I Said What I Said

Mukundwa

I'm Mukundwa and if you've found "I Said What I Said" then you're a spiritual seeker who makes a hobby out of unpacking the human condition, querying why we're here, and decoding life's algorithm. On this podcast I go on a never ending adventure of soul searching and deepening my connection to source and self through easy conversations around spirituality, friendship, pop culture, romantic love, autism, sex and politics. Come frolic interdimensionally with me! Sign up to Patreon for full episodes Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  1. NOV 9

    158. Love is Blind S9: Ep12+Reunion - wealth gaps, naivety and outsourcing our intuition

    Loved this season! But I am always glad when it’s all over 😂 On this episode I discuss: Jordan and Megan: is a wealth gap really that insurmountable?Kalybriah and Edmond: infantilizing men and accountabilityMadison and Joe: outsourcing intuition, attachment issues and attracting people at your resonance levelPatrick and Kacie: Naïveté, Boundaries & Self-EsteemAli and Anton: class and hypergamyNick, Kait and Annie: Personas and performativity REFERENCES If you like hearing me discuss love check out my Love is Blind and Ultimatum episodes: “Love is Blind” Patreon Collection - https://www.patreon.com/collection/1687784 “The Ultimatum” Patreon Collection - https://www.patreon.com/collection/1273805  145. Autistics STAND TF UP!! We have incredible intuition and perceptual skills, it's time to act like it : https://www.patreon.com/posts/145-autistics-tf-135474733?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_link   Join Patreon starting at $1. I’ve capped my earnings: everything above this threshold is donated to Gazans. Here’s where I will be donating, and where you can donate directly: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1vtMLLOzuc6GpkFySyVtKQOY2j-Vvg0UsChMCFst_WLA/htmlview  https://docs.google.com/document/d/1S_EA9f7buyt680AWZIwP0-IFj1qbVFdzT0ZBtGeAVv4/edit?tab=t.0 : This link also has resources to support efforts in DRC, Sudan, Yemen, Haiti, Lebanon, Hawai'i GENERAL LINKS Thank you Patrons for your presence! It’s a real joy creating and engaging with you all Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/ISWIS  Got questions or comments? Send a VoiceNote! https://www.speakpipe.com/iswis Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@mukundwa.the.mystic  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iswis_podcast and https://www.instagram.com/mukundwa_  Please leave a review on Apple podcasts or a rating on Spotify (click the 3 dots > Rate Show) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    58 min

  2. OCT 31

    157. Should you take Responsibility for your own Suffering? Manifestation, Fate, Fortune and Suffering

    So you want to take responsibility for your reality! Great. How do you do this with care, though? In a way that acknowledges your capacity, takes charge of what you can control while accepting what you cannot… Let’s discussssss: Understanding Manifestation and Reality CreationThe Role of Belief Systems in Reality CreationThe Importance of Evidence and Critical ThinkingResponse Over ReactionDetermining Your Belief SystemThe Benefits of Taking ResponsibilityWhen to Be Responsible and When Not ToThe Role of Astrology and Spiritual PhilosophyTaking Responsibility for Relational DynamicsCreating distance to reduce self-criticismShould you take responsibility for external acts of trauma and suffering? My simple Formula Unnecessary SufferingAre you unlucky? Join Patreon starting at $1. I’ve capped my earnings: everything above this threshold is donated to Gazans. Here’s where I will be donating, and where you can donate directly: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1vtMLLOzuc6GpkFySyVtKQOY2j-Vvg0UsChMCFst_WLA/htmlview  https://docs.google.com/document/d/1S_EA9f7buyt680AWZIwP0-IFj1qbVFdzT0ZBtGeAVv4/edit?tab=t.0 : This link also has resources to support efforts in DRC, Sudan, Yemen, Haiti, Lebanon, Hawai'i GENERAL LINKS Thank you Patrons for your presence! It’s a real joy creating and engaging with you all Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/ISWIS  Got questions or comments? Send a VoiceNote! https://www.speakpipe.com/iswis Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@mukundwa.the.mystic  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iswis_podcast and https://www.instagram.com/mukundwa_  Please leave a review on Apple podcasts or a rating on Spotify (click the 3 dots > Rate Show) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    54 min

  3. OCT 23

    156. Love is Blind S9: Ep6-11: substance abuse, sexual coercion and breaking relational patterns (everyone’s getting slapped!!!)

