Let's Talk Like Men

Myles Harris & Rex Howard Jr.
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The safe space FOR MEN by MEN. This is where we have brutally honest conversations about manhood. Everything from money, women, and life advice. We tell it ALL as real and uncut as possible! Now...Let's Talk Like Men!

  1. 5D AGO

    Stop Wasting Her Time — The Ways We Waste Vital Years of A Woman's Life

    Not every man is ready to date — but many do it anyway… and end up wasting a woman’s time. In this episode, we break down the behaviors, patterns, and mindsets that lead men to enter relationships they’re not prepared for. From lack of purpose to emotional immaturity, empty promises, and misuse of time — we highlight the real ways time gets wasted and how to fix it. stop wasting her time, signs he is wasting your time, dating advice for men, men not ready for relationship, relationship red flags, emotional maturity men, intentional dating, masculine development, men self improvement, unhealthy relationship patterns, commitment issues men, how to know if he is serious, relationship accountability, modern dating problems, choosing the right partner, dating mistakes men make, men growth mindset This episode is about accountability, awareness, and growth — helping men become more intentional and helping women recognize when they need to walk away. What You’ll Learn in This Episode How to know if you’re not ready to date or marryThe most common ways men waste women’s timeWhy lack of direction creates unhealthy relationshipsHow emotional immaturity shows up in datingThe role of discipline and self-control in relationshipsHow to become more intentional and accountableHow women can identify red flags earlier Who This Episode Is For Men who are dating or considering relationshipsMen struggling with purpose or consistencyWomen who feel drained or led onAnyone seeking healthier, more intentional relationships 01:35 Introduction To Topic – Stop Wasting Her Time 05:25 Your Neediness Waste Her Time 12:32 Your Fleshly Desires Waste Her Time 18:54 Getting It Out Your System Waste Her Time 23:54 Your Empty Promises Waste Her Time 32:00 Your Irresponsibility Waste Her Time 38:40 Your Lack of Faith In God Waste Her Time 46:54 Your Money Waste Her Time 50:22 Your Lack of Purpose Waste Her Time 56:22 Your Brokenness Waste Her Time

    1h 2m

  2. APR 24

    Muscle Memory- How Men Set A New Standard In Their Faith, Relationships, & Self Control

    The habits you build today become the man you are tomorrow. In this episode, we break down the concept of muscle memory and how it applies far beyond the physical — into your relationships, your self-control, and your walk with God. When pressure hits, you don’t rise to the occasion… you fall back on what you’ve practiced. We share practical tools to help you build habits that align with your future goals so that your default reactions become disciplined, intentional, and aligned with purpose. What You’ll Learn in This Episode What muscle memory looks like in everyday lifeHow habits shape your future decisionsWhy repetition creates automatic behaviorHow to build self-control through consistencyHow to apply discipline in relationshipsHow to strengthen your spiritual habits with GodPractical systems for building better habits Who This Episode Is For Men focused on self-improvement and disciplineMen working to build better habitsMen strengthening their spiritual walkWomen seeking to understand men’s growth journeyAnyone serious about long-term personal development0:00 Introduction – What Muscle Memory Means for Your Life 13:10 Faith Muscle Memory 34:53 Relationship Muscle Memory 53:27 Sexual Control Muscle Memory muscle memory habits, habit building, self discipline for men, men self improvement, discipline and consistency, self control habits, spiritual discipline, christian self improvement, habits and success, personal development habits, building better habits, mental discipline men, long term success habits, godly discipline, consistency mindset, habit formation, training your mind, men growth mindset

    1h 3m

  3. APR 17

    The Right Time For A Man To Go Ghost

    There are seasons in a man’s life where he needs to step back from everything — not to run away, but to grow. In this episode, we break down the real meaning behind “going ghost” and why it can be one of the most important decisions a man makes in his journey. From healing past wounds, to building his future, to deepening his relationship with God — intentional separation can be the foundation for transformation. We also explore how this impacts relationships and how both men and women can better understand these seasons. What You’ll Learn in This Episode The true meaning of “going ghost” for menWhen stepping away is necessary vs unhealthyThe 3 key seasons a man must separate to growHow healing requires distance and reflectionWhy building your life demands focus and disciplineHow solitude strengthens your relationship with GodHow to re-enter life stronger and more aligned Who This Episode Is For Men pursuing growth, discipline, and purposeMen in healing or rebuilding seasonsMen seeking spiritual clarity and directionWomen wanting to understand men’s life phasesAnyone navigating transformation and personal development

