Everyday Disciple Podcast

Caesar Kalinowski

In each episode, we'll show you how the good news of the Gospel and Christian faith can naturally and confidently be woven into any and every area of life. We'll help you make discipleship a lifestyle and gain greater spiritual freedom and relational peace. Each episode is pretty fast-paced, and even though it's serious stuff, it can be funny too. We always wrap up with clear action steps for you to get started with the "Big 3" takeaways.

  1. Behind Every Conflict Is a Gospel Story

    2d ago

    Behind Every Conflict Is a Gospel Story

    Most of us hear the word "conflict" and immediately want to avoid it. But not all conflict is the same — and the kind you keep running from might be the exact thing that would heal your relationship. The problem is we're wired to avoid the good kind and let the bad kind fester quietly. In this episode of the Everyday Disciple Podcast, we're going to break down the two types of conflict, show you why one of them is actually essential for healthy relationships and community, and give you real steps for addressing the conflict you've been walking around for too long. In This Episode You’ll Learn:The clear difference between the two kinds of conflict and how to tell which one you're inWhy we're wired to avoid the good type of conflict and quietly adjust to the badHow conflict creates one of the best environments for discipleship you'll ever findReal steps for addressing a conflict in your life and community Get started here... From this episode: "Behind every conflict lives a series of lies and unbelief. Identifying those and replacing them with the truth about God, ourselves, and how we GET to live is always the goal. That's what discipleship is — and how we experience the Kingdom of heaven now… here!"Each week the Big 3 will give you immediate action steps to get you started.Download today’s BIG 3 right now. Read and think over them again later. You might even want to share them with others…Thanks for Listening!Thanks so much for joining us again this week. Have some feedback you’d like to share? Join us on Facebook and take part in the discussion! If you enjoyed this episode, please share it using the social media buttons you see at the top of this page or right below. Also, please leave an honest review for The Everyday Disciple Podcast on iTunes. Ratings and reviews are extremely helpful and greatly appreciated! They do matter in the rankings of the show, and we read each and every one of them. Links and Resources Mentioned in This Episode: Coaching and Apprenticeship in Missional Living w/ Caesar and his wife, Tina Resources for missional living and group training - Missio Publishing Get Caesar’s latest book: Bigger Gospel for FREE… Click here.

    27 min
  2. Baptism and Your True Identity

    May 25

    Baptism and Your True Identity

    Most of us think of baptism as a one-time event — something that happened to us, not something we actually live from. But there's another baptism happening constantly, one almost none of us notice. The culture around us is forming our identity every single day — shaping what we believe about our worth, our value, and what we're for. In this episode of the Everyday Disciple Podcast, we're going to talk with author and pastor Eric Peterson about the staggering power of Christian baptism — what it was really declaring over your life, and how living from that identity changes everything about how you show up every single day. In This Episode You’ll Learn: How culture is constantly "baptizing" us into a DO=BE identity – exhausting usWhy Christian baptism is a declaration about who you already areHow the Church has lost the full power and significance of what baptism is aboutA simple daily practice to help you live from your trinitarian identity Get started here... From this episode: "Pay attention to how often water is present and its importance in your daily life. Let it remind you, like the sacrament of your baptism, that you are now immersed into your true and restored trinitarian identity. You can now live as a full-fledged member of God's family of missionary servants, sent as a disciple of Jesus into your world to make more disciples… filling the world with God's glory."Each week the Big 3 will give you immediate action steps to get you started.Download today’s BIG 3 right now. Read and think over them again later. You might even want to share them with others…Thanks for Listening!Thanks so much for joining us again this week. Have some feedback you’d like to share? Join us on Facebook and take part in the discussion! If you enjoyed this episode, please share it using the social media buttons you see at the top of this page or right below. Also, please leave an honest review for The Everyday Disciple Podcast on iTunes. Ratings and reviews are extremely helpful and greatly appreciated! They do matter in the rankings of the show, and we read each and every one of them. Links and Resources Mentioned in This Episode: Coaching and Mentorship in Missional Living by Caesar and his wife Tina Resources for missional living and group training - Missio Publishing The Gospel In Everyday Life Workshop Register Now FREE

