Intentional Living with Tanya Hale

Tanya Hale: Certified Life Coach
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Join certified LDS mid-life relationship coach Tanya Hale on a journey of discovering how to navigate middle-age with more meaning, acceptance, contentment, and happiness.

  1. 3d ago

    #420 Greatest Hits – Boundaries Pt. 2

    Brene Brown teaches that the most compassionate people have the strongest boundaries. This is because when we have clear and strong boundaries, we protect the relationship from resentment and anger and clear the way for compassion. Only when we are honest about what is okay and not okay with us can we create the partnerships that we seek in our most intimate relationship. Thanks for listening!  Want to learn more about this concept?  Check out these podcasts: #7 Boundaries Part 1 on Apple on Spotify #9 Boundaries Part 3 on Apple on Spotify #47 Thoughts, Consequences, & Boundaries on Apple on Spotify #174 Better Boundaries on Apple on Spotify #314 When Setting Boundaries Is Hard on Apple on Spotify #378 What Can Happen When We Don't Set Boundaries on Apple on Spotify #381 Psychological Boundaries on Apple on Spotify Are you curious about what it would be like to work with me? Here are three options: Group coaching classes are available at tanyahale.com/groupcoaching Talk with Tanya is a free monthly webinar where you can ask me anything and we can have a great discussion.  You can sign up for that at tanyahale.com/groupcoaching Interested in one-on-one coaching and a free 90-minute coaching/consult with me?  Access my calendar at: https://tanyahalecalendar.as.me/

    #420 Greatest Hits – Boundaries Pt. 2

  2. Jul 13

    #419 Greatest Hits – Boundaries Pt. 1

    Boundaries are imperative if you are to have strong and healthy relationships. And I know that seems counter-intuitive, but when we don't have good boundaries, we end up swimming in resentment and anger, and that makes it really tough to show up the way we want to, which is generally loving and kind. In this episode we talk about boundary basics, what they are and why they're so important. Thanks for listening!  Want to learn more about this concept?  Check out these podcasts: #8 Boundaries Part 2 on Apple on Spotify #9 Boundaries Part 3 on Apple on Spotify #47 Thoughts, Consequences, & Boundaries on Apple on Spotify #174 Better Boundaries on Apple on Spotify #314 When Setting Boundaries Is Hard on Apple on Spotify #378 What Can Happen When We Don't Set Boundaries on Apple on Spotify #381 Psychological Boundaries on Apple on Spotify Are you curious about what it would be like to work with me? Here are three options: Group coaching classes are available at tanyahale.com/groupcoaching Talk with Tanya is a free monthly webinar where you can ask me anything and we can have a great discussion.  You can sign up for that at tanyahale.com/groupcoaching Interested in one-on-one coaching and a free 90-minute coaching/consult with me?  Access my calendar at: https://tanyahalecalendar.as.me/

    #419 Greatest Hits – Boundaries Pt. 1

  3. Jul 6

    #418 Loving What Is

    Many of us are in the habit of resisting things we can't change, and it creates a lot of unhappiness and havoc in our lives. Byron Katie wrote a book entitled, 'Loving What is', and it presents the concept that when we stop resisting reality, we will find so much more peace in our lives. When we learn to focus on our response and choose to behave in ways that are in alignment with our values, we find much more satisfaction, contentment, happiness, and peace. Learning to love what is, rather than resisting and fighting against it, creates a solid space for growth. Thanks for listening!  Want to learn more about this concept?  Check out these podcasts: #2 Control Issues on Apple on Spotify #19 Storytelling on Apple on Spotify #48 Love Is All You Need on Apple on Spotify #75 Emotional Adulthood on Apple on Spotify #91 Personal Responsibility on Apple on Spotify #92 Clean Love on Apple on Spotify #96 Understanding the Thought Model on Apple on Spotify #97 Why the Thought Model Matters on Apple on Spotify #118 100% Responsibility  on Apple  on Spotify #148 Grace & Grudges in Our Relationships on Apple on Spotify #152 Victim or Hero? on Apple on Spotify #165 I Would Never Act That Way on Apple on Spotify #166 Imaginary Friends on Apple on Spotify #167 I Didn't Sign Up For This on Apple on Spotify #173 A Space For Grace on Apple on Spotify #204 Being a Peacemaker on Apple on Spotify #257 Other People's Agency on Apple on Spotify #268 Drama Response on Apple on Spotify #269 Fine - The 4-Letter F-Word on Apple on Spotify #298 Friendship in Marriage on Apple on Spotify #299 Love Is Not a Reward on Apple on Spotify #304 Personalities, Preferences, and Perspectives on Apple on Spotify Are you curious about what it would be like to work with me? Here are three options: Group coaching classes are available at tanyahale.com/groupcoaching Talk with Tanya is a free monthly webinar where you can ask me anything and we can have a great discussion.  You can sign up for that at tanyahale.com/groupcoaching Interested in one-on-one coaching and a free 90-minute coaching/consult with me?  Access my calendar at: https://tanyahalecalendar.as.me/

