Man That Can with Lachlan Stuart

Lachlan Stuart
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The Man That Can with Lachlan Stuart is a weekly podcast for men who want to take ownership of their life. Every Monday, Lachlan shares personal stories, hard-earned lessons, and practical coaching on building a strong body, calm mind, clear purpose, and confident life. No fluff. No motivation cycles. Just clarity, standards, and action, with each episode guiding you toward the Life Performance Scorecard. Follow Me:https://www.instagram.com/lachlanstuart/https://www.youtube.com/@LachlanJStuart https://www.linkedin.com/in/lachlan-stuartmtc/ TAKE THE SCORECARD:https://lifeperformance.scoreapp.com Support the show:https://www.buzzsprout.com/997123/supporters/new

  1. 1h ago

    Why Your Marriage Is Failing While Your Business Is Winning #698

    Message me your 'Takeaways'. Last weekend taught me a huge lesson about marriage, and it started with one rule my wife created that we now never break. If you keep telling your wife "things will calm down after this busy season," this episode is for you. I've coached men for a decade, business owners, athletes, FIFO workers, and the pattern before every marriage breakdown is the same: work got the best of them, and the family got the leftovers. In this episode, I share exactly how Amy and I protect our marriage while I run multiple businesses, train as an endurance athlete, and raise our young son Freddie. You'll learn: Amy's Rule: the one travel rule that changed how we do work trips as a familyWhy "when work slows down" is a lie ambitious men tell themselvesHow to align your work goals and family goals so they pull you together, not apartThe calendar test: what your schedule reveals about what you really prioritiseWhy date time with your wife doesn't need to be fancy — it needs to be protectedHow to treat time with your wife like your most important client meetingThe message my wife sent me that proved all of this worksReady to stop putting your marriage on hold? I'm opening a small group cohort of The Locked-In Life Blueprint™ , built specifically for married business owners who want a real finish line on the workday, more presence at home, and a marriage that grows alongside the business instead of paying for it. Spots are limited and it's application only. Apply here → https://wkf.ms/4foUmo1 Support the show Take the "Life Performance" Scorecard: HERE Follow Lachlan: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lachlanstuart/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@LachlanJStuart LINKEDIN: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lachlan-stuartmtc/ Website: https://www.lachlanstuart.com.au/ Newsletter: https://lachlan-stuart-tmtcp.ck.page/profile Do Something Today To Be Better For Tomorrow

  2. Jul 12

    How to Rebuild Trust at Home in the Next 30 Days #697

    Message me your 'Takeaways'. I used to think providing meant working hard and earning good money. Then a mate's wife told me something that stopped me in my tracks, and made me realise I was quietly eroding the trust my own wife had in me, without even knowing it. In this episode, I break down the three reasons your family might be losing trust in you, why money alone isn't enough anymore, and the simple 30-day process to stack proof that you're the man you say you are. You'll learn: - Why your family doesn't care that you're working hard — they care that you keep your word - The 3 trust leaks draining your relationship at home right now - Why "money isn't enough" and what your family actually needs from you - The daily deposit system — how small, consistent actions compound into deep trust - How to stop overpromising and start under-promising and over-delivering - Why your family is getting your leftovers (and how to come home with something left) - The finish line method — how setting a work end time changes everything at home I also share the honest moment I realised I was doing this to my own wife Amy, even while thinking I was showing up for my family. I’m taking 10 business owners through an 8-week program to build a Protected Week, so work has a finish line and home stops getting the scraps. Founding spots are open: https://wkf.ms/4foUmo1 Support the show Take the "Life Performance" Scorecard: HERE Follow Lachlan: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lachlanstuart/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@LachlanJStuart LINKEDIN: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lachlan-stuartmtc/ Website: https://www.lachlanstuart.com.au/ Newsletter: https://lachlan-stuart-tmtcp.ck.page/profile Do Something Today To Be Better For Tomorrow

  3. Jul 5

    Your Business Is Stealing Your Life (Here's the Fix) #696

    Message me your 'Takeaways'. This morning at breakfast, I told my wife I'm locking in my next 45-day fitness challenge. I know how that sounds when you're running a business, married, and raising a young family. But that's exactly why most men never do the things they say they will. They wait for the perfect season. They say "one day." And quietly, that one day fades away. In this episode, I share the 3-step system I use to stop postponing the life I want, and how you can lock yours in without sacrificing your business, your marriage, or your family. You'll learn: - Why busy, successful men are the worst at actually living their life list - How to build your Life List and choose the one thing to lock in first - The Calendar Lock — how to make it real before life talks you out of it - How to have the hard conversation with your partner before you commit - How to protect your time when work keeps trying to steal it - Why "one day" is the most dangerous phrase in a man's vocabulary - The exact process I used before the 58 marathons — and what I'm doing next This is for the bloke who's built something in business, shows up for his family, but quietly knows he keeps kicking his own life down the road. Support the show Take the "Life Performance" Scorecard: HERE Follow Lachlan: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lachlanstuart/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@LachlanJStuart LINKEDIN: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lachlan-stuartmtc/ Website: https://www.lachlanstuart.com.au/ Newsletter: https://lachlan-stuart-tmtcp.ck.page/profile Do Something Today To Be Better For Tomorrow

