The Alli Worthington Show

Alli Worthington

Alli Worthington talks to women leading, raising families, and wondering why they're exhausted by 3pm. The show covers the things that actually matter: faith that holds up under pressure, work that doesn't require burnout, and what's really going on with your energy, hormones, and health in midlife. With over 2 million downloads, you'll get expert interviews and coaching conversations designed to help you stop pushing through and start building something that actually works. Alli is a five-time bestselling author, CEO, and mom to five sons. She's been a business coach for over fifteen years, helping women who are tired of advice that sounds good but doesn't work. The kind of advice you'd pay a coach thousands of dollars for, twice a week, for free.

  1. 1D AGO

    What the Most Successful Leaders Do Differently with Dr. Henry Cloud

    Join the  Uplift Community App TODAY!  Somewhere between the vision you have for your life and your actual Monday, things get complicated. You push harder, make a new plan, or quietly wonder if something is off. But what if the issue is not effort at all? What if the framework you need has been inside you the whole time? That is exactly what Dr. Henry Cloud unpacks in this episode, and it will reshape the way you think about goals, leadership, and why brilliant, capable people with great intentions still get stuck. Dr. Cloud is a clinical psychologist, a New York Times bestselling author of more than 45 books, including Boundaries, and one of the most trusted voices in leadership and human performance. For three decades, he has been in the room with Fortune 500 CEOs, elite athletes, and top performers, helping them understand why progress stalls and how to regain momentum. His newest book builds a performance framework straight from the architecture of the human body. It turns out God designed the most sophisticated achievement system ever created, and it is already in you.   What You Will Learn in This Episode The five-part framework your brain and body use to move from here to there, and why most people only use two or three Why a vision without the right components cannot do the job it is meant to do What happens in your brain when desire, clarity, and direction finally align How patterns shape identity, and why solving problems quickly is essential for growth Why AI can hand you a twelve-page business plan but cannot reveal your blind spots The difference between measuring activity and measuring results, and why confusing the two keeps you stuck Why you will never outgrow needing a coach, no matter how successful you become   Timestamps: (3:18) - Dr. Cloud explains what he means when he says the human body knows best (4:12) - The factor analysis of all leadership and performance research (it collapses into 5 categories) (4:42) - The faith question: Did God design laws of performance the way there are laws of physics? (5:13) - "He did start a business. And he called it a body." (5:52) - Ephesians 4 and the guiding metaphor for the whole framework (7:07) - The five components, introduced (8:00) - Component 1: Vision (what only the human prefrontal cortex can do) (8:56) - Component 2: Engaging the talent your vision actually needs (09:35) - Component 3: Strategy and plan (and why doing a lot of stuff without a plan fails) (12:30) - Component 4: Measurement and accountability (13:01) - Component 5: Fix it quickly (why patterns become identity) (15:05) - Why no one builds something significant alone (16:30) - The neuroscience of the "observing ego" and why getting above your work matters (19:48) - AI, blind spots, and why a machine can't tell you what you can't see in yourself (20:35) - Why everyone has a business plan, and no one is executing (25:04) - What adjusting the right way actually looks like (it's not pushing harder or quitting) (28:06) - The 80/20 rule applied to your activities: only 20% of what you're doing actually moves the needle (29:31) - Ask "why didn't we do it?" before "do more of it."   WATCH ALLI  ON YOUTUBE   Links to great things we discussed:  Dr. Henry Cloud’s Website Dr. Henry Cloud’s Books: Your Desired Future & Boundaries Dr. Henry’s Product Recommendation: Salomon Shoes Function Health Uplift App Wise Woman Era I hope you loved this episode! 🎉Don’t forget to hit that subscribe button on Apple Podcasts and Spotify so you never miss a thing. And guess what? We're on YouTube! If you're loving the content, show us some love by leaving a review and giving us some stars. It means the world to me! Take care, and stay fabulous!    xo,   Alli

