That's Orgasmic with Sexologist Emily Duncan

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A sex positive podcast that provides a shame free perspective on all things sex. Nothing is off bounds in this uncensored podcast, delving into all the juicy and taboo topics you can imagine. Most importantly this podcast aims to break down the stigmas surrounding sex and provide the tools to create a liberating sexual experience for everyone. Disclaimer: the educational information within this podcast does not take place of professional or medical advice. FOLLOW US on instagram @thatsorgasmic. Email your questions, stories and comments to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com This podcast is created on the land of the Wadawurrung people, the traditional custodians of this land. I pay my respects to Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander Elders past and present. I acknowledge that it always was and always will be Aboriginal land.

  1. 12h ago

    195 How to sustain desire in a long-term relationship with Brooke Bralove

    Emily talks with Brooke Bralove, LCSW-C, CST, a psychotherapist and certified sex therapist with over 20 years of experience. They look at what desire is, why it fades in long-term relationships, and practical ways to rebuild it. Topics include mismatched libidos, talking openly about sex, and exploring fantasy. Timestamps 0:00 Introduction 0:20 What is desire? 2:53 What desire needs: presence, curiosity, safety 7:59 Pressure, obligation and expanding what sex means 11:42 Why desire decreases in long-term relationships 16:49 Mismatched libidos 22:51 Why we have sex, and arousal before desire 25:21 Talking about sex when you never have 28:02 Finding and understanding your fantasies 36:48 Sharing fantasies: the Yes/No/Maybe list 40:59 Final advice: owning your desire 43:04 What's orgasmic to Brooke 44:10 Where to find Brooke Resources mentioned Yes/No/Maybe list Dipsea and Rosie (audio erotica apps) Waking the Hand exercise by Betty Martin (search YouTube) Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products? Use code thatsorgasmic10 Submit your anonymous question for the podcast Anonymous question link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call HERE with Emily at The Sexual Wellness Centre Connect with Brooke Bralove Website: brookebralove.com Instagram: @brookebralovepsychotherapy See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

  2. Sep 30

    194 Exploring your dominant energy in the bedroom with Amanda Dames - The Kink Consultant

    In this episode, Emily talks with Amanda Dames, the Kink Consultant, about kink, dominance, and how to explore desires safely and authentically. They discuss: Amanda’s journey from working as a dominatrix to becoming a sexologist and coach Different dominant styles, including soft dom, caretaker, and disciplinarian Why dominance is a skill How to explore kink without pretending to be someone you’re not Consent, negotiation, boundaries, and safe words What to do when partners have different interests in kink Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products? Use code thatsorgasmic10 Submit your anonymous question for the podcast Anonymous question link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call HERE with Emily at The Sexual Wellness Centre Amanda's Links: Website: https://www.amandadames.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thekinkconsultant/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@the_kinkconsultant YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thekinkconsultant Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-kink-consultant/id1766435920 Guide for couples with mismatched desire to have more open and honest conversations in a safe framework: https://www.amandadames.com/Speak-Your-Desires-with-Confidence-opt-in-1 BDSM Menu for couples who are curious to explore each other's kinks: https://www.amandadames.com/bdsmlist See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

  3. Sep 24

    193 I want to date women but I'm experiencing shame - Ask A Sexologist

    Shame around queer desire does not disappear just because you want it to. If you were raised in the church and are now trying to explore dating women for the first time, this episode gives you a practical way to untangle what was taught to you from what you actually want. Emily, a sex and relationship therapist, answers a listener question from a woman in her early 30s who feels stuck between curiosity and shame. Emily breaks the problem into two parts: how to unpack religious shame, and how to take real, manageable steps toward dating women.   Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products? Use code thatsorgasmic10 Submit your anonymous question for the podcast Anonymous question link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call HERE with Emily at The Sexual Wellness Centre   See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

  4. Sep 16

    192 You’re already orgasmic, how to remove the blocks to reach orgasm with Emma Swain

    Orgasms are not a finish line - they’re a state of being, and most women/AFAB have been taught the wrong way to access them. Sex and relationship therapist Emily sits down with sensual embodiment coach Emma Swain to unpack why so many people feel blocked, disappointed, or “not orgasmic,” and how to move from pressure and performance into real, sustained pleasure. Emma challenges the idea that orgasm is just a physical peak and breaks it open into something much bigger: emotional release, energetic expansion, nervous system safety, and full-body surrender. If you’ve ever felt like your body “doesn’t work,” only orgasms with one specific method, or rushes straight to a quick climax and drops off, this conversation will shift the way you think about pleasure completely. Emma’s Instagram   Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products? Use code thatsorgasmic10   Submit your anonymous question for the podcast Anonymous question link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call HERE with Emily at The Sexual Wellness Centre See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

