Men, Mindset & Mission

James Boardman
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Most men are not failing. They are drifting. Men, Mindset & Mission is the podcast for high-performing men who are done with just getting by — men in business, men who are fathers, men who know they are capable of more but can't figure out why they feel stuck. Hosted by James Boardman, former Royal Marine, entrepreneur, and men's performance coach, each episode is raw, honest, and built around one goal: helping you stop existing and start living. No scripts just real conversations about mindset, identity, purpose, and what it actually takes to operate at your highest level across every area of your life. Stop existing Start living. Let's get to work.

  1. 1d ago

    My Full Story: From Rock Bottom to Royal Marines to Rebuilding a Life Worth Living

    This is the full story. All of it. McDonald's store manager. Royal Marines. Sniper. Physical Training Instructor. Divorce. Alcohol. Rock bottom. Minutes away from taking my own life. A picture of my kids. A three-hour walk in the dark. And the decision to rebuild. In this episode, I share my complete origin story — from a rough childhood of abandonment, through nine years in the Royal Marines, to the darkest period of my life, and how I built everything back from nothing to create the work I do today. Inside this episode: •Growing up with abandonment and how it shaped everything that followed •Why watching Black Hawk Down and a Royal Marines advert changed the entire direction of my life •Nine years in the Royal Marines: becoming a sniper, a PTI, and training thousands of recruits •The decision to leave the military for my children — and the identity crisis that followed •PTSD, alcohol, divorce, and coming minutes away from suicide in November 2012 •The picture of my kids that stopped me — and the three-hour walk that changed everything •How I built Body Shock Fitness from £6,000 to £106,000 in year one — and nearly destroyed myself doing it •My best-selling books, the online business, and the evolution into working with six to eight-figure business owners •Why I started therapy in January 2026 — and what it has unlocked This is not a highlight reel. This is the real story of what it takes to build a life worth living. If you are ready to start your own rebuild, book a call:   https://link.coachmatic.app/widget/bookings/coaching-call-with-jt Let's get to work.

    12 min

  2. 1d ago

    Stop Waiting to Figure It Out: How to Evolve, Execute and Become the Man You Want to Be

    You are never going to reach a point where everything is figured out. There is no finish line. There is no moment where life suddenly clicks into place and you feel ready. The men who win are not the ones who have it all figured out. They are the ones who keep evolving. In this episode, inspired by a real conversation with my son and two of my clients in the same week, I break down the Evolve, Execute, Embody framework — and why misalignment between who you are and how you are living is the root cause of most men's unhappiness. Inside this episode: •Why my son went from down in the dumps to running a 5k — in one evening •The Evolve, Execute, Embody cycle and why most men get stuck before they even start •Why "I'll start Monday" is the most dangerous sentence in a man's vocabulary •How misalignment creates friction, unhappiness, and stalled progress •My four identity keywords — peace, simplicity, contentment, calm — and why my career was the opposite •Why chasing a seven or eight-figure business is not the goal for everyone — and the freedom in admitting that •How to identify your own identity pillars and build a life that is actually aligned to them •Why becoming the man you want to be is the most dangerous and powerful place you can be Stop waiting. Start evolving. Book a call to start building your aligned life:   https://link.coachmatic.app/widget/bookings/coaching-call-with-jt Let's get to work.

    12 min

  3. 1d ago

    Why Young Men Are Struggling (And Why We as Fathers Need to Step Up)

    Gareth Southgate's documentary on young men stopped me in my tracks. Because what he was describing — boys growing up without direction, without a male role model, without anyone to show them what their emotions mean — is exactly what I see every day in the men I work with. In this episode, I talk about why the role of the father has never been more important, what happens when young men are left to find their own way, and why the work we do on ourselves directly shapes the men our sons become. Inside this episode: •Why growing up without a father figure creates a vacuum that toxic masculinity fills •What I noticed about my son's friends who have no male role model at home •Why I shared my therapy journey openly with my own kids — and how it changed our relationship •The 15 minutes I spent teaching four young lads how to deadlift — and why it matters more than you think •Why the school system is failing boys who are not academic •How positive masculinity from men like us can counter the Andrew Tates of the world •Why if we want to solve the male suicide crisis, we have to start with the boys •The simple truth: to show up for your kids, you have to show up for yourself first If there is one episode I would ask you to share, it is this one. Book a call to start showing up at a higher level:   https://link.coachmatic.app/widget/bookings/coaching-call-with-jt Let's get to work.

