Talk Sex with Annette

Talk Sex with Annette

Talk Sex with Annette Where desire meets disruption—and pleasure becomes power. Hosted by sex and intimacy coach Annette Benedetti, Talk Sex with Annette is the go-to podcast for bold, unfiltered conversations at the intersection of sexuality, identity, and empowerment. From kink to connection, self-love to sexual healing, Annette dives into the topics most people are too afraid to touch—with expert guests, raw storytelling, and a feminist lens that challenges shame and reclaims pleasure. Think smart, sexy, and radically real: this is the cultural conversation around sex that’s long overdue. 

  1. Solo Sex Is Exploding—and It’s Making People Better Lovers

    8H AGO

    Solo Sex Is Exploding—and It’s Making People Better Lovers

    Send us a text In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, we explore why solo pleasure is becoming a major cultural shift—and how it’s actually improving partnered sex, not replacing it. Joined by Sarah Tomchesson, Certified Intimacy Coach and Director of Marketing at Magic Wand, we break down insights from the 2026 Sexual Wellness Trends Report based on data from 1,000 participants. The findings reveal how solo sex supports desire, confidence, nervous system regulation, and deeper intimacy with partners. We cover: Why solo sex is increasing across generationsHow pleasure-focused practices improve partnered sexWhy orgasm isn’t the goal—and why that leads to better sexSimple ways to start a solo pleasure practice that supports real connectionThis conversation blends culture, science, and real-life experience to reframe pleasure as a powerful tool for better sex and stronger relationships. 👉 Join me for 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ 🎧 Listen to more episodes of Talk Sex with Annette: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette 🔞 Want demos, how-tos & guided self-pleasure meditations? Join me on OnlyFans → Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Experience the Pheromone Advantage at 15% off  with my code LRT15 Use code LRT15  at Eyeoflove.com  And you'll get 15% off pheromone powered perfumes, colognes, and more. Check out my Diaries on OF. Enjoy exclusive access to intimacy video how-tos, guided self-pleasure meditations, and more! https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content: She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.com Cheers!

    58 min
  2. Can’t Stay Hard? Here’s How to Still Satisfy Her (Women Remember This)

    1D AGO

    Can’t Stay Hard? Here’s How to Still Satisfy Her (Women Remember This)

    Send us a text Losing an erection during intimacy is far more common than people admit — but what you do next is what actually defines great lovers. In this episode, I walk you through exactly what to do when an erection is lost, how to stay confident and connected in the moment, and how to continue sex in a way that still deeply satisfies her. Because sex isn’t penetration-based — it’s presence-based. This is a grounded, science-informed how-to that shows you how to: Respond calmly instead of panicking when arousal dropsStay erotically present instead of pulling awayShift the moment so intimacy doesn’t collapseRedefine sex beyond penetrationSatisfy her in ways that women actually rememberWe’ll also talk about why pressure shuts arousal down, how adaptability builds desire, and why confidence isn’t about performance — it’s about leadership in unexpected moments. 🔗 Full Yoni Massage How-To: https://youtu.be/r_GBSSvdvWw 🔗 FirmTech Ring (with discount Annette15): https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti 🔗 FirmTech Ring Review: https://youtu.be/n9nCYX3VAZ4 This episode is for anyone who wants to feel more confident, connected, and unforgettable in bed — even when things don’t go exactly as planned. If this helped reframe something for you, consider sharing it with someone who needs to hear it. 👉 Join me for 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ 🎧 Listen to more episodes of Talk Sex with Annette: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette 🔞 Want demos, how-tos & guided self-pleasure meditations? Join me on OnlyFans →https://talksexwithannette Subscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/e976 Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content: She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.com Cheers!

    15 min
  3. 2026 Sex Reset for Men: Stop Performance Anxiety & Get Harder, Longer, Better

    JAN 7

    2026 Sex Reset for Men: Stop Performance Anxiety & Get Harder, Longer, Better

    Send us a text Every January, men promise to fix their bodies and stop worrying about performance in bed. But what if trying harder is actually the problem? In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, we dive into the 2026 Sex Reset for Men with sex and relationship coach Caitlin V, host of Good Sex on Discovery+ and HBO Max, and author of Harder, Better, Longer, Stronger. We explore why performance anxiety disrupts confidence, arousal, and connection, how the nervous system plays a bigger role than most men realize, and what actually helps men feel confident and present in bed again. This episode is for men ready to move out of performance mode—and for partners who want better, more connected intimacy in 2026. Find out more about Caitlin V Here: https://caitlinvneal.com/harder-better-longer-stronger-the-book/ 👉 Join me for 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ 🎧 Listen to more episodes of Talk Sex with Annette: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette 🔞 Want demos, how-tos & guided self-pleasure meditations? Join me on OnlyFans →https://talksexwitha Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Experience the Pheromone Advantage at 15% off  with my code LRT15 Use code LRT15  at Eyeoflove.com  And you'll get 15% off pheromone powered perfumes, colognes, and more. Check out my Diaries on OF. Enjoy exclusive access to intimacy video how-tos, guided self-pleasure meditations, and more! https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content: She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.com Cheers!