  5. Sep 9

    191 Why women pay for sex - the experience of hiring an escort with Anna Grosman

    Women are being told to wait, stay quiet, and keep their desires small, but what if pleasure could be something you choose on your own terms? Anna Grosman, founder of Her Confidant, shares how she built Australia’s only female-led agency offering curated intimate experiences for women and couples, and why more women than ever are quietly reclaiming intimacy, confidence, and connection. From her own journey growing up in a conservative family to creating two businesses in this space, Anna opens up about the stigma she’s fighting, the women she serves, and the life-changing conversations happening before a booking ever takes place. She explains how Her Confidant works, why every client begins with a deeply personal consultation, and how the experience is designed to feel safe, respectful, and fully tailored from start to finish. You’ll discover: What sexual experiences at Her Confidant look like How Anna matches clients with companions using intuition, experience, and careful screening The role trauma awareness, consent, and trust play in creating a safe sexual experience Why some clients say this experience has done more for them than years of therapy How intimacy, touch, and pleasure can support confidence at every age Anna Grosman is the founder of Her Confidant, Australia’s only female-led agency providing curated intimate experiences for women and couples.    Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products? Use code thatsorgasmic10   Submit your anonymous question for the podcast Anonymous question link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call HERE with Emily at The Sexual Wellness CentreHer Confidant Instagram Her Confidant Website Her Confidant LinkedIn See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

  6. Sep 2

    190 Dickfishing - Ask A Sexologist

    Welcome to the first episode of Ask a Sexologist, where listeners send in their questions, stories and dilemmas, and Emily, a sex and relationship therapist, weighs in. Today's episode explores catfishing. Submit your anonymous question for the podcast   Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products? Use code thatsorgasmic10 Anonymous question link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call HERE with Emily at The Sexual Wellness Centre See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

  7. Aug 26

    189 Why do people get turned on by humiliation? with Sexologist Lex Nyree

    Emily is joined by sexologist and sex educator Lex Nyree to unpack humiliation kinks. They cover what counts as humiliation versus degradation, why some people are drawn to it, and how to explore it without crossing into harm. The conversation also goes deep on consent, aftercare, and why having this kink does not automatically mean someone has low self-esteem. Key topics Lex defines humiliation kink. Examples discussed include verbal humiliation, small penis humiliation, service humiliation, public embarrassment scenarios, forced feminisation, and financial domination. Emily and Lex discuss why humiliation kink can be appealing, including the release of control, novelty, sexual association developed over time, and accidental discovery through play. They discuss what it means to have a fantasy vs kink that is practised. Safety. Lex describes the experience of both submissives and dominants. They discuss how to bring up your humiliation kink with a partner. Does having a humiliation kink mean you have low self-esteem?   Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products? Use code thatsorgasmic10 Submit your anonymous question for the podcast Anonymous question link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call HERE with Emily at The Sexual Wellness Centre www.sexwithlex.com.au Instagram @sexwithlexmelb See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

  8. Aug 19

    188 Missionary sex shouldn’t be boring, if it is, you’re doing it wrong

    In this episode, Emily explores how to spice up the missionary position. Missionary can get a bad rap, dismissed as boring or too vanilla, but it doesn't have to be. Emily shares 8 ways to bring more pleasure, connection and excitement into missionary, proving there's way more to this position than people give it credit for. Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products? Use code thatsorgasmic10   Submit your anonymous question for the podcast Anonymous question link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call HERE with Emily at The Sexual Wellness Centre   See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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A sex positive podcast that provides a shame free perspective on all things sex. Nothing is off bounds in this uncensored podcast, delving into all the juicy and taboo topics you can imagine. Most importantly this podcast aims to break down the stigmas surrounding sex and provide the tools to create a liberating sexual experience for everyone. Disclaimer: the educational information within this podcast does not take place of professional or medical advice. FOLLOW US on instagram @thatsorgasmic. Email your questions, stories and comments to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com This podcast is created on the land of the Wadawurrung people, the traditional custodians of this land. I pay my respects to Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander Elders past and present. I acknowledge that it always was and always will be Aboriginal land.

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