    I’m tired!!!! I’m ordering a public flogging of all the men in the town square. Examining Love, Self-Reflection, and Attachment Styles in 'Love Is Blind' Season 9 Alcohol dependence and sexual coercion Intuition and Attachent stylesChildhood trauma and breaking relational patternsFilling voids with everything but self love RESOURCES Affirmations: https://www.patreon.com/posts/154-robotic-in-140900680?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_link  Louise Hay on affirmations: https://youtu.be/x0ZZ8xK6PE4?si=dT2Syn2xaARmf05B  Check out my Love is Blind and Ultimatum episodes: “Love is Blind” Patreon Collection - https://www.patreon.com/collection/1687784 “The Ultimatum” Patreon Collection - https://www.patreon.com/collection/1273805  Join Patreon starting at $1. Proceeds above a certain threshold from your new membership, upgraded membership and once off purchases will be donated to Gazans. Where I will be donating, and where you can donate directly: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1vtMLLOzuc6GpkFySyVtKQOY2j-Vvg0UsChMCFst_WLA/htmlview  https://docs.google.com/document/d/1S_EA9f7buyt680AWZIwP0-IFj1qbVFdzT0ZBtGeAVv4/edit?tab=t.0 : This link also has resources to support efforts in DRC, Sudan, Yemen, Haiti, Lebanon, Hawai'i GENERAL LINKS Thank you Patrons for your presence! It’s a real joy creating and engaging with you all Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/ISWIS  Got questions or comments? Send a VoiceNote! https://www.speakpipe.com/iswis Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@mukundwa.the.mystic  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iswis_podcast and https://www.instagram.com/mukundwa_  Please leave a review on Apple podcasts or a rating on Spotify (click the 3 dots > Rate Show) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    55 min

  4. OCT 17

    155. Love is Blind S9: Ep1-5: racism, biohacking and arrested development

    This season has me HOWLING! My review covers Ep1-5 and 10mins of Ep6 - basically only the pods stuff, nothing beyond. I use the couples as a mirror to discuss larger societal themes around: internalized racismracial preferencesshame and romantic desperation trusting ones intuitionHeteroflexibility and hiding behind faithEmotional repression If you like hearing me discuss love check out my Love is Blind and Ultimatum episodes: “Love is Blind” Patreon Collection - https://www.patreon.com/collection/1687784 “The Ultimatum” Patreon Collection - https://www.patreon.com/collection/1273805   Love Is Blind content creators I love: Dr Cheri Types, Jessie Woo (both on YouTube) Intuition episode: https://www.patreon.com/posts/140-listener-how-132018209?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_link  Self Esteem episodes: https://www.patreon.com/posts/97-process-of-107234216?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_linkhttps://www.patreon.com/posts/133-lying-is-of-127526214?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_link Join Patreon starting at $1. Proceeds above a certain threshold from your new membership, upgraded membership and once off purchases will be donated to Gazans. Where I will be donating, and where you can donate directly: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1vtMLLOzuc6GpkFySyVtKQOY2j-Vvg0UsChMCFst_WLA/htmlview  https://docs.google.com/document/d/1S_EA9f7buyt680AWZIwP0-IFj1qbVFdzT0ZBtGeAVv4/edit?tab=t.0 : This link also has resources to support efforts in DRC, Sudan, Yemen, Haiti, Lebanon, Hawai'i GENERAL LINKS Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/ISWIS  Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@mukundwa.the.mystic  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iswis_podcast and https://www.instagram.com/mukundwa_  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    1h 11m

