Centered in the City

Centered in the City

Centered in the City is a virtual oasis to support you living a more mindful and intentional life in the hustle and bustle of your city. Certified Professional Mindfulness Coach, Wade Brill, will lead you in various practical and tangible meditations, discussions and interviews that create a space for you to pause, reflect and connect. Manage stress, anxiety and overwhelm so you can feel more calm, centered and intentional as you live your life in the city.

  1. 3d ago

    How to Start a Meditation Practice (Even If You Think You're Bad at It)

    Have you ever said, "I know meditation is good for me, but I just can't seem to stick with it"? Or maybe you've tried meditating before and found yourself wondering: Am I doing this right? Why can't I stop thinking? How long am I supposed to meditate? What if I'm too restless to sit still? If so, you're not alone. In this week's episode of Centered in the City, I'm answering some of the most common questions people have about mindfulness and meditation. Whether you're completely new to meditation or you've started and stopped more times than you can count, this episode will help you approach meditation with less pressure and more confidence. You'll learn why meditation isn't about clearing your mind, what to do when thoughts inevitably arise, how long you really need to meditate to experience benefits, and simple ways to build a sustainable practice that works for your life. The truth is, meditation is not about becoming a different person. It's about developing a deeper awareness of yourself and learning how to meet life's challenges with greater presence, clarity, and compassion. In This Episode, You'll Learn: What meditation actually is (and what it isn't) Why having thoughts during meditation is completely normal The biggest misconception that keeps people from starting How long beginners should meditate Different types of meditation and how to find the right fit Practical tips for creating a consistent meditation habit The science-backed benefits of mindfulness and meditation   Next Steps: Share your takeaways with me on Instagram @OneWade Check out free meditation resources to start or begin again with your meditation practice.  Join us for the SOULstice Retreat on June 14th.  Download Centered Walks right to your phone here. Order my book, 100 Mindful Moments to Balance & Energize here.  Get on the waitlist for future Mindfulness Retreats

    40 min
  2. May 21

    Softening Into Strength: The Unexpected Path to Resilience

    In this episode, I explore a different approach to resilience—one rooted not in pushing harder, but in softening into strength. Many of us were taught that resilience means holding it all together, staying productive, and bouncing back as quickly as possible. But what if true strength isn't found in force? What if resilience is built through self-trust, presence, rest, and the courage to stay connected to yourself during life's hardest moments? Drawing from personal experiences with grief, healing, uncertainty, and recovery, I share how softening helped me cultivate a deeper sense of resilience and inner safety. This episode is an invitation to release the pressure to be unshakable and instead discover the quiet power of self-compassion, nervous system regulation, and beginning again. Inside this episode: Why "pushing through" can disconnect us from ourselves The connection between softness and self-trust How nervous system regulation supports resilience Why rest is a resilience practice A new definition of strength during seasons of uncertainty The four Rs of Resilience Reflective questions to help you reconnect with yourself Whether you are navigating burnout, grief, overwhelm, change, or simply feeling stretched thin by life, this conversation offers a grounded reminder that resilience does not require hardness. You do not need to force your way forward. If this episode resonated with you, share it with someone who may need this reminder today and share your takeaways with me on Instagram @OneWade.    Resources mentioned: Overwhelm Achretype FREE Quiz - understand your primary patterns.  Join me for a day-long mindfulness retreat in Seattle to support you softening into your strength.  Learn more and sign-up here.  Regulate your nercous system with Centered Walks or additional resources on Centered in the City