    59 min
  4. The One Clitoral  Mistake That’s Kills Orgasms & The Technique That Fixes It!

    JAN 6

    The One Clitoral Mistake That’s Kills Orgasms & The Technique That Fixes It!

    Send us a text Most people think they know how the clitoris works.  They don’t. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I break down the one c**t move that quietly kills orgasms—and the simple shift that changes everything. We’re talking about why overstimulation backfires, how the nervous system actually responds to touch, and what creates arousal that builds instead of shuts down. If orgasms feel inconsistent, muted, or harder to reach than they used to be, this episode will change how you think about pleasure. 👉 Follow here, subscribe to the podcast, and visit my website to stay close as the 365 journey begins here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Because pleasure doesn’t come from trying harder.  It comes from learning how to stay. 🎧 Listen to more episodes of Talk Sex with Annette: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette 🔞 Want demos, how-tos & guided self-pleasure meditations? Join me on OnlyFans →https://talksexwithannette.com/talksexwithme Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content: She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.com Cheers!

    15 min
  5. I'm Inviting You To 365 Days of Orgasms in 2026. Cheers!

    12/31/2025

    I'm Inviting You To 365 Days of Orgasms in 2026. Cheers!

    Send us a text In 2022, I made a decision that changed my life. I committed to 365 Days of Orgasms — and what began as a personal experiment became a radical return to pleasure, embodiment, and self-trust. In this episode, I’m inviting you into a new version of that journey for 2026: 365 Days of Orgasms: Pleasure Is the Resolution. This is not a challenge. It’s a daily pleasure practice and an erotic journey designed to help you reconnect with your body, your desire, and your sense of aliveness — without pressure or performance. *Throughout the year, we’ll explore: *Orgasm as awareness, energy, and emotional release *G-spot, A-spot, and blended pleasure pathways *How desire returns when the body feels safe *How pleasure deepens confidence, creativity, and connection *How erotic energy expands into the rest of your life This journey is designed for Everyone. Here’s all you need to do: Subscribe to this podcast and follow me on social media — that’s where I’ll be sharing daily guidance, reflections, and weekly practices. Bookmark this page: 👉 https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Follow Me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/annettebenedetti/ Find me on Tiktok https://www.tiktok.com/@talksexwithannette Everything for the journey will live there. Sign up for my e-newsletter here: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/bd6aad2504 Starting January 1, 2026, simply check in once a day for the next 365 days. Daily inspiration. Clear guidance. Gentle practices. ✨ Come with me every day this year. ✨ 🎧 Listen to more episodes of Talk Sex with Annette: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette 🔞 Want demos, how-tos & guided self-pleasure meditati Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content: She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.com Cheers!

    12 min
  6. Do This for 5 Minutes a Day — And Sex Stops Feeling Like Work

    12/30/2025

    Do This for 5 Minutes a Day — And Sex Stops Feeling Like Work

    Send us a text When sex starts feeling like work, it’s not because desire is broken. It’s because the body has learned to brace. In this episode, I teach a five-minute pleasure practice that helps the body relax out of performance mode and back into genuine arousal — without pressure, goals, or trying to “make” anything happen. This is the exact kind of practice I’ll be guiding inside 365 Days of Orgasms, my upcoming daily pleasure journey for 2026. You’ll learn: Why many women stop wanting sex even when attraction is still thereHow goal-oriented touch shuts arousal downThe nervous-system reason sex starts to feel draining instead of nourishingA simple, repeatable five-minute practice you can do solo or with a partnerHow steady, non-demanding touch helps desire return naturallyWhy this approach trains partners to become better lovers without learning more “moves”This practice is especially powerful if sex has started to feel heavy, pressured, or avoidable — or if you’ve noticed pulling away, shutting down, or feeling disconnected when erotic touch begins. You’ll also hear how this work becomes the foundation for deeper pleasure, internal arousal, emotional release, and embodied connection inside 365 Days of Orgasms — a year-long invitation to explore pleasure without pressure. No performance.  No fixing.  Just five minutes of touch the body can actually receive. 👉 Follow here, subscribe to the podcast, and visit my website to stay close as the 365 journey begins here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Because pleasure doesn’t come from trying harder.  It comes from learning how to stay. 🎧 Listen to more episodes of Talk Sex with Annette: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette 🔞 Want demos, how-tos & guided self-pleasure meditations? Join me on OnlyFans →https://talksexwithannette.com/ta Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content: She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.com Cheers!

