The Well Done Life

Pamela Davis

The Well Done Life Podcast is the personal journey of Pamela Davis to live and share her life based on intention. Pamela's mission is to create a space where we learn from personal experiences, and embrace our "inner expert" to live our best lives. No one is perfect. But, we all have had experiences that we can learn from. Growth comes from honesty and sharing. Let's grow together and live a well done life. 

  1. 2d ago

    The Life Lately Check-In: Living, Loving & What's Next

    Hey love! How are you doing? Are you alright?  We’re checking in this week! No big agenda, just a little life lately conversation before I head off to Florida A&M’s Homecoming! First, THANK YOU for all the love you’ve shown the Falling In series. These conversations have been so special, and I’m grateful to everyone who joined us, shared their stories, and found something meaningful to take away. In this episode, we’re catching up on a little bit of everything! I’m sharing some life and weight journey updates, celebrating the beauty of living life, and talking about what’s next for The Well Done Life. I’m also sharing an idea that’s been on my heart: a possible new series featuring conversations with our elders. I’m still praying about it, but I’d love your feedback. There’s so much wisdom and life experience worth preserving, and I want to hear what you think! And because your girl is headed to Homecoming, we’re taking a little break. New episodes return November 1st! Until then, keep living, keep growing, and keep celebrating the life you’re creating. Remember, living a well done life isn’t about having everything figured out. It’s about being present for the journey. Thank you for being here and doing life with me! Let’s stay connected! Follow The Well Done Life on Instagram, TikTok, Facebook, and YouTube. Share your thoughts about the possible elders series, and let me know what conversations you’d love to hear. #TheWellDoneLife #LifeLately #FallingIn #LivingIntentionally #WomenOver40 #WellnessJourney Thank you for listening. Text me your feedback. I really appreciate you!

  2. Oct 11

    Falling In — I’ve Always Been Her

    What happens when you spend weeks celebrating women who are choosing themselves—and realize you’re one of them? Welcome to the final chapter of Falling In.  When I started this series, I wanted to celebrate something beautiful I was witnessing: women navigating real life, making difficult decisions, embracing change, and finding the courage to choose themselves. Not because life suddenly became easier. Not because they had everything figured out. But because somewhere along the way, they recognized that they were worthy of the lives they wanted to live. What I didn’t anticipate was how much these conversations would teach me about myself. Over the course of Falling In, I had the privilege of sitting down with four incredible women—Diana Patton, Carla Hudson, Siobhan J. Middleton, and Leigh Allyson Smith—who shared their experiences with strength, self-love, freedom, grief, restoration, and embracing what’s next. Four different women. Four different journeys. And one beautiful reminder: Choosing yourself begins with believing you’re worth choosing. In this solo episode, I’m sharing what stayed with me from these conversations and how they challenged me to reflect on my own journey. We’re talking about honoring our bodies, creating space for joy and meaningful relationships, releasing other people’s expectations, forgiving ourselves for the decisions we’ve made, and trusting ourselves enough to keep moving forward. Because here’s what I’ve come to understand: We don’t always need to reinvent ourselves. Sometimes we simply need to recognize the incredible women we’ve been all along. At 53, I’m learning to appreciate every version of myself that helped me get here. The woman who made mistakes. The woman who took chances. The woman who experienced disappointment and kept going. The woman who is still learning, growing, loving, and discovering what’s possible. And I’m proud of her. I’m entering this next chapter of my life with gratitude, confidence, and a deeper understanding of my own worthiness. Not because I believe life will always be easy. But because I trust myself to navigate whatever comes next. And I hope these conversations have encouraged you to do the same. So as we close this beautiful chapter, I want to leave you with a question: What would change in your life if you truly believed you were worth choosing? Thank you for falling in with me. Thank you for listening, sharing, and making space for these conversations. This series may be ending, but the journey of discovering ourselves continues. Because you were always her. Now trust her.  Connect with me: Instagram: @thewelldonelife Threads: @thewelldonelife  Email: hello@thewelldonelife.com and thewelldonelife@gmail.com  Thank you for listening. Text me your feedback. I really appreciate you!

