Talk Sex with Annette

Talk Sex with Annette
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Talk Sex with Annette Where desire meets disruption—and pleasure becomes power. Hosted by sex and intimacy coach Annette Benedetti, Talk Sex with Annette is the go-to podcast for bold, unfiltered conversations at the intersection of sexuality, identity, and empowerment. From kink to connection, self-love to sexual healing, Annette dives into the topics most people are too afraid to touch—with expert guests, raw storytelling, and a feminist lens that challenges shame and reclaims pleasure. Think smart, sexy, and radically real: this is the cultural conversation around sex that’s long overdue. 

  1. How to Edge Her Until She Begs: My 5 Move System

    2d ago

    How to Edge Her Until She Begs: My 5 Move System

    Send us Fan Mail You can take her to a regular orgasm. Or you can take her to one she'll be thinking about for weeks. Edging is the difference. In this episode, I'm breaking down 5 moves for how to edge her with your hands until she begs you to let her finish. The four signs that tell you she's at the edge. How to pull her back without losing her. Why each climb gets faster. How many edges actually work. And how to let her finish in a way that triggers a rolling orgasm she's never had with anyone. This episode also addresses something most edging content ignores: what to do with a partner who struggles to orgasm at all. I'm one of those women, and I'm walking through how to build toward edging when she can't easily get to the edge in the first place. We're covering:  → The 4 science-backed signs she's about to come  → The pull back — and why stopping completely ruins everything → How to bring her back up faster each time  → The 3-edge rule and when to break it  → The release that triggers a rolling orgasm → How to use toys like the Womanizer Enhance, Womanizer Duo, and We-Vibe Rave 2 to extend the experience Whether you're doing this with a partner who comes easily or one who's never been able to with you — this episode changes the game. Toys mentioned in the episode can be found at the links below. Use my code ANNETTE15 for 15% Off Womanizer Premium 2: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-premium-2 Womanizer Enhance: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-enhance Womanizer Next: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-next Womanizer Next Duo: https://womanizer-north-america.sjv.io/vDxxjA Womanizer Blend: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Choose Your Weopon For Masturbation May! All the toys, for all the best orgasms. ANNETTE15 for 15% Off at Womanizer.com : https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnetteAnnette's Insta: @Annette BenedettiMy OF: @talksexwithannetteFB: @TalksexwithAnnetteWebsite: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    18 min
  2. How Porn Ruined Men's Foreplay — And the 3-Word Cheat Sheet That Fixes It

    May 27

    How Porn Ruined Men's Foreplay — And the 3-Word Cheat Sheet That Fixes It

    Send us Fan Mail Most men learned foreplay from porn. And porn doesn't do foreplay — it does a sped-up, skip-to-the-good-part performance that taught an entire generation that touching a woman is just a formality. She's lying there wondering why she isn't feeling it. It's not her. It's the script. Today's guest has spent 17 years collecting real-world data on exactly what porn got wrong — and what women actually need. Cindy Gallop is the founder and CEO of MakeLoveNotPorn, the world's first real-world sex platform, former Advertising Woman of the Year, and one of the most talked-about TED speakers in history. In this episode: Why porn turned foreplay into a formality — and what she actually needs insteadThe 3-word cheat sheet every woman wishes her partner hadWhy lube and toys aren't optional — they're the whole gameHow to talk about sex in bed without killing the moodWhat real-world sex actually looks like versus the porn performanceWhy good foreplay starts way before anyone gets nakedFindy Cindy Here On Substack: https://dearcindy.substack.com/p/yes-you-really-can-ask-me-anything All of Cindy's Links: https://linktr.ee/cindygallop Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Choose Your Weopon For Masturbation May! All the toys, for all the best orgasms. ANNETTE15 for 15% Off at Womanizer.com : https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnetteAnnette's Insta: @Annette BenedettiMy OF: @talksexwithannetteFB: @TalksexwithAnnetteWebsite: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    59 min
  3. 5 Hand Techniques That Finish Her Every Time

