Heal from Infidelity: Reclaiming Your Peace, Power, and Self-Trust After Betrayal

Andrea Giles
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Heal from Infidelity with Master Coach Andrea Giles is your guide to rebuilding after betrayal with grace and power. Through trauma-informed coaching, honest stories, and grounded wisdom, Andrea helps you move from pain to peace, from confusion to clarity. You'll learn to trust yourself again, lead with integrity, and create a life and love rooted in truth. Healing begins when you stop trying to fix him — and start reclaiming you. For more information, visit andreagiles.com.

  1. 23h ago

    Am I Allowed to Want This? - November Q & A

    What if the things you need to feel safe, peaceful, and whole aren't too much to ask for? After infidelity, it can be difficult to trust yourself, especially when your needs seem to conflict with what someone else wants or is willing to give. In this November Q&A episode, I'm answering listener questions that all point to one powerful theme: Am I allowed to want what I want? We'll explore what happens when you begin finding peace independently of your spouse, why understanding the reasons behind an affair matters in rebuilding trust, and how to recognize entitlement and set healthier boundaries in your relationships. I'll also share some of my favorite books for personal growth and healing. And I'm celebrating an incredible milestone: one million podcast downloads! As a thank-you, I have a special free gift to share with you. Join me for an honest, encouraging conversation about reclaiming your voice, honoring your needs, and creating a life that feels true to you. We're celebrating 1 million downloads of the podcast!!! Get your three FREE guides here! Some of my favorite books: Women Who Run with the Wolves: Myths and Stories of the Wild Woman Archetype by Clarissa Pinkola Estés Us: Getting Past You & Me to Build a More Loving Relationship by Terrence Real Books by Brené Brown Untamed by Glennon Doyle Big Magic: Creative Living Beyond Fear by Elizabeth Gilbert Learn with me: Get Your Life Back After Infidelity: 12-months of course access to a program designed to help you move forward with confidence, peace and clarity. Get $50 off the regular price with coupon code 50OFF. More from me: On Instagram On YouTube Have a question you'd like me to answer on the podcast? Submit it here. If you would like to donate to the podcast, please go here. Please leave a rating and review if you like our podcast. Please visit my website here.

  2. Oct 30

    Jealousy, Comparison and Longing - What Your Heart Is Telling You

    Have you ever felt jealous of another woman, compared yourself to someone else's life, or wondered why your partner gave someone else what you so desperately wanted? Jealousy can feel especially painful after infidelity. And when it shows up, it's easy to turn those feelings against yourself, questioning your worth and wondering why you aren't enough. In this episode, I'm exploring the difference between jealousy, envy, and longing — and why understanding what's underneath those feelings can be such an important part of healing after betrayal. I'll share personal experiences, research, and stories from my coaching practice to help you recognize what jealousy might be trying to tell you. We'll also explore how comparison can keep you stuck and how shifting your attention toward your own desires can open the door to growth. You don't have to shame yourself for what you're feeling. There may be something important underneath it that's asking to be heard. Join me as we explore how to turn jealousy into greater self-understanding, possibility, and healing. Resources Mentioned in the Episode: Atlas of the Heart: Mapping Meaningful Connection and the Language of Human Experience by Brené Brown The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity – A Guide to Confronting Infidelity by Esther Perel The Prophet by Kahlil Gibran Learn with me: Get Your Life Back After Infidelity: 12-months of course access to a program designed to help you move forward with confidence, peace and clarity. Get $50 off the regular price with coupon code 50OFF. More from me: Instagram at: https://www.instagram.com/theinfidelitycoach/ YouTube at: https://www.youtube.com/@healfrominfidelity/podcasts Have a question you'd like me to answer on the podcast? Submit it here: https://portal.andreagiles.com/podcast-submissions If you would like to donate to the podcast, please visit this link: https://ko-fi.com/andreagilescoaching Please leave a rating and review if you like our podcast: https://ratethispodcast.com/healfrominfidelity For transcripts and other available downloads, please visit my website at https://andreagiles.com/podcast/ © 2020 - 2026 Andrea Giles

