42 episodes

Join Rebecca Shern and her husband, Joshua Fields Millburn from The Minimalists, for the most honest conversations you'll hear about unconventional relationships, sex, and parenting.

How to Love Rebecca Shern, Joshua Fields Millburn

    • Society & Culture
    • 4.1 • 86 Ratings

Join Rebecca Shern and her husband, Joshua Fields Millburn from The Minimalists, for the most honest conversations you'll hear about unconventional relationships, sex, and parenting.

    The Best Sex Advice Ever

    The Best Sex Advice Ever

    In this public episode of How to Love, Becca and Joshua discuss having sex with a germaphobe, unreasonable sex requirements, and establishing boundaries that encourage sexual spontaneity. Plus Bex shares a sex PSA from her college boyfriend's father.

    • 8 min
    Most Emergencies Aren't

    Most Emergencies Aren't

    In this public episode of How to Love, Becca and Joshua talk about living without mobile phones, the folly of relying on significant others during an emergency, and learning to be unavailable for periods of time. 

    • 4 min
    Tinder Profile of the Month

    Tinder Profile of the Month

    In this public episode of How to Love, Becca and Joshua stumble upon a hilarious dating profile. They discuss why it's important to present a truthful but light-hearted version of ourselves when dating new people. Listen to full episodes at patreon.com/howtolove.

    • 5 min
    How to Be Intimate

    How to Be Intimate

    In this public episode of How to Love, Becca and Joshua talk about maintaining intimacy while dealing with a chronic illness, broadening the definition of sex, and the protective barriers that block intimacy. Listen to full episodes at patreon.com/howtolove.

    • 9 min
    Nipple Piercings and Nude Beaches

    Nipple Piercings and Nude Beaches

    In this public episode of How to Love, Becca and Joshua discuss Bex's nipple piercings, whether she'd get them again, and their recent experience at a nude beach. Listen to full episodes at patreon.com/howtolove.

    • 6 min
    Learning to Love Again

    Learning to Love Again

    In this public episode of How to Love, Becca and Joshua discuss the song "Learning to Love Again" and why it unexpectedly made Bex cry during their recording session. Then they share how they both have learned to love again throughout their relationship. Listen to full episodes at patreon.com/howtolove.

    • 7 min

Customer Reviews

4.1 out of 5
86 Ratings

86 Ratings

Lizburg132 ,

Thank you Josh and Rebecca

Great show 👍👍👍👍👍

colorsofday ,

Fresh & inspiring!

I was so happy & intrigued to find this podcast through the Minimalistic podcast! I love their fresh, organic take on things and prioritizing personal excellence and self care for the sake of a vibrant relationship. Can’t wait to hear more from y’all!

Aimott ,

Really great hearing from Bex!

Joshua is great, but I especially love what Bex has to share. I can really relate to her life experiences. She seems like a very grounded person, and I respect her pursuit of growth and healing. While I sometimes disagree with the hosts’ conclusions, I am always challenged to think more deeply and I appreciate these thoughtful conversations.

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