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The longest-running kinky sex podcaster on the web! Graydancer started in 2005 with "the Ropecast" focusing on shibari, kinbaku, and fetish performance and art. Now he's expanding to "Kink, Sex, and Culture": consent issues, gender dynamics, power exchange, and all the myriad wonder of human sexuality. Alternative Relationships, Sexuality, Fetish, Performance, Rope bondage, Kink, BDSM, and more! There will be a steady stream of guest appearances by popular sexual performers, activists, and educators from around the globe.

With a friendly, conversational style and the occasional bad pun Graydancer's Podcast is a great way to engage in talking about adult sex education and the political and social climate surrounding consenting adults doing what they like to do.

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The longest-running kinky sex podcaster on the web! Graydancer started in 2005 with "the Ropecast" focusing on shibari, kinbaku, and fetish performance and art. Now he's expanding to "Kink, Sex, and Culture": consent issues, gender dynamics, power exchange, and all the myriad wonder of human sexuality. Alternative Relationships, Sexuality, Fetish, Performance, Rope bondage, Kink, BDSM, and more! There will be a steady stream of guest appearances by popular sexual performers, activists, and educators from around the globe.

With a friendly, conversational style and the occasional bad pun Graydancer's Podcast is a great way to engage in talking about adult sex education and the political and social climate surrounding consenting adults doing what they like to do.

    Re-connecting to Rope

    Re-connecting to Rope

    Gray returns to the podcast after a hiatus to talk about how he's trying to reconnect to the joy of kink. He talks about his writing on medium ( http://medium.com/@graymiller ) and also reads an excerpt from his work-in-progress, "The Dance of Smoke & Ash".

    Finally you get to hear a live recording of his performance at the Flow Erotic Cabaret at the Austin 2019 ROPECRAFT.

    Many thanks sponsor http://facebook.com/SpiralEyeSoap  ) and patrons at http://patreon.com/graydancer 

    • 36 min
    Rope, Cancer, & Long Term Relationships

    Rope, Cancer, & Long Term Relationships

    We start talking about MetroVancouverKink, ( https://ca.gofundme.com/legal-costs-for-mvk ) but then get personal:
    “Adaptive Rope.” is what Tame Lioness and her partner T do, living with cancer. It changed how they do rope - but not what it does for them and their relationship. She talks open and raw about how they still keep it hot.
    Brought to you by Twisted Monk ( http://twistedmonk.graydancer.com )
    and Lee Allure ( http://facebook.com/SpiralEyeSoap )
    as well as http://patreon.com/graydancer  .

    • 1 hr 11 min
    Interview with Phoenix42 Creator _Zaphod_

    Interview with Phoenix42 Creator _Zaphod_

    Back in the interview chair, Gray takes you to the Arizona scene for an interview with _Zaphod_, owner and creator of Phoenix42 Creations ( https://www.instagram.com/phoenix42creations/ ).

    They talk about “being a rope guy”, Taoist philosophy, creating consent with partners, how to create a more inclusive community, and more.

    This episode sponsored by Twisted Monk ( http://twistedmonk.graydancer.com )
    Lee Allure ( http://facebook.com/SpiralEyeSoap )
    & http://patreon.com/graydancer  .

    • 55 min
    SPECIAL ROPECRAFT ARTISTS PANEL!

    SPECIAL ROPECRAFT ARTISTS PANEL!

    On May 26th, 2019 in Chicago Illinois at ROPECRAFT six artists-in-residence ( Marceline VQ, Mr. Beck, The ArtistFromBeyond, Corinne, Stressykitty, and Jazzibel) met for a panel moderated by Graydancer. They explored a lot of topics, and agreed to have them shared here on the podcast!

    Comments? Questions? Contact graydancer@gmail.com

    • 1 hr 38 min
    Happy Birthday ROPECAST!

    Happy Birthday ROPECAST!

    February 5, 2005 was the first time the Ropecast hit the internets, and what a long strange ride it’s been! Gray picks out one lesson for every year and extemporizes on it - do you agree? Disagree? Let us know! This episode was brought to you courtesy of Twisted Monk (http://twistedmonk.graydancer.com) and Lee Allure (http://facebook.com/SpiralEyeSoap) as well as listeners like you contributing through http://patreon.com/graydancer .

    • 22 min
    3 Things Tops Should Stop Doing in 2019

    3 Things Tops Should Stop Doing in 2019

    Gray launches the first podcast of the year with three things that tops (and anyone else who cares to) should stop doing in 2019. Then he reads a blog post published on http://TantusInc.com about dominance for the changing body.

    This episode was brought to you courtesy of Twisted Monk http://twistedmonk.graydancer.com 

    and Lee Allure

     http://facebook.com/SpiralEyeSoap 

    as well as listeners like you contributing through http://patreon.com/graydancer  .

    • 34 min

Customer Reviews

The Indefatigueable Mrs. ,

A Decade of Kink

I've been listening to this podcast for ten years now. Graydancer is a warm and entertaining sex-positive host with a wealth of knowledge on numerous topics and the uncanny ability to find the most interesting and useful kinky folks out there to interview. My personal favorite recent highlights are the Moonlight Shadow interviews (5/31/2016 and 6/8/2016), but it's hard to choose. In Graydancer's archives are the voices of marginalized folks we rarely hear from, scene stars before they made it big, and friends many of us dearly miss. I highly recommend this!

Pendor ,

Entertaining & thought provoking

Graydancer and his guests never fail to get me thinking and laughing. From consent culture to kink community history, there's so much here you NEED to listen to!

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