  3. Oct 23

    Stuck in Emergency Mode

    Does it feel like you're still waiting for the next betrayal, even when things have started to calm down? After infidelity, your body can stay stuck in emergency mode long after the initial discovery. A phone notification, an unexpected delay, or a small change in behavior can send you right back into panic. You're exhausted from being constantly on alert, yet you can't seem to relax. In this episode, I explore why betrayal can leave your nervous system in survival mode, how hypervigilance affects your ability to feel safe, and why trying to push away difficult emotions can actually keep you stuck. I'll also share a simple five-minute practice to help you slow down, acknowledge what you're feeling, and begin finding your way back to peace. You don't have to spend the rest of your life bracing for something terrible to happen. Healing after infidelity is possible, and you can learn to feel safe in your own body again. Join me as we explore what it means to feel all the way through. Learn with me: Get Your Life Back After Infidelity: 12-months of course access to a program designed to help you move forward with confidence, peace and clarity. Get $50 off the regular price with coupon code 50OFF. https://andreagiles.com/get-your-life-back-sp-product-access-only/ More from me: Instagram at: https://www.instagram.com/theinfidelitycoach/ YouTube at: https://www.youtube.com/@healfrominfidelity/podcasts Have a question you'd like me to answer on the podcast? Submit it here: https://portal.andreagiles.com/podcast-submissions If you would like to donate to the podcast, please visit this link: https://ko-fi.com/andreagilescoaching Please leave a rating and review if you like our podcast: https://ratethispodcast.com/healfrominfidelity For transcripts and other available downloads, please visit my website at https://andreagiles.com/podcast/ © 2020 - 2026 Andrea Giles

  4. Oct 16

    The Maine Lesson

    What happens when you finally give yourself permission to step away, only to discover just how much you've been carrying? I recently took a solo trip to Maine, hoping for adventure, quiet, and space to reconnect with myself. What I found was both beautiful and uncomfortable. Alongside moments of freedom came mom guilt, unexpected emotions, and some powerful realizations about the expectations I've been living under. In this episode, I'm sharing what this experience taught me about overfunctioning, resentment, marriage dynamics, and the invisible responsibilities we carry. I'll explore why recognizing unhealthy patterns isn't enough, how we can begin releasing expectations that no longer serve us, and why real personal growth happens when we turn clarity into conscious choices. Whether you're healing from infidelity, navigating relationship challenges, or simply feeling stretched too thin, I hope this conversation encourages you to question the rules you've been following and make room for what you truly want. Join me as we explore what it means to stop carrying everything and start consciously creating the life we want. Work with me: Get your life back after infidelity: 12-months of course access to a program designed to help you move forward with confidence, peace and clarity. Get $50 off the regular price with coupon code 50OFF. https://andreagiles.com/get-your-life-back-sp-product-access-only/ More from me: Instagram at: https://www.instagram.com/theinfidelitycoach/ YouTube at: https://www.youtube.com/@healfrominfidelity/podcasts Have a question you'd like me to answer on the podcast? Submit it here: https://portal.andreagiles.com/podcast-submissions If you would like to donate to the podcast, please visit this link: https://ko-fi.com/andreagilescoaching Please leave a rating and review if you like our podcast: https://ratethispodcast.com/healfrominfidelity For transcripts and other available downloads, please visit my website at https://andreagiles.com/podcast/ © 2020 - 2026 Andrea Giles

  5. Oct 2

    You Don't Have to Earn Rest or Support

    What if you didn't have to reach your breaking point before you were allowed to rest, ask for help, or do something simply because you enjoy it? In this episode, I'm looking at the conditions we often place on rest and support—especially when life already feels uncertain or painful. It's easy to believe we can stop once everything is handled, everyone else is okay, or we finally have answers. But there will almost always be one more thing demanding our attention. I share what I've been learning about making rest and support part of everyday life rather than waiting until exhaustion forces the issue. We'll also explore the mental load of navigating relationship uncertainty, why being capable doesn't mean having unlimited capacity, and how to ask for and receive support without feeling like you have to justify it or immediately repay it. If you've been carrying more than you realize, I invite you to listen and consider what you might be ready to put down. Work with me: Join the Truth Teller Circle. It begins October 13th. Book a call with me here to see if it's a good fit: https://calendly.com/andreagilescoaching/get-your-life-back More from me: Instagram at: https://www.instagram.com/theinfidelitycoach/ YouTube at: https://www.youtube.com/@healfrominfidelity/podcasts Have a question you'd like me to answer on the podcast? Submit it here: https://portal.andreagiles.com/podcast-submissions If you would like to donate to the podcast, please visit this link: https://ko-fi.com/andreagilescoaching Please leave a rating and review if you like our podcast: https://ratethispodcast.com/healfrominfidelity For transcripts and other available downloads, please visit my website at https://andreagiles.com/podcast/ © 2020 - 2026 Andrea Giles

