60 episodes

Join Rebecca Shern and her husband, Joshua Fields Millburn from The Minimalists, for the most honest conversations you'll hear about unconventional relationships, sex, and parenting.

How to Love Rebecca Shern, Joshua Fields Millburn

    • Society & Culture
    • 4.1 • 99 Ratings

Join Rebecca Shern and her husband, Joshua Fields Millburn from The Minimalists, for the most honest conversations you'll hear about unconventional relationships, sex, and parenting.

    The End of the Road

    The End of the Road

    In this public episode of How to Love, Becca and Joshua discuss the end of the road for How to Love. Listen to the rest of episode 60 at patreon.com/howtolove. 

    • 14 min
    Sticking Around Is the Same Thing as Being Stuck

    Sticking Around Is the Same Thing as Being Stuck

    In this public episode of How to Love, Becca and Joshua discuss breakups, incompatable beliefs, being stuck in a relationship, and seeing abundance during difficult times. Listen to the rest of episode 59 at patreon.com/howtolove. 

    • 19 min
    Doing the Dishes

    Doing the Dishes

    In this public episode of How to Love, Becca and Joshua discuss sharing spaces and chores when partners have dramatically different preferences. Listen to the rest of episode 58 at patreon.com/howtolove. 

    • 9 min
    How to Maintain a Friendship

    How to Maintain a Friendship

    In this public episode of How to Love, Becca and Joshua discuss navigating friendships through different seasons of life. Listen to the rest of episode 57 at patreon.com/howtolove. 

    • 13 min
    Louis CK Saved Comedy

    Louis CK Saved Comedy

    In this public episode of How to Love, Becca and Joshua discuss Louis CK's most recent comedy special and why freedom is the key to comedic, creative, and life brilliance. Listen to the rest of episode 56 at patreon.com/howtolove. 

    • 10 min
    Kicking Him Out

    Kicking Him Out

    In this public episode of How to Love, Becca and Joshua discuss the need for alone time in a relationship. Listen to the rest of episode 55 at patreon.com/howtolove. 

    • 8 min

Customer Reviews

4.1 out of 5
99 Ratings

99 Ratings

Buddhababe2 ,

So Real

I’m a Patreon supporter of How To Love and I’ve been listening from the beginning. I really look forward to the podcasts twice a month. It’s hosted by wife and husband Bex and Josh who talk about real life situations involving sex, parenting, and wellness. They don’t hold back and I appreciate their honesty and authenticity. Thanks Bex and Josh! ❤️‍🔥

Lizburg132 ,

Thank you Josh and Rebecca

Great show 👍👍👍👍👍

Crystalmitten ,

Yikes…listen cautiously

I have found a couple of things mentioned in these messages helpful, but also things that could be extremely destructive to a person or a relationship. I agree with another reviewer that these two talk like they’re experts dishing out advice but they just aren’t and it shows. For example, the last podcast I finished, Josh says that he’s secure in their relationship so he’s able to encourage Becca to have other sexual partners and claims the opposite is true that if you’re not secure you wouldn’t want that for your partner. Advocating for infidelity to “strengthen” a marriage is SO not what the majority of relationship experts would advise. Some of the advice they give is actually bad advice that’s spun in a way to sound like something an “evolved” person would do. They claim to be madly into eachother but yet they can’t spend too much time together and want other partners? So bizarre. I’m unfollowing and I would just advise anyone listening to tread lightly and don’t take everything they say as Truth.

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