182 episodes

Everyone carries fire. It is inside of you right now. It may be a spark; it may be embers; or it may be full-blown, raging flames. It may have been given to you by someone; maybe passed on from fathers, mothers, grandparents, coaches, or friends. The fire may be acquired from tragedy and difficulties in your own life. Or it may be passed on to you from someone distant; someone you don't even know; but still they have left a mark. These are the things we talk about on this podcast. We, ourselves, have felt this fire. We continue to strive to become better men, husbands, fathers, friends, and citizens. This podcast is the result of our own journey, of our own discoveries; and it is our hope that you will come along with us and discover your own fire. We are constantly interviewing men we respect; men who have kindled their own fires. They may be successful in the workplace, exemplary as a husband or father, or simply set an example in how they stay fit at any stage of life. We are firemen, and we often focus on issues that we face daily: Trauma and PTSD; from how to stay fit when your life might depend on it; to learning how to be present as a husband and father even when we're gone from home a lot of the time. What we are learning applies to the military, law enforcement, EMS, and even UPS drivers. The principles that make anyone a successful man are universal truths that do not change based on a job description or a phase of life. Come, stoke the fires that you carry, and dare to kindle some new ones.

The Fire You Carry Nole Lilley and Kevin Welsh

    • Health & Fitness
    • 5.0 • 118 Ratings

Everyone carries fire. It is inside of you right now. It may be a spark; it may be embers; or it may be full-blown, raging flames. It may have been given to you by someone; maybe passed on from fathers, mothers, grandparents, coaches, or friends. The fire may be acquired from tragedy and difficulties in your own life. Or it may be passed on to you from someone distant; someone you don't even know; but still they have left a mark. These are the things we talk about on this podcast. We, ourselves, have felt this fire. We continue to strive to become better men, husbands, fathers, friends, and citizens. This podcast is the result of our own journey, of our own discoveries; and it is our hope that you will come along with us and discover your own fire. We are constantly interviewing men we respect; men who have kindled their own fires. They may be successful in the workplace, exemplary as a husband or father, or simply set an example in how they stay fit at any stage of life. We are firemen, and we often focus on issues that we face daily: Trauma and PTSD; from how to stay fit when your life might depend on it; to learning how to be present as a husband and father even when we're gone from home a lot of the time. What we are learning applies to the military, law enforcement, EMS, and even UPS drivers. The principles that make anyone a successful man are universal truths that do not change based on a job description or a phase of life. Come, stoke the fires that you carry, and dare to kindle some new ones.

    176: Leap Of Faith, With Josh Smith.

    176: Leap Of Faith, With Josh Smith.

    In this week's episode, Nole is joined by Josh Smith. Josh is a friend from Hume Lake and this episode focuses in on Josh's journey of faith and the lessons learned through it. The primary focus is on trusting God, and taking "leaps of faith" as He calls us into things that don't make sense to us, and resisting the temptation to rely on our own strengths or experience. This one hits me right where I'm at in life right now and I personally got a lot out of the conversation. I know that you will too.

    Big thank you to My Epic and Facedown Records for the use of their song "Hail" in our podcast!
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dz2RZThURTU&ab_channel=FacedownRecords

    MyZone facility code for The Fire You Carry: CALIFUS001

    Get $60 off a MZ-Switch Heart Rate Monitor!
    https://buy.myzone.org/?lang=enUS&voucher=CALIFUS001-60

    The Fire Up Progam video.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I__ErPW46Ec&t=12s&ab_channel=FireUpProgram

    The Fire You Carry Instagram.
    https://www.instagram.com/thefireyoucarry/

    Sign up for a class at The Fire Up Program!
    https://www.fireupprogram.com/programs

    Donate to The Fire Up Program.
    https://www.fireupprogram.com/donate

    The Fire Up Program Instagram.
    https://www.instagram.com/fireup_program/

    Kevin's Instagram.
    https://www.instagram.com/kevinpwelsh/?hl=en

    Nole's Instagram.
    https://www.instagram.com/nolelilley/?hl=en

    Join us on Discord.
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    Buy us a coffee to support the podcast.
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    • 1 hr 18 min
    175: The Importance Of Competition, With Jim King, Vice President Of The California Police Athletic Federation.

    175: The Importance Of Competition, With Jim King, Vice President Of The California Police Athletic Federation.

    In this week's episode, we are joined by Jim King, Vice President of the California Police Athletic Federation. Jim is a retired fireman passionate about the incredible benefits available to everyone through sport & competition. In this episode, we talk through some of the amazing ways competition can benefit those of us in the first-responder communities. However, the benefits are not exclusive to those of us serving in those careers; they exist for everyone. Jim also talks with us about the upcoming Police and Fire Games that will be held in San Diego, June 8th - 15th. We strongly encourage you to follow the links below, find something you'd like to compete in, and go for it. In our experience, there's nothing better than putting an event on the calendar to get you serious about training; the mental and physical benefits that will come from that process are undeniable. Get after it! 