  6. Sep 25

    When the Choice Is Not the Hard Part

    Maybe making the decision isn't actually the hardest part... We can spend so much energy trying to decide whether to stay, leave, set a boundary, speak up, or take a step forward. But what happens after we choose, when fear, doubt, grief, or someone else's disappointment shows up? In this episode, I'm exploring the difference between making a conscious choice and having the conviction to stand behind it. I'll show you why discomfort after a decision doesn't necessarily mean you made the wrong one, and how constantly reopening your choices can leave you exhausted and disconnected from yourself. We'll look at how fear, people pleasing, old conditioning, and the need for approval can influence our decisions, especially after infidelity and during major relationship transitions. I'll also give you practical questions to help you recognize where your choices are coming from and what it means to put your full weight behind them. Listen in and learn how to trust yourself, hold your choices with conviction, and move forward.  Work with me: Join the Truth Teller Circle. It begins October 13th. Book a call with me here to see if it's a good fit: https://calendly.com/andreagilescoaching/get-your-life-back More from me: Instagram at: https://www.instagram.com/theinfidelitycoach/ YouTube at: https://www.youtube.com/@healfrominfidelity/podcasts Have a question you'd like me to answer on the podcast? Submit it here: https://portal.andreagiles.com/podcast-submissions If you would like to donate to the podcast, please visit this link: https://ko-fi.com/andreagilescoaching Please leave a rating and review if you like our podcast: https://ratethispodcast.com/healfrominfidelity For transcripts and other available downloads, please visit my website at https://andreagiles.com/podcast/ © 2020 - 2026 Andrea Giles

  7. Sep 18

    The Question Beneath the Question - September Q & A

    What if the question you keep asking after betrayal isn't actually the question that will help you heal? In this episode, I'm answering listener questions about infidelity, broken trust, boundaries, trickle truth, affair recovery, forgiveness, and why betrayal can still hurt years later. But rather than stopping at the surface question, I'm looking at the deeper question underneath it. So often after betrayal, we focus on understanding someone else: Does he love me? Will he change? Does he understand my pain? But healing begins to shift when we turn our attention back toward ourselves. Can I trust what I see? Can I honor what I know? Can I stop abandoning myself while waiting for someone else to give me certainty? We'll explore what emotional safety and real repair actually look like, why understanding alone doesn't heal betrayal trauma, and how rebuilding self-trust can change the way you move forward. Listen in, and if you're ready to learn how to trust yourself and live more fully in your truth, I invite you to reach out. Work with me: Join the Truth Teller Circle. It begins October 13th. Book a call with me here to see if it's a good fit: https://calendly.com/andreagilescoaching/get-your-life-back More from me: Instagram at: https://www.instagram.com/theinfidelitycoach/ YouTube at: https://www.youtube.com/@healfrominfidelity/podcasts Have a question you'd like me to answer on the podcast? Submit it here: https://portal.andreagiles.com/podcast-submissions If you would like to donate to the podcast, please visit this link: https://ko-fi.com/andreagilescoaching Please leave a rating and review if you like our podcast: https://ratethispodcast.com/healfrominfidelity For transcripts and other available downloads, please visit my website at https://andreagiles.com/podcast/ © 2020 - 2026 Andrea Giles

  8. Sep 11

    When Two People Are Living in Different Realities

    What happens when you and someone you love experience the same relationship in completely different ways? After infidelity, this can feel especially disorienting. One person may believe things are getting better while the other is barely holding it together. In this episode, I'm exploring how we can make room for someone else's emotional reality without abandoning our own. I share a powerful dream inspired by The Phantom of the Opera that helped me see how easily empathy can turn into taking responsibility for someone else's feelings. There's an important difference between caring deeply about someone's pain and allowing their pain to determine what you're allowed to think, feel, need, or choose. I'll walk you through practical ways to separate facts from interpretations, hold healthy boundaries, take responsibility for what's truly yours, and stay connected to yourself even when someone sees things differently. If you've been losing yourself trying to understand, reassure, or keep the peace with someone else, I hope you'll listen. You can love deeply without leaving yourself behind. Work with me: Get Your Life Back After Infidelity 12-month course: https://andreagiles.com/get-your-life-back-sp-product-access-only/ More from me: Instagram at: https://www.instagram.com/theinfidelitycoach/ YouTube at: https://www.youtube.com/@healfrominfidelity/podcasts Have a question you'd like me to answer on the podcast? Submit it here: https://portal.andreagiles.com/podcast-submissions If you would like to donate to the podcast, please visit this link: https://ko-fi.com/andreagilescoaching Please leave a rating and review if you like our podcast: https://ratethispodcast.com/healfrominfidelity For transcripts and other available downloads, please visit my website at https://andreagiles.com/podcast/ © 2020 - 2026 Andrea Giles

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Heal from Infidelity with Master Coach Andrea Giles is your guide to rebuilding after betrayal with grace and power. Through trauma-informed coaching, honest stories, and grounded wisdom, Andrea helps you move from pain to peace, from confusion to clarity. You'll learn to trust yourself again, lead with integrity, and create a life and love rooted in truth. Healing begins when you stop trying to fix him — and start reclaiming you. For more information, visit andreagiles.com.

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