    #418 Loving What Is

  4. Jun 29

    #417 What Leaning In Looks Like

    Learning to 'lean into' our relationships can be a challenge because even in good relationships our primitive brain can feel scared and threatened by the vulnerability required. But when we do choose to lean in, we find greater connection and intimacy and partnership. Here are 15 ways that you can lean in with more intention. Thanks for listening!  Want to learn more about this concept?  Check out these podcasts: #7 Boundaries Part 1 on Apple on Spotify #8 Boundaries Part 2 on Apple on Spotify #9 Boundaries Part 3 on Apple on Spotify #60 Mental and Emotional Abusive Behaviors on Apple on Spotify #61 Charity is the Antidote on Apple on Spotify #92 Clean Love on Apple on Spotify #118 100% Responsibility  on Apple  on Spotify #130 Exploring Our Darkness on Apple on Spotify #161 Developing More Intimacy in Your Relationships on Apple on Spotify #174 Better Boundaries on Apple on Spotify #193 No Back-Burner Issues on Apple on Spotify #203 Cleaning Up Your Apology on Apple on Spotify #204 Being a Peacemaker on Apple on Spotify #216 One Up and One Down Relationships on Apple on Spotify #239 How to Own Your Own on Apple on Spotify #242 Circling Back Around on Apple on Spotify #243 Having More Honest Communication on Apple on Spotify #269 Fine - The 4-Letter F-Word on Apple on Spotify #271 Equal Partnerships on Apple on Spotify #272 Stay In Your Lane on Apple on Spotify #283 How To Be a Better Partner on Apple on Spotify #319 Get Ready to Rock The Boat on Apple on Spotify #357 How to Be More Understanding on Apple on Spotify #359 10 Ways to Be a Safer Spouse on Apple on Spotify #384 Relational Living on Apple on Spotify #389 The Partnership of Marriage on Apple on Spotify   Are you curious about what it would be like to work with me? Here are three options: Group coaching classes are available at tanyahale.com/groupcoaching Talk with Tanya is a free monthly webinar where you can ask me anything and we can have a great discussion.  You can sign up for that at tanyahale.com/groupcoaching Interested in one-on-one coaching and a free 90-minute coaching/consult with me?  Access my calendar at: https://tanyahalecalendar.as.me/

    #417 What Leaning In Looks Like

  5. Jun 22

    #416 Leaning In

    Leaning into relationships is the process of choosing the relationship over everything else, including our fears and insecurities. It can feel super scary because it requires vulnerability and openness, and this can mean that we may need to courage up and step into discomfort. Because when things in a relationship get tough, it can be super easy to lean out to protect our point of view, our struggling sense of self, and our ego. But leaning out increases the distance and drives disconnect. If we want meaningful, connected, and intimate relationships, we have to have the courage to lean in. Thanks for listening!  Want to learn more about this concept?  Check out these podcasts: #92 Clean Love on Apple on Spotify  #110 The Cost of Being Right on Apple on Spotify #130 Exploring Our Darkness on Apple on Spotify #148 Grace & Grudges in Our Relationships on Apple on Spotify #156 The Benefits of Being Wrong on Apple on Spotify #161 Developing More Intimacy in Your Relationships on Apple on Spotify #164 How Being in Control is Destroying Your Life on Apple on Spotify #165 I Would Never Act That Way on Apple on Spotify #190 Protective Walls on Apple on Spotify #218 Honest Relationships on Apple on Spotify #223 It Really Is All About You on Apple on Spotify #243 Having More Honest Communication on Apple on Spotify #257 Other People's Agency on Apple on Spotify #258 Communication That Connects on Apple on Spotify #290 Resentment and Contempt in Our Relationships on Apple on Spotify #295 Safety in the Relationship Circle on Apple on Spotify #296 Creating More Safety in Your Relationship on Apple on Spotify #298 Friendship in Marriage on Apple on Spotify #304 Personalities, Preferences, and Perspectives on Apple on Spotify #326 Stop Being Right, Start Being Safe on Apple on Spotify #331 Sense of Self on Apple on Spotify #332 Sense of Self – It's All In Your Head on Apple on Spotify #341 Choosing to Be All In on Apple on Spotify Are you curious about what it would be like to work with me? Here are three options: Group coaching classes are available at tanyahale.com/groupcoaching Talk with Tanya is a free monthly webinar where you can ask me anything and we can have a great discussion.  You can sign up for that at tanyahale.com/groupcoaching Interested in one-on-one coaching and a free 90-minute coaching/consult with me?  Access my calendar at: https://tanyahalecalendar.as.me/

