Grow Yourself: Personal Development School of Growth

Kevin McNulty

In Grow Yourself, you will have weekly ‘aha’ moments that allow you to see a clear path forward towards living a more purpose-filled, confident life. Each week, Kevin breaks down the abstracts of life and distills info into truth. Whether it be finding the truth in lofty concepts such as Law of Attraction, or what we can learn from down-to-earth subjects like tough break-ups into practical & actionable steps you can take to improve yourself on a daily basis. If you’re a yearner ready to grow yourself from the inside out with a new level of clarity & confidence, scroll up and click ‘follow’.

  1. You Did Everything Right…So Why Do You Still Feel Empty?

    MAY 1

    You Did Everything Right…So Why Do You Still Feel Empty?

    The career. The money. The progress. From the outside, it looks like success.So why does something still feel…off?In this conversation, Kevin sits down with Alan Lazaros to unpack the gap between outward success and inward fulfillment. After a near-fatal car accident forced him to question everything, Alan shifted from chasing achievement to understanding what actually creates a meaningful, aligned life.They get into why so many high performers feel stuck or empty, how blind spots and lack of self-awareness hold people back, and why real growth isn’t about grinding harder—it’s about becoming more honest about who you are and how you’re living.This isn’t about motivation.It’s about alignment, responsibility, and the small daily choices that quietly shape your life.If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing all the right things but still not where you want to be…this one will hit.GUEST BIO:Alan Lazaros is the Founder and CEO of Next Level University, a global podcast and coaching platform focused on helping people grow in health, wealth, and love. After a near-fatal car accident in his mid-20s, he shifted from chasing external success to pursuing internal alignment, and now works with individuals and teams on self-awareness, habits, and long-term personal growth.Connect with Alan Lazaros:Website: https://www.nextleveluniverse.comYouTube:    / @nextleveluniversity  LinkedIn:   / alanlazarosllc  Instagram:   / alazaros88  Facebook:   / alan.lazaros  Connect with Kevin McNulty:X: https://x.com/kevinspeaks2uLinkedIn:   / kevinmcnultyspeaks  Facebook:   / kevinrichardmcnulty  Instagram:   / kevinmcnultyspeaks  LinkTree: https://linktr.ee/kevinmcnulty#PersonalGrowth #SelfAwareness #Fulfillment #HighPerformance#MindsetShift #HumanDynamics #InnerWork #SuccessMindset #GrowthMindset #KevinMcNulty #GrowYourself

    40 min
  2. High Performers are Burning Out: She Knows Why

    APR 17

    High Performers are Burning Out: She Knows Why

    Life coach Zerina Derveni joins Kevin to expose the hidden cost of high performance and why emotional regulation isn't about slowing down. It's about finally leading from a place of clarity, not pressure.EPISODE DESCRIPTIONMost high achievers look successful on the outside. But underneath, many are running on vigilance, suppression, and chronic self-override. The result isn't sustainable ambition. It's burnout.In this episode, Kevin sits down with life coach Zerina Derveni to explore what's actually driving high-functioning professionals into the ground and what it looks like to perform from a regulated, purpose-led place instead.Zerina grew up between Albania, Germany, and Canada, navigating multiple cultures and identities from a young age. She climbed the corporate ladder, hit every external milestone, and still felt empty. That reckoning led her to coaching, where she now helps high-functioning individuals untangle ambition from anxiety and build lives grounded in contribution rather than significance-seeking.This conversation covers emotional regulation, the difference between being performative and being skilled, how suppressed emotions show up in the body and in relationships, and why clarity about purpose is the only sustainable fuel for driven people.Kevin also shares a pivotal moment from his own transition out of the military when one reframe, moving from "why is this happening to me" to "what is being asked of me," changed everything.This episode will stay with you.Key Takeaways Emotional regulation increases power, not weaknessSuppression is not controlHigh performers often operate from a performative tateBurnout is often misalignment, not lack of effortClarity comes from engagement, not thinkingFollow what you’re good at, not just passionValues act as a decision-making compassObserve more, absorb lessGUEST BIOZerina Derveni is a life coach based in Toronto, Canada, who works with high-functioning professionals navigating burnout, identity, and purpose. Born in Albania and raised across Europe and North America, Zerina developed an early understanding of emotional intelligence through the experience of adapting to multiple cultures. After climbing the corporate ladder and reaching every external milestone, she found herself feeling empty, a turning point that led her to a Tony Robbins intensive and ultimately into coaching. Her work focuses on helping driven individuals distinguish between performing for external validation and operating from a grounded, regulated sense of self. She is known for her results-focused approach, her clarity on the emotional roots of burnout, and her ability to help high achievers finally lead from the inside out.Connect with Zerina DerveniWebsite: https://zerinalifecoach.comInstagram: @zerinalifecoachConnect with Kevin McNultyX: @kevinspeaks2uLinkedIn: @kevinmcnultyspeaksFacebook: @kevinrichardmcnultyInstagram: @kevinmcnultyspeaksLinkTree: https://linktr.ee/kevinmcnultySocial Post (LinkedIn/Facebook)#personaldevelopment #emotionalintelligence #burnout #highperformance #selfawareness #growth #mindset #purpose #podcast #growyourselfpodcast