  5. OCT 2

    153. 'Materialists' movie review: love as the last uncolonized frontier 

    Watched it twice! LOVED all the themes, and I LOVE discussing love, so of course I had a blast recording this episode. I discussed: love as industrycapitalism and lovehypergamy and lover girlsthe utility of lovemanifestation, objectification and datingobjectifying love via dating appsoutsourcing community and connection If you like hearing me discuss love check out my Love is Blind and Ultimatum episodes: “Love is Blind” Patreon Collection - https://www.patreon.com/collection/1687784 “The Ultimatum” Patreon Collection - https://www.patreon.com/collection/1273805  REFERENCES Realization By Pea post: https://www.instagram.com/p/DPRU39fEXWi/?igsh=MTh1dGpjbThpcWhncw== Celine Song interview clip: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DNJF54WMs3N/?igsh=MXdsc3J1anltOGQ4bQ== The Slumflower on hypergamy: https://youtu.be/DesVgQwPD1s?si=6Bf2bvkjOFuZx6tH Join Patreon starting at $1. Proceeds above a certain threshold from your new membership, upgraded membership and once off purchases will be donated to Gazans. Where I will be donating, and where you can donate directly: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1vtMLLOzuc6GpkFySyVtKQOY2j-Vvg0UsChMCFst_WLA/htmlview  https://docs.google.com/document/d/1S_EA9f7buyt680AWZIwP0-IFj1qbVFdzT0ZBtGeAVv4/edit?tab=t.0 : This link also has resources to support efforts in DRC, Sudan, Yemen, Haiti, Lebanon, Hawai'i GENERAL LINKS Thank you Patrons for your presence! It’s a real joy creating and engaging with you all Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/ISWIS  Got questions or comments? Send a VoiceNote! https://www.speakpipe.com/iswis Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@mukundwa.the.mystic  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iswis_podcast and https://www.instagram.com/mukundwa_  Please leave a review on Apple podcasts or a rating on Spotify (click the 3 dots > Rate Show) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    43 min

  6. SEP 12

    150. Love is Blind UK S2 - Ep10 & 11: self sabotage and the promise of happily ever after

    That’s a wrap! I loved this season. This is a review of Episodes 10 & 11 (reunion). Themes discussed Reality TV and mental healthSarova and Kal: dating down intellectually, ignoring signs, reading aurasBardha and Jed: shocked they aren’t together! owning your triggers and doing shadow workMeghan and Kieran: why lie about Javen and then double down? Suspicioussss otherwise, love these two for each otherJaven and Katisha: gaslighting, nitpicking and low self worthObservations on how men and women’s communication styles differ REFERENCES Dr Cherie Types, Jed + Bardha - https://youtu.be/IwxOPkuesGY?si=33IOzxSGZl-aEcKO photo analysis woman -https://www.instagram.com/reel/DM_8O4aRcOw/?igsh=MmM5bmJyeWIzOGpm “Love is Blind” Patreon Collection - https://www.patreon.com/collection/1687784 “The Ultimatum” Patreon Collection - https://www.patreon.com/collection/1273805  Join Patreon starting at $1. Proceeds above a certain threshold from your new membership, upgraded membership and once off purchases will be donated to Gazans. Where I will be donating, and where you can donate directly: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1vtMLLOzuc6GpkFySyVtKQOY2j-Vvg0UsChMCFst_WLA/htmlview  https://docs.google.com/document/d/1S_EA9f7buyt680AWZIwP0-IFj1qbVFdzT0ZBtGeAVv4/edit?tab=t.0 : This link also has resources to support efforts in DRC, Sudan, Yemen, Haiti, Lebanon, Hawai'i GENERAL LINKS Thank you Patrons for your presence! It’s a real joy creating and engaging with you all Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/ISWIS  Got questions or comments? Send a VoiceNote! https://www.speakpipe.com/iswis Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@mukundwa.the.mystic  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iswis_podcast and https://www.instagram.com/mukundwa_  Please leave a review on Apple podcasts or a rating on Spotify (click the 3 dots > Rate Show) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    34 min

