Blessed + Bossed Up

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The BBU Podcast is a weekly podcast that teaches purposeful women how to be uncompromising in their faith, business, and total life success with God as the CEO. Get ready to be empowered, emboldened, and receive divine strategy to fulfill God’s plan for your life and business. Your host + sister in Christ and success, Tatum Temia Ayomike, is an award-winning entrepreneur, executive producer, author and devoted Christian who has committed her life to help women bridge the gap between faith and business. Her impact as the CEO of Anchored Media includes a global reach of millions of listeners across 75+ produced podcast shows in just 2 years. Through her personal brand, Tatum has cultivated a community of businesswomen who give God full authority to use their business as a vessel for the Kingdom. Using the word of God as her platform, Tatum's prayer journal and published books offer instrumental guidance to ‘boss up’ in any entrepreneurial venture. Tatum has been featured in several magazines and publications and has been named as a Top 30 under 30 in the Washington, DC area.

  1. 20h ago

    Why God Won't Show You the Whole Plan (And Why That's a Good Thing)

    This episode wraps up the book club discussion of The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry with the remaining ten practices for slowing down, plus a personal, unscripted reflection on trusting God through uncertainty. The episode opens with a raw moment about navigating law school as a non-traditional student, including a candid conversation with God about wanting to see the bigger picture before feeling secure in obedience. The takeaway: God often withholds the full plan on purpose, not to withhold comfort, but to keep us dependent on Him rather than on our own self-sufficiency. From there, the conversation returns to the list of 20 practices for slowing down, picking up at number 11 and continuing through number 20. Topics include setting boundaries around email and social media, the debate over cutting out television entirely, the case for single-tasking over multitasking, taking a regular day of silence and solitude, journaling, mindfulness and meditation through a Christian lens, taking real vacations, and the value of slowing down around food, whether that means cooking at home or being intentional while eating out. The episode closes out the book club pick with a reflection on the book's epilogue and an open question about what to read next. Key Highlights A personal reflection on asking God for the "big picture" and what He said in responseWhy God sometimes keeps the full plan hidden, even when you are being obedientPractices 11 through 20 for slowing down, including thoughts on which ones felt useful and which felt overly rigidA respectful disagreement with the author's stance on cutting out TV entirelyWhy single-tasking, not multitasking, is the one non-negotiable on the listThe value of a monthly day of silence and solitude, and a smaller, more realistic version of itMindfulness and meditation reframed through scripture rather than secular practiceClosing thoughts on the book's epilogue and an open call for the next book club pick Our Sponsors: * Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com * Check out Bilt and use my code joinbilt.com/blessed for a great deal: https://www.biltrewards.com * Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com * Check out NerdWallet and use my code nerdwallet.com/blessed for a great deal: https://www.nerdwallet.com * Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.com/BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com * Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    35 min
  2. Jun 12

    How to Be Ambitious and Content at the Same Time as a Christian Entrepreneur

    This episode wraps up the discussion on simplicity and moves into the fourth and final practice of unhurried living: slowing. Before diving in, the episode opens with a personal reflection on what it looked like to actually live this out — a season of downsizing a business, laying off a team, and trusting God's call to slow down even when it made no practical sense. From there, the conversation shifts to contentment — specifically the way Paul uses "I can do all things through Christ" in Philippians, not as a battle cry for achievement, but as a testimony about being at peace in any circumstance. Contentment is framed not as the absence of ambition, but as the ability to hold desire without striving — checking with God before chasing the next opportunity rather than figuring it out on your own. The episode then moves into the author's 20 practical tips for slowing down, covering the first ten. The list centers heavily on driving habits and phone use — driving the speed limit, arriving early without your phone, and intentionally creating a "dumb phone" experience by removing notifications, social media, and email. Several tips are reflected on personally, including changes made to phone settings after reading the chapter. Key Highlights What it actually looked like to obey God's call to slow down in the middle of a business crisisThe difference between toxic ambition and healthy drive — and how healing changes what you are chasing and whyContentment as restraint, not passivity — wanting more while still being at peace with where you areReading Ecclesiastes as a practical starting point for anyone who wants to pray for contentmentThe first 10 of 20 practical tips for slowing down, with honest reactions to eachA personal phone audit — which notifications stayed, which were deleted, and why Products Available — Moving Sale!Tatum is moving and has a limited number of physical resources available for just $5 each (+ shipping — total order stays under $10). Once they're gone, they're gone! Available now: GOD is My CEO: A Prayer Journal for Entrepreneurs (Limited Edition — gold spiral binding, hardcover, full-color, tabbed) 👉🏾 https://youtu.be/hlsLhd-AVdkPodcast Planner (Physical planner with everything Tatum has learned from 9+ years of podcasting and helping 150+ people launch) 👉🏾 https://youtu.be/bfpY3zdG9aAShe Is Uncompromising (The book — includes access to a bonus masterclass) 👉🏾 https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/shop Our Sponsors: * Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com * Check out Bilt and use my code joinbilt.com/blessed for a great deal: https://www.biltrewards.com * Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com * Check out NerdWallet and use my code nerdwallet.com/blessed for a great deal: https://www.nerdwallet.com * Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.com/BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com * Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    51 min
  3. Jun 4