    13 min

  4. Jun 8

    Men's Mental Health: What Nobody Tells You About Grief, Suppression and Staying in the Fight

    ⚠️ This episode talks openly about men's mental health, suicidal thoughts, and grief. If you or someone you know is struggling, please reach out. This is one of the most honest episodes I have ever recorded. I have spent the last five months in therapy, working through grief I suppressed for years — losing my dad, leaving the military, the breakdown of my first marriage, and the identity I built my whole life around. And this morning, I sat in the kitchen and cried. Not because I am depressed. Because I am finally dealing with it. In this episode, I talk openly about men's mental health — what it actually looks like, what causes it, and what I believe every man needs to hear. Inside this episode: •Why men's mental health is still misunderstood — and how far we have come in the last 10 years •My own story: PTSD after leaving the Royal Marines, drinking, divorce, and coming minutes away from taking my own life •The picture of my kids that stopped me — and why I am grateful every single day •Why identity, self-worth, and loneliness are the three biggest mental health struggles I see in men •How childhood belief systems drive the way men think, act, and struggle as adults •Why I struggle to see myself as a success — and how that reflects my self-worth •The difference between being depressed and grieving — and why men need to learn how to grieve •Why mental health is like a pile of files stacking higher and higher until it all falls •Why the morning routine is not about making more money — it is about priming your mind to stay strong •How to start: get up earlier, find your thoughts, and stay in the fight If I had taken my own life, there would be no Jemima, no Darcy, no Alba. No books. No men coached. No life worth living. Stay in the fight. If you need to talk or want to start the process of building a stronger mind, book a call with me here:   https://link.coachmatic.app/widget/bookings/coaching-call-with-jt Let's get to work.

    20 min

  5. Jun 8

    One Decision That Changed Everything: How I Went From Suspended Teacher to Building a Life I Love

    In July 2013, I got suspended from my teaching job. At the time, it felt like my world was falling apart. I was separated from my wife, living in two houses, barely keeping myself alive, and earning £23,000 a year after leaving the Royal Marines as a Sergeant. And then I got suspended — for using the college's printer. In this episode, I share the full story of the one decision that changed the entire direction of my life. And the message is simple: whatever life you are living right now does not have to be the life you stay with. Inside this episode: •How I went from Royal Marines Sergeant to college teacher to suspended — in two years •The moment I sat at my desk and thought "this cannot be my life for the next 30 years" •The one decision that changed everything — and why I almost did not take it •What it feels like to walk out of a job with no plan, no business knowledge, and no idea what comes next •How I started with two fitness classes, six PT clients, and money borrowed from my mum •Why most men stay in lives they hate because they are too scared to make the move •The man running an eight-figure business who could not find ten minutes to take a call about himself •Where could you be in five years if you made the decision today? Anything is possible. But only if you make the decision. If you are ready to stop existing and start building, book a call with me here:   https://link.coachmatic.app/widget/bookings/coaching-call-with-jt Let's get to work.

