Grow Yourself: Personal Development School of Growth

Kevin McNulty

In Grow Yourself, you will have weekly ‘aha’ moments that allow you to see a clear path forward towards living a more purpose-filled, confident life. Each week, Kevin breaks down the abstracts of life and distills info into truth. Whether it be finding the truth in lofty concepts such as Law of Attraction, or what we can learn from down-to-earth subjects like tough break-ups into practical & actionable steps you can take to improve yourself on a daily basis. If you’re a yearner ready to grow yourself from the inside out with a new level of clarity & confidence, scroll up and click ‘follow’.

  1. He Died for 8 Minutes. He Rebuilt His Life 30 Seconds at a Time.

    MAR 26

    He Died for 8 Minutes. He Rebuilt His Life 30 Seconds at a Time.

    After surviving sudden cardiac arrest, Jeff Luther lost his health, his marriage, and his identity. What brought him back wasn't a breakthrough. It was 30 seconds of work.What happens when the life you built collapses all at once, and the only path forward is a single, terrifying step?Jeff Luther was a competitive athlete and entrepreneur who collapsed during a CrossFit workout with his son on June 12, 2021. His heart stopped for eight minutes. He was shocked three times before it restarted. What followed wasn't a triumphant comeback story. It was a slow, painful reckoning with fear, identity loss, divorce, and what it means to rebuild when you've lost the will to try.In this conversation, Jeff shares the philosophy that saved him: transformation happens 30 seconds at a time. Not in sweeping declarations or big moments. In small, deliberate acts of showing up when everything in you wants to quit.Kevin and Jeff go deep on the fear that outlasts physical recovery, the ego's role in our darkest moments, why gratitude is a paradigm and not just a practice, and what it truly means to start over.Jeff is currently completing his forthcoming book, Lessons I Learned from Dying, and hosts the All Can, No Can't podcast.KEY TAKEAWAYS The dying was easy. What came after was the real fight.Transformation doesn't require a grand gesture. It requires 30 seconds.Gratitude and victimhood cannot occupy the same mental space at the same time.Comparison is a joy thief, whether you're comparing to your old self, others, or your future self.The ego falls further and faster than you do. Lock it in the basement before it takes you down with it.High performers often deny themselves human connection at their most vulnerable moments, to keep up the appearance of having it together.Celebrate where you are. There is no road. There is only the next 30 seconds.GUEST BIOJeff Luther is an entrepreneur, speaker, and personal development coach based in Charleston, South Carolina. In 2021, Jeff survived sudden cardiac arrest during a workout with his son, a near-death experience that led to the collapse of his marriage, the loss of his athletic identity, and a complete rebuild of his life from the inside out. His core philosophy, that transformation happens 30 seconds at a time, grew directly from his recovery. Jeff is the host of the All Can, No Can't podcast and is completing his first book, Lessons I Learned from Dying, a chapter-by-chapter guide to holding hands with fear and walking it all the way to the end.CONNECT WITH JEFF LUTHERInstagram: @allcan_nocant and @jdluther2.0LinkedIn:   / jeff-luther  Podcast: All Can, No Can't (YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts)Book (forthcoming): Lessons I Learned from DyingCONNECT WITH KEVINhttps://linktr.ee/kevinmcnulty #growyourselfpodcast #personaldevelopment #resilience #transformation #suddencardiacarrest #lifeaftertrauma #mindsetshift #fearandcourage #IdentityAndChange #rebuildinglife #JeffLuther #kevinmcnulty #podcast #growthmindset

