestartermum for inspiration, empowerment and honest motherhood and self-discovery POVs.   Join the Firestarter Mum Club to receive fiery updates & new episode releases!   Grab Your FREE Firestarter Mum Prompts to start re-igniting your Fire, one Spark at a time! ✨

    31 min

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Fire Starter Mum podcast is dedicated to mums who are change-makers at heart yet feel they’ve lost their inner fire (and want to find it back!). It features fire starting conversations with mums and experts around the topics of motherhood identity shift, re-inventing yourself and feeling on fire again! Our vibe: we take the mask off, speak our truth and challenge norms about motherhood so that as mums we feel adequate, seen and empowered! Follow us on Instagram: @firestartermum (https://www.instagram.com/firestartermum/)