    Money and Minimalism

    In this episode, we continue our discussion of John Mark Comer's book The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry, picking up with his chapter on simplicity and money. Episode Overview This episode covers Comer's chapter on simplicity, including his take on Jesus' teachings about money, the practice of minimalism, and 12 principles for simpler living. The episode also includes a running critique of where the author's analysis of wealth falls short. Key Discussion Points On Jesus and money Comer argues that roughly 25% of Jesus' teachings address money and possessions, and that nearly none of them are positive toward wealth accumulation. He connects three short teachings from Matthew 6 — on storing treasures in heaven, the lamp of the body, and serving two masters — to one long teaching on worry, making the case that what we worship, we worry about. The episode pushes back on this framing. Jesus' statements like "it is more blessed to give than to receive" and "you cannot serve both God and money" are not condemnations of wealth itself. They are observations about the condition of the heart. Money funds generosity, finances kingdom work, and creates the margin to serve others well. The issue is not wealth but what wealth does to a person's heart when it becomes their source of identity or security. A personal example: being a landlord to a tenant facing breast cancer and financial hardship. Having financial margin allowed for grace — accepting late or partial payments, covering the mortgage independently — in a way that would not have been possible otherwise. That is wealth functioning as a tool for kingdom living. On the author's framework Comer eventually acknowledges the tension — noting that Jesus was supported by wealthy donors, had disciples manage a budget, and shared meals with rich friends — but does not spend enough time there. The scriptures he cites actually contain the nuance he underexplores. When someone uses scripture primarily to validate a point already formed, rather than letting scripture shape the point, it is worth noticing. That pattern reveals a lot about how a person is operating, even if unintentionally. What minimalism actually is (and is not) Comer offers several clarifications: It is not a design aesthetic or a style preference. It is not poverty or living without enjoyment. It is not organizing your stuff — if you have so much that it requires organizing, labeling, and boxing, you likely have too much. Minimalism is the intentional promotion of what you value most and the removal of what distracts from it. It applies not just to possessions but to time, mental load, and the condition of the heart. Hurry is not only a physical state — it is a condition of the mind. Comer's 12 Principles for Simple Living Before buying, consider the true cost — maintenance, time, insurance, and what it will do to the pace of your life. Before buying, ask whether the purchase harms the poor or the earth. The garment industry is a direct example: in the 1960s, 95% of American clothing was made in the U.S.; today it is 2%, often produced under exploitative conditions. (Covered within principle 2 — the ethics of globalized manufacturing.) When you do buy, opt for fewer, better things. Buy it once. When you can, share. Community and the sharing economy reduce the need to own. Get into the habit of giving things away. Generosity is both practical and life-giving. Personal example: passing along baby clothes and supplies within community, and using the school's used uniform shop to outfit a child for a fraction of retail cost. Live by a budget. In a culture that glorifies frivolous spending, budgeting is a form of good stewardship. Enjoyment belongs in the budget — but so does discipline. Learn to enjoy things without owning them. Parks, libraries, coffee shops, and natural spaces are available to everyone. Cultivate a deep appreciation for creation. Cultivate a deep appreciation for simple pleasures. Recognize advertising for what it is. (Partial disagreement here: advertising is not propaganda or lying — there are laws against false advertising. The more accurate takeaway is to be intentional about not purchasing what you do not actually need.) Lead a cheerful revolt against materialism. Actively and joyfully reject the pull toward accumulation. Scripture Referenced Matthew 6 (Sermon on the Mount — storing treasures, the lamp of the body, serving two masters, and do not worry) 1 Timothy 6:17-19 (Paul's command to the rich in Ephesus) Connect and Share Leave a comment on Spotify, share this episode, or send an email with your thoughts — especially your perspective on the critique of how wealth and money were framed throughout this chapter. Products Available — Moving Sale!Tatum is moving and has a limited number of physical resources available for just $5 each (+ shipping — total order stays under $10). Once they're gone, they're gone! Available now: GOD is My CEO: A Prayer Journal for Entrepreneurs (Limited Edition — gold spiral binding, hardcover, full-color, tabbed) 👉🏾 https://youtu.be/hlsLhd-AVdkPodcast Planner (Physical planner with everything Tatum has learned from 9+ years of podcasting and helping 150+ people launch) 👉🏾 https://youtu.be/bfpY3zdG9aAShe Is Uncompromising (The book — includes access to a bonus masterclass) 👉🏾 https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/shop Our Sponsors: * Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com * Check out Bilt and use my code joinbilt.com/blessed for a great deal: https://www.biltrewards.com * Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com * Check out NerdWallet and use my code nerdwallet.com/blessed for a great deal: https://www.nerdwallet.com * Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.com/BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com * Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    55 min
  4. May 28

