Relationship Status Podcast

Crux Media Group

The Relationship Status Podcast hosted by CL, Fraronda, Vanetta & Yusuf, takes you on a random journey through the different issues that come up in relationships. Needless to say, the crew will give their honest take on things.

  1. 3h ago

    273rd Date: SHE Calls Him Too Much... Is She Clingy or Is He Pulling Away?

    Hosts: Yusuf & Vanetta This week on the Relationship Status Podcast, Yusuf is joined by Angel and special guest Chanel from the King Me Podcast for a conversation packed with laughs, relationship debates, dating dilemmas, and plenty of unfiltered opinions. The crew kicks things off by tackling the Question of the Week: What's worse in 2026—cheating, lying, or recording a post-argument video in your car and posting it on social media? The answers spark a hilarious discussion about privacy, trust, validation, and the growing trend of turning relationships into public content. Then it's time for a spirited round of "This or That," where the hosts debate everything from overly affectionate versus overly independent partners to being friends with exes, having opposite-sex friendships, spending habits, punctuality, and what really matters in modern dating. The main conversation centers around a listener seeking advice about balancing connection and independence in a long-term relationship. The panel dives into topics including clinginess, insecurity, boundaries, personal space, bringing up old arguments, seeking advice from friends and family, and whether unresolved issues can ever truly stay in the past. Expect honest perspectives, differing viewpoints, and plenty of real-world relationship wisdom. Along the way, the conversation takes several entertaining detours, including first-date expectations, Wendy's Biggie Bags, dating apps, church dating stories, and Yusuf's latest idea for "Dating Chanel" that has everyone questioning his matchmaking skills. If you've ever struggled with trust, communication, personal boundaries, or letting go of old relationship baggage, this episode delivers thoughtful insights wrapped in humor, honesty, and authentic conversation. Guest Spotlight: Chanel from the King Me Podcast joins the show to discuss dating, relationships, and the mission behind King Me Podcast, which focuses on men's wellness, mental health, and issues affecting Black men. Check out KingMePod Submit Advice Letters: RELSTATPodcast@gmail.com Follow Relationship Status: Instagram, Facebook, TikTok & Threads: @RELSTATPodcast Join the Relationship Status Podcast Advice Group on Facebook and become part of the conversation. Support the Show on Patreon for bloopers, bonus content, early access to episodes and more Patreon.com/RelationshipStatus For just $5 per month (about 36 cents a day), you'll get access to exclusive content, bonus discussions, book club conversations, and more. Follow Our Guest: King Me Podcast Available on YouTube, Spotify, and all major podcast platforms. Special Thanks to Our Sponsors: Eat My Biscuits 2881 Main Street Decatur, Georgia Serving up delicious biscuits, breakfast, and brunch favorites. Stop by and tell them Relationship Status sent you! Crux Media Group LLC For all your podcast production needs—from concept development and recording to editing, marketing, clips, and distribution. Schedule your free consultation today: CruxMediaGroupLLC.com ⭐ Don't forget to Like, Share, Follow, Subscribe, and leave a 5-Star Review! Because if you don't leave a 5-star review... well, you already know what Yusuf is going to call you. Chapters (00:00:00) - "You're Not Ready For Me"(00:00:48) - Relationship Status(00:02:34) - The Queen of the King Me Podcast(00:03:09) - Kimi Pot on Being On King Me Pod(00:05:43) - I Slapped My Son For Sleeping Outside My Home(00:07:04) - What's Worse in 2026? Cheating, Lying,(00:10:29) - A Cheater Is Always a Liar(00:11:41) - 3 Questions For People Who Are Overly Affectionate or Over(00:13:03) - In the Elevator With Your Valentine(00:13:29) - Is It Better To Be Always On Time or Well-Dressed(00:15:16) - Would You Rather Your Partner Be Friends With All Of Their Exes(00:17:42) - Does Your Ex-Girlfriend Want You Back?(00:19:50) - Don't Get Your Head Bust by Chanel(00:20:02) - Dear Relationship Status Advice Letter(00:20:27) - How To Sit Down With Your Partner ((00:22:05) - Chanel Says She's Being Too clingy In Her Relationship(00:26:03) - What Women Tell Men About Women(00:28:54) - How To Plan A First Date(00:32:19) - Guys Think All Women Just Want Money(00:36:27) - How To Deal With A Diva On A First Date(00:39:32) - Don't Bring Up Old Problems In Your Relationship(00:44:07) - "Don't Ask Outside Advice About Your Relationships"(00:45:17) - How to Stuck Connect with Your Partner(00:45:59) - How to Talk About Old Issues in a Relationship(00:48:29) - King Me Pod On Dating Chanel(00:50:46) - King Me Me: Don't Follow Me On Social Media

