Dear Son,

Derek Johns
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This is a safe space to build upon and reinforce the values of fatherhood. We'll explore the gaps between the current generation of fathers and fathers of generations past, and mature the dialogue that will close those gaps for the generations to come. Whether your passion is to be a great father or peel back the layers of why your father wasn't present in your life (physically and/or emotionally), this is for you. Let's grow through it.

  1. Do As I Say, Not As I Did | Ep 166 | The Dear Son, Show

    1D AGO

    Do As I Say, Not As I Did | Ep 166 | The Dear Son, Show

    Dear Son, Do As I Say, Not As I Did - Lessons for the New Year | The Dear Son, Show In this engaging episode of 'The Dear Son, Show,' hosts D Johns and Jey Blac dive into meaningful conversations centered around fatherhood, discussing their personal experiences and the challenges of raising sons. They touch upon topics such as the importance of aligning actions with words, the lessons they've learned from their own fathers, and the significance of being intentional with parental guidance. The hosts also share personal anecdotes about their holiday experiences and offer insights on various life lessons they wish to impart to their sons as they journey through manhood. This episode is packed with valuable advice and relatable stories aimed at fostering better father-son relationships. 00:00 Introduction to The Dead Son Show 00:19 New Year Vibes and Studio Updates 00:40 Family and Holiday Reflections 03:26 Live Show Announcements 04:33 Today's Topic: Dear Son, Do as I Say, Not as I Did 06:29 Father-Son Conversations and Lessons 11:45 Conflict Resolution Among Young Men 16:10 Teaching Practical Skills to Sons 20:12 Generational Criticism and Changing Times 21:20 Handling Confrontation with Wisdom 22:20 Teaching Moments and Personal Growth 27:37 Communication and Responsibility 40:57 Aligning Actions with Words 45:52 Conclusion and Final Thoughts #Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk  Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac   Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel,  2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video,  4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com  Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors:  Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show   Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com   My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially:  https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast   https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast   The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma  2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-son/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    46 min
  2. Accepting Help | Better Together | Ep 1

    3D AGO

    Accepting Help | Better Together | Ep 1

    Seeds of Growth: Building Bonds, Overcoming Challenges, and Embracing Obedience In this heartfelt episode of the Dead Sun Show, hosts Joe T, Jey Blac, Reggie George, and D Johns delve into the importance of accepting help, the impact of past experiences, and the power of genuine connections. They share personal stories of struggle and resilience, discuss the significance of obedience, and offer powerful messages about trust and community. Join them as they reflect on growth, celebrate progress, and look forward to the collective success of their journey. Don't miss this inspiring conversation, and be sure to subscribe to the channel and leave a review! 00:00 Introduction and Setting the Scene 00:33 Reflecting on Connections and Serendipity 02:04 Welcoming Guests and Sharing Stories 03:17 The Power of Genuine Connections 08:28 The Importance of 'Why' and Personal Motivations 19:56 Learning to Ask for Help 27:07 The Struggles of Asking for Help 27:39 Trust and Vulnerability in Relationships 30:23 Dealing with Grief and Loss 35:37 Building Skills Through Adversity 38:29 The Importance of Communication 49:26 Encouragement and Moving Forward #Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk  Follow us: Reggie - https://instagram.com/fatherfigureapparel Joe T - https://instagram.com/bakeriii Jey Blac - https://instagram.com/jeyblac D Johns - https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast  The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com  Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors:  Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show   Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com   My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially:  https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast   https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast   The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma  2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-son/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    53 min
  3. Marriage Is for the Young | Growing As A Man | Ep 165 | The Dear Son, Show

    12/30/2025

    Marriage Is for the Young | Growing As A Man | Ep 165 | The Dear Son, Show

    Fatherhood Lessons & Life Conversations  In this episode of 'The Dear Son, Show,' we dive deep into meaningful conversations about fatherhood with special guest, Antoine Clark. D Johns, the host, leads the discussion on the dynamics of growing up with different parental structures, the influence of parenting on shaping futures, and the vital lessons about responsibility and growth. From childhood experiences to navigating adulthood, both speakers reflect on their journeys, share personal stories, and offer insights into fostering strong family bonds. Don't miss this heartfelt discussion that bridges the gaps between parents and children and explores how we can lead by example. Subscribe to the channel and let us know in the comments which part of the discussion resonated with you the most! 00:00 Introduction to the Dear Son Show 00:17 Guest Introduction: An Swan Clark 00:30 Childhood Memories and Family Dynamics 01:17 Father's Influence and Life Lessons 04:37 Marriage and Commitment Perspectives 08:40 Raising Children and Parental Reflections 26:01 Learning Through Experiences 26:26 Balancing Freedom and Responsibility 26:45 Navigating New Experiences 28:28 Conversations About Relationships 29:24 Blended Families and Parenting 29:49 Setting Standards and Discipline 41:01 Financial Wisdom and Legacy 46:15 Reflections on Fatherhood 51:28 Closing Thoughts and Farewell #Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk  Follow Antoine: https://instagram.com/iamadotclark   Follow ClarkWork Productions: https://instagram.com/clarkworkproductions Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel,  2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video,  4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com  Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors:  Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show   Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com   My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially:  https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast   https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast   The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma  2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-son/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    53 min
  4. Nepotism Is The Only Way | The 2025 Wrap-Up | Ep 164 | The Dear Son, Show

