Send us Fan Mail There is a note blocking off the last week of May in my calendar, and it is yelling at me. Last week of school. Do not plan anything. All caps. Too many exclamation points. When I open it, past me has left the longer version: be nice to yourself, Racheal, there will be concerts and awards and kid stuff, the twins get out by one most days. I wrote that a year ago, for the version of me who would forget. And she always forgets. Here is the thing nobody tells you about capacity. The reason you keep overcommitting is not that you lack discipline. Overcommitting is not a discipline problem, it’s a memory problem. We forget the things that repeat, the school years and the flare days and the travel that wrecks you for three days after, and then we plan the next six months as if every week is sitting there waiting for us. It is not. So I started leaving notes to future me. In my calendar, in the notes app on my phone, no new software and nothing fancy. Present me taking care of future me, before future me is too foggy or too maxed out to think straight. This one is part of the mid-year series, and it picks up where the mid-year review left off. That episode helps you decide what you want from the back half of the year. This one is about how to protect your capacity so you have the room to pull it off. What You’ll Learn in This Episode Why your capacity for the back half of the year is smaller than your plan assumes, and the specific reason your brain hides that from youThe tiny habit that takes zero new tools, just the calendar and notes app you already haveWhat a note to future you says when you are too deep in a flare to remember your own nameHow a single calendar note back in April keeps your kids from missing the whole summer in clothes that fitThe difference between saying you take Fridays off and having a calendar that protects it from youWhy summer quietly steals capacity even when the kids are in camp, and what to adjust before it happensThe monthly reset that turns self-care from a thing you hope happens into a thing already bookedKey Concepts from the Episode Notes to Future Me. Present you writes down what future you will need, before future you is too tired, too foggy, or too busy to figure it out from scratch. It lives in your calendar and your notes app, and it requires nothing else. Past you is the most underrated member of your support team. Capacity Is More Than Time. Time is the capacity everyone counts. Mental load and emotional capacity are the two that run out first, especially for a woman carrying an entire household in her head. You can have a free afternoon and still have nothing left to spend. Protect Yourself From Yourself. The people-pleaser will say yes to a call on your day off. The recovering workaholic will bulldoze the part of you that wants a slower pace. The habit exists because willpower loses that fight every time. Discipline is a decision you made once, written down where you can’t argue with it. Your Calendar Is a Values Document. You can tell what someone prioritizes by what they have made room for, not by what they say matters. If your health and your relationships are not blocked off, they are not protected. “I don’t have time” almost always means “I didn’t put it on the calendar.” Plan for Reality, Not Best Case. Twenty-six weeks left in the year does not mean twenty-six working weeks. Once you count the trip to Italy, cousin camp, the girls trip, and the holidays, the real number is closer to twenty-one. A plan built on your best week is a plan that breaks by August. Resources Mentioned Mid-Year Review Workbook. The free workbook from the previous episode, walking you through the back half of the year. The June CEO Retreats. Three formats are currently open: the Virtual CEO Retreat, the in-person Richmond CEO Retreat, and the On-Demand CEO Retreat. Pick the format that fits where you are right now. Connect with Me: Instagram: @racheal.cookTikTok: @rachealcookmbaLinkedIn: @rachealcookYouTube: @the_ceo_collectiveWebsite: The CEO CollectiveSubscribe & Review: If you loved this episode, please take a moment to subscribe and leave a review on Apple Podcasts! 🎤 Thanks for listening! I'll see you next week!
