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One of the most essential ingredients to success in business and life is effective communication. Join Matt Abrahams, best-selling author and Strategic Communication lecturer at Stanford Graduate School of Business, as he interviews experts to provide actionable insights that help you communicate with clarity, confidence, and impact. From handling impromptu questions to crafting compelling messages, Matt explores practical strategies for real-world communication challenges. Whether you’re navigating a high-stakes presentation, perfecting your email tone, or speaking off the cuff, Think Fast, Talk Smart equips you with the tools, techniques, and best practices to express yourself effectively in any situation. Enhance your communication skills to elevate your career and build stronger professional relationships. Tune in every Monday and Thursday for new episodes. Subscribe now to unlock your potential as a thoughtful, impactful communicator. Learn more and sign up for our Newsletter at fastersmarter.io.

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  1. 1d ago

    335. Power Play: Successfully Navigate Power, Status, and Influence at Work

    “As you're navigating your workplace hierarchy, you're also simultaneously shaping it.” Power shapes the way we work, communicate, and connect with others. But when workplace hierarchies become overly competitive, unfair, or unstable, they can undermine the very teams they're meant to support. According to Stanford professor Nir Halevy, the solution isn't necessarily to eliminate hierarchies, but to rethink how they work. In this episode of Think Fast, Talk Smart, Halevy joins Matt Abrahams to share insights from his new book, Level Up: Why Hierarchies Are Broken and How to Fix Them. He explains how everyday acts of communication can help repair unhealthy workplace dynamics, why recognizing different contributions creates stronger teams, and how humor, empathy, and a better understanding of your audience can help you lead and influence others more effectively. Takeaways: Healthy hierarchies reward more than individual success. Recognizing different contributions, encouraging collaboration, and valuing kindness alongside achievement can create stronger, more supportive teams.Everyday communication can reshape workplace dynamics. Small acts of gratitude, empathy, and recognition help build trust, strengthen relationships, and create a more positive organizational culture. Activity: Give credit where it's due. At your next team meeting, publicly recognize someone whose contributions often go unnoticed. Highlight something specific they did and why it mattered, helping reinforce a culture where different strengths and efforts are valued.Printable Expanded Takeaways & Activities Episode Reference Links: Nir HalevyNir’s Book: Level UpEp.30 Dissolve Disagreements: How Communication Impacts Conflict  Connect: Premium Signup >>>> Think Fast Talk Smart PremiumEmail Questions & Feedback >>> hello@fastersmarter.ioEpisode Transcripts >>> Think Fast Talk Smart WebsiteNewsletter Signup + English Language Learning >>> FasterSmarter.ioThink Fast Talk Smart >>> LinkedIn, Instagram, YouTubeMatt Abrahams >>> LinkedIn Chapters: (00:00) - Introduction (00:53) - Understanding Hierarchies (03:14) - Signs of Broken Hierarchies (05:14) - Fixing Unhealthy Hierarchies (06:27) - Building Healthy Hierarchies (09:36) - Competition and Collaboration (11:00) - Communication and Hierarchies (13:34) - Construal Fit (17:07) - Humor and Competence (19:18) - The Final Three Questions (23:56) - Conclusion ********Thank you to our sponsors.  These partnerships support the ongoing production of the podcast, allowing us to bring it to you at no cost.  Learn more about how Notion can support your business at notion.com/thinkfast. Join our Think Fast Talk Smart Learning Community and become the communicator you want to be.

