Headstone with Pete Wright

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A well-lived life deserves a great last line. Headstone is a podcast about legacy—not the kind etched in marble, but the kind we carry in memory, in laughter, in the stories we tell long after someone’s gone. Hosted by Pete Wright, Headstone uses one deceptively simple question—What do you want on your headstone?—to explore the lives behind the legacies. In each episode, guests reflect on meaning, mortality, creativity, failure, grief, and joy, finding humor and humanity in the messy middle of it all. It’s not a show about death. It’s a show about life—and the words we hope will outlast us. Because sometimes, the story that survives you… is the best one you ever told.

Episodes

  1. Dr. Nachi Felt: Always Becoming

    11/29/2025

    Dr. Nachi Felt: Always Becoming

    Sometimes at fifteen, sometimes much later, we finally stop running from ourselves. We sit down and ask the quiet but impossible question: Who do I want to be? This conversation begins with a name. I first knew him as Michael — the professional veneer that felt safe, pronounceable, uncontroversial. But today he is Nachi, reclaiming the Hebrew name that always held the truer story of identity. That shift, simple on the surface, opens a portal into something tender and universal: how identity is shaped not by the roles we play, but by the courage to show who we really are. Faith plays a profound role in that evolution. Nachi talks about Judaism not as dogma, but as structure, clarity, and purpose — a lens that helps him understand endings without fear and see value in existence itself. He points out that death, in his tradition, gives life its shape, its urgency, its meaning. Mortality becomes not the enemy but the clarifier. We talk about rage, comfort, goodness, the pursuit of happiness versus the pursuit of pleasure, and the strange wisdom of a terminally ill teenager named Jonathan who taught Nachi how to be happy. We explore the liminal space between clarity and acceptance — how seeing ourselves honestly requires surrender to the things we cannot control, and gentleness toward the things we can. This episode is about identity, yes. It’s about faith and behavior and clarity and death. But more than anything, it’s about permission: the permission to evolve, to reclaim ourselves, to choose again and again and again who we are becoming. This is Headstone with Dr. Nachi Felt.

    52 min
  2. James Ochoa: The Storm Chaser

    11/01/2025

    James Ochoa: The Storm Chaser

    Some people study chaos because they have to. Others because they can’t look away. James Ochoa has spent his life inside both camps—born into a noisy, loving, impossibly crowded family, raised amid the unpredictable rhythms of mental illness and grace, and shaped by a series of accidents and near misses that could have ended him. Instead, they gave him a reason to begin again. For more than three decades, James has been a counselor, teacher, and writer—founder of The Life Empowerment Center in Austin, Texas—helping adults with ADHD navigate the emotional turbulence of their minds. His first book, Focused Forward: Navigating the Storms of Adult ADHD, reframed ADHD as more than a matter of focus and distraction. It was, he argued, a lifelong relationship with uncertainty—an emotional weather system that required compassion as much as strategy. Now, as he works on his forthcoming book, When the Shiny Wears Off: Navigating the Lifetime Storms of Adult ADHD, James has turned his attention to what comes after the breakthrough. How do you sustain meaning once the novelty of self-discovery fades? What does peace look like for a person whose entire life has been about motion? Our conversation isn’t about diagnoses or treatments. It’s about the quiet courage of someone who’s spent a lifetime learning not just how to endure the storms of life, but how to find wonder inside them. From the bathtub sanctuary of his childhood to the long, slow work of recovery, James’s story is one of transformation through reflection—proof that even the noisiest lives can contain a deep stillness at their core. When he talks about mortality, it isn’t abstract. He remembers the hospital bed at four years old, the blue light above him, and the promise he made then: I’m here for a reason. Decades later, he’s still living out that reason—helping others hold on through their own tempests long enough to find meaning in the calm that follows.