    36 min

  2. 5D AGO

    Why You Can't Remember Anything Anymore

    Join the  Uplift Community App TODAY!  You walk into a room and forget why you went there. You start a sentence and lose the word halfway through. And somewhere in the back of your mind, there is that quiet fear: Is something wrong with me? Here is what I want you to hear. You are not losing your mind. You are losing your bandwidth. Your brain is carrying more than it was designed to hold, and the forgetfulness you are noticing is not declining. It is overloaded.   In this episode, I break down what is really happening in your brain, why memory loss and brain fog show up during stressful seasons, and how to reclaim your mental clarity again.   What You'll Learn in This Episode: Why your brain's "short-term memory" has a hard limit (and why you're blowing past it every single day) How chronic stress physically disrupts your brain's ability to form and retrieve memories The invisible mental load that runs in the background, even when you feel totally fine Why women in perimenopause suddenly feel foggy, and why nobody connected the dots for you Three practical things you can do this week to start creating margin for your brain Why eating six prunes a day might actually protect your bones (yes, really)   Timestamps: (0:00) – Introduction: You're not losing your mind, you're losing your bandwidth (4:15) – Your brain's "post-it note" is full: the short-term memory limit explained (5:33) – How stress hormones physically disrupt memory formation (6:38) – The invisible mental load and decision fatigue that burns through your brain before noon (8:27) – The hormone piece nobody is talking about: estrogen, perimenopause, and brain fog (9:50) – Why this isn't a willpower problem, it's biology (10:58) – The overview: what's actually driving your forgetfulness (12:18) – A faith reframe: you were never designed to be the family search engine (13:52) – Sabbath as a neurological reset, not just spiritual advice (14:52) – Practical tip #1: Stop making your brain hold what paper can hold (16:46) – Practical tip #2: Eliminate one area of daily decisions (18:15) – Practical tip #3: Give your brain actual silence (20:06) – Alli's recommendation: six prunes a day for bone density (the Penn State research) (22:16) – Closing encouragement: the fog is feedback, not failure   WATCH ALLI  ON YOUTUBE   Links to great things we discussed:  Function Health Take the Secret Superpower Quiz Join the Uplift Community Follow Alli on Instagram   I hope you loved this episode! 🎉 Don't forget to hit that subscribe button on Apple Podcasts and Spotify so you’re always in the loop. And hey, while you're at it, why not pop over to our YouTube channel and check us out? If you're feeling the love, leave a review and sprinkle some stars—your support truly means the world to me! Take care, and keep shining bright!    xo, Alli

    20 min

  3. APR 27

    Stop Using Your Red Light Until You Listen to This with Researcher Dr. Glen Jeffery