    27 min
  3. May 14

    Why Rest Feels So Hard: Why We Need to Stay Productive

    Do you finally sit down to rest, only to feel restless, guilty, or anxious? If so, you're not alone. In this episode I explore why slowing down can feel surprisingly uncomfortable and why so many of us feel a constant pressure to stay productive. Drawing on nervous system regulation, IFS and mindfulness, I unpack the deeper reasons behind our "addiction to doing" and offers practical tools to help you create a healthier relationship with rest. If you've ever wondered: Why do I feel guilty when I'm not working? Why can't I relax, even when I'm exhausted? Why does being busy make me feel more in control? How do I stop tying my worth to what I accomplish? This episode is for you. In This Episode, You'll Learn: How dopamine reinforces the habit of constant productivity Why the Default Mode Network becomes more active when you slow down How perfectionism and contingent self-worth fuel overwork The difference between being busy and being fulfilled How mindfulness helps regulate the nervous system and build comfort with stillness A simple reflection practice to uncover what you truly need   Join me in Seattle on June 14th for a SOULstice Day-long retreat. This is an opportunity to rest, receive and regulate your nervous system out of all the doing and activation of modern day life. There are limited spots so if you are interested, learn more and sign up here.    Resources: 100 Mindful Moments to Balance and Energize by Wade Brill Centered Walks: Guided walking meditations Overwhelm Archetype Quiz 1:1 Mindfulness Coaching with Wade. Sign up for a Connection Call to explore if working together is a fit.  Loved This Episode? If this conversation resonated, please: Follow Centered in the City Leave a review on your favorite podcast app Share this episode with someone who needs permission to rest Connect with Wade Instagram: @OneWade Website: centeredinthecity.com / / WadeBrill.com

    27 min
  4. Apr 23

    Episode 284: Truth is with Kathryn Flaschner

    In today's episode, Kathryn shares her powerful journey of learning how to live truthfully and authentically. What began in an acting class became a profound awakening—guiding her into deeper self-awareness, emotional vulnerability, and a more fully alive way of being. After building a successful corporate career and rising to the role of Vice President, Kathryn came face-to-face with a difficult truth: the path she was on no longer aligned with who she truly was. In this honest and inspiring conversation, we explore what it means to listen to your inner voice, navigate major life transitions, and choose truth over external success. If you're feeling stuck, disconnected, or questioning your current path, this episode will remind you that it's possible to reconnect with yourself and create a life that feels true, aligned, and deeply fulfilling. Share your takeaways with us on Instagram @OneWade and @KathrynFlaschner    Curious to start or deepen your meditation practice? Join me for Mindfulness in May is a guided, month-long experience to help you reclaim your attention, calm your nervous system, and move through your days with more presence, clarity, and self-compassion. Take my FREE Overwhelm Archetype Quiz and learn how you can more skillfully navigate overwhelm and your patterns.  ***** Kathryn Flaschner spent a decade in brand strategy, building global offerings for companies like Walmart and Reese Witherspoon's Hello Sunshine — reaching Vice President by 30 — before leaving to ask the question at the heart of her own work: what happens when you stop performing success and start listening for what's true? That question became The Truth Is, a podcast exploring the examined life through long-form conversation, and Truth Circles, a coaching and facilitation practice built around the same premise. She's also an actor, writer, and yoga and meditation teacher, and believes the most important intelligence isn't in our heads.   The Truth Is Podcast: https://linktr.ee/thetruthis_podcast The Truth Is Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetruthis_podcast/ Substack: https://substack.com/@kathrynflaschner

    42 min
  5. Apr 16

    Springtime Walking Meditation: A Guided Practice to Bloom into Presence

    Step into the season of renewal with this guided springtime walking meditation designed to help you slow down, reconnect with your body, and cultivate mindful presence. In this episode, you'll be gently guided through a walking meditation practice that invites you to awaken your senses, regulate your nervous system, and release stress as you move. Whether you're walking through nature, a city street, or simply pacing indoors, this mindfulness practice will support you in feeling more grounded, calm, and alive. Spring is a powerful time to reset your energy, let go of what feels heavy, and open yourself to new possibilities. This walking meditation helps you align with that natural rhythm—one step at a time. Perfect for beginners and experienced meditators alike, this practice can be done anytime you need a mindful reset. Benefits of Walking Meditation: Reduces stress and anxiety Supports emotional regulation Improves focus and mental clarity Enhances mind-body connection Helps you feel more present and less rushed   Want to bring more mindfulness into your life? Join me for the Mindfulness in May: Bloom into Presence month-long program. When you join you will have the opportunity to deepen, reconnect to or start a meditation practice. You will learn how to: How to be consistent with your practice  Be in realtionship to your thoughts and emotions in more skillful ways How to bring mindfulness into your every day life How to support yourself managing stress and overwhelm

    18 min
4.9
out of 5
39 Ratings

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Centered in the City is a virtual oasis to support you living a more mindful and intentional life in the hustle and bustle of your city. Certified Professional Mindfulness Coach, Wade Brill, will lead you in various practical and tangible meditations, discussions and interviews that create a space for you to pause, reflect and connect. Manage stress, anxiety and overwhelm so you can feel more calm, centered and intentional as you live your life in the city.