    1h 6m
  3. After the Fall | Turning Job Loss Into Purpose

    APR 10

    After the Fall | Turning Job Loss Into Purpose

    What happens when everything you built suddenly disappears?In this episode of Grow Yourself, Kevin sits down with Merry Korn, a social entrepreneur who went from being fired as a single mother to building and selling a mission-driven company employing over 1,300 people across 30 states. This conversation explores what really happens after a major life disruption—when identity, security, and direction all feel uncertain.Merry shares how fear became a guide rather than an obstacle, how purpose is discovered through action rather than clarity, and how faith, intuition, and quiet moments of listening can shape the path forward. This is not a conversation about motivation. It’s about what to do when you feel lost—and how to take the next step anyway. Key Takeaways• Getting fired can be an inflection point, not the end of the story• Fear can act as a compass rather than a signal to stop• You don’t need clarity to move forward—action creates direction• Purpose is revealed through doing, not thinking• Faith and intuition often show up in subtle, quiet ways• Helping others can unlock your own path forward• You can build a successful business around a meaningful missionGuest BioMerry Korn is a social entrepreneur, speaker, and the founder of Pearl Interactive Network, a mission-driven company she grew to more than 1,300 employees across 30 states before successfully exiting the business. After being fired as a single mother, Merry rebuilt her career by creating a for-profit social enterprise that prioritized hiring people facing significant barriers to work. She is currently completing her forthcoming book Get Fired, which explores how professional loss can become the starting point for purpose, courage, and meaningful reinvention.Connect with Merry KornWebsite: https://firedtoinspired.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/merry-kornConnect with Kevin McNultyX: https://x.com/kevinspeaks2uLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kevinmcnultyspeaksFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/kevinrichardmcnultyInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/kevinmcnultyspeaksLinkTree: https://linktr.ee/kevinmcnulty#PersonalGrowth #careertransition #purpose #entrepreneurship #resilience #mindset #leadership #growyourselfpodcast

    50 min
  4. Who Are You…Really? | Identity, Purpose, and Why People Stay Stuck

    APR 2

    Who Are You…Really? | Identity, Purpose, and Why People Stay Stuck

    What if the real question isn’t “What’s my purpose?” but something deeper… Who am I, really?In this episode of Grow Yourself, Kevin explores identity, self awareness, and the hidden reasons people feel stuck. This conversation digs beneath goals and surface-level motivation to uncover what truly drives a meaningful life.You’ll hear why so many people struggle to answer the question of who they are, how identity shapes purpose, and why feeling trapped is often the root of unhappiness. This episode also touches on resilience, parenting, and how understanding yourself changes everything.If you’ve ever felt like there’s “got to be more,” this one will hit.Key takeaways• Purpose flows out of identity, not the other way around• Feeling trapped is one of the biggest drivers of unhappiness• Self awareness creates direction and better decisions• The people around you shape who you become• Parents play a critical role in helping kids discover who they are• Real resilience is returning to who you truly areGuest bioDavid Ask is an entrepreneur, creative, and coach based outside Nashville. He has built products sold in thousands of retail stores, works in coaching and resiliency development, and is the author of an upcoming book focused on identity and fatherhood, The Guardians of Grit. He is also a musician and recording artist.Connect with David AskWebsite: https://davidaskmusic.comInstagram: @thedavidaskLinkedIn: @thedavidaskConnect with Kevin McNultyX: @kevinspeaks2uLinkedIn: @kevinmcnultyspeaksFacebook: @kevinrichardmcnultyInstagram: @kevinmcnultyspeaksLinkTree: https://linktr.ee/kevinmcnulty#GrowYourselfPodcast #kevinmcnulty #identity #purpose #SelfAwareness #Resilience #PersonalGrowth #Mindset #HumanDevelopment #lifedirection

    1h 4m
  5. He Died for 8 Minutes. He Rebuilt His Life 30 Seconds at a Time.

    MAR 26

    He Died for 8 Minutes. He Rebuilt His Life 30 Seconds at a Time.