    Join the  Uplift Community App TODAY!  If you have ever had that quiet nudge that something in your home environment might be working against your health, you are not imagining it. And surprisingly, the culprit might be your lightbulbs. Dr. Glen Jeffery, a leading light researcher at University College London, is uncovering what our modern light environment is doing to our metabolism, aging, blood sugar, and even our vision. His findings are the kind that make you want to walk through your house and rethink every bulb. The science is new, the implications are big, and the solution is far simpler than you would expect. This conversation is practical, eye-opening, and honestly a little shocking. If you use red light therapy, LED bulbs, or spend most of your day indoors, this is the episode you need. What You Will Learn Why LED lights are missing the wavelengths your body needs for healthy metabolism What NASA discovered when healthy astronauts started showing pre-diabetic markers The truth about red light therapy panels and why more is not better Why sitting by a window is not the same as going outside What the research really says about red light and collagen Why timing matters and why red light works best before disease takes hold The simple, inexpensive bulb swap that can start rebalancing your light environment today Timestamps (0:00) – Introduction: why light is either helping or harming us every day (2:12) – What's missing from LED light that your body actually needs (The "Red Gap") (4:23) – How LEDs disrupt metabolism, blood sugar, and accelerate aging (7:13) – Why this story is so fresh and who's most vulnerable  (9:23) – Do windows protect you? The surprising answer about infrared-blocking film (10:56) – Why going outside beats sitting by a window every single time (12:17) – How to use a red light panel correctly (avoiding the "overdose" effect) (17:22) – Alli's red light routine: identifying if she is over-exposing herself (20:43) – Red light masks, open eyes, and what Dr. Jeffery is actually worried about (24:27) – The red light and collagen myth debunked: Why it's about energy, not just aesthetics (25:29) – Why red light therapy works best before disease takes hold (28:12) – Blue light from devices: less scary than we thought, but still worth managing (31:48) – The halogen bulb swap: practical, affordable, and backed by real experiments   WATCH ALLI  ON YOUTUBE   Links to great things we discussed:    Uplift App Wise Woman Era I hope you loved this episode! 🎉If you haven’t already, make sure you tap that subscribe button on Apple Podcasts or Spotify so you never miss an episode. And yes—we’re on YouTube now too! If the show has been a bright spot for you, leaving a review or a few stars is such a gift. It truly means the world to me. Take good care of yourself, and keep showing up with joy. Share this episode with a friend who might enjoy it too!   xo, Alli

    38 min

  4. APR 23

    The Exhausting Math of One-Sided Relationships

    Join the  Uplift Community App TODAY!    Have you ever had those days where you’re not mad at anyone… you’re just tired? I know that feeling deeply. Tired of being the one who remembers, initiates, adjusts, follows up, explains, and makes everything easier for everyone else. Nothing is technically “wrong,” but the math never quite works out. You’re carrying the emotional calendar, the relational glue, and the spiritual bandwidth for two. In this episode, I’m diving into what’s really happening underneath that exhaustion in one‑sided relationships—and why your nervous system keeps pushing you to do more instead of asking for support. That tiredness isn't a weakness. It’s data. And it’s pointing you toward a healthier, holier way of relating. I’ll walk you through how to recognize over‑functioning, why “being the bigger person” has kept so many of us small, and how to start shifting the equation without burning the whole thing down.   What You'll Learn in This Episode: Why your nervous system responds to relationship imbalance by making you do more, not less The difference between generosity and a stress response (and how to tell which one you're actually in) How over-functioning in relationships is spiritually out of order, not just emotionally exhausting Why "being the bigger person" has kept so many women small, quiet, and frustrated 3 practical steps to start shifting the equation in a real relationship this week   Timestamps: (1:00) - The math of one-sided relationships (2:32) - The invisible ledger is what a one-sided relationship runs on. (4:12)- Anxiety Pretends to Be Generosity. (7:43) - Imbalanced Equation: Your exhaustion isn't a weakness. It's data. (09:34) - Over-functioning: When we try to play the Holy Spirit in someone else's story (13:10) - Three Steps to Shift the Equation     Links to great things we discussed:  Alli’s Product Recommendation - Bobbi Brown Long-Wear Waterproof Cream Eyeshadow Stick Function Health Take the Secret Superpower Quiz Join the Uplift Community Follow Alli on Instagram I hope you loved this episode! 🎉 Don't forget to hit that subscribe button on Apple Podcasts and Spotify so you’re always in the loop. And hey, while you're at it, why not pop over to our YouTube channel and check us out? If you're feeling the love, leave a review and sprinkle some stars. Your support truly means the world to me! Take care, and keep shining bright!    xo, Alli

