Get Out of Your Own Way with Aaron Velky Get Out of Your Own Way

Marty leads us with another powerful meditation all about boundaries. Boundaries are the structure of our lives, so we must pay attention to this common blind spot in people's lives.
Sit back, close your eyes, and relax, while Marty guides you on a 10-minute meditation on overcoming and setting boundaries.
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Earlier in the year, we covered the basics of meditation, which you can listen to here - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/what-to-do-when-you-meditate/id1721234559?i=1000641988341

Welcome back to Get Out of Your Own Way with me, Aaron Velky!

Are you going through a major life transition and are plagued by self-doubt and overwhelmed? Then you’ll get a lot of out today's coaching session.

This week, I’m sharing a coaching call I had with Chuck Robinson. Chuck is a prime example of someone wanting to go to the next level but is in their own way. In this session, we unpack the mental and emotional challenges that come with such a significant life transition.
Today, we'll explore several compelling themes:

- The "speeding train" metaphor: I’ll discuss how to manage the daunting pace of success and the anxiety that often accompanies it.

- Facing fears of failure and success: I’ll provide insights into how these fears can both hinder and motivate us and how to navigate them.

- Strategic decision-making: I’ll share effective strategies for making pivotal life decisions with confidence.

- Embracing entrepreneurship: Tips for transitioning from a side hustle to a main career focus.

This session is designed to give you practical advice and encouragement for facing similar challenges in your life. You'll see firsthand how I guide Chuck through these complex dynamics, emphasizing the psychological tools necessary for successful personal and professional development.

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Themes: Personal Development, Entrepreneurship, Career Transitions, Mindset Mastery

Today, I'm joined by best-selling author and psychologist Dr. Kelly Flanagan. Dr. Kelly has personally transformed my life and I had to have him on the show to show you how transformative his work is.
We talk about the intricate dance between boundaries, resentment, and acceptance, as well as the keys to fostering healthy relationships and embracing our true selves.

In this incredible conversation, we'll explore:

- The revelation that resentment often arises from unspoken boundaries.

- Embracing acceptance as a catalyst for self-love and personal growth.

- Kelly's own journey of confronting inner voices of shame and finding authenticity.

- The parallels between setting boundaries in relationships and navigating the entrepreneurial world.

- Practical strategies for balancing personal boundaries with external expectations.

This conversation will challenge your perspectives and equip you with actionable insights to get out of your own way and live a more fulfilling life.

I highly recommend Dr. Kelly's book "Loveable". It changed my life...

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Welcome to another powerhouse episode of Get Out of Your Own Way, I'm Aaron Velky, and today, we dive deep with our "integrator extraordinaire" Marty Nocchi.
Marty joins us to unravel the intricacies of entrepreneurship, shedding light on the often-overlooked emotional and psychological battles that define the journey of building and sustaining a vision.
Together, we’re peeling back the layers on topics that challenge the conventional fabric of entrepreneurship, including:
- The profound loneliness and unique challenges entrepreneurs face, setting them apart from the rest of society.
- The essential pursuit of aligning life around your core values and the quest for authenticity amidst a sea of societal and self-imposed expectations.
- Insights from our recent retreat, and the recurring questions we kept getting
- We also give some practical advice for anyone who's at a crossroads of life and needs to make a significant decision. Spoiler: There's always a way.
You know we love having Marty on the show as he brings a unique perspective on the trends and internal shifts that we need to navigate our lives.
This episode is a call to action for entrepreneurs and individuals alike to embrace the journey toward authenticity, redefine success on their terms, and make conscious choices that resonate with their deepest values.
Themes: Entrepreneurial Mindset, Decision-Making & Strategy, Social Dynamics & Community Support, Mental Health, Leadership, Personal Development.

Welcome to a powerhouse episode of Get Out of Your Own Way, I'm Aaron Velky!
In this episode, we're diving into the mind and journey of Gobundance CEO Matt King, a visionary who's carved out a path of intentional living and goal-setting that's anything but ordinary. Matt, often seen as an underdog, shares his insights on intuition, the strategic power of "no," and the relentless pursuit of excellence that has defined his rise to success.
Matt pulls back the curtain on the practices and mindsets that have propelled him from a place of self-doubt to a position of influence and accomplishment. He challenges the conventional, pushing us to reconsider the narratives we've been sold about success and personal growth.
Prepare to level up yourself, as we explore themes like:
- Intuition as an unlearned language we all possess
- The liberating power of saying "NO"
- The Art of Continuous Addition and why "adding on" and never settling are keys to lifelong achievement.
Today's episode is for anyone looking to redefine their approach to life and leadership. Matt's story is a testament to the power of belief, resilience, and strategic action in the face of adversity. Another fun fact is, as you might have heard in the episode, Matt was kind enough to give us his time on his birthday, so thank you, Matt!
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Dive deeper into our content, browse past episodes, and discover the wealth of knowledge we've shared on overcoming obstacles to help you get out of your own way.
Themes: Entrepreneurship, Mindset, Leadership, Personal Development, Goal-Setting, Intentional Living.

Meet Anssi Viljanen – not your average insurance agent. Former preacher turned introspective entrepreneur, Anssi is on a quest to infuse every aspect of his life with meaning and significance. Join us Aaron as he uncovers our special guest's intriguing journey. Expect conversations on the intersections of faith, personal development, purpose, and so much more!
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00:00 From dedicated preacher to dominating in insurance claims.
03:13 The dark side of financial independence.
07:47 Are you wasting your time? Say ‘goodbye’ to input overload for good!
11:04 The opposite of faith is FEAR.
14:37 We must embrace the unknown and trust others.
17:15 Make choices despite uncertainty. Or, choose to stay stuck.
23:37 Run your business as if your employees would die for you.
26:20 Hot take on leadership.
33:44 How a game led to self-reflection on setting boundaries and being present.
37:02 We must say ‘no’ to good things, even in friendships.
41:40 Stop hustling for worthiness!
46:16 Phone usage is a blessing for self-awareness and habit-building.
48:33 How to bring more intellectual honesty in your life.
52:01 Journaling is CRITICAL for growth.
56:18 Closing thoughts.

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