    1h 8m
  2. The “Do Hard Things” Mindset: A Navy Veteran’s Leadership Playbook

    MAR 11

    The “Do Hard Things” Mindset: A Navy Veteran’s Leadership Playbook

    A 20 year Navy veteran explains how “doing hard things” builds resilience, leadership, and purpose after military service.Episode DescriptionWhat happens after the mission ends?After twenty years in the U.S. Navy, Shaun Bemis faced the same challenge many veterans do. Rebuilding purpose, translating military skills into the civilian world, and finding the next mountain worth climbing.In this conversation, Kevin McNulty and Shaun explore what it really takes to navigate the transition from military life to business leadership, why deliberately seeking hard challenges builds resilience, and how small daily progress can move anyone forward.Shaun shares lessons from combat deployments, Navy SEAL screening, endurance racing, and executive leadership. From intelligence analysis to global business strategy, he explains how the same mindset that works in high stakes environments can also drive success in life and work.This episode is about resilience, leadership, and the discipline of putting one foot in front of the other when the path ahead is uncertain.In this conversation• Why Shaun believes in deliberately doing hard things• Translating military skills into civilian success• The mindset that helped scale a company from 15 to 60 countries• How endurance racing builds mental toughness• The leadership power of asking better questions• What Navy SEAL training teaches about mastery and fundamentals• The “Left Foot, Right Foot” philosophy for overcoming obstaclesConnect with Shaun BemisLinkedIn: @shaunbemisInstagram: @shaunbrunningConnect with Kevin McNultyX @kevinspeaks2uLinkedIn @kevinmcnultyspeaksFacebook @kevinrichardmcnultyInstagram @kevinmcnultyspeaksLinkTree https://linktr.ee/kevinmcnultyHashtags#GrowYourself #VeteranTransition #MilitaryToCivilian #PersonalGrowth #Leadership #Resilience #PurposeAfterService #NavyVeteran #FractionalCOO #TeamRWB #LifeTransition #DoHardThings #KevinMcNulty #ShaunBemis

    1h 15m
  3. Charisma Is Overrated: Why Leading Last Builds Real Influence

    FEB 27

    Charisma Is Overrated: Why Leading Last Builds Real Influence

    In this episode, Kevin sits down with Marine officer, author, and founder of Parent Child Connect, Olaolu Ogunyemi, to explore a powerful leadership tension. In a world that celebrates charisma, authority, and strong personalities, Olaolu argues that real influence begins somewhere else. It begins with connection. From becoming a father at 19 to leading Marines at 22, Olaolu’s journey reshaped his understanding of leadership, insecurity, vulnerability, faith, and trust. He shares why “lead last” is more than a slogan. It is a discipline. A posture. A way of building environments where people feel seen, safe, and understood. This conversation is about parenting, leadership, mentorship, and the kind of inner growth that changes the way you show up everywhere. Key Takeaways Connection builds trust faster than charismaLeadership starts with self awarenessInsecurity can be fuel or sabotageMentorship changes life trajectoriesParenting and leadership sharpen each otherBudgeting your time is budgeting your influenceFaith grounds decision making under pressureGuest Bio Olaolu Ogunyemi is a U.S. Marine Officer, award winning children’s book author, mentor, and founder of Parent Child Connect. He is the author of Crow From the Shadow, Billy Dipper’s Time to Shine, and Horace the Horsefly, and is currently writing a leadership book titled Lead Last. His work centers on building trust driven relationships rooted in discipline, faith, and intentional connection. Connect with Olaolu Ogunyemi Website: https://parent-child-connect.com Amazon:https://www.amazon.com/author/olaolu_ogunyemi LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/olaolu-ogunyemi-465ba453 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/olaolu.ogunyemi/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCCcR7d3yzZXfzcBfxveyP-g Connect with KevinX @kevinspeaks2u LinkedIn @kevinmcnultyspeaks Facebook @kevinrichardmcnulty Instagram @kevinmcnultyspeaks LinkTree https://linktr.ee/kevinmcnulty #Leadership #PersonalGrowth #Parenting #Veterans #FaithAndWork #GrowYourself