    How Simplicity Can Free You From Hurry

    In this episode, we continue our journey through The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer, diving into the third principle of unhurried living: simplicity. Before getting into the chapter, there is a quick reminder about the moving sale — physical copies of the God Is My CEO Prayer Journal, the podcast planner, and She Is Uncompromising are still available for just $5 each plus shipping. Orders of 10 or more ship free. Links are in the show notes. The episode opens with a reflection on Sabbath practices from last week's discussion, including a practical tip for using AI tools like ChatGPT or Claude to generate hobby ideas that align with rest and worship — not work. From floral arranging to crafting custom tea blends, the goal is finding activities that slow you down and reconnect you with the beauty of God's creation. The heart of the episode centers on what the author calls the "gospel of America" — the cultural belief that life's meaning is found in accumulation and consumption. Drawing on Jesus' own words about wealth, greed, and the deceitfulness of riches, listeners are challenged to honestly examine whether they would follow God even if success never looked the way they envisioned. The episode also takes a critical look at the history of American consumerism, the rise of lifestyle marketing and influencer culture, and the very real spiritual danger of allowing things — cars, clothes, brands, and clout — to become identity markers. A Princeton study by Kahneman and Deaton, originally placing the happiness income threshold at $75,000 (approximately $108,500 in today's dollars), sparks a candid pushback: money is not the problem when it is used to buy freedom, experiences, and time rather than stuff. The episode challenges the author's framing while affirming his core point — the relentless accumulation of things accelerates hurry and pulls us away from the unhurried life Jesus modeled. The episode wraps before the chapter's 12 practical tips on simplicity, which will be covered in the next episode. Key Highlights Moving sale is still active — prayer journals, podcast planner, and more available for $5 each; orders of 10 or more ship freeUsing AI tools to brainstorm Sabbath-friendly hobbies that cannot be turned into a businessThe "gospel of America" — how consumerism has replaced religion as the dominant system of meaning in Western cultureA hard introspective question: would you still follow God if your business never produced the results on your vision board?The history of how corporate America deliberately engineered a culture of consumption after World War IIA challenge to Christian content creators who promote products to examine whether that activity contributes to consumerismThe $75,000 happiness study — published in 2010, equivalent to roughly $108,500 today — and why a fixed happiness ceiling is worth questioningThe distinction between spending money on stuff versus spending money on freedom, time, and experiencesNext episode: the remaining half of the simplicity chapter, including 12 practical tips from the author Products Available — Moving Sale!Tatum is moving and has a limited number of physical resources available for just $5 each (+ shipping — total order stays under $10). Once they're gone, they're gone! Available now: GOD is My CEO: A Prayer Journal for Entrepreneurs (Limited Edition — gold spiral binding, hardcover, full-color, tabbed) 👉🏾 https://youtu.be/hlsLhd-AVdkPodcast Planner (Physical planner with everything Tatum has learned from 9+ years of podcasting and helping 150+ people launch) 👉🏾 https://youtu.be/bfpY3zdG9aAShe Is Uncompromising (The book — includes access to a bonus masterclass) 👉🏾 https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/shop Our Sponsors: * Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com * Check out Bilt and use my code joinbilt.com/blessed for a great deal: https://www.biltrewards.com * Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com * Check out NerdWallet and use my code nerdwallet.com/blessed for a great deal: https://www.nerdwallet.com * Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.com/BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com * Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    44 min
  5. May 23