    56 min
  2. Jun 8

    272nd Date: Pastors in the DMs?! F-Girl Island's Shenasia Gets REAL About Dating & Social Media

    This week on the Relationship Status Podcast, Yusuf is joined by special guest co-host Angel while Vanetta is away, and together they welcome Shenasia from HBO Max's F-Boy Island. The conversation goes everywhere—from dating multiple people and social media relationships to loyalty, long-distance dating, and whether a little toxicity is necessary to keep love interesting. Shenasia shares her experiences dating in the spotlight, while Angel has the crew in tears with stories about wild DMs, pastors in her inbox, and why nobody wants to be listed as a "special friend" in an obituary. Plus, they answer listener questions, reveal the craziest things they've done for love, and debate exactly how much effort they're willing to put into saving an ex who's on fire. Funny, honest, and completely unfiltered—this is an episode you don't want to miss. Chapters (00:00:00) - What Is The Secret To Romantic Relationships?(00:00:49) - Relationship Status(00:02:11) - Naysha On The Guest(00:03:37) - Is It Okay To Tell People You're Single?(00:06:31) - What You Need To Tell Your Dating Partner(00:06:56) - Love At First Sight(00:10:01) - Private Relationships or Public Relations? Jay With Ink(00:12:12) - Babe Needs Access To My Phone(00:14:34) - "You Can't Fake That Chemistry"(00:15:35) - Married People Talk Long Distance(00:16:37) - Long Distance Relationships(00:16:59) - 5 Questions For Loyalty Or Honest?(00:17:47) - Toxic Passion or Peaceful Love?(00:20:36) - I Can't Do My Obituary(00:20:53) - "Oh My God, This Is So Corny!"(00:23:34) - What's The Most Difficult Part About Dating?(00:25:34) - Pastor Of The Cloth In My inbox(00:27:37) - "The People of God Are Just Human"(00:28:28) - Deaconess Says Her Online Image Helped Her Dating Life(00:31:35) - Can Social Media Habitat Destroy Intimacy?(00:36:58) - Are We Ready to Ban Social Media?(00:38:20) - What's Something That Should Be Warned Before Dating?(00:39:55) - If Your Ex Was On Fire, What Would You Use To Put(00:43:44) - The Worst Thing That You Ever Did For Love

    47 min
  3. Jun 3

    271st Date: Why Do Married Men Keep Sliding In Her DMs?

    Hosts: Yusuf & Vanetta This week on Relationship Status, Yusuf In The Building is joined by special guest co-host Angel, and things get interesting fast! The two debate whether good men are actually appreciated, why people keep choosing chaos over peace, and whether cheating has become way too normalized in today's dating world. Angel shares her thoughts on trust, relationships, and why some married men need to stay out of her inbox. Plus, the battle of the episode: Should couples wear matching outfits? Angel says it's cute. Yusuf says it's corny. The debate gets surprisingly heated. They also tackle money, loyalty, trust issues, shopping sprees, side pieces, sneaker culture, and why Yusuf absolutely refuses to match outfits with anybody under any circumstances. Real talk, plenty of laughs, and a few relationship gems along the way. Pull up and join the conversation! Follow Relationship Status on all social media platforms @RELSTATPodcast and join the conversation. Tap in, subscribe, and join the conversation in the comments! ️ Send advice letters to: relstatpodcast@gmail.com Follow on all platforms: @RELSTATPodcast Support on Patreon: Patreon.com/Relationshipstatus for bloopers, bonus content, and more Chapters (00:00:25) - Return To Relationship Status(00:01:23) - Relationship Conversations Over CURLS(00:05:00) - Can A Man Take Himself Out On A Date?(00:08:18) - How To Get A Good Man(00:14:03) - A Good Man To One Person(00:15:20) - Why Do Cheaters Get Away With It?(00:19:59) - Married People Cheat On Their Wife(00:22:47) - Married People Post Their Life On Social Media(00:25:24) - Are You Matching? (EXCLUSIVE)(00:28:06) - Is It A Man's Idea To Match His Wife?(00:31:32) - "I Can't Wear The Same Thing As My Man"(00:32:47) - How To Get A Woman To Share Money With You(00:36:19) - How To Win A Relationship With A Skeptical Person(00:39:06) - "I Want To" In A Relationship(00:41:55) - "It's Cool to Get A Dog"(00:42:20) - "We're Not Special"(00:43:59) - "I've Never Had A Man Take Me on a Shopping Sp(00:48:05) - Adam Levine On His Son's $300 Sneakers(00:51:24) - My Son's Fashion Disguise(00:53:15) - Relationship Status Podcast

