How to Un Picky Your Picky Eater

Christine Miroddi Yoder

Is your child a picky eater? Maybe they are fussy about trying new foods or actually have a fear of trying new foods. In this podcast, we learn tips and strategies on how to get your picky eaters enjoying mealtimes by shifting mindset, working with their sensory system, improving their oral motor skills, remediating gut issues and more. Your host is a mom and a pediatric feeding therapist with extensive training in oral motor, speech, sensory feeding, mindset, and nutrition. We talk everything from breastfeeding to detoxing and everything in between! Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/christine-miroddi-yoder/support

  1. MAR 23

    Let's Play 20 Questions....

    Why does my child gag on food? Why will they only eat snacks? Did I cause this? If you’ve asked yourself any of these questions, you are not alone. These are the exact questions parents ask us every single week when they call Foodology Feeding Therapy looking for help with picky eating, food refusal, gagging, sensory challenges, and mealtime stress. In this episode, I answer 20 of the most common questions parents ask about picky eating. But something interesting happens as we go through them… Most of these questions actually point back to the same underlying issues. Because picky eating is rarely just about the food. Instead, feeding challenges are often connected to deeper factors like: • Nervous system safety • Sensory processing • Oral motor skills • Feeding experiences • Gut health • Structure and environment around meals When those pieces aren’t working together, quick tips like “just offer it more” or “have them take one bite” can actually make things worse. In this episode we talk about: • When picky eating is normal — and when it’s not • Why some children panic around new foods • Why kids refuse dinner but ask for snacks later • What gagging and spitting food out actually mean • The real reason many kids refuse vegetables • Why forcing bites often backfires • Why picky eating is almost never caused by just one thing And most importantly — how understanding the reason behind the behavior completely changes how you approach mealtimes. Because once you identify what’s actually blocking your child’s eating, progress becomes much more possible. Take the Next Step If this episode sounds exactly like your child, the best place to start is identifying your child’s stage of eating. Inside our program we categorize picky eaters into three stages: Fearful – food feels unsafe and overwhelming Stuck – limited foods but some willingness Curious – starting to explore new foods The strategies that help a curious eater can completely backfire for a fearful eater. Take the quiz to find your child’s stage: Take the Picky Eater Quiz: https://thepickyeaterstest.com

    31 min
  2. MAR 9

    Why Food Exposure Isn't Working

    Many parents are told that the solution to picky eating is simple: “Just keep exposing them to new foods.” So they put new foods on the plate. They keep offering them. They follow the “no pressure” rule. And yet… nothing changes. In this episode, we unpack why food exposure sometimes fails — and what most feeding advice is missing. Exposure is not just a parenting strategy. It’s a nervous system process. If exposure doesn’t match your child’s stage of readiness, it can unintentionally increase resistance instead of building comfort. In this episode, I explain the three nervous system stages that influence how children respond to food exposure: • The Fearful stage — when the nervous system prioritizes safety and predictability • The Stuck stage — when children can tolerate food nearby but resist interaction or change • The Curious stage — when children begin to explore, taste, and expand variety Understanding these stages helps explain why some children progress quickly with exposure while others seem to get more rigid. We’ll also discuss why feeding progress requires more than repetition — and how factors like sensory processing, oral motor skills, gut comfort, and mindset all influence a child’s readiness for new foods. If you’ve been offering foods over and over without progress, this episode will help you understand why that happens and what may be missing. In This Episode We Discuss • Why the common advice to “just keep offering it” doesn’t work for every child • How the nervous system influences picky eating • The difference between exposure and readiness • The three stages children move through when expanding their diet • Why some children need more structured support to progress with food Take the Next Step If you’re not sure which nervous system stage your child is in, start with the quiz: Take the Picky Eater Quiz: 👉 https://thepickyeaterstest.com  The quiz will help you determine whether your child is in the Fearful, Stuck, or Curious stage and what that means for their feeding progress. If you already know your child is in the Fearful or Stuck stage, that’s where our deeper work happens. You can learn more about the Mealtime Roadmap program here: 👉 https://foodologyfeeding.mykajabi.com/mealtime-roadmap Inside the program we help families move step-by-step from Fearful → Stuck → Curious → Foodie using a whole-child approach that addresses sensory processing, oral motor skills, gut health, and mindset. Connect With Christine Website: https://foodologyfeeding.com  Take the Quiz: https://thepickyeaterstest.com

    13 min
3.9
out of 5
16 Ratings

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Is your child a picky eater? Maybe they are fussy about trying new foods or actually have a fear of trying new foods. In this podcast, we learn tips and strategies on how to get your picky eaters enjoying mealtimes by shifting mindset, working with their sensory system, improving their oral motor skills, remediating gut issues and more. Your host is a mom and a pediatric feeding therapist with extensive training in oral motor, speech, sensory feeding, mindset, and nutrition. We talk everything from breastfeeding to detoxing and everything in between! Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/christine-miroddi-yoder/support

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