    12/28/2025

    Nepotism Is The Only Way | The 2025 Wrap-Up | Ep 164 | The Dear Son, Show

    Year End Reflections: Wisdom We Wish We Had Learned Sooner  In this episode of 'The Dear Son, Show,' hosts Jey Blac and D Johns engage in a deep and reflective conversation to discuss the wisdom they wish they had known earlier in life. As they navigate through topics like celebrating holidays, the importance of valuing time with family, and lessons learned from 2025, Jey and D Johns offer valuable insights. They touch on topics such as hiring family members, dealing with imposter syndrome, fostering meaningful relationships, and preparing for the future. Tune in for a heartfelt episode that promises to spark meaningful conversations in your home. Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe! Let us know your favorite part in the comment section below. 00:00 Introduction and Holiday Vibes 00:40 Birthday Reflections and Festive Mood 02:29 Studio Updates and Group Chat Buzz 04:17 Topic Introduction: Dear Son, Why Should I Hire You? 05:38 Parental Perspectives on Hiring Family 21:09 Generational Stacking and Family Legacy 27:06 Settling in Texas: Establishing Roots 27:39 Embracing Louisiana Culture 28:40 Challenges of Distance and Travel 31:07 Reflecting on 2025: Lessons and Growth 36:05 Parenting Insights and Family Dynamics 41:52 Navigating Relationships and Personal Growth 42:48 Academic Pursuits and Generational Gaps 47:32 Commitment to Personal and Professional Development 53:07 Closing Thoughts and New Year Wishes #Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk  Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac   Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel,  2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video,  4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com  Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors:  Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show   Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com   My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially:  https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast   https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast   The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma  2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-son/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    55 min
  5. All Dad Wants For Christmas Is | Reclaiming Your Dreams | Ep 163 | The Dear Son, Show

    12/24/2025

    All Dad Wants For Christmas Is | Reclaiming Your Dreams | Ep 163 | The Dear Son, Show

    Dreams Deferred: Fathers and Their Unspoken Desires Welcome to the 'Dear Son, Show,' where meaningful conversations about life and fatherhood unfold. In this episode, hosts D Johns and Jey Blac delve into the often overlooked dreams and aspirations of fathers. They discuss the balance between providing for their families and pursuing their own passions, sharing personal anecdotes of dreams deferred and the emotional impact of sacrifices made for their loved ones. With humor and honesty, they explore the importance of acknowledging and sharing personal dreams, offering a heartfelt perspective on fatherhood, ambition, and self-worth. Join the conversation, subscribe to the channel, and leave a review to support the show! 00:00 Welcome to the Dead Son Show 00:38 Upcoming Live Event Announcement 01:50 Excitement and Reflections 02:33 Dear Son: Christmas Wishes 05:50 Dreams and Sacrifices 08:58 Self-Worth and Family Dynamics 12:16 Balancing Self and Family 16:25 The Importance of Self-Acknowledgment 22:47 Balancing Family and Personal Aspirations 23:11 The Joy of Traveling and Motorcycling 23:46 Sacrifices for Family Stability 25:41 Reflecting on Personal Dreams and Family Responsibilities 28:17 Encouraging and Understanding Spousal Dreams 35:08 Navigating Personal Failures and Embarrassment 44:07 The Importance of Intentionality and Family Moments #Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk All Dad Wants For Christmas Is | Reclaiming Your Dreams | Ep 163 | The Dear Son, Show Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac  Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel,  2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video,  4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com  Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors:  Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show   Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com   My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially:  https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast   https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast   The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma  2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-son/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    45 min
  6. Dear Son, I Love You, But... | Ep 162 | The Dear Son, Show