    335. Power Play: Successfully Navigate Power, Status, and Influence at Work

  2. 5d ago

    334. Quick Thinks: How to Make the Most Out of Meetings

    “Meetings are often used as band-aids, as ways of covering up for other larger communication challenges.” Few things feel better than seeing a meeting canceled. But what if meetings were something we actually looked forward to? A productive meeting doesn't happen by accident. It starts with knowing whether you need one at all, continues with a clear purpose and thoughtful structure, and ends with everyone knowing what comes next. In this Quick Thinks episode of Think Fast, Talk Smart, Matt Abrahams breaks down what makes meetings work. He shares strategies for creating smarter agendas, making space for every voice, and turning discussions into decisions and action, so your next meeting is worth the time on everyone's calendar. Takeaways: The best meetings start before anyone enters the room. Question whether a meeting is necessary, establish clear goals, and create a focused agenda that respects everyone's time and sets expectations for success.Effective meetings turn discussion into action. Encourage participation, manage time thoughtfully, and close with clear decisions and next steps. Following up afterward ensures conversations lead to meaningful results.Activity: Rethink your agenda. Take an upcoming meeting agenda and rearrange the topics by difficulty: medium first, most challenging second, and easiest last. Give each item a clear outcome, whether it's a decision, discussion, or update, to help keep the meeting focused and productive.Episode Reference Links: Ep.261 Meetings With a Point: How to Design For Better Decisions  Connect: Premium Signup >>>> Think Fast Talk Smart PremiumEmail Questions & Feedback >>> hello@fastersmarter.ioEpisode Transcripts >>> Think Fast Talk Smart WebsiteNewsletter Signup + English Language Learning >>> FasterSmarter.ioThink Fast Talk Smart >>> LinkedIn, Instagram, YouTubeMatt Abrahams >>> LinkedIn Chapters: (00:00) - Introduction (00:43) - Is a Meeting Necessary (01:55) - Set Goals & Create an Agenda (03:56) - Choose the Right Attendees (04:35) - Make the Most of Calendar Invites (05:08) - Optimize Meeting Length & Time (06:56) - Start Meetings Effectively (07:40) - Facilitate Participation (08:21) - Managing Hybrid Meetings (09:23) - End Meetings with Purpose (10:05) - Following Up After Meetings (11:04) - Conclusion ********Thank you to our sponsors.  These partnerships support the ongoing production of the podcast, allowing us to bring it to you at no cost.  Learn more about how Notion can support your business at notion.com/thinkfast. Join our Think Fast Talk Smart Learning Community and become the communicator you want to be.

    334. Quick Thinks: How to Make the Most Out of Meetings

  3. Oct 19 ·  Video

    333. Find the Vibe: Build Stronger Connections Through Communication Part 1

    “Be as curious about the other person as you are excited to share about yourself.”What makes you click with someone? For organizational psychologist and bestselling author Adam Grant, meaningful connection isn't just about chemistry. It's about understanding how we relate to others, showing genuine curiosity, and creating interactions that bring us closer. In part one of this two-part Think Fast, Talk Smart episode, Grant joins Matt Abrahams to discuss the science of connection and share lessons from his new book, Vibe: The Secrets of Strong Connections in a Lonely World. From building confidence through practice and seeking advice instead of feedback to finding common ground and creating more dynamic conversations, Grant shares practical ways to strengthen relationships and make our interactions more meaningful. Takeaways: Strong connections are built with intention. Understanding whether you're seeking shared goals, interests, or values helps you approach relationships more thoughtfully and build stronger connections.Better conversations require curiosity and give-and-take. Showing genuine interest, keeping exchanges dynamic, and remembering personal details can turn everyday interactions into more meaningful, lasting relationships.Activity: Make a memory flex. After your next meaningful conversation, note one detail the other person shared. A few days later, follow up with a thoughtful message, recommendation, or question that shows you remembered and helps strengthen the connection.Printable Expanded Takeaways & Activities Episode Reference Links: Adam GrantAdam’s Book: VibeEp.80 Magic Words: Change What You Say to Inspire and Influence Others  Connect: Premium Signup >>>> Think Fast Talk Smart PremiumEmail Questions & Feedback >>> hello@fastersmarter.ioEpisode Transcripts >>> Think Fast Talk Smart WebsiteNewsletter Signup + English Language Learning >>> FasterSmarter.ioThink Fast Talk Smart >>> LinkedIn, Instagram, YouTubeMatt Abrahams >>> LinkedIn Chapters: (00:00) - Introduction (01:03) - Overcoming Speaking Anxiety (04:03) - Building Confidence (05:28) - Expanding Your Comfort Zone (08:17) - Learning Through Advice (13:45) - Balancing Competence and Connection (15:21) - The Science of Vibing (16:53) - Building Connection Virtually (18:52) - Three Types of Connection (20:17) - Turn Connection Into Collaboration (23:38) - The Final Three Questions (30:34) - Conclusion