    20 min

  5. APR 20

    My Craziest God Story Yet

    Get the NEW Uplift Community App   This episode feels different, in the best way. It’s not an interview or a teaching moment. It’s a real‑time look at what God has been doing in my life over the past year, and I’m inviting you right into the middle of it. Not the polished ending. Not the tidy version. The in‑process version. Because this isn’t just my story. It’s the story of Uplift, the app God asked me to build, and the way He has led me step by step, often in ways I never could have planned. When I look back at the past twelve months, it’s one of those “only God could have written this” seasons. And I knew you needed to hear it now, not later. So today, my friend Lindsay is joining me, and together we’re sharing the story as it’s unfolding, honest, unscripted,    Timestamps: (01:20) - The Way Lindsay and I First Met (05:04) - The God Story of How He Brought Us Back Together (11:43) - Lindsay’s Journey and the Email That Changed Everything (20:00) - Rebuilding Uplift: What God Asked Us to Do Next (23:35) - The Bigger Vision: Where Uplift Is Headed Now   WATCH ALLI  ON YOUTUBE   Links to great things we discussed:    Uplift Community App Wise Woman Era   I hope you loved this episode! 🎉If you haven’t already, make sure you tap that subscribe button on Apple Podcasts or Spotify so you never miss an episode. And yes, we’re on YouTube now too! If the show has been a bright spot for you, leaving a review or a few stars is such a gift. It truly means the world to me. Take good care of yourself, and keep showing up with joy. Share this episode with a friend who might enjoy it too! xo, Alli

    36 min

  6. APR 16

    Why You Feel Behind (Even Though You’re Not)

    Get Your Mother’s Journal TODAY - LittleThingsStudio.com If you’ve been doing all the right things showing up, staying responsible, keeping life moving and still feel behind, you’re not alone. That “I should be further along” feeling isn’t a failure signal. It’s a growth signal. You’re not behind on a checklist. You’re outgrowing a season. That tension you feel is what happens when the life you’ve built no longer matches who you’re becoming. When you’re ready for more, the familiar starts to feel too small. And pushing harder won’t fix it moving differently will. Today, we’re breaking down why this feeling shows up, what it’s trying to tell you, and how to step into your next chapter with clarity instead of pressure. You’re not late. You’re right on time for what’s next.   Timestamps: (02:18) - The 3 Real Reasons You Can’t Shake That “Behind” Feeling (02:55) - Identity Lag: When Your Life Hasn’t Caught Up to Your Growth (04:00) - Completion Bias: Why Finished Feels Better Than Progress (05:20) - Negativity Weighting: Why Your Brain Fixates on What’s Missing (11:19) - Practical Steps to Finally Stop Feeling Behind WATCH ALLI  ON YOUTUBE   Links to great things we discussed:    The Weekly Focus Filter Wise Woman Era Start your Free 30-day trial of Uplift!   I hope you loved this episode! 🎉 Don't forget to hit that subscribe button on Apple Podcasts and Spotify so you’re always in the loop. And hey, while you're at it, why not pop over to our YouTube channel and check us out? If you're feeling the love, leave a review and sprinkle some stars—your support truly means the world to me! Take care, and keep shining bright!    xo, Alli