    12/18/2025

    Dear Son, I Love You, But... | Ep 162 | The Dear Son, Show

    Navigating Parenthood with Love and Discipline In this engaging episode of the Dear Son Show, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns share exciting news about their first-ever live show scheduled for January 18th, 2026 in Mansfield, Texas. They discuss the importance of meaningful conversations for young boys and men, reflecting on lessons learned and sharing fatherhood experiences. Key topics include setting boundaries, expressing love while addressing wrongdoings, and preparing children for adulthood. The conversation takes a humorous turn when they delve into personal anecdotes, highlighting the complexities of family dynamics and the significance of clear communication. 00:00 Introduction and Greetings 00:42 Exciting Announcement: First Live Show 02:10 Reflecting on Past Events and Relationships 04:27 Parenting Challenges and Responsibilities 08:01 Managing Expectations and Responsibilities 12:48 Addressing Family Dynamics and Communication 23:41 Facing Rejection and Adjusting Expectations 24:38 Learning Self-Reliance from a Young Age 25:15 The Impact of Over-Nurturing on Independence 26:36 Setting Boundaries in Relationships 28:56 The Consequences of Leading with Money 30:46 The Importance of Communication and Sharing Perspectives 32:26 Navigating Life's Challenges Together 41:21 Reflecting on Personal Growth and Future Plans #Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk  Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac  Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel,  2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video,  4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com  Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors:  Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show   Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com  My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially:  https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast   https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast  The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma  2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-son/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    47 min
  7. A Performative Kind of Love | w AD The Greatest | Ep 161 | The Dear Son, Show

    12/15/2025

    A Performative Kind of Love | w AD The Greatest | Ep 161 | The Dear Son, Show

    In this heartfelt episode of the 'Dear Son, Show,' we dive into a profound conversation about life, fatherhood, and self-discovery. Host, D Johns explores the journey of our guest, Alexander Dixon, who shares his experiences growing up with absent parents, navigating the pressures of performance, dealing with anger and depression, and ultimately finding his identity as a father. Join us as we unpack the challenges and triumphs of breaking generational patterns, healing emotional wounds, and raising children with love and integrity. Don't forget to subscribe to the channel for more meaningful conversations and let us know which part resonated with you the most in the comments section! 00:00 Introduction to the Dear Son Show 00:17 Guest Introduction and Initial Conversation 01:23 Childhood Reflections and Family Background 03:14 Navigating Adolescence and Parental Relationships 05:31 High School Challenges and Relocation to Texas 10:39 Understanding Parental Struggles and Personal Growth 14:33 Transition to Adulthood and Early Fatherhood 20:04 Parenting Challenges and Personal Reflections 31:26 Balancing Parenthood and Personal Identity 31:55 Facing Emotional Vulnerability 33:02 The Pressure of Performance 34:28 Navigating Fatherhood and Personal Sacrifices 36:14 Rebuilding Relationships and Self-Discovery 39:24 Co-Parenting and Acceptance 41:58 Generational Reflections and Parenting Wisdom 57:45 Final Thoughts and Reflections #Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk  Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac   Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel,  2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video,  4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com  Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors:  Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show   Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com   My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially:  https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast   https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast   The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma  2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-son/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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  8. Clearing the Path Through Life's Storms | Ep 160 | The Dear Son, Show

    12/11/2025

    Clearing the Path Through Life's Storms | Ep 160 | The Dear Son, Show

    In this engaging episode of The Dear Son Show, hosts D Johns and Jey Blac dive into meaningful conversations about life through the lens of fatherhood. They discuss the importance of preparing for life's storms, both anticipated and unexpected, and share personal stories of overcoming challenges. D Johns talks about his health scare that changed his perspective on life, while Jey Blac reveals how a tragic family loss shaped his identity and resilience. The hosts also explore the impact of public embarrassment and the value of seeking help when needed. Whether you're a father, have a father, or are navigating life without one, this episode offers valuable insights and encouragement for weathering life's storms. Don't forget to subscribe and let us know in the comments which part resonated with you the most! 00:00 Introduction and Greetings 00:44 Holiday Season Excitement 01:05 NAACP Event Recap 01:30 Community Engagement 03:06 Support and Viral Success 04:05 Today's Topic: Dear Sun 04:50 Navigating Life's Storms 10:50 Entrepreneurship Challenges 11:53 Personal Growth and Adjustments 22:37 Public Embarrassment and Family Expectations 25:28 Facing Consequences: A CDL Story 26:35 The Snowball Effect of Ignoring Fines 28:15 The Importance of Preparation and Support 30:26 Creating and Surviving Your Own Storms 33:30 Maintaining Character in Tough Times 34:45 Judgment and Empathy During Hardships 38:38 The Impact of Family and Support Systems 41:05 Personal Reflections on Overcoming Adversity 44:37 Health Scares and Life Changes 51:47 Final Thoughts and Lessons Learned #Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-son/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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This is a safe space to build upon and reinforce the values of fatherhood. We'll explore the gaps between the current generation of fathers and fathers of generations past, and mature the dialogue that will close those gaps for the generations to come. Whether your passion is to be a great father or peel back the layers of why your father wasn't present in your life (physically and/or emotionally), this is for you. Let's grow through it.

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  • Creator
    Derek Johns
  • Years Active
    2020 - 2026
  • Episodes
    165
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Derek Johns
  • Show Website
    Dear Son,

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