  4. Jul 2

    He Lost His Sister to Suicide. Now He Uses Horses to Help Men Find Their Way Back | Dan Gillen #695

    Message me your 'Takeaways'. Dan Gillen grew up working cattle stations in the Northern Territory, a life of ringers, rodeos, and motorbikes. At 17, he accidentally ran over a man who had fallen asleep drunk in the middle of a dark road. At 25, he lost his sister Tiff to suicide. Out of both of those moments came a calling. Today Dan is a counsellor and equine-assisted therapist operating near Maryborough on the Fraser Coast in Queensland. He uses horses, who mirror their clients' emotions in real time, to help people understand their nervous systems, regulate their emotions, and finally feel things they've been suppressing for years. In this episode, Lachlan Stuart and Dan Gillen have one of the most honest, raw, and important conversations in the Man That Can Project's history. This episode covers: Dan's life on the cattle stations, and how it led to equine therapyThe accident at 17 and the unresolved trauma he didn't deal with for yearsThe loss of his sister Tiff to suicide, and how it changed the direction of his lifeWhy men wait until rock bottom to ask for help, and the true cost of thatThe Window of Tolerance: what it is, how to recognise when you've left it, and how to come backFight, flight and freeze, which one you go to under pressure and whyHow horses mirror human emotion in real time, and why that makes them powerful therapeutic toolsHow to name what you're actually feeling in your body, and why that skill changes relationshipsThe documentary about Tiff and the impact of suicide on the Fraser Coast communitySupport the show Take the "Life Performance" Scorecard: HERE Follow Lachlan: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lachlanstuart/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@LachlanJStuart LINKEDIN: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lachlan-stuartmtc/ Website: https://www.lachlanstuart.com.au/ Newsletter: https://lachlan-stuart-tmtcp.ck.page/profile Do Something Today To Be Better For Tomorrow

  5. Jun 28

    The 2-Minute Habit That Changes How You Walk Into Your House #694

    Message me your 'Takeaways'. You walk in the door. Your body's home, but your head is still at work, the invoices, the tough conversation, the subby who didn't show up. Your wife and kids can feel it, even if nothing's been said. In this episode, I break down why home feels tense after work, even when nothing's actually wrong, and the simple framework I use to make sure that when I walk through the door, I'm actually there. You'll learn: - Why your family can tell when you're mentally still at work - The "Driveway Reset" — a 2-minute process to change your state before you walk inside - The 3 questions to ask yourself before you get out of the car - Why leaving work stress at work isn't selfish, it's necessary - How the first 15 minutes home sets the tone for your whole evening This one's especially for trade business owners running a $500K–$2M business who've built something incredible but feel like it's costing them the life it was supposed to create. You don't have to choose between the business and being present at home. This framework helps you have both. Start this Free Life Performance Scorecard (under 4 minutes) → https://scorecard.lachlanstuart.com.au/ Support the show Take the "Life Performance" Scorecard: HERE Follow Lachlan: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lachlanstuart/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@LachlanJStuart LINKEDIN: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lachlan-stuartmtc/ Website: https://www.lachlanstuart.com.au/ Newsletter: https://lachlan-stuart-tmtcp.ck.page/profile Do Something Today To Be Better For Tomorrow

  6. Jun 21

    Stop Being the Only One Who Calls Your Mates #693

    Message me your 'Takeaways'. Are you always the one reaching out to your mates? Always the one organising the catch-up, making the call, keeping the friendship alive? In this episode, I break down why male friendships quietly fade as we get older, why it's not about your mates not caring, and the exact system to build relationships that actually last, even with a packed career, a family, and a busy life. You'll learn: - Why men become lonelier as they get older (and what the data says) - How to stop being the only one who initiates contact - The "relational bank account" — why daily deposits matter more than big gestures - How to fix the "no time to catch up" excuse for good - Why surface-level friendships stay surface-level (and how to go deeper) - The exact question that takes a friendship from small talk to real connection - How to build a cadence for your mateships, just like you would in business I also share my own experience of being "that guy" who always reaches out first, what I do to hold the standard in my own friendships, and why removing the mask is the fastest way to build mates who stick around for life. Start this Free Life Performance Scorecard (under 4 minutes) → https://scorecard.lachlanstuart.com.au/ Support the show Take the "Life Performance" Scorecard: HERE Follow Lachlan: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lachlanstuart/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@LachlanJStuart LINKEDIN: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lachlan-stuartmtc/ Website: https://www.lachlanstuart.com.au/ Newsletter: https://lachlan-stuart-tmtcp.ck.page/profile Do Something Today To Be Better For Tomorrow