    1h 6m
  3. The Generous Goodbye with Aliza Kline

    10/11/2025

    The Generous Goodbye with Aliza Kline

    Aliza Kline has built her life around connection—the kind that happens when people gather around a table, or descend beneath the surface of the water, or find themselves saying “yes” to something unexpected. For over two decades, she’s created institutions that made those moments possible: Mayyim Hayyim, the reimagined mikveh in Boston, and OneTable, the social platform that’s helped more than a million people share Shabbat dinner. Her work has changed how Jewish ritual lives in the modern world—and how people connect to each other through it. And now, she’s walked away. In this conversation, Aliza joins me to explore what it means to build something that doesn’t need you anymore. What does it take to step back when your fingerprints are still visible on the work? How do you trust that the thing you’ve nurtured can keep living without you? We talk about the power of generosity, the practice of grace, and the paradox of legacy: that the things we make to last often outgrow us—and that maybe that’s the point. From her childhood in Colorado Springs to her leadership in New York, from the living waters of the mikveh to the glow of a Friday night table, Aliza has spent her life creating spaces for people to rediscover belonging. But her real lesson is quieter: that legacy isn’t measured in names or titles, but in the courage to release control—and the faith that meaning will keep flowing, even after you’ve stepped aside. Links & Notes Mayyim Hayyim Living Waters Community Mikveh – The inclusive ritual bath and community center Aliza helped found in Boston.OneTable – The social dining platform connecting people through Shabbat dinners.Anita Diamant, The Red Tent – The novel and author whose essay inspired the founding of Mayyim Hayyim.Mikveh and Jewish Ritual Immersion – Background on the tradition reimagined by Aliza’s work.Julianne Holt-Lunstad’s Research on Social Connection – The Brigham Young University psychologist whose work on loneliness shaped OneTable’s impact studies.Melissa Kirsch, “Offer Accepted – The New York Times – The essay that connected Aliza’s idea of “on offer” to a wider audience.

    1h 7m
  4. Building Cathedrals from Dry Erase with Rob Kubasko

    09/27/2025

    Building Cathedrals from Dry Erase with Rob Kubasko

    Step into Rob Kubasko’s office and you’ll find a reliquary of light and story: Iron Man’s helmet, a model of the USS Enterprise, a Phantom of the Opera music box. To the untrained eye, it’s a collection of toys. To Rob, it’s a theory about how humans work: that play isn’t the opposite of seriousness, it’s the method for reaching it. This week, Rob opens up about the moments that shaped that worldview—growing up with humor as both a defense and a bridge, standing at the wake of a childhood bully and discovering that even pain can carry the seeds of connection, and navigating a career that carried him from the early days of digital design into the heart of national politics. What emerges is a picture of someone who has spent his life asking: how do we connect? What do we build together? And how do we keep joy alive, even in dark seasons? Rob talks candidly about the seductions and disillusionments of political life, about what it means to contribute to community now, and about the legacy he hopes to leave in the simple mantra he first taught his daughter on the walk to kindergarten. Turns out, that’s the same inscription he imagines on his headstone, a legacy not of permanence but of presence—an invitation to live joyfully, curiously, and in service to others.

