Talk Sex with Annette

Talk Sex with Annette
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Talk Sex with Annette Where desire meets disruption—and pleasure becomes power. Hosted by sex and intimacy coach Annette Benedetti, Talk Sex with Annette is the go-to podcast for bold, unfiltered conversations at the intersection of sexuality, identity, and empowerment. From kink to connection, self-love to sexual healing, Annette dives into the topics most people are too afraid to touch—with expert guests, raw storytelling, and a feminist lens that challenges shame and reclaims pleasure. Think smart, sexy, and radically real: this is the cultural conversation around sex that’s long overdue. 

  1. 5d ago

    Why Powerful Men Pay a Dominatrix to Take Control (Most Men Will Never Admit This)

    Send us Fan Mail Mistress Marley — professional dominatrix, financial domination specialist, and founder of Haus of Dominance, where she's taught over 10,000 students — breaks down what men are actually paying for, what submission really means, and how to explore giving up control in your own bedroom. In this episode: What a dominatrix actually does — and what a real session looks likeWhy the loudest "alpha males" online are her biggest clientsThe difference between submission and weaknessHow women can find their inner dominant (starting with yourself)How to bring power play into your bedroom — or find a professional the right wayFind Mistress Marley: https://www.servemistressmarley.com/ More: https://www.thechocolatedomme.com/ Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnetteAnnette's Insta: @Annette BenedettiMy OF: @talksexwithannetteFB: @TalksexwithAnnetteWebsite: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    Why Powerful Men Pay a Dominatrix to Take Control (Most Men Will Never Admit This)

  2. 6d ago

    5 Steps to Anal She'll Actually Love (Most Couples Rush #1)

    Send us Fan Mail Anal is one of the most searched sex topics on the internet — and one of the least talked about in actual bedrooms. Everyone's curious. Almost nobody's saying it out loud. This episode is for both of you: the woman who's curious and never said it, and the partner who wants to ask without making it weird. The conversation (including the ten seconds that decide everything), the safety rules nobody explains properly, why her body is genuinely wired to love this, and the five steps from curious to craving it — on her timeline, built around her pleasure. What you'll learn:  ✔ How either of you brings it up — and how to handle a shamey response without shutting down  ✔ The safety rules that make or break it: lube, bases, one-direction, and what never to use  ✔ The two-muscle anatomy that makes patience the entire technique  ✔ The "wearing trick" most couples skip — and why it's the step that makes everything work Subscribe for new episodes on desire, pleasure, and becoming the partner she can't stop thinking about. Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnetteAnnette's Insta: @Annette BenedettiMy OF: @talksexwithannetteFB: @TalksexwithAnnetteWebsite: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    5 Steps to Anal She'll Actually Love (Most Couples Rush #1)

  3. Jul 8

    She Checks Out During Sex. Here's Why — And How to Bring Her Back

    Send us Fan Mail You've felt it. That moment mid-sex when she goes somewhere you can't follow. She's still moving — but she's gone. It's called dissociation. It's not about you, it's not about attraction, and it's not permanent. Vanessa Cushing — AASECT Certified Sex Therapist and founder of Cushing Counseling and Sex Therapy Pro — breaks down what's actually happening and how to bring her back. And this one took a turn I didn't expect: men dissociate too. It just looks completely different. In this episode: The signs she's checked out — and the very different signs he hasThe five gears of touch: pinpoint exactly where she leavesThe "safe trust position" every couple needs before they need itHow to retrain your nervous system to stay presentFind Vanessa Cushing Here: https://www.cushingcounseling.com/ Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnetteAnnette's Insta: @Annette BenedettiMy OF: @talksexwithannetteFB: @TalksexwithAnnetteWebsite: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    She Checks Out During Sex. Here's Why — And How to Bring Her Back

  4. Jul 6

    The 5-Step Mouth & Hands Technique for Blended Orgasms

    Send us Fan Mail In this episode, we break down the 5-step Mouth & Hands technique for blended orgasms—a simple, intentional way to combine oral and manual stimulation so the experience feels more connected, more consistent, and more intense. Most people switch between techniques instead of combining them. But when you learn how to coordinate your mouth and hands, everything changes in how her arousal builds and how her body responds. I walk you through:  Why switching between techniques can interrupt pleasure  How blended orgasms work in a practical, understandable way  The 5-step method to bring mouth and hands into sync  How to stay connected to her responses instead of guessing If you’ve ever felt like you were doing a lot but not getting the reaction you expected, this episode will shift how you approach foreplay entirely. Link to the Womanizer Enhance Code ANNETTE15 for 15% Off at Womanizer: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Catch my Edging Episode: https://youtu.be/vhuayH9cBzY Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnetteAnnette's Insta: @Annette BenedettiMy OF: @talksexwithannetteFB: @TalksexwithAnnetteWebsite: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    The 5-Step Mouth & Hands Technique for Blended Orgasms