    14 min

  6. Jun 8

    The Mid-Year Audit: How High-Performing Men Reset, Refocus and Win the Second Half of the Year

    We are halfway through the year. Are you where you said you would be? Most men will drift through the next six months the same way they drifted through the first six — busy, reactive, and wondering at the end of December where the year went. This episode is for the man who refuses to let that happen. In this episode, I walk you through the exact mid-year audit I use with my clients to review the first half, identify where you have been coasting, and build a clear mission for the second half of the year. Inside this episode: •Why most men arrive at December having drifted — and how to make sure you don't •The difference between being busy and actually moving forward •How to audit yourself honestly across the Five Pillars: Health, Relationships, Personal Development, Business, and Fun •The scoring system that forces real honesty — and why seven is never good enough •How to build a mini action plan for the next six months that you can actually lock into •The military planning mindset: why preparation is the difference between winning and winging it •Why future-proofing your identity now is more important than any morning routine •How to use your time, energy, and focus to make the second half your best half The 1% who do this work will get the growth they deserve. The 99% won't bother. Which one are you? If you want help building your second-half mission, book a call with me here:   https://link.coachmatic.app/widget/bookings/coaching-call-with-jt Let's get to work.

    11 min

  7. Jun 2

    Stop Overthinking Your Future: How to Get Out of Your Head and Back Into Your Life

    Right now, wherever your feet are — that is where your life is happening. Not in the future you are catastrophising about. Not in the past you are replaying. Right here. Right now. In this episode, I break down the three chambers of the mind — past, present, and future — and why most men are burning their energy in the wrong one. This is one of the most practical, grounding episodes I have recorded, and it comes straight from the work I have been doing on myself. Inside this episode: •The three chambers: past, present, and future — and which one is stealing your energy •Why overthinking the future creates fear, worry, and scenarios that will probably never happen •How being in the room but not in the room is costing you your relationships and your presence •The four keywords I am living by right now: peace, simplicity, contentment, and calm •Why journaling every morning is the most powerful reset button you have •How to flush out the future chamber and prime your mind before the day starts •The shift from negative overthinking to positive future thinking — and why it changes everything •Why you are the only guarantee life will ever give you •How to stay in the fight even when you cannot control what is coming You cannot live the life that is right in front of you if your mind is somewhere else. Get your feet on the ground. Get present. Get to work.   📍If you'd like to work me on rebuilding the man behind the mission and the business please book a clarity call here. 👉🏽 https://link.coachmatic.app/widget/bookings/coaching-call-with-jt

    14 min

  8. Jun 2

    The Rebuilding of a Man: What Happens When You Break Yourself Down to Build Back Better

    This one is personal. Really personal. In December, I hit the wall. I started therapy. And over the last five months, I have been through one of the most raw, uncomfortable, and ultimately transformative periods of my life. In this episode, I share the full story — the breakdown, the rebuild, and what I have learned about identity, grief, belief systems, and what it actually means to become the man you are capable of being. Inside this episode: •Why I hit a breaking point in December and finally asked for help •The grief I had been suppressing for years — losing my dad, leaving the military, the failure of my first marriage, and saying goodbye to my first business •How I used my body (training, the 50 miler) as a coping mechanism instead of facing what was really going on •What it actually means to dismantle your identity and rebuild from the ground up •The four keywords I am building my future identity around: peace, simplicity, contentment, and calm •Why being a "frenetic overachiever" and those four words cannot coexist •The rebuild phase: building the man you need to become before the success arrives •Why 90 to 95% of men will never change — and how to make sure you are in the 5% who do •Planning for 50 to 60: why the decisions you make today define the man you become in the most important decade of your life •What my wife, my kids, my best mates, and my clients gave me when I had nothing left You cannot build a life you love on a foundation you have never examined. The breakdown is not the end. It is the beginning.   📍If you'd like to work me on rebuilding the man behind the mission and the business please book a clarity call here. 👉🏽 https://link.coachmatic.app/widget/bookings/coaching-call-with-jt

    18 min
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Most men are not failing. They are drifting. Men, Mindset & Mission is the podcast for high-performing men who are done with just getting by — men in business, men who are fathers, men who know they are capable of more but can't figure out why they feel stuck. Hosted by James Boardman, former Royal Marine, entrepreneur, and men's performance coach, each episode is raw, honest, and built around one goal: helping you stop existing and start living. No scripts just real conversations about mindset, identity, purpose, and what it actually takes to operate at your highest level across every area of your life. Stop existing Start living. Let's get to work.

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