    55 min
  5. The Lasting Impressions in Lost Things with Glenn Fleishman

    09/13/2025

    The Lasting Impressions in Lost Things with Glenn Fleishman

    History is often written in bold type. We remember the wars, the inventions, the big cultural shifts that announce themselves with headlines. But Glenn Fleishman has been spending his time reminding us that the things history forgets—scraps of type, obsolete tools, obscure printing processes—are often the very things that shape us the most. They make up the invisible machinery of culture. Glenn’s career has been built on chasing down these overlooked artifacts and giving them back their dignity. He’s written for the New York Times and The Economist, produced deeply researched books like How Comics Were Madeand Six Centuries of Type and Printing, and helped shepherd ambitious publication projects like Shift Happens, a 700-page cultural history of keyboards. Along the way, he’s become something unusual in the digital age: a historian of tactility, a man who believes that physical impressions—whether pressed into paper or cast in memory—endure in a way pixels never quite can. In our conversation, Glenn talks about his childhood hours with microfilm readers, his fascination with forgotten crafts, and his frustration at watching knowledge slip away. But what emerges most powerfully is the joy he takes in sharing. Glenn doesn’t guard his discoveries like relics; he builds communities around them, from Kickstarter campaigns to type museums small enough to fit in a breadbox. His chosen epitaph—which you’ll hear—is both pun and philosophy. Our legacies aren’t measured by what we keep, but by what we don’t let ourselves forget to pass on. Links & Notes Six Colors – ‘Help Me, Glenn!’ where Glenn writes regularly about Apple and technology.Take Control Books – Glenn has authored many. I don’t know how he stays so far ahead of this stuff.How Comics Were Made – (Kickstarter project, now a bookstore edition from Andrews McMeel Publishing under the title How Comics Are Made).Six Centuries of Type and Printing – (Kickstarter book).Shift Happens – by Marcin Wichary, which Glenn helped bring to life. I haven’t finished because it is… in a word… extraordinarily comprehensive.Tiny Type Museum & Time Capsule – Glenn’s Kickstarter project creating a cabinet of printing artifacts.Blog (Glog) – Glenn Fleishman interrogates the past — a richly written blog where he explores the history of printing, comics, technology, crowdfunding, and forgotten tools.  BlueskyMastodon

    55 min
  6. What We Lift and What We Carry with Srdjan Injac

    08/30/2025

    What We Lift and What We Carry with Srdjan Injac

    When Srdjan Injac was a kid, he was small. Picked last for dodgeball small. Picked on. Smacked around. Defended by others on the playground small. He carried a condition called pectus excavatum that made his chest cave inward, and for years he hid it under shirts, and shame, and silence. Then war broke out in Sarajevo. What follows is not a tale of overnight triumph, but something far more compelling: a young man who survives four years of war, moves to a country where he barely speaks the language, discovers his own strength—not just physical, but moral—and builds a life centered around helping others feel at home in their own bodies. In this episode, Srdjan talks about growing up during the Bosnian War, finding strength in the face of disfigurement and displacement, and how the body became his way of healing the mind. He shares how his transformation from bullied to bodybuilder gave way to something even more meaningful: a career built on empathy, discipline, and showing others that strength isn’t just about muscle—it’s about the courage to keep going when everything tells you to stop. If legacy is what we leave behind, then Srdjan’s is written on every life he’s helped reshape—one rep, one conversation, one small act of belief at a time. Links & Notes Elev8fitness

    51 min
  7. Clever Dialogue and the Crushing Weight of Mortality Kyle Olson

    08/16/2025

    Clever Dialogue and the Crushing Weight of Mortality Kyle Olson

    What happens when the people you’ve spent years working alongside suddenly aren’t there anymore? For Kyle Olson—writer, podcaster, audio dramatist, and inveterate storyteller—grief arrived not as a single storm, but as a pair of Thursdays. This week, Kyle shares the sudden losses of two important figures in his life and reflects on what it means to grieve not just family, but work kin: the people who see us at our most capable, our most frustrated, our most ourselves. Along the way, we dig into the odd rigidity of American funerals, the messy unpredictability of grief, and the surprising ways death has crept into Kyle’s creative work without him even noticing. From the origins of The Swashbuckling Ladies Debate Society to a poignant headstone he’s been quietly carrying in his pocket since he was 16, this episode explores the legacy we build not through accolades or architecture, but through the lives we touch—and the stories we keep telling.