    The Sabbath

    We're continuing our book club series on The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer, and this week we're diving into Part Three — the how of living an unhurried life. After covering silence and solitude last episode, today we go deep on one of the most underrated and underused spiritual practices in Christian spaces: the Sabbath. But first — Tatum shares a raw and beautiful testimony from her quiet time this week, a moment on the floor in her daughter's room that turned into a soul-restoring encounter with the Father. She also gets real about a revelation she received for Christian entrepreneurs: the difference between your working relationship with God and your personal relationship with Him — and why both matter. In This EpisodeTestimony: What happened when Tatum lay on the floor, didn't know what to pray, and started speaking in tongues — and why she bawled her eyes outThe working relationship vs. the personal relationship with God — a word for veteran Christian entrepreneurs who have the rhythm down but may be missing the closenessThe YouTube plan she shelved — and why she chose the Father over the planWhat is the Sabbath? The Hebrew meaning of Shabbat (to stop) and why God built this rhythm into the DNA of creationDesire, restlessness, and the digital age — how advertising monetizes our restlessness and why only God can satisfy infinite desireWhat happens to your mind, body, and soul when you fight the Sabbath rhythm — including what happened in France when they tried a 10-day work weekThe statistics: Why Seventh-Day Adventists live 10 years longer than the average AmericanTwo lists: Restfulness vs. Relentlessness — which one describes your life right now?Practical tips for busy bodies who struggle with the "in-between" of rest — including how Tatum's Friday grocery habit accidentally created a more restful weekendWhat the Sabbath actually looks like — the author's family practice and how to find what works for yoursWorking from rest, not for rest — and why the Sabbath is the climax of the week, not just a break in itNext episode: SimplicityKey Quote"The Sabbath isn't just a 24-hour time slot in your weekly schedule. It's a spirit of restfulness that goes with you throughout your week. A way of living with ease, gratitude, appreciation, peace, and prayer. A way of working from rest, not for rest, with nothing to prove. A way of bearing fruit from abiding and not ambition." — John Mark Comer, The Ruthless Elimination of HurryTatum's Word for Christian EntrepreneursAs you grow in doing business God's way, don't let the working relationship replace the personal one. You can be in rhythm with God in your business and still have a void in your closeness to Him as His daughter. Tend to both. The business meetings with God matter — and so does just lying at His feet with nothing to say. Resources Mentioned📖 Book Club Pick: The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer — [grab your copy here] 🛒 Products Available — Moving Sale!Tatum is moving and has a limited number of physical resources available for just $5 each (+ shipping — total order stays under $10). Once they're gone, they're gone! Available now: 📒 GOD is My CEO: A Prayer Journal for Entrepreneurs (Limited Edition — gold spiral binding, hardcover, full-color, tabbed) 👉🏾 https://youtu.be/hlsLhd-AVdk🎙️ Podcast Planner (Physical planner with everything Tatum has learned from 9+ years of podcasting and helping 150+ people launch) 👉🏾 https://youtu.be/bfpY3zdG9aA📚 She Is Uncompromising (The book — includes access to a bonus masterclass)🙏🏾 Business Meetings with God — 90-Day Devotional (Includes 2 bonus masterclasses: "How to Have a Business Meeting with God" by Tatum Temia + "How to Prioritize Your Time with God" by Roslyn Rene, LSMW) 👉🏾 https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/shop 💛 Attention Churches, Women's Groups & CommunitiesDo you lead or belong to a women's ministry, small group, sorority, or community organization? If your order is 10 or more items, the products are FREE — you only pay shipping. The discount is automatically applied at checkout. This is Tatum's way of blessing communities of women with tools to grow closer to the Lord together. 👉🏾 https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/shop Our Sponsors: * Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com * Check out Bilt and use my code joinbilt.com/blessed for a great deal: https://www.biltrewards.com * Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com * Check out NerdWallet and use my code nerdwallet.com/blessed for a great deal: https://www.nerdwallet.com * Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.com/BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com * Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    55 min
  6. May 19