    After surviving sudden cardiac arrest, Jeff Luther lost his health, his marriage, and his identity. What brought him back wasn't a breakthrough. It was 30 seconds of work.What happens when the life you built collapses all at once, and the only path forward is a single, terrifying step?Jeff Luther was a competitive athlete and entrepreneur who collapsed during a CrossFit workout with his son on June 12, 2021. His heart stopped for eight minutes. He was shocked three times before it restarted. What followed wasn't a triumphant comeback story. It was a slow, painful reckoning with fear, identity loss, divorce, and what it means to rebuild when you've lost the will to try.In this conversation, Jeff shares the philosophy that saved him: transformation happens 30 seconds at a time. Not in sweeping declarations or big moments. In small, deliberate acts of showing up when everything in you wants to quit.Kevin and Jeff go deep on the fear that outlasts physical recovery, the ego's role in our darkest moments, why gratitude is a paradigm and not just a practice, and what it truly means to start over.Jeff is currently completing his forthcoming book, Lessons I Learned from Dying, and hosts the All Can, No Can't podcast.KEY TAKEAWAYS The dying was easy. What came after was the real fight.Transformation doesn't require a grand gesture. It requires 30 seconds.Gratitude and victimhood cannot occupy the same mental space at the same time.Comparison is a joy thief, whether you're comparing to your old self, others, or your future self.The ego falls further and faster than you do. Lock it in the basement before it takes you down with it.High performers often deny themselves human connection at their most vulnerable moments, to keep up the appearance of having it together.Celebrate where you are. There is no road. There is only the next 30 seconds.GUEST BIOJeff Luther is an entrepreneur, speaker, and personal development coach based in Charleston, South Carolina. In 2021, Jeff survived sudden cardiac arrest during a workout with his son, a near-death experience that led to the collapse of his marriage, the loss of his athletic identity, and a complete rebuild of his life from the inside out. His core philosophy, that transformation happens 30 seconds at a time, grew directly from his recovery. Jeff is the host of the All Can, No Can't podcast and is completing his first book, Lessons I Learned from Dying, a chapter-by-chapter guide to holding hands with fear and walking it all the way to the end.CONNECT WITH JEFF LUTHERInstagram: @allcan_nocant and @jdluther2.0LinkedIn:   / jeff-luther  Podcast: All Can, No Can't (YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts)Book (forthcoming): Lessons I Learned from DyingCONNECT WITH KEVINhttps://linktr.ee/kevinmcnulty #growyourselfpodcast #personaldevelopment #resilience #transformation #suddencardiacarrest #lifeaftertrauma #mindsetshift #fearandcourage #IdentityAndChange #rebuildinglife #JeffLuther #kevinmcnulty #podcast #growthmindset

    1h 8m
  6. The “Do Hard Things” Mindset: A Navy Veteran’s Leadership Playbook

    MAR 11

    The “Do Hard Things” Mindset: A Navy Veteran’s Leadership Playbook

    A 20 year Navy veteran explains how “doing hard things” builds resilience, leadership, and purpose after military service.Episode DescriptionWhat happens after the mission ends?After twenty years in the U.S. Navy, Shaun Bemis faced the same challenge many veterans do. Rebuilding purpose, translating military skills into the civilian world, and finding the next mountain worth climbing.In this conversation, Kevin McNulty and Shaun explore what it really takes to navigate the transition from military life to business leadership, why deliberately seeking hard challenges builds resilience, and how small daily progress can move anyone forward.Shaun shares lessons from combat deployments, Navy SEAL screening, endurance racing, and executive leadership. From intelligence analysis to global business strategy, he explains how the same mindset that works in high stakes environments can also drive success in life and work.This episode is about resilience, leadership, and the discipline of putting one foot in front of the other when the path ahead is uncertain.In this conversation• Why Shaun believes in deliberately doing hard things• Translating military skills into civilian success• The mindset that helped scale a company from 15 to 60 countries• How endurance racing builds mental toughness• The leadership power of asking better questions• What Navy SEAL training teaches about mastery and fundamentals• The “Left Foot, Right Foot” philosophy for overcoming obstaclesConnect with Shaun BemisLinkedIn: @shaunbemisInstagram: @shaunbrunningConnect with Kevin McNultyX @kevinspeaks2uLinkedIn @kevinmcnultyspeaksFacebook @kevinrichardmcnultyInstagram @kevinmcnultyspeaksLinkTree https://linktr.ee/kevinmcnultyHashtags#GrowYourself #VeteranTransition #MilitaryToCivilian #PersonalGrowth #Leadership #Resilience #PurposeAfterService #NavyVeteran #FractionalCOO #TeamRWB #LifeTransition #DoHardThings #KevinMcNulty #ShaunBemis