    333. Find the Vibe: Build Stronger Connections Through Communication Part 1

  4. Oct 19 • Subscribers Only

    333. Find the Vibe: Build Stronger Connections Through Communication Part 1 (Ad Free)

    “Be as curious about the other person as you are excited to share about yourself.” What makes you click with someone? For organizational psychologist and bestselling author Adam Grant: https://www.fastersmarter.io/guests/adam-grant/, meaningful connection isn't just about chemistry. It's about understanding how we relate to others, showing genuine curiosity, and creating interactions that bring us closer. In part one of this two part Think Fast, Talk Smart: https://www.fastersmarter.io/ episode, Grant joins Matt Abrahams to discuss the science of connection and share lessons from his new book, Vibe: The Secrets of Strong Connections in a Lonely World: https://bookplease.ai/grant/vibe-the-secrets-of-strong-connections-in-a-lonely-world?podcast=think-fast-talk-smart. From building confidence through practice and seeking advice instead of feedback to finding common ground and creating more dynamic conversations, Grant shares practical ways to strengthen relationships and make our interactions more meaningful. Takeaways: * Strong connections are built with intention. Understanding whether you're seeking shared goals, interests, or values helps you approach relationships more thoughtfully and build stronger connections. * Better conversations require curiosity and give-and-take. Showing genuine interest, keeping exchanges dynamic, and remembering personal details can turn everyday interactions into more meaningful, lasting relationships. Activity: * Make a memory flex. After your next meaningful conversation, note one detail the other person shared. A few days later, follow up with a thoughtful message, recommendation, or question that shows you remembered and helps strengthen the connection. Printable Expanded Takeaways & Activities: https://ae82bqismksvlodf.public.blob.vercel-storage.com/TFTS%20Adam%20Grant%20pt1-r4xVKJujj2uDEuwlHZJG2hqaa5E4Oc.pdf Episode Reference Links: * Adam Grant: https://www.fastersmarter.io/guests/adam-grant/ * Adam’s Book: Vibe: https://bookplease.ai/grant/vibe-the-secrets-of-strong-connections-in-a-lonely-world?podcast=think-fast-talk-smart * Ep.80 Magic Words: Change What You Say to Inspire and Influence Others: https://www.fastersmarter.io/80-magic-words-change-what-you-say-to-inspire-and-influence-others/ Connect: * Premium Signup >>>> Think Fast Talk Smart Premium: https://www.fastersmarter.io/premium/ * Email Questions & Feedback >>> hello@fastersmarter.io * Episode Transcripts >>>Think Fast Talk Smart Website: https://www.fastersmarter.io/333-find-the-vibe-build-stronger-connections-through-communication-part-1/ * Newsletter Signup + English Language Learning >>>http://fastersmarter.io/ * Think Fast Talk Smart >>>LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/think-fast-talk-smart/,Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thinkfasttalksmart/, YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL6caGRBUYZCmgDGM2RK6mxKB9jG_ccmm3 * Matt Abrahams >>>LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/maabrahams/ : https://learning.fastersmarter.io/?redirect_from=podpageChapters:

    333. Find the Vibe: Build Stronger Connections Through Communication Part 1 (Ad Free)

  5. Oct 15

    332. Rethinks: Learn Faster and Fail Smarter

    “You learn nothing when you’re right.”  Effective communication isn’t about having all the answers. As Astro Teller knows, it’s about finding, and sometimes fumbling, your way through the questions. As Captain of Moonshots at X, Alphabet’s Moonshot Factory, Teller embraces what he calls “a learning journey,” where being wrong isn’t the end, but an opportunity to discover something new. In this episode of Think Fast, Talk Smart, Teller and Matt Abrahams discuss how embracing uncertainty drives innovation, why leaders should reward learning over outcomes, and why sometimes being wrong is the best way to learn. Takeaways: Being wrong is where learning happens. Treating failure as useful information rather than something to avoid helps you stay curious, test assumptions, and discover better paths forward. Reward the habits that lead to innovation, not just the outcomes. Focusing on curiosity, humility, and experimentation creates space for people to take meaningful risks and pursue ideas that may not work the first time. Activity: Find the failure faster. Choose one idea or project you’re confident about and identify the assumption most likely to prove you wrong. Design one small test that could challenge that assumption, then treat whatever you learn as progress.Episode Reference Links: Astro TellerAstro’s Book: Sacred CowsEp.237 Mistake It Till You Make It: Learn Faster and Fail SmarterEp.70 Ideas Fuel Innovation: Why Your First Ideas Aren't Always the BestEp.20 Question Your Questions: How to Spark Creativity in Your Communication   Connect: Premium Signup >>>> Think Fast Talk Smart PremiumEmail Questions & Feedback >>> hello@fastersmarter.ioEpisode Transcripts >>> Think Fast Talk Smart WebsiteNewsletter Signup + English Language Learning >>> FasterSmarter.ioThink Fast Talk Smart >>> LinkedIn, Instagram, YouTubeMatt Abrahams >>> LinkedIn Chapters: (00:00) - Introduction (01:33) - Defining a Moonshot (03:35) - Building a Learning Mindset (06:15) - Learning vs. Productivity (07:50) - Sharing Learning Across Teams (10:04) - Rewarding Habits, Not Outcomes (12:32) - Destigmatizing Failure (15:12) - Moonshots in Action (18:51) - Storytelling for Understanding (20:11) - Using Analogies Effectively (22:15) - Fostering Creativity Through Play (25:20) - Hiring for a Moonshot Culture (27:57) - The Moonshot Podcast (29:44) - The Final Three Questions (34:19) - Conclusion ********Thank you to our sponsors.  These partnerships support the ongoing production of the podcast, allowing us to bring it to you at no cost.  Learn more about how Notion can support your business at notion.com/thinkfast. Join our Think Fast Talk Smart Learning Community and become the communicator you want to be.