    1h 2m

  4. 12/12/2025

    Using Your God Given Creativity

    God is always speaking — often through the creative thoughts, ideas, dreams, and inspiration that move through your mind and heart.In today’s episode, we share personal stories of how we’ve heard God speak creatively and how we’ve learned to steward those ideas with responsibility, discipline, and faith. We’ll talk about how to recognize God’s voice, how to separate divine nudges from random thoughts, and how to honor God by actually implementing the creative ideas He gives you. Whether you’re an artist, entrepreneur, parent, leader, or someone simply wanting clarity, this episode will help you understand the role creativity plays in your spiritual journey. How to recognize when God is speaking through your ideas The difference between random inspiration and divine creativity How to steward God-given creativity with wisdom How to take action on creative thoughts without fear How to partner with God in your creative calling Practical habits that help you hear God more clearly Personal stories of hearing God through creativity Followers of Christ who want deeper spiritual clarity Anyone wanting to hear God’s voice more clearly Creative people who want direction People stepping into purpose or calling Entrepreneurs, leaders, and dreamers seeking divine guidance hearing God’s voice, god given creativity, god speaks through ideas, christian inspiration, spiritual discernment, creativity and faith, how to hear God, divine purpose, stewarding creativity, christian self improvement, god given gifts, spiritual creativity, hearing God in daily life, partnering with God, faith based creativity, god given calling, idea stewardship, Christian podcast episode, creativity and spirituality Episode Summary:In this episode, we explore how God uses creativity to communicate, inspire, and direct our lives. Through personal experiences and practical teaching, we share how to recognize creative thoughts that come from God and what it means to steward those ideas with maturity and intention. Key Takeaways: Creativity is one of God’s primary communication tools Ideas require stewardship, not just inspiration Discernment grows through practice God often speaks softly, creatively, and consistently

    1 hr

  5. 11/14/2025

    Is She Using You? How Men Can Tell If She Loves You or Your Money

    Are you worried she’s more interested in your money than your heart?In this episode, we unpack why so many men end up in relationships where they’re valued for their wallet instead of their character. You’ll learn how to identify early red flags, how to set stronger boundaries, and how to attract a woman who genuinely wants you — not your financial provision. Whether you’re dating, looking for a wife, or already in a relationship or marriage where you feel used, this episode will give you the clarity, confidence, and tools you need to build real emotional connection instead of transactional relationships. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: How to tell if she’s using you for money The psychology behind “provider-only” relationships How men accidentally attract gold digger behavior What high-value women actually want from men How to set boundaries without being controlling How to develop qualities women respect beyond money Real stories of men who ignored red flags (and what happened) A framework for choosing the right woman Who This Episode Is For: Men who want real, meaningful relationships Men who feel unappreciated or financially used Men looking for wives or long-term partners Men working on self-improvement and masculine identity

    53 min

  6. 10/31/2025

    Ep. 62-How A Man BECOMES (Pastor James Edwards of Transforming Faith Christian Center) From Pain To Purpose

    How do you go from a man without purpose or a clear future, to one full of vision and direction? How do you go from a child who faced nothing but rejection to a man who is followed by hundreds of thousands of people? How do you go from a lost sheep to the shepherd that guides a flock of God's children? That is the story of Pastor James Edwards of  ⁨@tfcchouston⁩  . A man who lived a life of rejection, lust, and street dreams. Now a man of vision, power, and love that has fully submitted his life to God. This episode is all about the story, process, and heart of "becoming" as a man. You can read Pastor James book "Secret of the Soul Tie" Here: https://www.pastorjamesedwards.church/store/p/audiobook You can listen to Pastor James preach every Sunday at 9 & 11am CST at Transforming Faith Christian Center in Houston, TX or online  ⁨@tfcchouston⁩  You can also tune in to Grace & Truth Talks - The podcast with Pastor James Edwards & his wife Pastor Tiffany Edwards Here: https://www.instagram.com/graceandtruthtalks/?hl=enPastor James Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/pastorjamestfcc/?hl=en

    43 min

  7. 10/17/2025

    Ep #61- How To Keep Your Woman Satisfied In The Relationship- KEEP That Same Energy

    It's one thing to get her, but how do you keep her? How do you keep a woman satisfied and happy throughout the course of a relationship. Women often times say "keep that same energy", but what does that actually mean for men? How do we maintain and even elevate in our relationship over time without allowing things to grow comfortable or performative. In this episode Rex & Myles dive deep into what it means to "Keep that same energy" for their partners and how other men can get a gameplan to do the same.

    58 min

  8. 10/10/2025

    Ep #60- Weaponizing Intentionality In Dating

    What happens when a man knows how to manipulate so well that he shows all the right signs? Does all the right actions, but the motive is all self-serving. In this episode Myles & Rex address a new game that is being played by using intentionality as a way to manipulate women into letting their guard down. We discuss the spiritual implications of living this way as a man and the cheat code to discern the truth behind a person's motives.

    59 min
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The safe space FOR MEN by MEN. This is where we have brutally honest conversations about manhood. Everything from money, women, and life advice. We tell it ALL as real and uncut as possible! Now...Let's Talk Like Men!

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  • Creator
    Myles Harris & Rex Howard Jr.
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2026
  • Episodes
    72
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Myles Harris & Rex Howard Jr.
  • Show Website
    Let's Talk Like Men

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