    Falling In — I’ve Always Been Her
  3. Oct 4

    Falling Into What’s Next with Leigh Allyson Smith

    What are you ready to stop leaving for later? Sometimes moving forward isn’t about figuring out what else you need to add to your life. Sometimes it begins with recognizing what you’re finally ready to put down. A role. An identity. A dream that changed. A version of yourself that once made sense. Something you were really good at—but perhaps were never meant to carry forever. In this final guest conversation of the Falling In series, Pamela sits down with Leigh Allyson Smith, restorative leadership coach, healthcare strategist, wellness advocate, author, minister and host of the Later is NOW® podcast, for an honest conversation about release, grief, restoration, faith, fear, decision-making and making room for what’s next. Because one of the hardest truths to accept may be this: Being good at something doesn’t always mean you’re supposed to keep doing it. Pamela and Leigh explore what happens when the life, role or identity that once fit no longer does—and why releasing something can be the right decision and still require grieving it. They talk about the uncomfortable space between chapters, when the old has ended but the new hasn’t fully revealed itself. They explore faith when doors remain closed, restoration that doesn’t necessarily return us to who we used to be, and the difference between genuinely discerning our next move and using discernment to keep delaying it. Because sometimes we don’t need more time. Sometimes we need a decision. And self-trust doesn’t mean knowing exactly how everything will turn out. Sometimes it simply means: Whatever happens next, I trust myself to navigate it. For more than 25 years, Leigh has worked in healthcare leadership, operational excellence and organizational development. Known as “the leader’s leader” and “the coach’s coach,” she now helps women, creatives and leaders prioritize wellness, navigate transition, and move beyond fear, grief and delay through her coaching, speaking and ministry. So as you listen, consider: What are you no longer willing to leave for later? And what might become possible when you finally make room for what’s next? Welcome to Falling Into What’s Next.  Falling In: You were always her. Now you trust her. Thank you for listening. Text me your feedback. I really appreciate you!

    Falling Into What’s Next with Leigh Allyson Smith
  4. Sep 27

    Falling Into Yourself with Siobhan Middleton

    Do you actually want the life you’re living? Not—is it a good life? Not—should you be grateful for it? Not—does it make sense to everyone else? But do YOU want it? In this conversation from the Falling In series, Pamela sits down with Siobhan J. Middleton, founder of Freedom is the Lifestyle™, for an honest, freeing conversation about what happens when women stop living according to who they were taught they should be and begin asking themselves what they actually want. For more than 12 years, Siobhan has worked with women who did everything “right” and still found themselves wondering, Is this it? Her work centers on helping women unlearn good-girl conditioning, reconnect with their own desires and step into what she calls their grown-ass woman energy—the place where permission no longer has to come from somewhere outside of themselves. But this conversation isn’t about blowing up your life. It’s not about leaving your marriage, moving across the country or making the same choices Siobhan has made. It’s about something much more personal: Choosing. Pamela and Siobhan explore what it means to choose yourself without abandoning the people you love, how to honor the “good girl” who helped you become who you are without allowing her to keep running your life, and why self-trust isn’t about always making the right decision. Sometimes self-trust simply means knowing: Whatever happens next, I trust myself to navigate it. They also talk about love, relationships, permission, possibility and what choosing yourself looks like not just in the big, courageous moments—but on a random Tuesday. Because maybe freedom isn’t about creating a life that looks like Siobhan’s—or Pamela’s—or anyone else’s. Maybe freedom begins when you finally ask: Do I want MY life? And give yourself permission to listen to the answer.  This is Falling In. About Siobhan J. Middleton Siobhan J. Middleton is the founder of Freedom is the Lifestyle™, where she helps women unlearn good-girl conditioning and embody their grown-ass woman energy so they can create lives that are true, beautiful and free. For 12+ years, she’s worked with women who did everything right and still woke up wondering, Is this it? Her work comes down to one thing: helping women choose themselves. Through her FREEDOM Method and The Freedom Circle, her membership community, Siobhan helps women get clear on what they actually want. She’s not interested in fixing anybody. She’s interested in reminding women that they get to choose themselves—and they get to be free. A Free Gift from Siobhan Siobhan is sharing Your Free & Beautiful Life, a free 6-part mini video series created for the woman who has spent years being everything to everyone and is quietly ready for a life that feels like hers. It’s an invitation to stop living for everyone else and finally ask: What do I want? Get Your Free & Beautiful Life⁠ Connect with Siobhan Siobhan J. Middleton's website⁠: http://siobhanjmiddleton.com  Instagram: @siobhanjmiddleton TikTok: @siobhanjmiddleton Follow The Well Done Life Podcast so you don’t miss the remaining conversations in the Falling In series. Maybe you were always her. Now you trust her. Thank you for listening. Text me your feedback. I really appreciate you!