    Big thank you to My Epic and Facedown Records for the use of their song "Hail" in our podcast!
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dz2RZThURTU&ab_channel=FacedownRecords

    CPAF
    https://cpaf.org/

    US Police & Fire Championship
    https://cpaf.org/uspfc/

    MyZone facility code for The Fire You Carry: CALIFUS001

    Get $60 off a MZ-Switch Heart Rate Monitor!
    https://buy.myzone.org/?lang=enUS&voucher=CALIFUS001-60

    The Fire Up Progam video.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I__ErPW46Ec&t=12s&ab_channel=FireUpProgram

    The Fire You Carry Instagram.
    https://www.instagram.com/thefireyoucarry/

    Sign up for a class at The Fire Up Program!
    https://www.fireupprogram.com/programs

    Donate to The Fire Up Program.
    https://www.fireupprogram.com/donate

    The Fire Up Program Instagram.
    https://www.instagram.com/fireup_program/

    Kevin's Instagram.
    https://www.instagram.com/kevinpwelsh/?hl=en

    Nole's Instagram.
    https://www.instagram.com/nolelilley/?hl=en

    Join us on Discord.
    https://discord.gg/rkDa9Ae27q

    Buy us a coffee to support the podcast.
    https://discord.gg/rkDa9Ae27q

    Buy podcast apparel.
    https://thefireyoucarry.threadless.com 

    • 53 min
    174: Brady Mclean, Go Fast Don't Die.

    174: Brady Mclean, Go Fast Don't Die.

    In this week's episode, we are joined by Brady Mclean of Go Fast Don't Die. Brady thought his life had essentially come to an end at age 28 after going through a divorce. This experience deeply shook Brady and forced him to reconsider his life's story and take stock of whether or not it was one he was proud to tell. One of the things that rose from the ashes of this time in his life was Go Fast Don't Die. Put simply, Go Fast Don't Die is a motorcycle brand that encourages those who don't think they fit into the motorcycle scene, or any other scene for that matter, to find instead their community where they do fit in or make their own. It embraces the idea that the best communities, scenes, tribes, or groups are not exclusionary based on something so innocuous as what kind of motorcycle you ride, what music you listen to, or almost anything else. Go Fast Don't Die is also a brand that promotes the idea of fighting against the "small deaths" that we all to often find ourselves living out in our own lives. We do not live up to our full potential because we are afraid of something, too lazy, or just stuck in the rut of what we've always done. All of the heart behind Go Fast Don't Die comes from Brady and his life experience, which is what we primarily dig into in this episode. Ensure you follow the links in the show notes below, get on Brady's Instagram and tell him we sent you, go to the Go Fast Don't Die website and sign up for their email list, maybe even buy a shirt. Personally, I have already done both. - Nole

    Big thank you to My Epic and Facedown Records for the use of their song "Hail" in our podcast!
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dz2RZThURTU&ab_channel=FacedownRecords

    Brady on Instagram.
    https://www.instagram.com/bradytildeath/?hl=en

    Go Fast Don't Die
    https://www.gofastdontdie.com/

    David Ramirez, "The Bad Days"
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V_FkhCVg-1s&ab_channel=DavidRamirez

    MyZone facility code for The Fire You Carry: CALIFUS001

    Get $60 off a MZ-Switch Heart Rate Monitor!
    https://buy.myzone.org/?lang=enUS&voucher=CALIFUS001-60

    The Fire Up Progam video.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I__ErPW46Ec&t=12s&ab_channel=FireUpProgram

    The Fire You Carry Instagram.
    https://www.instagram.com/thefireyoucarry/

    Sign up for a class at The Fire Up Program!
    https://www.fireupprogram.com/programs

    Donate to The Fire Up Program.
    https://www.fireupprogram.com/donate

    The Fire Up Program Instagram.
    https://www.instagram.com/fireup_program/

    Kevin's Instagram.
    https://www.instagram.com/kevinpwelsh/?hl=en

    Nole's Instagram.
    https://www.instagram.com/nolelilley/?hl=en

    Join us on Discord.
    https://discord.gg/rkDa9Ae27q

    Buy us a coffee to support the podcast.
    https://discord.gg/rkDa9Ae27q

    Buy podcast apparel.
    https://thefireyoucarry.threadless.com 

    • 1 hr 48 min
    Bonus Episode: LACoFD Day Of Prayer, 5/2/24 10 AM

    Bonus Episode: LACoFD Day Of Prayer, 5/2/24 10 AM

    This is a unique joint episode led by Captain Andrew Lawrence of A Warriors Perspective Podcast. Captain Wilk and Chief Gaytan join Captain Lawrence to discuss the details of the Department Day of Prayer coming up on May 2nd at LAO. Last year was the first time this event had been held in department history, and it was outstanding. This year will be even better, and we want to see you with us as we pray for the people we serve our leadership, and one another. So join us for the second annual Day of Prayer at 10 AM on May 2nd! 