    36 min
  3. Daring to Live Like a Family on Mission

    May 18

    Daring to Live Like a Family on Mission

    Most of us want our families to matter. We want our kids to grow up with faith that actually sticks, and we want our home to be the kind of place people want to be. But somewhere between good intentions and real life, it never quite comes together the way we hoped. In this episode of the Everyday Disciple Podcast, we're going to show you how your family's everyday rhythms — meals, walks, projects, conversations — can become the most natural discipleship environment you've ever seen. Not a program. Not a project. Just a family living in a way that others actually want to join. In This Episode You’ll Learn:Why gospel identity is the only foundation for a family on missionHow to know if your family is living a life others would genuinely want to joinSimple rhythms you can start this week that open your home to real discipleshipWhy the goal isn't to do MORE — it's to invite people into what you're already doing Get started here... From this episode: "The goal is that your family is living in such a way that discipleship and community naturally grow out of it. We're not looking to live two lives — an isolated 'us' life and then throw a lasso around a bunch of folks once a week. We want to live in such a way that as we invite folks into our rhythms, they are in fact increasingly opportunities for discipleship."Each week the Big 3 will give you immediate action steps to get you started.Download today’s BIG 3 right now. Read and think over them again later. You might even want to share them with others…Thanks for Listening!Thanks so much for joining us again this week. Have some feedback you’d like to share? Join us on Facebook and take part in the discussion! If you enjoyed this episode, please share it using the social media buttons you see at the top of this page or right below. Also, please leave an honest review for The Everyday Disciple Podcast on iTunes. Ratings and reviews are extremely helpful and greatly appreciated! They do matter in the rankings of the show, and we read each and every one of them. Links and Resources Mentioned in This Episode: Coaching and Apprenticeship in Missional Living w/ Caesar and his wife, Tina Resources for missional living and group training - Missio Publishing Get Caesar’s latest book: Bigger Gospel for FREE… Click here.

    38 min
  4. Courage, Compassion, and Difficult People

    May 11

    Courage, Compassion, and Difficult People

    Some people just drain you. You've tried avoiding them, reasoning with them, even killing them with kindness—nothing sticks. If you're being honest, you're either walking on eggshells or keeping your distance. There's a better way, and it starts with understanding what's actually going on. In this episode of the Everyday Disciple Podcast, we're going to break down the four types of difficult people, the "thing behind the thing" driving each one, and how the gospel gives you something better than tolerance or avoidance—a path toward real connection, even with the hardest people in your life. In This Episode You’ll Learn: The four types of difficult people and what's actually driving their behaviorWhy difficult people present one of the clearest gospel opportunities in your lifeHow to understand "the thing behind the thing" so you stop reacting and start respondingWhy you might be on someone else's "difficult person" list — and what to do about it Get started here... From this episode: "When we take the time necessary to gently address a person in a way that they can hear and receive, a bond of trust is built that can change how they act and how we respond to them. When you listen, ask good questions, and seek to understand 'the thing behind the thing', it is always a gospel issue that leads to any of us being difficult or argumentative."Each week the Big 3 will give you immediate action steps to get you started.Download today’s BIG 3 right now. Read and think over them again later. You might even want to share them with others…Thanks for Listening!Thanks so much for joining us again this week. Have some feedback you’d like to share? Join us on Facebook and take part in the discussion! If you enjoyed this episode, please share it using the social media buttons you see at the top of this page or right below. Also, please leave an honest review for The Everyday Disciple Podcast on iTunes. Ratings and reviews are extremely helpful and greatly appreciated! They do matter in the rankings of the show, and we read each and every one of them. Links and Resources Mentioned in This Episode: Coaching and Mentorship in Missional Living by Caesar and his wife Tina Resources for missional living and group training - Missio Publishing The Gospel In Everyday Life Workshop Register Now FREE