    May 25

    5 Hand Techniques That Finish Her Every Time

    Send us Fan Mail Most partners use one move with their hands. There are dozens. And most men have never heard of the deeper spot that changes everything. This episode is a complete guide — how to prep your hands so she actually wants them on her body, the five named techniques that produce completely different sensations, the two internal spots most partners don't know exist, and the combination move that gives her something she literally cannot give herself. What you'll learn:  ✔ Why prepping your hands is foreplay (and most men skip it)  ✔ How to build her response before you ever go where she wants you  ✔ My top 5 techniques by name — circling, figure 8, broadening, cupping, the Hail Mary  ✔ The two internal spots and what each one responds to  ✔ The combination that gives her something no toy and no other body part can  ✔ The finishing rule — and when to throw it out because she told you to Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Choose Your Weopon For Masturbation May! All the toys, for all the best orgasms. ANNETTE15 for 15% Off at Womanizer.com : https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnetteAnnette's Insta: @Annette BenedettiMy OF: @talksexwithannetteFB: @TalksexwithAnnetteWebsite: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    20 min
  4. The Alpha Male Script Is Killing Your Sex Life — This Is What She Actually Wants

    May 20

    The Alpha Male Script Is Killing Your Sex Life — This Is What She Actually Wants

    Send us Fan Mail Alpha male culture is teaching men to dominate, never ask, never show need — and it is quietly destroying their sex lives. Today I'm joined by James Harris, licensed mental health therapist, US Army veteran, and founder of Men to Heal, who has spent a decade watching this play out in real relationships. He's not here to shame men — he's here to give them what the alpha podcasters never do: the actual truth about what makes women want you. What you'll learn: What alpha culture is actually teaching men about sex — and why it backfiresWhy performing masculinity in bed kills pleasure for both peopleThe difference between sex and intimacy — and why it matters for your orgasmWhat vulnerability in a man actually does to a woman's desireHow to undo the conditioning — starting tonightWhether you're the man in this dynamic, the woman watching him disappear into it, or the partner who's been waiting for him to wake up — this one's for you. 🔗 Find James:https://www.mentoheal.com/  Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Choose Your Weopon For Masturbation May! All the toys, for all the best orgasms. ANNETTE15 for 15% Off at Womanizer.com : https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnetteAnnette's Insta: @Annette BenedettiMy OF: @talksexwithannetteFB: @TalksexwithAnnetteWebsite: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    53 min
  5. Lost Your Erection? 5 Moves That Save the Whole Night

    May 18

    Lost Your Erection? 5 Moves That Save the Whole Night

    Send us Fan Mail You went soft during sex. She felt it. And the next thing you did probably made it worse. Every man loses his erection. Most panic, apologize, or shut down — and that reaction does more damage than the erection loss ever did. This episode gives you the five exact moves that keep the moment going, keep her turned on, and get your body back without the shame spiral. Plus: why your erection is one of the earliest warning signs of heart disease, diabetes, and hormonal imbalance — and the tool that actually tracks it. What you'll learn:  ✔ The move that stops both your spiral and hers at the same time  ✔ How to redirect to her pleasure so she barely remembers you went soft  ✔ Three sentences that save the moment (and the one she actually needs to hear)  ✔ Why the erection that comes back is almost always stronger — and how to let it  ✔ The c**k ring that keeps you firm during sex and tracks your health between sessions  ✔ Why your erection is a vital sign and when it's time to talk to your doctor This episode features the FirmTech TechRing and RingMate — the tools I trust and would want my own partner using. 🔗 FirmTech TechRing + RingMate — https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Code: ANNETTE15 for 15% off 🔗 My Full FirmTech RingMate Review —https://youtu.be/xKAvZPN3EXE And the Ring: https://youtu.be/n9nCYX3VAZ4 Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Choose Your Weopon For Masturbation May! All the toys, for all the best orgasms. ANNETTE15 for 15% Off at Womanizer.com : https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnetteAnnette's Insta: @Annette BenedettiMy OF: @talksexwithannetteFB: @TalksexwithAnnetteWebsite: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    20 min
  6. What Women Really Think About Your Balls — Men Take Note!

    May 12

    What Women Really Think About Your Balls — Men Take Note!