    #416 Leaning In

  6. Jun 15

    #415 Curiosity is the Cure for What Ails You

    Moving into comparison and judgment is such a normal, human thing to do. And we can learn to harness these tendencies to create more of the kind, loving, compassionate relationships we want. Learning to lean into curiosity is a powerful tool to help us stop one-upping and one-downing in our relationships and learn instead to accept and appreciate others as our equals, creating more genuine, deep, and emotionally intimate connections. Thanks for listening!  Want to learn more about this concept?  Check out these podcasts: #55 Don't Should Yourself on Apple on Spotify #71 Contribution on Apple on Spotify #96 Understanding the Thought Model on Apple on Spotify #97 Why the Thought Model Matters on Apple on Spotify #103 The Case For Curiosity on Apple on Spotify #110 The Cost of Being Right on Apple on Spotify #127 Our Worth & Our Works on Apple on Spotify #151 Connection on Apple on Spotify #173 A Space For Grace on Apple on Spotify #216 One Up and One Down Relationships on Apple on Spotify #224 Compassion and Curiosity on Apple on Spotify #303 The Thought Model Reteach on Apple on Spotify #307 Curiosity, Not Criticism on Apple on Spotify #327 Learning to Love Your Human Self on Apple on Spotify #348 Entitled Expectation on Apple on Spotify #401: Judgement and Grace on Apple on Spotify Are you curious about what it would be like to work with me? Here are three options: Group coaching classes are available at tanyahale.com/groupcoaching Talk with Tanya is a free monthly webinar where you can ask me anything and we can have a great discussion.  You can sign up for that at tanyahale.com/groupcoaching Interested in one-on-one coaching and a free 90-minute coaching/consult with me?  Access my calendar at: https://tanyahalecalendar.as.me/

    #415 Curiosity is the Cure for What Ails You

  7. Jun 8

    #414 Emotional Histories

    We all have rich emotional histories spanning our entire lifetime. And every single day these histories are shaping how we show up in the world, how we respond to other people, and how we interpret things that are said and done. When we can start to reveal the thoughts and ideas that are buried beneath our consciousness, we can address how they are impacting our lives today. Join Cathi Antczak, LCSW, and myself as we share our own personal experiences in discovering our own emotional histories. Thanks for listening!  Want to learn more about this concept?  Check out these podcasts: #211 Why We Do This Work on Apple on Spotify #223 It Really Is All About You on Apple on Spotify #232 Feeling Empowered on Apple on Spotify #274 When We Behave Badly on Apple on Spotify #297 Why Can't We Just All Get Along on Apple on Spotify Are you curious about what it would be like to work with me? Here are three options: Group coaching classes are available at tanyahale.com/groupcoaching Talk with Tanya is a free monthly webinar where you can ask me anything and we can have a great discussion.  You can sign up for that at tanyahale.com/groupcoaching Interested in one-on-one coaching and a free 90-minute coaching/consult with me?  Access my calendar at: https://tanyahalecalendar.as.me/

    #414 Emotional Histories

  8. May 25

    #413 Best Mid-Life Coach Advice – Brooke, Jane, and Tanya

    Do you ever wonder what the best advice is from mid-life coaches? In this podcast I am chatting with two of my great life coach friends, Brooke Onike and Jane Copier, and we are sharing some of the most impactful tools and concepts that we coach our clients on. I think you'll love this one. Thanks for listening!  Want to learn more about this concept?  Check out these podcasts: #88 Marriage Mending with Jane Copier on Apple on Spotify #96 Understanding the Thought Model on Apple on Spotify #97 Why the Thought Model Matters on Apple on Spotify #99 Parenting Adult Children on Apple on Spotify #103 The Case For Curiosity on Apple on Spotify #122 Your Story About You on Apple on Spotify #123 Your Thoughts About You on Apple on Spotify #141 Coaching & Counseling - What's the Difference? on Apple on Spotify #200 My Most Life-Changing Life Coach Lessons on Apple on Spotify #272 Stay In Your Lane on Apple on Spotify #363 Breaking Your Over- and Under-functioning Cycles with Jane Copier on Apple on Spotify #367 Loving Your Adult Children Better with Brooke Oniki on Apple on Spotify You can find Brooke at https://brookeoniki.com/ Brooke's podcast is called Midlife with Brooke You can find Jane at https://www.jane-copier.com/ Jane's podcast is called Happy in the Middle Are you curious about what it would be like to work with me? Here are three options: Group coaching classes are available at tanyahale.com/groupcoaching Talk with Tanya is a free monthly webinar where you can ask me anything and we can have a great discussion.  You can sign up for that at tanyahale.com/groupcoaching Interested in one-on-one coaching and a free 90-minute coaching/consult with me?  Access my calendar at: https://tanyahalecalendar.as.me/

    #413 Best Mid-Life Coach Advice – Brooke, Jane, and Tanya
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