    Falling Into Yourself with Siobhan Middleton
  5. Sep 20

    Falling In Love With Yourself with Carla Hudson

    What if you don’t have to wait until you’re completely healed to start living? In this conversation from the Falling In series, Pamela sits down with Carla Hudson, founder of Commitment to You, for an honest conversation about self-love, worthiness, healing—and what happens when surviving your life is no longer enough. Carla has walked through seasons that required her to survive. But somewhere along the way, the question changed. It was no longer simply, “How do I get through this?” It became: “How do I want to live?” Pamela and Carla talk about what it really means to make a commitment to yourself after spending years caring for others, navigating difficult seasons and learning how to choose yourself again. They explore boundaries, worthiness, letting go of other people’s expectations and one of the most powerful ideas from their conversation: Sometimes we are healed through living. Maybe healing isn’t something we have to finish before we’re allowed to experience joy. Maybe the trip, the new experience, the community, the laughter, the risk, the dream—or simply allowing ourselves to participate fully in our own lives—can become part of how we heal. Because self-love isn’t only about how you feel about yourself. Sometimes it’s deciding: I am worthy of living now.  This is Falling In. Connect with Carla: Commitment to You Instagram: @commitmenttoyou Website: commitmenttoyou.com Follow The Well Done Life Podcast so you don’t miss the conversations ahead in the Falling In series. Thank you for listening. Text me your feedback. I really appreciate you!

    Falling In Love With Yourself with Carla Hudson
  6. Sep 13

    Falling Into Your Strength with Diana Patton

    What else are you capable of? That question sits at the heart of this episode of Falling In. Pamela sits down with Diana R. Patton, Esq., an attorney, former corporate executive, author, advocate and Strength Strategist who has spent decades helping people recognize and step into their authentic power. Now, at 58, Diana is exploring another expression of her own strength as she prepares to step onto a competitive bodybuilding stage for the first time. But this conversation isn’t really about bodybuilding. It’s about strength. It’s about what happens when a woman who has spent decades knowing the power of her mind, voice and leadership begins discovering another expression of that power through her body. Pamela and Diana talk about authentic power, menopause, discipline, advocacy, learning to work with your body instead of fighting against it, and the self-trust required to step into something you’ve never done before. And with Diana’s competition still ahead, neither of them knows how this particular chapter will end. But maybe that’s the point. Sometimes you don’t need to know the outcome before you say yes to discovering what you’re capable of. Because the muscle may be visible, but the self-trust is the story.  This is Falling In. Connect with Diana: Instagram: @diana.pattonesq LinkedIn: Diana R. Patton, Esq. YouTube: @dianapatton7629 Follow The Well Done Life Podcast so you don’t miss the conversations ahead in the Falling In series. Thank you for listening. Text me your feedback. I really appreciate you!

    Falling Into Your Strength with Diana Patton
  7. Aug 30

    Own It

    What if some of the woman you’ve been working so hard to become is already here? This week on The Well Done Life, we’re closing out the conversation that began with Courageous Decisions and continued with Stand On It: Courage Has Consequences. We’ve talked about making the decision. We’ve talked about standing on it when other people don’t understand it. Now it’s time to own it. Doing this series gave me an opportunity to reflect on the decisions I’ve made for myself, my family and my life—and to recognize something powerful: I’m worth it. And I’m worth trusting. In this episode, we’re talking about what happens when you stop treating yourself like a perpetual renovation project and recognize that some of the work you’ve been doing is actually working. We’re talking about healing without making healing our identity. Therapy as a tool rather than a place we constantly go searching for what’s wrong. Recognizing the fruit of our consistency. Trusting the skills we’ve developed. Allowing ourselves to experience peace without waiting for the other shoe to drop. And most importantly, we’re talking about giving ourselves permission to LIVE. Owning yourself doesn’t mean you’ve arrived. You can still grow, learn, apologize, change your mind, ask for help and discover new things about yourself. The difference is that instead of constantly asking, “What’s wrong with me?” you begin from a place of “I trust myself to handle what comes next.” Maybe becoming isn’t always about turning into somebody new. Maybe sometimes becoming is finally giving yourself permission to be who you’ve been all along. You made the courageous decision. You stood on it. Now own it. Walk in it. Rest in it. Enjoy the fruit—and keep tending what God has trusted you to grow.   Listen to The Well Done Life wherever you get your podcasts Connect with me: Instagram: @thewelldonelife Threads: @thewelldonelife  Email: hello@thewelldonelife.com and thewelldonelife@gmail.com  Thank you for listening. Text me your feedback. I really appreciate you!

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The Well Done Life Podcast is the personal journey of Pamela Davis to live and share her life based on intention. Pamela's mission is to create a space where we learn from personal experiences, and embrace our "inner expert" to live our best lives. No one is perfect. But, we all have had experiences that we can learn from. Growth comes from honesty and sharing. Let's grow together and live a well done life. 

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