    56 min
  4. May 27

    270th Date: I Stayed Married 19 Years… But I Hated Him

    Hosts: Yusuf & Vanetta Welcome back to another episode of Relationship Status Podcast with Yusuf and Vanetta. This week, Yusuf is joined by special guest co-host Angel for one of the most honest and unfiltered conversations the show has had yet. From dating culture and emotional availability to marriage, divorce, healing, and the realities of starting over in your 40s, nothing is off limits. Angel opens up about her journey from a fast-paced lifestyle in New Jersey to marriage, motherhood, church life, and eventually divorce after nearly two decades. She shares how past relationships shaped the way she views dating today, why she values her independence, and the challenges of letting someone in after heartbreak. Yusuf and Angel debate everything from: • Who gets attached faster — men or women • Dating multiple people while single • Why honesty in dating is harder than people admit • The pressure relationships can create • Social media relationships versus reality • Why some people fear commitment after divorce • The importance of feeling safe in relationships • Patterns, trust, communication, and emotional security • Petty behavior, jealousy, and setting boundaries The conversation also dives into the masks couples wear in public, the difference between loneliness and peace, and whether true love can make someone soften their stance on relationships again. If you’ve ever questioned modern dating, struggled with trust after heartbreak, or wondered whether marriage is still worth it, this episode is for you. Make sure you subscribe, leave a review, and follow Relationship Status Podcast on all streaming platforms for more real conversations about love, relationships, and life. Follow Relationship Status on all social media platforms @RELSTATPodcast and join the conversation. Tap in, subscribe, and join the conversation in the comments! ️ Send advice letters to: relstatpodcast@gmail.com Follow on all platforms: @RELSTATPodcast Support on Patreon: Patreon.com/Relationshipstatus for bloopers, bonus content, and more Chapters (00:00:00) - Married People Want To Get Married Again(00:00:49) - Relationship Status(00:02:30) - Single People(00:03:41) - Who Gets Attached Faster, Women or Men?(00:04:10) - Who Lies More In Dating? Women or Men?(00:08:05) - Is Dating Multiple People A Bad Thing?(00:11:27) - "I Don't Want To Cuddle"(00:13:47) - Married People Talk About Their Divorce(00:15:21) - I Got Married Young(00:19:39) - What Happened To The Married Woman In The Hurt(00:22:52) - Married Woman on Her Love Life(00:26:09) - He Says You Should Court Again(00:30:16) - Married Man Can't Help But Want To Be Married Again(00:34:52) - Married Woman on Being Independent(00:38:27) - "I Don't Want To Date A People Who Are Jealous(00:42:08) - What Some Men Say About Their Women(00:46:12) - "Do I Know You?"(00:46:47) - What's One Thing That You Wish You Had In A Relationship(00:51:11) - Married People Talk About Cheating On Their Partner(00:55:01) - 7 Pet Peeves of Relationships(00:56:49) - Relationship Status Podcast: Closing Out(00:59:15) - Podcast Summit 2017

    1 hr
  5. May 18 ·  Video

    269th Date: She Found CashApp Notifications From His EX… (Video)