  7. SEP 4

    149. Love is Blind UK S2 - Ep5-9: bro code, provider men and low self-esteem women

    This is a review of Episodes 5-9 up until and not including the weddings. There are no spoilers about the weddings and beyond. Themes discussed the bro code and men’s allegiance to other men (Kieran and Javen)emotional availability (Javen)(not) being an intellectual match (Kal and Sarover)when your partner doesn’t have your back, being ‘alone’ together (Kieran)provider vs. non provider men (Jed vs. Billy)honesty without tact (Kal)self worth and the lack of it (Sarover and Katisha)gaslighting, semantics and the difference in how men and women communicate (Javen and photoboot-gate) REFERENCES Manifesting dream partner (list exercise) - https://youtu.be/-arRiZGavR8?si=v8e5INsFQHk-kATX  Join Patreon starting at $1. Proceeds above a certain threshold from your new membership, upgraded membership and once off purchases will be donated to Gazans. Where I will be donating, and where you can donate directly: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1vtMLLOzuc6GpkFySyVtKQOY2j-Vvg0UsChMCFst_WLA/htmlview  https://docs.google.com/document/d/1S_EA9f7buyt680AWZIwP0-IFj1qbVFdzT0ZBtGeAVv4/edit?tab=t.0 : This link also has resources to support efforts in DRC, Sudan, Yemen, Haiti, Lebanon, Hawai'i GENERAL LINKS Thank you Patrons for your presence! It’s a real joy creating and engaging with you all Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/ISWIS  Got questions or comments? Send a VoiceNote! https://www.speakpipe.com/iswis Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@mukundwa.the.mystic  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iswis_podcast and https://www.instagram.com/mukundwa_  Please leave a review on Apple podcasts or a rating on Spotify (click the 3 dots > Rate Show) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    27 min

  8. AUG 27

    148. Love is Blind UK S2 - Ep1-4: spiritual bypassing, gender roles, attachment styles.

    Javen and Patrick, prepare for your SLAPS 👏🏾!!! This is a review of Episodes 1-4 covering the pod only, nothing beyond that. I unpack behaviours, discuss motivations and attachment styles, and consider gender roles and race: Couples analysis - who’s (not) a good fit and whyJaven and gender rolesPatrick and Spiritual bypassing Katisha and low self esteemSophie and attachment stylesbeauty, race and gender REFERENCES Bashar on timeline jumping - https://youtu.be/S0ubD4QoUKw?si=J8LAOciA5lTTKHFL attachment style - https://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl  Join Patreon starting at $1. Proceeds above a certain threshold from your new membership, upgraded membership and once off purchases will be donated to Gazans. Where I will be donating, and where you can donate directly: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1vtMLLOzuc6GpkFySyVtKQOY2j-Vvg0UsChMCFst_WLA/htmlview  https://docs.google.com/document/d/1S_EA9f7buyt680AWZIwP0-IFj1qbVFdzT0ZBtGeAVv4/edit?tab=t.0 : This link also has resources to support efforts in DRC, Sudan, Yemen, Haiti, Lebanon, Hawai'i GENERAL LINKS Thank you Patrons for your presence! It’s a real joy creating and engaging with you all Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/ISWIS  Got questions or comments? Send a VoiceNote! https://www.speakpipe.com/iswis Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@mukundwa.the.mystic  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iswis_podcast and https://www.instagram.com/mukundwa_  Please leave a review on Apple podcasts or a rating on Spotify (click the 3 dots > Rate Show) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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I'm Mukundwa and if you've found "I Said What I Said" then you're a spiritual seeker who makes a hobby out of unpacking the human condition, querying why we're here, and decoding life's algorithm. On this podcast I go on a never ending adventure of soul searching and deepening my connection to source and self through easy conversations around spirituality, friendship, pop culture, romantic love, autism, sex and politics. Come frolic interdimensionally with me! Sign up to Patreon for full episodes Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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  • Creator
    Mukundwa
  • Years Active
    2019 - 2025
  • Episodes
    134
  • Rating
    Explicit
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