    18 min

  7. APR 13

    How to Stop Procrastinating with Jon Acuff

    Get Your Mother’s Journal TODAY - LittleThingsStudio.com   My guest today is a longtime friend of the show, and every time he joins us, you love him. It’s the brilliant and hilarious Jon Acuff, New York Times bestselling author, speaker, and truly one of the funniest humans walking the earth. Today, we’re digging into what procrastination really looks like. Not the obvious kind where you’re scrolling instead of working, but the sneaky version that hides inside your productivity. The kind that shows up even when your calendar is full, and you’re checking all the boxes. Jon breaks down why the thing you keep almost starting is costing you more than you think and how to finally stop circling it and actually move forward. I’m sharing what this looks like in my own life, too, because wow… it hits close to home. If you’ve ever thought, “Why can’t I just start the thing?” This episode is your new favorite. It’s packed with clarity, encouragement, and practical tools to help you communicate with yourself (and others) in a healthier way. You may want to listen twice.   Timestamps: (10:44) - When Planning Turns Into Procrastination (And How to Spot It) (12:54) - The Simple Framework That Helps You Actually Finish Things (17:09) - The Hustler’s Trap and Jon’s Surprisingly Smart Way to Use AI (22:23) - Auditioning Your Ideas: When to Keep Going and When to Let Go (27:41) -  Burned Out or Just Bored? How to Tell the Difference WATCH ALLI  ON YOUTUBE Links to great things we discussed:    Procrastination Proof: Never Get Stuck Again Jon’s Show Recommendations - House of David, The Chosen, & Young Sherlock Jon’s Book Recommendations - Theo of Golden & The Road Less Stupid Jon’s Product Recommendations - Tom Bihn Briefcase, Blackwing Pencils, & F3 Wise Woman Era The Uplift app is here!  Purchase your Mother’s Journal TODAY I hope you loved this episode! 🎉 Don't forget to hit that subscribe button on Apple Podcasts and Spotify so you’re always in the loop. And hey, while you're at it, why not pop over to our YouTube channel and check us out? If you're feeling the love, leave a review and sprinkle some stars—your support truly means the world to me! Take care, and keep shining bright!    xo, Alli

    46 min

  8. APR 9

    She’s Not More Qualified—She’s Just More Willing to Try

    Get Your Mother’s Journal TODAY There’s always that woman you admire. The one stepping into bold, meaningful work while you’re still sitting with your coffee, wondering if you’re even allowed to start. We all have her in our minds—the woman who seems braver, more polished, more prepared. But here’s the truth most people miss: she’s probably not more qualified than you. She’s just more willing to try. Today I’m recording my 500th episode, and I can promise you this—if I had waited until I felt fully ready, this show would never have existed. Not one episode. Not one conversation. Not one life changed. No fancy studio. No perfect plan. Just cardboard boxes stacked around me, a cheap microphone, and the courage to begin before I felt qualified. And that tiny, imperfect start turned into a podcast that’s reached millions. If you’re searching for the courage to begin, or Googling “how to start before you’re ready,” let me save you some time: readiness is a myth. Confidence grows from action, not the other way around. Today I’m sharing what 500 episodes taught me about starting scared, showing up imperfectly, and choosing obedience over overthinking. Because the gap between where you are and where you want to be isn’t talent or training—it’s willingness.   Timestamps:   (05:14) - The Truth About That Woman You Admire: She’s Not More Qualified, Just More Willing to Try (05:26) - The Lie We Believe About Being “Qualified” Before We Begin (07:18) - The Real Superpower: Why Willingness Beats Talent Every Time (08:00) - Feeling Behind? Here’s the Truth About Your Timing (09:35) - Practical Next Steps: How to Start Before You Feel Ready   WATCH ALLI  ON YOUTUBE   Links to great things we discussed:    The Weekly Focus Filter Wise Woman Era Get Your Mother’s Journal TODAY  I hope you loved this episode! 🎉Don’t forget to hit that subscribe button on Apple Podcasts and Spotify so you never miss a thing. And guess what? We're on YouTube! If you're loving the content, show us some love by leaving a review and giving us some stars—it means the world to me! Take care, and stay fabulous!    xo, Alli

    14 min
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Alli Worthington talks to women leading, raising families, and wondering why they're exhausted by 3pm. The show covers the things that actually matter: faith that holds up under pressure, work that doesn't require burnout, and what's really going on with your energy, hormones, and health in midlife. With over 2 million downloads, you'll get expert interviews and coaching conversations designed to help you stop pushing through and start building something that actually works. Alli is a five-time bestselling author, CEO, and mom to five sons. She's been a business coach for over fifteen years, helping women who are tired of advice that sounds good but doesn't work. The kind of advice you'd pay a coach thousands of dollars for, twice a week, for free.

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  • Creator
    Alli Worthington
  • Years Active
    2018 - 2026
  • Episodes
    527
  • Rating
    Clean
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    © Copyright 2024 All rights reserved.
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    The Alli Worthington Show

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