    16 min
  7. Sex Resolutions for 2026 That Actually Change Your Life (In and Out of the Bedroom)

    12/24/2025

    Sex Resolutions for 2026 That Actually Change Your Life (In and Out of the Bedroom)

    Send us a text Every year we promise ourselves more sex, better performance, or more confidence — and every year those goals quietly fall apart. In this episode, I’m joined by sex educator Goody Howard to talk about a different approach to sexual resolutions for 2026 — one that focuses on intention, education, and pleasure that actually lasts. This isn’t about pressure or porn-inspired goals. It’s about setting sexual intentions that support your body, deepen intimacy, and create better sex, not just more of it — in and out of the bedroom. In this conversation, we explore: Why “more sex” usually isn’t the answerWhat actually helps sexual goals stickHow education and intention lead to better intimacyA more realistic, embodied way to think about sexual growth in 2026If you’re ready for a smarter, more grounded approach to your sex life in the new year, this episode is for you. Find Goody here: https://www.instagram.com/askgoody The Peach toy: https://youtu.be/tm6r87jv6Ps 🎧 Listen to more episodes of Talk Sex with Annette: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette 🔞 Want demos, how-tos & guided self-pleasure meditations? Join me on OnlyFans →https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Subscribe to my Substack → https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/ Subscribe to my e-newsletter: Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Experience the Pheromone Advantage at 15% off  with my code LRT15 Use code LRT15  at Eyeoflove.com  And you'll get 15% off pheromone powered perfumes, colognes, and more. Check out my Diaries on OF. Enjoy exclusive access to intimacy video how-tos, guided self-pleasure meditations, and more! https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content: She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.com Cheers!

    54 min
  8. Size Doesn’t Matter If You Use These 3 Sex Positions

    12/22/2025

    Size Doesn’t Matter If You Use These 3 Sex Positions

    Send us a text If you’ve ever worried that pleasure depends on size, this episode will completely change how you think about intimacy. In this video, Annette breaks down three sex positions that feel incredible—no matter your size—because they work with anatomy, angle, rhythm, and the nervous system, not performance pressure. This is not about going harder, deeper, or faster. It’s about understanding what actually helps bodies respond, relax, and experience more pleasure. You’ll learn: Why size is rarely the reason intimacy doesn’t feel greatHow angle and positioning matter more than depthThree positions that increase comfort, connection, and sensationHow to enhance partnered pleasure safely using supportive toolsWhy reducing anxiety and pressure makes pleasure more accessible for both partnersThis episode is educational, body-positive, and focused on connection over performance—designed for anyone who wants intimacy that feels better, not more stressful. More How-Tos on Missionary: https://youtu.be/sYgwo-0DDKw Womanizer Enhance Review: https://youtu.be/PHivDXUnL3E Firmtech Tech Ring: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Firm Tech Ring Review: https://youtu.be/n9nCYX3VAZ4 Intimacy wedge: https://lovehoneyus.sjv.io/GKeMN2 🎧 Listen to more episodes of Talk Sex with Annette: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette 🔞 Want demos, how-tos & guided self-pleasure meditations? Join me on OnlyFans →https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Subscribe to my Substack → https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/ Subscribe to my e-newsletter: Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content: She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.com Cheers!

    12 min
4.2
out of 5
59 Ratings

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Talk Sex with Annette Where desire meets disruption—and pleasure becomes power. Hosted by sex and intimacy coach Annette Benedetti, Talk Sex with Annette is the go-to podcast for bold, unfiltered conversations at the intersection of sexuality, identity, and empowerment. From kink to connection, self-love to sexual healing, Annette dives into the topics most people are too afraid to touch—with expert guests, raw storytelling, and a feminist lens that challenges shame and reclaims pleasure. Think smart, sexy, and radically real: this is the cultural conversation around sex that’s long overdue. 

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