205 episodes

Nicole Byer is single and has been for decades. She’s smart, funny, has a fat ass and loves giving blow jobs. So the question is why is she perpetually single? This podcast is a quest to find that answer. Every week, Nicole invites a comedian, friend, or ex-fling to interview their dating life and figure out her own.

Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer Team Coco

    • Society & Culture
    • 4.9 • 12.9K Ratings

Nicole Byer is single and has been for decades. She’s smart, funny, has a fat ass and loves giving blow jobs. So the question is why is she perpetually single? This podcast is a quest to find that answer. Every week, Nicole invites a comedian, friend, or ex-fling to interview their dating life and figure out her own.

    Awkward Sex Talk (w/ Crystal Methyd)

    Awkward Sex Talk (w/ Crystal Methyd)

    Drag queen Crystal Methyd (RuPaul's Drag Race S12) joins Nicole to chat about their most romantic date, getting the 'sex talk' at the age of 22, and debates if you should text your date back immediately. They also discuss their journey into drag, finding their drag aesthetic, and their experience shooting Drag Race in the middle of the pandemic. Meanwhile, Nicole is worried her Netflix show is cockblocking her.

    • 48 min
    Playing Hard to Get (w/ Ms. Pat)

    Playing Hard to Get (w/ Ms. Pat)

    Comedian Ms. Pat chats with Nicole about her time in jail for drug trafficking, shares the secrets behind her 28 years of marriage, and offers advice on how to play hard to get. Plus, Ms. Pat's not happy that Nicole's sleeping around with random audience members, so she decides to set Nicole up with a man. 

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    Follow Nicole Byer:

    Tour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken

    Twitter: @nicolebyer 

    Instagram: @nicolebyer 

    New Merch Store!podswag.com/dateme

    Nicole's book: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

    • 1 hr 2 min
    Yelp for Escorts (w/ Alexa Eason)

    Yelp for Escorts (w/ Alexa Eason)

    Full-service sex worker Alexa Eason shares about her life as an escort. She teaches Nicole about BDSM, the relationship risks involved with sex work, Instagram's censoring of fat bodies, and the dreaded "Yelp for Escorting" sites where escorts are ranked against each other. Alexa gives advice for anyone looking to get started doing sex work.

    Black Lives Matter. For a list of resources and ways to support, see blacklivesmatters.carrd.co. 

    Follow Nicole Byer:

    Tour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken

    Twitter: @nicolebyer 

    Instagram: @nicolebyer 

    New Merch Store!podswag.com/dateme

    Nicole's book: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

    • 55 min
    Catfish Catcher (w/ Justin Martindale)

    Catfish Catcher (w/ Justin Martindale)

    Comedian Justin Martindale joins Nicole to discuss how their 'summer of love' has been disappointingly dry for the both of them. Justin shares the time he got catfished by a cop, how he deals with chucklefuckers while touring, and the craziness behind the #FreeBritney movement. Plus, what's up with these people getting duct taped on airplanes? 

    Black Lives Matter. For a list of resources and ways to support, see blacklivesmatters.carrd.co. 

    Follow Nicole Byer:

    Tour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken

    Twitter: @nicolebyer 

    Instagram: @nicolebyer 

    New Merch Store!podswag.com/dateme

    Nicole's book: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

     

    • 45 min
    Sucking D in the Locker Room (w/ Laganja Estranja)

    Sucking D in the Locker Room (w/ Laganja Estranja)

    Drag queen and choreographer Laganja Estranja (RuPaul'sDrag Race S6) joins Nicole to discuss her truth coming out as trans, finding confidence in self-love, the thrill of sucking dick in the high school locker room, and getting off on Grindr messages. Plus, Laganja discusses the injuries she sustains stunting, and answers if she would participate in a future season of RPDR All Stars.

    For more drag queens on WWYDM, check out our episode playlist on Spotify: bit.ly/wwydmdrag

    Black Lives Matter. For a list of resources and ways to support, see blacklivesmatters.carrd.co. 

    Follow Nicole Byer:

    Tour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken

    Twitter: @nicolebyer 

    Instagram: @nicolebyer 

    New Merch Store!podswag.com/dateme

    Nicole's book: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

    • 1 hr 1 min
    Hot Girl Summer (w/ Lawrence Chaney)

    Hot Girl Summer (w/ Lawrence Chaney)

    Drag queen of Scots Lawrence Chaney (winner of RPDR UK S2) chats with Nicole about his dating live after winning Drag Race, how he got banned from Tinder for 'catfishing' as himself, and pitches to host the UK version of Nailed It!.  Meanwhile, Nicole's plans for a Hot Girl Summer have gone awry. 

    For more drag queens on WWYDM, check out our episode playlist on Spotify: bit.ly/wwydmdrag

    Black Lives Matter. For a list of resources and ways to support, see blacklivesmatters.carrd.co. 

    Follow Nicole Byer:

    Tour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken

    Twitter: @nicolebyer 

    Instagram: @nicolebyer 

    New Merch Store!podswag.com/dateme

    Nicole's book: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

    • 1 hr 8 min

Customer Reviews

4.9 out of 5
12.9K Ratings

12.9K Ratings

kathy5853 ,

Thanks for the Laughs

Loved Ms. Pat! So real and hilarious!

kbarnes619 ,

Funniest and realest

Nicole is SO hilarious, authentic, honest and….trying! Something so many of us don’t do but still complain! She has me rolling with her quips, voices, jokes and questions. A true gem. I just started listening earlier this year and am working my way through her entire catalogue. So much love. Tee hee

robin9e ,

Ms. Pat: the BEST EPISODE

Nicole I’m so glad you had Ms. Pat on the show. I laughed almost the entire episode. I hope she does hook you up with that guy she thought about, and if she does you HAVE to do an episode about how it went especially if he’s hood like Ms. Pat. Definitely have Ms. Pat back on if she can/will.

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