    Hosts: Yusuf & Vanetta This week on Relationship Status, Yusuf is back in the building holding it down with special guest co-host Ashley Martin from the Becoming Her Podcast for a real, unfiltered conversation about love, identity, relationships, and the boundaries people ignore in the name of “helping” an ex. The episode kicks off with the Question of the Week: “What’s the worst thing you’ve ever done for love?” From losing yourself in relationships to staying too long after the red flags started waving, Yusuf and Ashley dive deep into how people sacrifice pieces of themselves trying to become what their partners want instead of remaining authentic. The conversation expands into dating dynamics, personal freedom in relationships, why Yusuf encourages his daughters to focus on self-discovery before serious relationships, and how people often resent the very changes they made to please someone else. Ashley and Yusuf also unpack insecurity, emotional maturity, and the importance of allowing people to be exactly who they were when you met them. Later, the hosts tackle a listener advice letter about a boyfriend secretly sending money to his ex-girlfriend. Was it harmless support or emotional disrespect? Yusuf and Ashley debate secrecy, trust, accountability, emotional transparency, and whether helping an ex behind your partner’s back crosses the line. As always, the comments section brought the heat, with listeners sharing their own stories, perspectives, and relationship lessons learned the hard way. Plus: • Ashley talks about the return of Becoming Her Podcast • Yusuf shares updates about joining the My7Figure Podcast community • Petty relationship confessions and hilarious reactions • Real talk about resentment, trust, and emotional boundaries • Shoutouts to the Relationship Status community and supporters Tap in for another honest, funny, and thought-provoking episode of Relationship Status — where the conversations are real, the opinions are unapologetic, and everybody leaves with something to think about. Follow Relationship Status on all social media platforms @RELSTATPodcast and join the conversation. Tap in, subscribe, and join the conversation in the comments! ️ Send advice letters to: relstatpodcast@gmail.com Follow on all platforms: @RELSTATPodcast Support on Patreon: Patreon.com/Relationshipstatus for bloopers, bonus content, and more Chapters (00:00:00) - "I sent that man $20 for gas"(00:00:53) - Relationship Status(00:01:27) - When You Realize How Much You've Changed(00:02:38) - When Is Kaia Coming Back?(00:03:06) - Podcast Summit 2018(00:04:13) - "The Worst Thing I Ever Did For Love"(00:09:01) - "No Relationships in High School!" Says Dad(00:11:56) - Married People Need To Be Encouraged To Be Who They(00:15:50) - "I'm Confused About Quality Time With My Love Interest"(00:17:48) - Giving Permission To Be Who You Are(00:19:53) - The Worst Thing I Did For Love(00:22:52) - Dear Elijah, There's A Hole in the Bucket(00:23:10) - Advice Letter(00:23:53) - Should Help An Ex Be Acceptable In A Relationship?(00:29:12) - He Sent His Ex-Girlfriend Money(00:33:13) - What If He Had Seen The Notifications(00:36:40) - "I Just Ignore Your Phone Calls"(00:36:51) - Clayta Holmes: Don't Complain To People About Your(00:41:15) - Becoming Ashley With Ashley Martin(00:44:53) - Shabbos Shalom

    45 min
  6. May 18

    269th Date: She Found CashApp Notifications From His EX…

    Hosts: Yusuf & Vanetta This week on Relationship Status, Yusuf is back in the building holding it down with special guest co-host Ashley Martin from the Becoming Her Podcast for a real, unfiltered conversation about love, identity, relationships, and the boundaries people ignore in the name of “helping” an ex. The episode kicks off with the Question of the Week: “What’s the worst thing you’ve ever done for love?” From losing yourself in relationships to staying too long after the red flags started waving, Yusuf and Ashley dive deep into how people sacrifice pieces of themselves trying to become what their partners want instead of remaining authentic. The conversation expands into dating dynamics, personal freedom in relationships, why Yusuf encourages his daughters to focus on self-discovery before serious relationships, and how people often resent the very changes they made to please someone else. Ashley and Yusuf also unpack insecurity, emotional maturity, and the importance of allowing people to be exactly who they were when you met them. Later, the hosts tackle a listener advice letter about a boyfriend secretly sending money to his ex-girlfriend. Was it harmless support or emotional disrespect? Yusuf and Ashley debate secrecy, trust, accountability, emotional transparency, and whether helping an ex behind your partner’s back crosses the line. As always, the comments section brought the heat, with listeners sharing their own stories, perspectives, and relationship lessons learned the hard way. Plus: • Ashley talks about the return of Becoming Her Podcast • Yusuf shares updates about joining the My7Figure Podcast community • Petty relationship confessions and hilarious reactions • Real talk about resentment, trust, and emotional boundaries • Shoutouts to the Relationship Status community and supporters Tap in for another honest, funny, and thought-provoking episode of Relationship Status — where the conversations are real, the opinions are unapologetic, and everybody leaves with something to think about. Follow Relationship Status on all social media platforms @RELSTATPodcast and join the conversation. Tap in, subscribe, and join the conversation in the comments! ️ Send advice letters to: relstatpodcast@gmail.com Follow on all platforms: @RELSTATPodcast Support on Patreon: Patreon.com/Relationshipstatus for bloopers, bonus content, and more Chapters (00:00:00) - "You sent that man some gas money"(00:00:53) - Relationship Status(00:01:27) - Becoming Back With Will(00:03:06) - Podcast Summit 2018(00:04:13) - worst thing I ever did for love(00:08:01) - Have You Encouraged Your Daughter to Get Out Of Relationships(00:11:02) - Married People: Self-Discovery(00:15:32) - "I Don't Give Permission" To My Love Interest ((00:18:43) - What If You Forget Where You Met Her?(00:19:53) - The Worst Thing She Did For Love Was...(00:22:15) - Pouring Into An Empty Cup For Love(00:23:10) - Monique Smith On Why She Stayed While Being Hurt(00:23:43) - Should I Tell My Ex-Girlfriend I'm Sending Money To(00:29:10) - He Sent His Ex-Girlfriend Money For Gas(00:33:03) - What Would I Do If I Had Seen Her Notifications On My(00:36:36) - Oh, My God, I'm a Petty Person(00:36:52) - How To Handle a Complaint From Your Partner(00:38:14) - Sharing My Love Letter To My Ex(00:41:15) - Her with Ashley Martin