    Silence + Solitude

    In this deeply personal episode of Blessed and Bossed Up, Tatum returns after finals season to continue the book club series on The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer. This conversation explores the first practice for “unhurrying” your life: silence and solitude. From motherhood and entrepreneurship to law school and spiritual formation, Tatum shares how busyness, noise, and constant stimulation can quietly disconnect us from the presence of God — and how reclaiming moments of stillness can transform our spiritual, emotional, and mental well-being. She unpacks: Why boredom used to be a giftHow technology keeps us spiritually distractedLearning to practice God’s presence in everyday momentsWhy the wilderness is not weakness, but strengthThe difference between solitude and isolationHow internal noise impacts peace, anxiety, and emotional healthWhy silence is essential for healing, clarity, and abiding in Christ This episode is both a conviction and an invitation: to slow down, reconnect with God, and create rhythms that cultivate peace instead of chaos. Key TakeawaysBoredom Was Once SacredBefore smartphones and endless stimulation, boredom created space for creativity, imagination, reflection, and connection. Today, we often fill every quiet moment with scrolling, entertainment, or mental noise — missing opportunities to connect with God. God Is Present Beyond the Prayer ClosetTatum reflects on a revelation that changed her relationship with God: His presence isn’t confined to designated “quiet times.” Through the Holy Spirit, God is present while washing dishes, driving, making coffee, or watching children play. The Wilderness Is a Place of StrengthReferencing Jesus in the wilderness, this episode reframes difficult seasons not as punishment or weakness, but as places where God’s strength is revealed most powerfully. Silence Is More Than External QuietTrue silence includes: External silence (turning off noise and distractions)Internal silence (quieting worry, fantasies, overthinking, anxiety, and mental chatter)Solitude Is HealingSolitude is not isolation. It is intentional time with God where healing, self-awareness, conviction, and restoration take place. Discussion Topics from This EpisodePracticing the presence of God in ordinary momentsThe emotional impact of constant stimulationWhy high-achieving women often struggle with silenceInternal criticism, perfectionism, and vulnerabilityCreating rhythms of rest instead of cycles of burnoutHow Jesus modeled retreat, prayer, and solitudeMentioned in This EpisodeThe Ruthless Elimination of HurryA powerful book exploring how hurry, distraction, and overload are shaping modern spiritual life — and practical ways to slow down and reconnect with God. Special Product Super SaleAs Tatum prepares for a move, she discovered a limited inventory of some fan-favorite resources that are officially back while supplies last. These products have been sold out for quite some time and are being offered at deeply discounted prices — once they’re gone, they’re gone. Featured ProductsGod Is My CEO Prayer Journal: https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/shop A guided prayer and reflection journal designed to help Christian entrepreneurs strengthen their relationship with God while building in alignment with His will. Perfect for: Daily prayer and reflectionProcessing vision and strategy with GodCultivating intimacy and spiritual disciplineEntrepreneurs seeking faith-centered leadershipThe Planner for Podcasters : https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/shopA strategic planning resource for podcasters and content creators who want to stay organized, consistent, and intentional with their podcast growth and content execution. Inside includes: Content planning toolsEpisode organizationGoal-setting promptsProduction workflow support90-Day Devotional: https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/shopA devotional created to help believers grow spiritually, stay anchored in faith, and build consistent time with God over the course of 90 days. Designed for: Daily encouragementSpiritual growthBuilding consistency in devotion timeStrengthening faith through practical reflection Visit: https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/shop Our Sponsors: * Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com * Check out Bilt and use my code joinbilt.com/blessed for a great deal: https://www.biltrewards.com * Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com * Check out NerdWallet and use my code nerdwallet.com/blessed for a great deal: https://www.nerdwallet.com * Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.com/BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com * Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    49 min
  7. Apr 30