    1h 15m
  7. Charisma Is Overrated: Why Leading Last Builds Real Influence

    FEB 27

    Charisma Is Overrated: Why Leading Last Builds Real Influence

    In this episode, Kevin sits down with Marine officer, author, and founder of Parent Child Connect, Olaolu Ogunyemi, to explore a powerful leadership tension. In a world that celebrates charisma, authority, and strong personalities, Olaolu argues that real influence begins somewhere else. It begins with connection. From becoming a father at 19 to leading Marines at 22, Olaolu’s journey reshaped his understanding of leadership, insecurity, vulnerability, faith, and trust. He shares why “lead last” is more than a slogan. It is a discipline. A posture. A way of building environments where people feel seen, safe, and understood. This conversation is about parenting, leadership, mentorship, and the kind of inner growth that changes the way you show up everywhere. Key Takeaways Connection builds trust faster than charismaLeadership starts with self awarenessInsecurity can be fuel or sabotageMentorship changes life trajectoriesParenting and leadership sharpen each otherBudgeting your time is budgeting your influenceFaith grounds decision making under pressureGuest Bio Olaolu Ogunyemi is a U.S. Marine Officer, award winning children’s book author, mentor, and founder of Parent Child Connect. He is the author of Crow From the Shadow, Billy Dipper’s Time to Shine, and Horace the Horsefly, and is currently writing a leadership book titled Lead Last. His work centers on building trust driven relationships rooted in discipline, faith, and intentional connection. Connect with Olaolu Ogunyemi Website: https://parent-child-connect.com Amazon:https://www.amazon.com/author/olaolu_ogunyemi LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/olaolu-ogunyemi-465ba453 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/olaolu.ogunyemi/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCCcR7d3yzZXfzcBfxveyP-g Connect with KevinX @kevinspeaks2u LinkedIn @kevinmcnultyspeaks Facebook @kevinrichardmcnulty Instagram @kevinmcnultyspeaks LinkTree https://linktr.ee/kevinmcnulty #Leadership #PersonalGrowth #Parenting #Veterans #FaithAndWork #GrowYourself

    1h 27m
  8. Digital Minimalism and the Fight for Your Attention

    FEB 24

    Digital Minimalism and the Fight for Your Attention

    How phones and social media are quietly reshaping our minds, relationships, and sense of depth. A powerful conversation on digital minimalism with Kelsey Green.Episode DescriptionIn this episode of the Grow Yourself Podcast, Kevin sits down with digital minimalist Kelsey Green to explore how our digital lives are reshaping attention, relationships, creativity, and mental health.This is not an anti-technology rant. It’s a thoughtful conversation about using digital tools without being used by them. Kelsey shares research, personal experience, and practical strategies for reclaiming focus, reducing stress, and rebuilding in-person community in a world built to steal our attention.If you’ve ever felt distracted, overstimulated, or slightly “hollow” after too much scrolling, this conversation is for you.Key Takeaways Social platforms are engineered to capture and monetize attentionEven having your phone nearby fractures focusConstant consumption reduces creativity and deep thinkingDigital habits should align with your core valuesPresence is one of the most powerful gifts you can give someoneBatching digital time restores control and clarityIn-person community is deeply connected to digital boundariesGuest BioKelsey Green is a digital minimalist, community strategist, and creator focused on helping people reduce digital noise, reclaim focus, and build meaningful in-person relationships. She works with creatives and entrepreneurs to strengthen attention, deepen community, and create aligned, intentional lives.Connect with Kelsey GreenWebsite: https://kelseylgreen.comInstagram: @kelseylgreenLinkedIn: Kelsey L GreenConnect with Kevin McNultyX: https://x.com/kevinspeaks2uLinkedIn:   / kevinmcnultyspeaks  Facebook:   / kevinrichardmcnulty  Instagram:   / kevinmcnultyspeaks  LinkTree: https://linktr.ee/kevinmcnulty#DigitalMinimalism #AttentionEconomy #PersonalGrowth #Focus #Community #MentalHealth #GrowYourself

    1h 21m
4.6
out of 5
11 Ratings

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In Grow Yourself, you will have weekly ‘aha’ moments that allow you to see a clear path forward towards living a more purpose-filled, confident life. Each week, Kevin breaks down the abstracts of life and distills info into truth. Whether it be finding the truth in lofty concepts such as Law of Attraction, or what we can learn from down-to-earth subjects like tough break-ups into practical & actionable steps you can take to improve yourself on a daily basis. If you’re a yearner ready to grow yourself from the inside out with a new level of clarity & confidence, scroll up and click ‘follow’.

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