    A Warriors Perspective Instagram. 
    https://www.instagram.com/awarriorsperspective/

    • 22 min
    173: Seriously Wounded In Ukraine, With Gio Roman

    173: Seriously Wounded In Ukraine, With Gio Roman

    In this week's episode, we are back with Gio Roman once again. This time he's telling us the story of his second trip to Ukraine. This trip is quite a bit longer and is brought to an end when Gio is seriously wounded in combat. Don't miss this story of courage and survival. Big thank you to Gio for sharing his story with us. Please support Gio by following the link below to purchase one of his patches, or send him a donation to help with his medical bills through his Instagram account.

    Big thank you to My Epic and Facedown Records for the use of their song "Hail" in our podcast!
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dz2RZThURTU&ab_channel=FacedownRecords

    Gio on Instagram.
    https://www.instagram.com/doc_wolf03/

    MyZone facility code for The Fire You Carry: CALIFUS001

    Get $60 off a MZ-Switch Heart Rate Monitor!
    https://buy.myzone.org/?lang=enUS&voucher=CALIFUS001-60

    The Fire Up Progam video.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I__ErPW46Ec&t=12s&ab_channel=FireUpProgram

    The Fire You Carry Instagram.
    https://www.instagram.com/thefireyoucarry/

    Sign up for a class at The Fire Up Program!
    https://www.fireupprogram.com/programs

    Donate to The Fire Up Program.
    https://www.fireupprogram.com/donate

    The Fire Up Program Instagram.
    https://www.instagram.com/fireup_program/

    Kevin's Instagram.
    https://www.instagram.com/kevinpwelsh/?hl=en

    Nole's Instagram.
    https://www.instagram.com/nolelilley/?hl=en

    Join us on Discord.
    https://discord.gg/rkDa9Ae27q

    Buy us a coffee to support the podcast.
    https://discord.gg/rkDa9Ae27q

    Buy podcast apparel.
    https://thefireyoucarry.threadless.com 

    • 1 hr
    172: In Combat During The Early Days Of The Ukraine War, With Gio Roman.

    172: In Combat During The Early Days Of The Ukraine War, With Gio Roman.

    In this week's episode, we are joined by our friend Gio Roman. When Gio heard that Russia was invading Ukraine, he knew he wanted to help. Within days of the invasion, Gio was on the ground, acting as a medic for a Ukrainian unit composed of both native Ukrainians and other foreigners who had come to help. Gio eventually returned to Ukraine, and the story from that trip will be released next week.

    Big thank you to My Epic and Facedown Records for the use of their song "Hail" in our podcast!
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dz2RZThURTU&ab_channel=FacedownRecords

    Gio on Instagram.
    https://www.instagram.com/doc_wolf03/

    MyZone facility code for The Fire You Carry: CALIFUS001

    Get $60 off a MZ-Switch Heart Rate Monitor!
    https://buy.myzone.org/?lang=enUS&voucher=CALIFUS001-60

    The Fire Up Progam video.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I__ErPW46Ec&t=12s&ab_channel=FireUpProgram

    The Fire You Carry Instagram.
    https://www.instagram.com/thefireyoucarry/

    Sign up for a class at The Fire Up Program!
    https://www.fireupprogram.com/programs

    Donate to The Fire Up Program.
    https://www.fireupprogram.com/donate

    The Fire Up Program Instagram.
    https://www.instagram.com/fireup_program/

    Kevin's Instagram.
    https://www.instagram.com/kevinpwelsh/?hl=en

    Nole's Instagram.
    https://www.instagram.com/nolelilley/?hl=en

    Join us on Discord.
    https://discord.gg/rkDa9Ae27q

    Buy us a coffee to support the podcast.
    https://discord.gg/rkDa9Ae27q

    Buy podcast apparel.
    https://thefireyoucarry.threadless.com 

    • 45 min

Customer Reviews

5.0 out of 5
118 Ratings

118 Ratings

Jh65533568 ,

Good dudes & dads

Great podcast, they confront their own flaws head-on, pushing each other to be better dads and community servants. It's real, and it's a must-listen for anyone who values honesty and camaraderie. Keep up the good work boys

badazzGAMER909 ,

Awesome podcast &great personality

First. Thanks for recommending the game cat goat cheese pizza on one of your episode. My family loves it lol second I’m a firefighter emt in North Carolina for 22 years and drive an hour and 45 minutes to see a therapist , I listen to your podcast on my trip . I have 14 months left till I retire and find a new career. This podcast rang a bell. I can’t just listen to my wife and daughter concerns without trying to fix there problem it’s crazy. I’m working on myself. Keep up the good work gentlemen

Billy

sahl2 ,

Great for firefighters, mil/vets, even cops.

The challenges aren’t unique to first responders, but we just got to see it daily. Great to hear these messages from those who were there.

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