    332. Rethinks: Learn Faster and Fail Smarter

  6. Oct 12

    331. Matchmaker Mindset: How to Make Yourself Memorable in Any Conversation

    “Boredom is just the enemy of conversation.”  Small talk doesn’t have to be boring. For matchmaker and dating coach Rachel Greenwald, better conversations start with a little preparation and a willingness to move beyond predictable questions toward the stories that make people memorable. In this episode of Think Fast, Talk Smart, Greenwald joins Matt Abrahams to share strategies for building stronger connections in dating, networking, and the workplace. From bridging small talk toward more meaningful topics to navigating taboo subjects and showing more vulnerability, she explains how to create conversations that bring out the best in others and ourselves. Takeaways: Better small talk starts with a little strategy. Preparing a few topics and finding natural bridges toward what makes you unique can turn routine exchanges into more memorable, meaningful interactions. Connection comes from stories, not just information. Asking questions that invite people to share experiences and emotions can reveal more than factual answers and help deepen relationships. Activity: Build a better bridge. Turn three standard small-talk questions into openings that lead somewhere more interesting. For example, instead of answering “How are you?” with “Good,” practice a response that naturally introduces a story, interest, or experience someone could ask you about.Printable Expanded Takeaways & Activities To listen to the extended Deep Thinks version of this episode, please visit FasterSmarter.io/premium. Episode Reference Links: Rachel GreenwaldEp.89 Listen, Listen, Listen: How to Build Deep Connections  Connect: Premium Signup >>>> Think Fast Talk Smart PremiumEmail Questions & Feedback >>> hello@fastersmarter.ioEpisode Transcripts >>> Think Fast Talk Smart WebsiteNewsletter Signup + English Language Learning >>> FasterSmarter.ioThink Fast Talk Smart >>> LinkedIn, Instagram, YouTubeMatt Abrahams >>> LinkedIn Chapters: (00:00) - Introduction (00:50) - Strategic Small Talk (04:27) - Building Your Personal Brand (08:21) - Mastering the First 60 Seconds (10:54) - Starting in the Middle (12:17) - Navigating Taboo Topics (15:36) - The Final Three Questions (23:33) - Conclusion ********Thank you to our sponsors.  These partnerships support the ongoing production of the podcast, allowing us to bring it to you at no cost.  Learn more about how Notion can support your business at notion.com/thinkfast. Join our Think Fast Talk Smart Learning Community and become the communicator you want to be.

    331. Matchmaker Mindset: How to Make Yourself Memorable in Any Conversation

  7. Oct 12 • Subscribers Only

    Deep Thinks 331. Matchmaker Mindset: How to Make Yourself Memorable in Any Conversation

    “Boredom is just the enemy of conversation.” Small talk doesn’t have to be boring. For matchmaker and dating coach Rachel Greenwald: https://www.fastersmarter.io/guests/rachel-greenwald/, better conversations start with a little preparation and a willingness to move beyond predictable questions toward the stories that make people memorable. In this episode of Think Fast, Talk Smart: https://www.fastersmarter.io/, Greenwald joins Matt Abrahams to share strategies for building stronger connections in dating, networking, and the workplace. From bridging small talk toward more meaningful topics to navigating taboo subjects and showing more vulnerability, she explains how to create conversations that bring out the best in others and ourselves. Takeaways: * Better small talk starts with a little strategy. Preparing a few topics and finding natural bridges toward what makes you unique can turn routine exchanges into more memorable, meaningful interactions. * Connection comes from stories, not just information. Asking questions that invite people to share experiences and emotions can reveal more than factual answers and help deepen relationships. Activity: * Build a better bridge. Turn three standard small-talk questions into openings that lead somewhere more interesting. For example, instead of answering “How are you?” with “Good,” practice a response that naturally introduces a story, interest, or experience someone could ask you about. Printable Expanded Takeaways & Activities: https://ae82bqismksvlodf.public.blob.vercel-storage.com/TFTS%20Rachel%20Greenwald-JFI7dn10akzoXHnbCBW4ZsIrIyLhKw.pdf Episode Reference Links: * Rachel Greenwald: https://www.fastersmarter.io/guests/rachel-greenwald/ * Ep.89 Listen, Listen, Listen: How to Build Deep Connections: https://www.fastersmarter.io/89-listen-listen-listen-how-to-build-deep-connections/ Connect: * Premium Signup >>>> Think Fast Talk Smart Premium: https://www.fastersmarter.io/premium/ * Email Questions & Feedback >>> hello@fastersmarter.io * Episode Transcripts >>>Think Fast Talk Smart Website: https://www.fastersmarter.io/331-matchmaker-mindset-how-to-make-yourself-memorable-in-any-conversation/ * Newsletter Signup + English Language Learning >>>http://fastersmarter.io/ * Think Fast Talk Smart >>>LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/think-fast-talk-smart/,Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thinkfasttalksmart/, YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL6caGRBUYZCmgDGM2RK6mxKB9jG_ccmm3 * Matt Abrahams >>>LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/maabrahams/ : https://learning.fastersmarter.io/?redirect_from=podpageChapters:

  8. Oct 8

    330. Quick Thinks: A CLEAR Way Through Conflict

    “Conflicts in relationships might be unpleasant, but they aren’t inherently bad. In fact, they’re essential.” Conflict rarely gives us time to prepare. A sharp comment, unexpected criticism, or sudden disagreement can trigger strong emotions precisely when we need to communicate most clearly. But handled well, conflict can strengthen relationships, improve outcomes, and lead to better solutions. In this special episode of Think Fast, Talk Smart, hear an excerpt from the updated edition of Matt Abrahams’ Think Faster, Talk Smarter. Matt introduces the CLEAR framework for navigating conflict in the moment: checking yourself, listening with receptiveness, exploring the other person’s perspective, acknowledging before advocating, and responding strategically. With these five steps, you can move beyond reactive responses and approach difficult moments with greater calm, curiosity, and clarity. Takeaways: Manage yourself before you manage the conflict. Recognizing when you’re triggered and creating a brief pause can help you move out of a reactive state and respond with greater calm and clarity. Understanding should come before advocating. Listening with genuine curiosity, exploring the other person’s perspective, and acknowledging what you’ve heard can keep disagreement from escalating and create space for a more productive response. Activity: Run it through CLEAR. Think of a disagreement you’re currently navigating and write one action for each step of CLEAR: Check yourself, Listen, Explore, Acknowledge, Respond. Use those five steps to plan how you’ll approach the conflict before deciding what you want to say.Audio excerpt courtesy of Simon & Schuster Audio from THINK FASTER, TALK SMARTER by Matt Abrahams, read by the author. Copyright © 2023 by Matt Abrahams. Used with permission of Simon & Schuster, Inc. Episode Reference Links: Matt's Book: Think Faster Talk Smarter Connect: Premium Signup >>>> Think Fast Talk Smart PremiumEmail Questions & Feedback >>> hello@fastersmarter.ioEpisode Transcripts >>> Think Fast Talk Smart WebsiteNewsletter Signup + English Language Learning >>> FasterSmarter.ioThink Fast Talk Smart >>> LinkedIn, Instagram, YouTubeMatt Abrahams >>> LinkedIn Chapters: (00:00) - Introduction (01:04) - Why Conflict Escalates (04:19) - Why Managing Conflict Matters (05:43) - The CLEAR Framework (06:31) - Check Yourself (08:18) - Listen Openly (10:21) - Explore Their Perspective (11:25) - Acknowledge Before Advocating (12:59) - Respond Strategically (14:33) - Conclusion ********Thank you to our sponsors.  These partnerships support the ongoing production of the podcast, allowing us to bring it to you at no cost.  Learn more about how Notion can support your business at notion.com/thinkfast. Join our Think Fast Talk Smart Learning Community and become the communicator you want to be.

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One of the most essential ingredients to success in business and life is effective communication. Join Matt Abrahams, best-selling author and Strategic Communication lecturer at Stanford Graduate School of Business, as he interviews experts to provide actionable insights that help you communicate with clarity, confidence, and impact. From handling impromptu questions to crafting compelling messages, Matt explores practical strategies for real-world communication challenges. Whether you’re navigating a high-stakes presentation, perfecting your email tone, or speaking off the cuff, Think Fast, Talk Smart equips you with the tools, techniques, and best practices to express yourself effectively in any situation. Enhance your communication skills to elevate your career and build stronger professional relationships. Tune in every Monday and Thursday for new episodes. Subscribe now to unlock your potential as a thoughtful, impactful communicator. Learn more and sign up for our Newsletter at fastersmarter.io.

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