    Send us Fan Mail Nobody told us what to do with them. Sex ed skipped them entirely. And somewhere along the way, women just... stopped thinking about them. Until now. Three women sit down and go fully, honestly, hilariously there — what we actually find attractive, what we've been getting wrong, and the moves that will genuinely change what happens in your bedroom tonight. We're getting into: Why so many women are low-key intimidated by them (and how to fix that)The grooming conversation nobody's having — including the Nair tipHow to know he's close without asking a single questionThe cupping trick that speeds everything upWhat we actually want to call them (drop it in the comments👇)This is the conversation your sex ed skipped. Men — take notes. Women — you're welcome. Watch my episode on Ball Busting: https://youtu.be/TIISg3f-O2o Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Choose Your Weopon For Masturbation May! All the toys, for all the best orgasms. ANNETTE15 for 15% Off at Womanizer.com : https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnetteAnnette's Insta: @Annette BenedettiMy OF: @talksexwithannetteFB: @TalksexwithAnnetteWebsite: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    56 min
  7. Praise Kink (Part2) 5 Questions Everyone Keeps Asking (Answered)

    May 11

    Praise Kink (Part2) 5 Questions Everyone Keeps Asking (Answered)

    Send us Fan Mail The Praise Kink episode was one of my biggest videos ever — and your comment section proved you're ready to go deeper. I pulled five questions I kept seeing and I'm giving you the real answers. Research, specifics, and the stuff I didn't have room for the first time around. ✔ What to call her when "good girl" doesn't fit — honorifics, worship titles, and why they work  ✔ Can you flip the praise kink and use it on men — and what does that look like inside the kink  ✔ How to actually build a verbal vocabulary when you've been silent your whole sex life  ✔ Why praise kink might be the most powerful tool for women in menopause  ✔ How to introduce praise kink — whether you've been together two months or twenty years Listen to Praise 5 Praise Kink Moves Part 1 Here: https://youtu.be/HW5PQANI09Y Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Get your subscription for my After Hours audio-guided pleasure/intimate experience here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1692988/subscribe Choose Your Weopon For Masturbation May! All the toys, for all the best orgasms. ANNETTE15 for 15% Off at Womanizer.com : https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnetteAnnette's Insta: @Annette BenedettiMy OF: @talksexwithannetteFB: @TalksexwithAnnetteWebsite: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    26 min
  8. She Stopped Wanting You & The Orgasm Gap Is Why (Here's the Fix!)

    May 6

    She Stopped Wanting You & The Orgasm Gap Is Why (Here's the Fix!)

    Send us Fan Mail She Stopped Wanting You & The Orgasm Gap Is Why (Here's the Fix!) She didn't lose interest in sex. She lost interest in sex that never worked for her. Dr. Candice Nicole Hargons — award-winning psychologist, Emory University professor, and author of Good Sex — breaks down the real data behind the orgasm gap, why it slowly kills a woman's desire, and exactly what closes it. Why 75% of women have faked it (and what that's really costing you)The script both men AND women buy into that kills her desire over timeWhy lesbians are finishing at 88% — and what straight couples can learn from itThe mental load connection nobody talks aboutHow mutual masturbation rewires the whole dynamicWhat to do tonight to start closing the gap for good📖 Good Sex: Stories, Science & Strategies for Sexual Liberation — available now  Find Dr. Hargons: https://www.instagram.com/dr.candicenicole/ https://www.drcandicenicole.com/ My Guide to Best Couple's Sex Toys For Mutual Masturbation: https://talksexwithannette.com/the-best-couples-sex-toys-for-mutual-masturbation/ Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ Choose Your Weopon For Masturbation May! All the toys, for all the best orgasms. ANNETTE15 for 15% Off at Womanizer.com : https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnetteAnnette's Insta: @Annette BenedettiMy OF: @talksexwithannetteFB: @TalksexwithAnnetteWebsite: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

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Talk Sex with Annette Where desire meets disruption—and pleasure becomes power. Hosted by sex and intimacy coach Annette Benedetti, Talk Sex with Annette is the go-to podcast for bold, unfiltered conversations at the intersection of sexuality, identity, and empowerment. From kink to connection, self-love to sexual healing, Annette dives into the topics most people are too afraid to touch—with expert guests, raw storytelling, and a feminist lens that challenges shame and reclaims pleasure. Think smart, sexy, and radically real: this is the cultural conversation around sex that’s long overdue. 

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  • Creator
    Talk Sex with Annette
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2026
  • Episodes
    389
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © 2026 Talk Sex with Annette
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