  5. Jul 1

    Bi Girls Guide To Better Sex: Inside Secrets That Blow Her Mind

    Send us Fan Mail  Two bi women. One podcast. A real guide to better sex built from the inside out.  Bi women know something about pleasuring women that most people never figure out. Because they've been on both sides — they know what it feels like to receive, and they know what it takes to give it well. That combination is a cheat code. And today we're handing it over. Samia Mounts — queer, non-binary writer, actor, and host of Happy Slut podcast — joins me to share what bi and pan women know about the female body, desire, and pleasure that most people spend a lifetime missing. In this episode: The insider knowledge bi women carry that nobody else has access toWhat women actually need to feel pleasure — and what most people never stop doing wrongWhat she's not telling you during sex — and whyThe specific moves bi women use that most people have never even consideredHow to have better sex tonight using what we know from both sides🔗 Find Samia: https://www.instagram.com/samia.mounts https://samiamounts.substack.com/ https://www.samiamounts.com/ Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnetteAnnette's Insta: @Annette BenedettiMy OF: @talksexwithannetteFB: @TalksexwithAnnetteWebsite: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    Bi Girls Guide To Better Sex: Inside Secrets That Blow Her Mind

  6. Jun 30

    5 Spanking Fantasies She Has — And Exactly How to Give Her Each One

    Send us Fan Mail Up to 60% of women have fantasized about being dominated — and almost none of them have said it out loud. This one's for the men who want to deliver what she's been replaying in her head and never asked for. Five spanking fantasies, the psychology behind each, and exactly how to make them land sexy instead of awkward — including how to talk about it first, how to keep it safe, and the aftercare most men skip. What you'll learn:  ✔ How to bring it up so she actually says yes — and why consent makes her let go  ✔ Where it's safe, where it's never safe, and how to build intensity the right way  ✔ The over-the-knee punishment-and-praise loop she craves most  ✔ The anticipation move nobody talks about — and why aftercare is non-negotiable Subscribe for new episodes on desire, pleasure, and becoming the partner she can't stop thinking about. Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnetteAnnette's Insta: @Annette BenedettiMy OF: @talksexwithannetteFB: @TalksexwithAnnetteWebsite: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    5 Spanking Fantasies She Has — And Exactly How to Give Her Each One

  7. Jun 24

    Pegging Is Up 200% Among Straight Men Here's Why & How to Do It

    Send us Fan Mail He's googling it at 2 AM and erasing his search history. Because he still thinks wanting to be pegged means something about who he is. It doesn't. And tonight we're blowing that myth wide open. Interest in pegging among straight men is up 200% according to Feeld's 2025 annual report. Not in some dark corner of the internet — on mainstream dating apps. Men are putting it on their sexual bucket lists, bringing it up on second dates, and still going silent when it matters most. Today I sat down with Luna Matatas — sex and pleasure educator with over two decades of experience and the creator of Peg the Patriarchy — to talk about what pegging actually is, what men are really asking for when they ask for it, and what women get out of strapping it on. In this episode: What pegging is — and what it isn'tWhy wanting to be pegged says nothing about his sexualityThe prostate: what it is, where it is, and why men are missing outWhat women actually get out of giving it — physically, emotionally, eroticallyHow to have the conversation with your partner without killing the moodA step-by-step guide to the first time — positions, lube, pace, and what not to doWhy men who've been pegged say it makes them better lovers🔗 Find Luna: https://lunamatatas.com/en-us | @lunamatatas Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnetteAnnette's Insta: @Annette BenedettiMy OF: @talksexwithannetteFB: @TalksexwithAnnetteWebsite: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    Pegging Is Up 200% Among Straight Men Here's Why & How to Do It

  8. Jun 22

    How to Make Her Come From Penetration — Maybe for the First Time in Her Life

    Send us Fan Mail 82% of women don't reliably come from penetration alone. Here's what's actually missing — and the five moves that fix it. If she's never finished while you're inside her, it's not her body and it's not yours. It's anatomy. And once you understand it, everything changes. What you'll learn:  ✔ Why the clitoris has to be fully aroused before penetration even starts  ✔ How to change your angle so her clitoris gets contact on every stroke  ✔ Why you keep losing her right when she's about to get there — and how to stop  ✔ The one thing that's been missing from penetration her entire life Subscribe for new episodes every week. 🔗 FirmTech Tech Ring + RingMate — code ANNETTE15 for 15% off  🔗Link: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti 🔗 Slow Sex Video: https://youtu.be/iHqgEO1BDU0   Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnetteAnnette's Insta: @Annette BenedettiMy OF: @talksexwithannetteFB: @TalksexwithAnnetteWebsite: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!

    How to Make Her Come From Penetration — Maybe for the First Time in Her Life
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Talk Sex with Annette Where desire meets disruption—and pleasure becomes power. Hosted by sex and intimacy coach Annette Benedetti, Talk Sex with Annette is the go-to podcast for bold, unfiltered conversations at the intersection of sexuality, identity, and empowerment. From kink to connection, self-love to sexual healing, Annette dives into the topics most people are too afraid to touch—with expert guests, raw storytelling, and a feminist lens that challenges shame and reclaims pleasure. Think smart, sexy, and radically real: this is the cultural conversation around sex that’s long overdue. 

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  • Creator
    Talk Sex with Annette
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2026
  • Episodes
    402
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © 2026 Talk Sex with Annette
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