    45 min
  7. May 14 ·  Video

    Women Who Go Celibate Were the BIGGEST Hoes?!” (Video)

    Hosts: Yusuf & Vanetta This week on Relationship Status Podcast, Yusuf & Vanetta dive headfirst into one of the internet’s hottest debates: “If a woman chooses celibacy until marriage, should a man be financially celate too?” From hilarious takes to brutally honest opinions, the conversation gets REAL about celibacy, dating expectations, sexual compatibility, modern relationships, double standards, marriage counseling, and why people sometimes choose appearances over truth. The duo also reacts to wild listener comments, debates abstinence vs. celibacy, talks relationship boundaries, and plays a spicy round of “either/or” questions that reveals a whole lot more than expected Topics include: Sex before marriage Financial expectations in dating Compatibility vs. commitment Toxic dating habits Loyalty, cheating & trust Passion vs. consistency Dating culture & social media lies As always, expect unfiltered opinions, laughter, chaos, and conversations that everybody’s thinking, but few are saying out loud. Tap in, subscribe, and join the conversation in the comments! ️ Send advice letters to: relstatpodcast@gmail.com Follow on all platforms: @RELSTATPodcast Support on Patreon: Patreon.com/Relationshipstatus for bloopers, bonus content, and more Chapters (00:00:00) - How To Stop Having Sex(00:00:40) - Eat My Biscuits(00:01:53) - Should a Woman Be Sexually Celibate Until Marriage?(00:03:14) - Yusuf On Single Moms Who Are Celibate(00:08:04) - Should You Give Up On Your Wife?(00:11:13) - "Is Compatibility Necessary For Marriage?"(00:13:11) - "I Can't Take This..." The Guy Who Was Intox(00:16:02) - "Don't Put Me In A Situation"(00:17:31) - Ask The Podcast Questions(00:17:50) - Fast and Slow(00:18:28) - Questions for Your Love Interest(00:19:30) - Favorite Sex Questions(00:21:52) - "Be The Side Piece or The Main Guy?"(00:22:44) - Posting A Cheater Or Hide The Least Loyal?(00:25:15) - Celibacy Until Marriage

    27 min
  8. May 11

    268th Date: Women Who Go Celibate Were the BIGGEST Hoes?!”

    Hosts: Yusuf & Vanetta This week on Relationship Status Podcast, Yusuf & Vanetta dive headfirst into one of the internet’s hottest debates: “If a woman chooses celibacy until marriage, should a man be financially celate too?” From hilarious takes to brutally honest opinions, the conversation gets REAL about celibacy, dating expectations, sexual compatibility, modern relationships, double standards, marriage counseling, and why people sometimes choose appearances over truth. The duo also reacts to wild listener comments, debates abstinence vs. celibacy, talks relationship boundaries, and plays a spicy round of “either/or” questions that reveals a whole lot more than expected Topics include: Sex before marriage Financial expectations in dating Compatibility vs. commitment Toxic dating habits Loyalty, cheating & trust Passion vs. consistency Dating culture & social media lies As always, expect unfiltered opinions, laughter, chaos, and conversations that everybody’s thinking, but few are saying out loud. Tap in, subscribe, and join the conversation in the comments! ️ Send advice letters to: relstatpodcast@gmail.com Follow on all platforms: @RELSTATPodcast Support on Patreon: Patreon.com/Relationshipstatus for bloopers, bonus content, and more Chapters (00:00:00) - How To Stop Having Sex(00:00:40) - Eat My Biscuits(00:01:53) - Celibate(00:03:14) - Celibacy Advice(00:06:02) - Were You Married Before Sex?(00:08:20) - How Many Cows Should a Woman Have In Her Marriage?(00:11:28) - "You Should Be Absorbent Until You Find Your Partner"(00:15:31) - "Don't Put Me In That Situation"(00:17:31) - Ask The Podcast Question of the Week(00:18:28) - Questions for Your Love Interest(00:19:30) - Questions People Have For Their Relationships(00:21:06) - "One Partner for Life"(00:22:31) - Posting A Cheater Or Hide The Least Loyal?(00:25:15) - Celibacy till Marriage

    27 min
4.8
out of 5
46 Ratings

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The Relationship Status Podcast hosted by CL, Fraronda, Vanetta & Yusuf, takes you on a random journey through the different issues that come up in relationships. Needless to say, the crew will give their honest take on things.

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