The Later Dater Today The Later Dater Today
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Between the ages of 45-59? (Give or take a few years) and dating or thinking about it? You're in the right place.
There's never been a better time to date later in life. Let us show you the advantages of dating later in life AND the places you might overlook or trip.
Lakshmi Rengarajan, host and guide of the The Later Dater podcast has spent almost 15 years trying to improve and shed an illuminating light on the culture of modern dating. She's designed one-of-a-kind events that challenged the idea of the dating profile, she worked at the world's largest dating conglomerate (Match), she studied the art of the set-up and co-hosted Season 7 of Vox Media's award-winning podcast Land of The Giants: Dating Games.
And now she's turned her attention to folks dating "later in life". Her work to change, improve and challenge modern dating culture and its tropes have been featured in the New York Times, Vanity Fair, Cosmopolitan, Oprah Daily and The Guardian and she's been a guest on the Pivot Podcast with Kara Swisher and Scott Galloway among others.
Later Daters are folks who came of age before the smartphone but also have the smarts to leverage and use technology. Modern dating culture has changed quite a bit since the introduction of dating apps but your dual existence might be just to thing that helps you navigate it today.
You're not late, you're right on time. More at www.TheLaterDaterToday.com
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#46: How to Think About Money & Compatibility
Season 2 Premiere: Is there another way to talk about and navigate money as a topic? Well, yes there is. There are so many different ways to think about and explore whether you have compatible ideas around the idea of money.
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Season 2: Preview & Research Updates
A preview of forthcoming episodes, the tone of Season 2 and what we are researching now. Expect a season full of "How To" episodes now that the foundation has been set.
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Dating Climate Change and Why Golden And Later Are Different
The difference between a Golden Dater and a Later Dater: Lakshmi explains why and how the two are different and also offers an overview of what Dating Climate Change is and how remembering how much dating culture has changed (and how quickly) will have you connecting and relating to people better.
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"State of Date" Meditation/Prep Talk
Listen to this before a first (or early) date. Now with music and a more dramatic reading, please use and enjoy this meditation/prep talk to get you into a "State of Date". And listen to Episode 45 for more context and background.
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#45 How to Get Into a "State of Date"
Let's get you into a "State of Date". Most of how people prepare for dates is externally focused - smell good, show up on time, see if you "feel something". There is so much folklore around wanting to feel "the spark" or chemistry that we don't think about how, today especially, we have to prepare ourselves to really be present and ready for a first (or 2nd or 3rd) date. Listen in as Lakshmi sets up and then guides you through a prep/meditation designed to prime you for these one of a kind interactions.
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#44 How to Play the "Mid-Range" Game
We know about instant gratification vs. playing the long game. And in dating it's the fling vs. the long-term commitment. But what's in between those two and how might it help Later Daters to think about playing an entirely different game?
Customer Reviews
Highly Recommend
The LaterDater podcast offers a fresh perspective on dating later in life. I discovered Lakshmi on the Pivot podcast. It turns out there are a lot of us LaterDaters, and our relationship goals are totally different from when we were young. Dating has never been more exciting! Please consider spreading the word about this podcast to friends who are dating between the ages of 45 -59, reviewing the podcast, and buying Lakshmi a coffee. She is doing us all LaterDaters a fantastic service!
Refresh and renew your perspective
The LDP offers a refreshing take on dating, particularly for those in their forties. Lakshmi's unique perspective, discovered through the PIVOT podcast, reframed my perspective on partnership dynamics without providing definitive answers. Instead, she encourages a shift in mindset and backs it up with data, offering concrete examples. Thank you, Lakshmi and LDP, for this insightful approach.
Love the show
And have forwarded it to others who feel the same way. Really happy I stumbled onto Lakshmi and highly recommend!