    1h 27m
  4. Digital Minimalism and the Fight for Your Attention

    FEB 24

    Digital Minimalism and the Fight for Your Attention

    How phones and social media are quietly reshaping our minds, relationships, and sense of depth. A powerful conversation on digital minimalism with Kelsey Green.Episode DescriptionIn this episode of the Grow Yourself Podcast, Kevin sits down with digital minimalist Kelsey Green to explore how our digital lives are reshaping attention, relationships, creativity, and mental health.This is not an anti-technology rant. It’s a thoughtful conversation about using digital tools without being used by them. Kelsey shares research, personal experience, and practical strategies for reclaiming focus, reducing stress, and rebuilding in-person community in a world built to steal our attention.If you’ve ever felt distracted, overstimulated, or slightly “hollow” after too much scrolling, this conversation is for you.Key Takeaways Social platforms are engineered to capture and monetize attentionEven having your phone nearby fractures focusConstant consumption reduces creativity and deep thinkingDigital habits should align with your core valuesPresence is one of the most powerful gifts you can give someoneBatching digital time restores control and clarityIn-person community is deeply connected to digital boundariesGuest BioKelsey Green is a digital minimalist, community strategist, and creator focused on helping people reduce digital noise, reclaim focus, and build meaningful in-person relationships. She works with creatives and entrepreneurs to strengthen attention, deepen community, and create aligned, intentional lives.Connect with Kelsey GreenWebsite: https://kelseylgreen.comInstagram: @kelseylgreenLinkedIn: Kelsey L GreenConnect with Kevin McNultyX: https://x.com/kevinspeaks2uLinkedIn:   / kevinmcnultyspeaks  Facebook:   / kevinrichardmcnulty  Instagram:   / kevinmcnultyspeaks  LinkTree: https://linktr.ee/kevinmcnulty#DigitalMinimalism #AttentionEconomy #PersonalGrowth #Focus #Community #MentalHealth #GrowYourself

    1h 21m
  5. Living An Untamed Life | Rebellion With Purpose | Kevin McNulty Speaks

    FEB 16

    Living An Untamed Life | Rebellion With Purpose | Kevin McNulty Speaks

    In This Video We Will Explain " 🔥 Living An Untamed Life | Rebellion With Purpose | Kevin McNulty Speaks "In this episode of Grow Yourself, Kevin sits down with Aisha Makara to explore what it truly means to live untamed through disciplined freedom 🔥. This conversation on rebellion with purpose dives into intentional living, personal growth, creative reinvention, mindset transformation, and courage-driven leadership. Aisha Makara shares her journey across continents, careers, and artistic evolution, becoming an artist whose work has traveled into space . Together, they discuss disciplined freedom vs reckless rebellion, joy as a daily practice, creativity as a lifestyle, overcoming self-doubt, breaking inherited limits, and designing a purpose-driven life. If you seek motivation, mindset development, creative growth, intentional living, and authentic self-expression, this Grow Yourself episode delivers powerful insight and practical inspiration 💫 Living An Untamed Life | Rebellion With Purpose#growyourselfpodcast #Motivation #PersonalGrowth Key Takeaways Joy is not a destination but a daily practiceRebellion with purpose can be a form of inner growthCreativity extends far beyond art and into how we live• Letting go of inherited scripts creates space for freedomDisciplined freedom leads to deeper joy and authenticityGuest Bio Aisha Makara is an artist, creator, speaker, and world traveler whose life reflects courage, curiosity, and intentional freedom. Born in Mongolia and orphaned at a young age, she went on to earn a civil engineering degree in Norway, build a boutique hotel business in Lisbon, and travel to more than sixty countries. Her creative journey includes nomadic living, global art exhibitions, and a remarkable milestone in 2023 when her artwork was engraved in gold and sent into space through a SpaceX collaboration. Aisha is also the author of Joyful Living Guidebook, a visually rich book that blends art and reflection to help readers cultivate joy as a daily practice. If You Like This Episode Drop your thoughts below 👇👍 Like | 🔁 Share | 🔔 Subscribe for more leadership and growth conversations Connect with Aisha Book: Joyful Living Guidebook Website: aishamakara.com Instagram: @aishamakara Connect with Kevin X: @kevinspeaks2u LI: @kevinmcnultyspeaks FB: @kevinrichardmcnulty IG: @kevinmcnultyspeaks LinkTree: https://linktr.ee/kevinmcnulty #KevinMcNulty #UntamedLife #RebellionWithPurpose #Motivation #Leadership #Mindset #PersonalGrowth #Entrepreneur #PurposeDriven #kevinmcnulty #growyourselfpodcast #podcast