    26 min
  5. Sowing & Reaping the "Harvest" Jesus Talked About

    May 4

    Sowing & Reaping the "Harvest" Jesus Talked About

    Unless seeds are planted, watered, and given enough time for growth, there is little expectation of a harvest. That's how farming works. And it turns out — it works similarly with people and their faith. But what if most of us have been measuring the harvest by the wrong metric this whole time? In this episode of the Everyday Disciple Podcast, Caesar challenges the common idea that spiritual harvest means getting a "decision for Christ." What if the harvest Jesus talked about was actually a harvest of disciples? This episode reframes sowing and reaping — and shows why God always provides for what he calls and commands when you trust him with your words, your time, and your life. In This Episode You’ll Learn:The truth about the amount of "fruit" that is ready to be harvestedWhy the harvest Jesus was after is different from what you were taughtWhat really constitutes "sowing seeds" in someone's lifeWhy sowing and reaping is an ongoing cycle — not a once-and-done event Get started here... From this episode: "Are you looking to 'close the deal' or give your life away? Seeking to get a 'decision for Christ' or invite people into your family — God's family — and lay your life down for them?"Each week the Big 3 will give you immediate action steps to get you started.Download today’s BIG 3 right now. Read and think over them again later. You might even want to share them with others…Thanks for Listening!Thanks so much for joining us again this week. Have some feedback you’d like to share? Join us on Facebook and take part in the discussion! If you enjoyed this episode, please share it using the social media buttons you see at the top of this page or right below. Also, please leave an honest review for The Everyday Disciple Podcast on iTunes. Ratings and reviews are extremely helpful and greatly appreciated! They do matter in the rankings of the show, and we read each and every one of them. Links and Resources Mentioned in This Episode: Coaching and Apprenticeship in Missional Living w/ Caesar and his wife, Tina Resources for missional living and group training - Missio Publishing Get Caesar’s latest book: Bigger Gospel for FREE… Click here.

    28 min
  6. The Fearless Truth About Spiritual Conversations

    Apr 27

    The Fearless Truth About Spiritual Conversations

    Most of us have been taught that sharing our faith means finding the right moment to slip in a little "Jesus talk." We've got techniques, bridge illustrations, transition phrases. But honestly? They feel like a sales pitch. And if it feels like a sales pitch to you, imagine how it feels to the person on the other end. In this episode of the Everyday Disciple Podcast, Caesar breaks down why the old techniques rarely work — and offers a completely different framework for transitioning to spiritual conversations that are actually Good News. If you've ever felt awkward, fearful, or fake when trying to bring up Jesus, this one is going to change how you see the whole conversation. In This Episode You’ll Learn:Why we fear spiritual conversations — and the lies behind the most common excusesHow past "techniques" rarely benefit anyone — and why they feel like a sales pitchWhy the gospel is NOT just a set of facts about sin, hell, and the afterlifePractical ways to transition to spiritual conversations that are genuinely Good News Get started here... From this episode: "If our understanding of the gospel and spiritual things is focused primarily on some yet-to-be-seen afterlife, it will probably always seem weird or irrelevant to talk about it."Each week the Big 3 will give you immediate action steps to get you started.Download today’s BIG 3 right now. Read and think over them again later. You might even want to share them with others…Thanks for Listening!Thanks so much for joining us again this week. Have some feedback you’d like to share? Join us on Facebook and take part in the discussion! If you enjoyed this episode, please share it using the social media buttons you see at the top of this page or right below. Also, please leave an honest review for The Everyday Disciple Podcast on iTunes. Ratings and reviews are extremely helpful and greatly appreciated! They do matter in the rankings of the show, and we read each and every one of them. Links and Resources Mentioned in This Episode: Coaching and Apprenticeship in Missional Living w/ Caesar and his wife, Tina Resources for missional living and group training - Missio Publishing