  7. Jun 14

    Boring Marriages Aren't Broken, and That's Exactly What Makes Them Dangerous #692

    Message me your 'Takeaways'. Boring marriages aren't broken marriages. Nobody's fighting. Nobody's unhappy enough to leave. You just feel flat, two people running the same household. And that's exactly what makes them dangerous. In this episode, I break down why the spark dies in long-term relationships, and more importantly, the exact system I use with clients to bring it back, even when life is full, the career is demanding, and the kids are running the show. This is the conversation most couples avoid having until it's too late. You'll learn: - Why the honeymoon phase ends, and the real reason comfort becomes the enemy - How sitting across from your partner with nothing new to say is a signal, not a sentence - The two-list system: Mini Bucket List and Bucket List, and the cadence that keeps the spark alive - Why shared new experiences are the fastest fix for emotional disconnection - The infidelity stats that nobody talks about, and what they actually tell us about what couples are missing - Why the experiences that go wrong are the ones you'll talk about forever - How to stop wondering if the grass is greener and start watering your own Free Bucket List Tool → https://www.lachlanstuart.com.au/the-list Free Life Performance Scorecard → https://scorecard.lachlanstuart.com.au/ Support the show Take the "Life Performance" Scorecard: HERE Follow Lachlan: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lachlanstuart/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@LachlanJStuart LINKEDIN: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lachlan-stuartmtc/ Website: https://www.lachlanstuart.com.au/ Newsletter: https://lachlan-stuart-tmtcp.ck.page/profile Do Something Today To Be Better For Tomorrow

  8. Jun 7

    How to Have a Successful Marriage: 7 Honest Truths Most Men Never Hear #691

    Message me your 'Takeaways'. I put these 7 things on Instagram a few weeks ago. It hasn't stopped getting comments and notifications since. So I brought it here, because this is a conversation every man needs to have. If you want a successful life and a great marriage, most men are focusing on the wrong things. They're building the career, hitting the goals, ticking the boxes, and slowly letting the most important parts of their life slip away without even realising it. This episode covers the 7 honest things every successful man needs to hear: 1. Prioritise your marriage: your wife isn't a box you tick after work and the gym 2. Look after your body: it's the vehicle that carries everything else 3. Don't take criticism from people you wouldn't trade places with 4. Learn one high-value skill and get world-class at it 5. Commit: cut the options and go all in 6. Remove negative people: distance yourself from small minds and cynicism 7. Work your mind: a chaotic mind creates a chaotic life I also share the honest truth about how I've taken my own wife for granted when building my business, and why the relationship bank account matters more than most men think. This is the episode your mates need. Share it. Take Free Life Performance Scorecard and see where you stand at strong body, calm mind, confident life and clear purpose (under 4 minutes) → https://scorecard.lachlanstuart.com.au/ Support the show Take the "Life Performance" Scorecard: HERE Follow Lachlan: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lachlanstuart/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@LachlanJStuart LINKEDIN: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lachlan-stuartmtc/ Website: https://www.lachlanstuart.com.au/ Newsletter: https://lachlan-stuart-tmtcp.ck.page/profile Do Something Today To Be Better For Tomorrow

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The Man That Can with Lachlan Stuart is a weekly podcast for men who want to take ownership of their life. Every Monday, Lachlan shares personal stories, hard-earned lessons, and practical coaching on building a strong body, calm mind, clear purpose, and confident life. No fluff. No motivation cycles. Just clarity, standards, and action, with each episode guiding you toward the Life Performance Scorecard. Follow Me:https://www.instagram.com/lachlanstuart/https://www.youtube.com/@LachlanJStuart https://www.linkedin.com/in/lachlan-stuartmtc/ TAKE THE SCORECARD:https://lifeperformance.scoreapp.com Support the show:https://www.buzzsprout.com/997123/supporters/new

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  • Creator
    Lachlan Stuart
  • Years Active
    2017 - 2026
  • Episodes
    707
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Man That Can with Lachlan Stuart
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