    1h 12m
  6. The Day Quitting Made Sense...But He Chose Otherwise

    FEB 3

    The Day Quitting Made Sense...But He Chose Otherwise

    In this episode of Grow Yourself, Kevin McNulty sits downwith Jay Setchell, a Marine Corps veteran, serial entrepreneur, and author of The Strength Within You: It’s Always Too Soon to Quit. Jay reflects on growing up on a working farm, the discipline shaped by the Marine Corps, and the life-altering injuries that forced him to rethink how he plans, moves, and lives. This is a grounded conversation about mindset as a daily discipline, choosing forward motion when quitting feels reasonable, and continuing to live with purpose, responsibility, and faith. Key Takeaways Quitting vs changing directionMindset as a daily disciplineLiving with constant forethoughtInch-by-inch progressResponsibility before comfortFaith and perseveranceService gives life meaning Guest Bio Jay Setchell is a Marine Corps veteran, serial entrepreneur,and author who has survived multiple near-death experiences, severe injuries, and more than 70 surgeries. Raised on a working farm and shaped by militaryservice, Jay’s life reflects discipline, resilience, faith, and a deep belief that it is always too soon to quit. Connect with Jay Setchell Book: The Strength Within You: It’s Always Too Soon to QuitWebsite: https://neverquittrying.comEmail: jay@neverquittrying.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jay-setchell-bb6b1085/Connect with Kevin Linktr.ee/kevinmcnulty #growyourselfpodcast #neverquit ng #resilience #mindsetmatters #personalgrowth  #veterans  #faithandperseverance  #humanstrength

    1h 10m
  7. Travel and Expand Your Life Story

    JAN 27

    Travel and Expand Your Life Story

    Life doesn’t magically change. Perspective does.In this episode of the Grow Yourself Podcast, Kevin McNulty sits down with travel writer, speaker, and author Jen Ruiz to explore how travel becomes a powerful doorway to personal growth, presence, and life redesign.Jen shares how solo travel pulled her out of autopilot, helped her confront fear and uncertainty, and ultimately reshaped her career, identity, and sense of purpose. This conversation goes far beyond packing tips or destinations. It’s about using travel as a mirror for who you are, who you’re becoming, and what kind of life actually fits you.Expanded Show NotesAs a lifelong traveler, Kevin McNulty has seen how stepping outside familiar routines can strip away comfort and reveal clarity. In this episode, he explores that idea with Jen Ruiz, a former attorney who challenged herself to take 12 trips in 12 months and ended up redesigning her entire life.Jen explains why travel is one of the most effective “hacks” for presence in a distracted world. New places, unfamiliar cultures, and solo experiences force us into the moment, quieting anxiety about the future and stories from the past. Together, Kevin and Jen unpack fear, growth, solitude, identity, and why the world feels far less dangerous once you actually experience it.This conversation is for anyone who feels restless, stuck, or quietly questioning whether the life they built still fits.Topics include• Why travel is a shortcut to presence and clarity• The difference between fear and danger• How solo travel builds confidence and self-trust• Why growth never stops feeling uncomfortable• How travel challenges prejudice and expands perspective• Designing your own adventure instead of following the default pathAbout JenJen Ruiz is the author of 12 Trips in 12 Months and the upcoming memoir All You Need Is Flights releasing in 2026. She has traveled to over 50 countries, written for outlets like National Geographic and TIME, and helps others design lives that prioritize curiosity, courage, and freedom.Connect with JenWebsite: jenonajetplane.com/startBooks: Available on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, and wherever books are soldSocial: @jenonajetplaneConnect with KevinX: @kevinspeaks2uLinkedIn: @kevinmcnultyspeaksFacebook: @kevinrichardmcnultyInstagram: @kevinmcnultyspeaksLinkTree: https://linktr.ee/kevinmcnultySubscribe to the Grow Yourself Podcast for thoughtful conversations on personal growth, perspective, and human dynamics.#travel #personalgrowth #growyourselfpodcast #solotravelindia

    1h 2m
4.6
out of 5
11 Ratings

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In Grow Yourself, you will have weekly ‘aha’ moments that allow you to see a clear path forward towards living a more purpose-filled, confident life. Each week, Kevin breaks down the abstracts of life and distills info into truth. Whether it be finding the truth in lofty concepts such as Law of Attraction, or what we can learn from down-to-earth subjects like tough break-ups into practical & actionable steps you can take to improve yourself on a daily basis. If you’re a yearner ready to grow yourself from the inside out with a new level of clarity & confidence, scroll up and click ‘follow’.

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