    32 min
  7. Reclaim the Passion in Your Marriage

    Apr 20

    Reclaim the Passion in Your Marriage

    After years of marriage, the passion in a relationship can quietly fade into the routine of everyday life. Not because love is gone — but because pursuit has stopped. Romance doesn't disappear all at once. It just gets squeezed out by schedules, fatigue, and the assumption that she knows you love her. In this episode of the Everyday Disciple Podcast, Caesar teaches 7 practical ways to romance your wife all year long — not just on holidays. You'll discover why God is the model of relentless pursuit in marriage, the difference between love and romance, and how intentional pursuit is the best safeguard your marriage has against future crisis. In This Episode You’ll Learn: The difference between love and romance — and why both require intentionality Why "falling in love" fades and what to do about it How God models relentless pursuit in marriage — and how to follow his lead 7 specific ways to romance your wife all year, starting today Get started here... From this episode: "Putting intentionality and effort into romancing your wife over the course of your lives together and maintaining a deep romantic connection is the best way to safeguard your marriage against future crisis."   Each week the Big 3 will give you immediate action steps to get you started. Download today’s BIG 3 right now. Read and think over them again later. You might even want to share them with others… Thanks for Listening! Thanks so much for joining us again this week. Have some feedback you’d like to share? Join us on Facebook and take part in the discussion! If you enjoyed this episode, please share it using the social media buttons you see at the top of this page or right below. Also, please leave an honest review for The Everyday Disciple Podcast on iTunes. Ratings and reviews are extremely helpful and greatly appreciated! They do matter in the rankings of the show, and we read each and every one of them.   Links and Resources Mentioned in This Episode: Coaching and Apprenticeship in Missional Living w/ Caesar and his wife, Tina Resources for missional living and group training - Missio Publishing 5 Steps To An Awesome Date Night With Your Spouse https://www.caesarkalinowski.com/5-steps-to-an-awesome-date-night-with-your-spouse/

    30 min
  8. Surrender the Busyness. Reclaim Your Mission.

    Apr 13

    Surrender the Busyness. Reclaim Your Mission.

    The church has been run in much the same way for decades — programs, services, buildings, conferences. And yet most of us who lead in these systems know something is off. The busyness is real, the exhaustion is real, and quietly underneath all of it is the nagging question: is any of this actually working? In this episode of the Everyday Disciple Podcast, Caesar sits down with movement leader Nic Harding to talk about why church leaders need to reimagine what they're leading — and what it looks like when you finally get clear on the real "win." If you're caught on the church treadmill, wondering what you're actually running toward, this conversation will change how you see everything. In This Episode You’ll Learn: How to clarify the "win" that Jesus actually gave us for the Church What to do when you find yourself exhausted and overscheduled in ministry How discovering your true purpose sets you free from religious busyness How to find People of Peace and invest in not-yet believers right where you are Get started here... From this episode: "If you're a leader in the Church today, are you focusing your energies and living your life for the approval of others… the board, the elders, the congregation… or living in the truth that you are a child of the King, who is your loving Father?"   Each week the Big 3 will give you immediate action steps to get you started. Download today’s BIG 3 right now. Read and think over them again later. You might even want to share them with others… Thanks for Listening! Thanks so much for joining us again this week. Have some feedback you’d like to share? Join us on Facebook and take part in the discussion! If you enjoyed this episode, please share it using the social media buttons you see at the top of this page or right below. Also, please leave an honest review for The Everyday Disciple Podcast on iTunes. Ratings and reviews are extremely helpful and greatly appreciated! They do matter in the rankings of the show, and we read each and every one of them.   Links and Resources Mentioned in This Episode: Coaching and Apprenticeship in Missional Living w/ Caesar and his wife, Tina Resources for missional living and group training - Missio Publishing Get Nic’s book: Reimagine Church and $250 in bonus materials (Free!)

    23 min
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In each episode, we'll show you how the good news of the Gospel and Christian faith can naturally and confidently be woven into any and every area of life. We'll help you make discipleship a lifestyle and gain greater spiritual freedom and relational peace. Each episode is pretty fast-paced, and even though it's serious stuff, it can be funny too. We always wrap up with clear action steps for you to get started with the "Big 3" takeaways.

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