    56 min
  8. A Large Collection of Tiny Brief Encounters with Seth Nelson, Esq

    08/02/2025

    A Large Collection of Tiny Brief Encounters with Seth Nelson, Esq

    There’s a moment in every western where a lone figure walks into a dusty town. They are anonymous—neither good nor evil, simply unknown. They solve a problem, provoke a conflict, heal a wound, and just as quickly, disappear. What if legacy isn’t about how long you stay, but how fully you show up? This week on Headstone, Pete Wright invites his long-time friend and co-host Seth Nelson into a very different kind of conversation—one not about legal advice or custody battles, but about the invisible residue we leave behind in the lives we touch. Seth is a divorce attorney by trade, a poker player by instinct, and, perhaps most profoundly, a student of legacy by experience. His story meanders through the Cayman Islands, across card tables and courtrooms, through loss and love, always circling one question: How do we know we mattered? We follow Seth from his teenage soccer match in Costa Rica to his mother’s groundbreaking civil rights career, to coffee service in bed—a ritual so small and ordinary that it becomes, in time, sacred. Along the way, we confront the false promises of performative legacy: buildings named, awards given, eulogies delivered. And in their place, we find something quieter, something harder to quantify: a client’s peace, a child’s smile, a son’s reflection. Seth doesn’t stay in his clients’ lives. He isn’t supposed to. But he shows up when it counts. And then he leaves, leaving something behind. Because maybe the measure of a legacy isn’t in what people remember. It’s in what they feel, long after they forget your name. 🪦 Links & Notes • How to Split a Toaster – Pete and Seth’s other podcast• Learn more about Headstone

    50 min
  9. How to Be Remembered Without Saying a Word With Carrie Fox

    07/19/2025

    How to Be Remembered Without Saying a Word With Carrie Fox

    In 1888, Alfred Nobel read his own obituary. A clerical error, yes—but also a mirror, a reckoning, a chance to see what his legacy might become. The Merchant of Death is Dead, the headline read. It haunted him. It changed him. Most of us—thankfully—don’t get that kind of theatrical heads-up. But the question still lingers: How will we be remembered? And maybe more urgently, how do we live a life that’s worth remembering? In this debut episode of Headstone, I'm sitting down with Carrie Fox—founder, CEO, strategic communicator, values-driven entrepreneur, mother, author, and accidental interior design intern at fourteen—to explore what it means to live a life that leaves an imprint. Not one carved in marble but etched into the people we love, the work we do, and the conversations we choose to have (even the awkward ones). There’s a paradox at the heart of Carrie’s life: She’s a professional communicator who argues that what matters most… isn’t what you say. It’s what you do. More Than Words. It's a mantra. A methodology. A quiet rebellion against empty mission statements and the tyranny of the polished brand. We trace a winding path—from sixth-grade dances and dollar-bribed rejections, to the legacy of difficult fathers, to the tender, often invisible labor of parenting with intention. There’s a surf lesson in Puerto Rico. A Mount Rushmore of unexpected mentors. A surprising origin story involving Cal Ripken Jr., a spontaneous freelance gig, and origination of the birthquake. But beneath all of that—the stories, the jobs, the titles—there’s a deeper question humming: What does it mean to live in a way that your children will recognize later? That your colleagues will remember? Carrie’s life isn’t a monument. It’s a mosaic. And maybe that’s the point. Because legacy isn’t so much about what we leave behind. It’s how we show up while we’re still here. Links Mentioned: Learn more about Carrie Fox and Mission PartnersCarrie’s weekly series: Finding The WordsSubscribe to Mission Forward with Carrie Fox

    54 min
  10. A Well-Lived Life Deserves a Great Last Line

    06/27/2025

    A Well-Lived Life Deserves a Great Last Line

    Before the granite. Before the eulogy. Before someone says your name for the last time. Headstone is a podcast about legacy—not just the kind carved into stone, but the kind we leave in the lives we touch, the stories we tell, and the memories others carry forward. In this trailer, host Pete Wright shares the haunting idea that inspired the show: the three deaths we all experience, and why the final one is the most human of all. Each episode, Pete invites a guest to explore what it means to live a meaningful life—and, eventually, to answer one deceptively simple question: What do you want on your headstone? Subscribe now and join the conversation. Because a well-lived life deserves a great last line.

    2 min

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A well-lived life deserves a great last line. Headstone is a podcast about legacy—not the kind etched in marble, but the kind we carry in memory, in laughter, in the stories we tell long after someone’s gone. Hosted by Pete Wright, Headstone uses one deceptively simple question—What do you want on your headstone?—to explore the lives behind the legacies. In each episode, guests reflect on meaning, mortality, creativity, failure, grief, and joy, finding humor and humanity in the messy middle of it all. It’s not a show about death. It’s a show about life—and the words we hope will outlast us. Because sometimes, the story that survives you… is the best one you ever told.

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