    Sober Living

    Tatum is in the trenches of her first-year law school finals, so this week she's bringing back one of her most foundational episodes — and as she always says, when an oldie comes back around, trust that the Lord is bringing it back for a reason. Whether you've heard it before or this is your first time, this one is worth sitting with. In this episode, Tatum opens up about the early years of making God the CEO of her business and introduces a new series focused on the application of faith-driven entrepreneurship — not just the information, but the lived practice. Before diving into strategy, marketing, or business plans, she makes the case that we have to start with sobriety: freeing ourselves from the influences, distractions, and cultural pressures that pull our focus away from the Lord and onto the metrics of the world. In this episode, Tatum covers: Why sobriety is the non-negotiable foundation before any business building can beginThe story of how obedience during a season of stripping and pruning led to her most fruitful breakthroughsThe moment she hit her first six-figure year — and why her reaction to it changed everythingHow entrepreneurship can become its own kind of intoxicationA word for anyone being called to pioneer something new, even when it feels lonely and irrationalThe 5 Substances to Detox From: Success culture and performance pressureDigital noise and comparisonMixed mentorshipMaterialism and metrics-based validationOver-independenceScriptures Referenced: 1 Peter 5:81 Thessalonians 5:6–8Mark 14:38Action Step: Download the free Clarity Cleanse guide (linked in show notes) — a month-long detox plan with weekly focus areas, scriptures, action steps, and prayer points to help you build the sober, focused foundation your business needs. Join the Society — Tatum's membership community for Christian women growing in life, faith, and business. Weekly prayer calls, Bible studies, daily devotionals, and a community of women walking this out with you. Our Sponsors: * Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com * Check out Bilt and use my code joinbilt.com/blessed for a great deal: https://www.biltrewards.com * Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com * Check out NerdWallet and use my code nerdwallet.com/blessed for a great deal: https://www.nerdwallet.com * Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.com/BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com * Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    58 min
  8. Apr 20

    How to Stop Rushing: Jesus, the Rule of Life & Building Margin

    In this episode, we continue our book club series on The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer, wrapping up the final chapter of Part Two and covering the intermission that sets the stage for Part Three. We open with one of the most convicting observations in the book: Jesus was rarely — if ever — in a hurry. Through stories like the raising of Lazarus and the healing of Jairus's daughter, the author paints a picture of a Savior who was fiercely present, completely unhurried, and never agitated by interruption. That kind of peace has a name we hear a lot today: a regulated central nervous system. In this episode, we break down what that actually means, share some eye-opening data about how many of us are functioning in a state of chronic stress, and then make the case that Jesus didn't just model a regulated nervous system — He modeled something that surpasses the very standard modern science is striving toward. We then dig into the concept of margin — the space between your load and your limits — and get practical about what it looks like to actually build it into your life. From contingency planning and backup childcare to protecting your mornings and setting an evening shutdown time, this episode gets real about what margin looks like for busy women wearing multiple hats. From there, we explore the trellis metaphor: just as a trellis gives a vine the structure it needs to grow and bear fruit, a rule of life gives your walk with Jesus the structure it needs to actually take root. We talk about why Jesus must be the center — not career, not motherhood, not success — and how the structures we build either support or undermine that priority. We close out with the intermission from the book, which sets up Part Three by distinguishing between discipline and spiritual discipline — and why the latter gives you access to a power that willpower alone simply cannot reach. In this episode: Why Jesus is the ultimate example of a regulated nervous system (and then some)What nervous system dysregulation actually looks like — and the stats that prove it's a public health issueThe difference between a full schedule and a hurried oneHow to create a contingency plan so that life's interruptions don't blow up your whole weekWhat a "rule of life" is and why it started in the monastery, not Silicon ValleyThe trellis metaphor and why structure isn't the enemy of freedom — it's the path to itHow to approach the four Gospels the same way you'd read a biography of someone you admireWillpower vs. spiritual discipline: why one gets you so far and the other gets you to Jesus 📖 The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer — grab your copy Our Sponsors: * Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com * Check out Bilt and use my code joinbilt.com/blessed for a great deal: https://www.biltrewards.com * Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com * Check out NerdWallet and use my code nerdwallet.com/blessed for a great deal: https://www.nerdwallet.com * Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.com/BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com * Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    39 min
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The BBU Podcast is a weekly podcast that teaches purposeful women how to be uncompromising in their faith, business, and total life success with God as the CEO. Get ready to be empowered, emboldened, and receive divine strategy to fulfill God’s plan for your life and business. Your host + sister in Christ and success, Tatum Temia Ayomike, is an award-winning entrepreneur, executive producer, author and devoted Christian who has committed her life to help women bridge the gap between faith and business. Her impact as the CEO of Anchored Media includes a global reach of millions of listeners across 75+ produced podcast shows in just 2 years. Through her personal brand, Tatum has cultivated a community of businesswomen who give God full authority to use their business as a vessel for the Kingdom. Using the word of God as her platform, Tatum's prayer journal and published books offer instrumental guidance to ‘boss up’ in any entrepreneurial venture. Tatum has been featured in several magazines and publications and has been named as a Top 30 under 30 in the Washington, DC area.

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