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Listen along as the priests of St. Mark's, New Canaan (Peter Walsh & Elizabeth Garnsey) gear up for Sunday. Each week the preacher will lead a discussion of the scriptures of the day. Sometimes irreverent, often witty, always filled with love for our Lord: don’t miss these conversations about the questions, mysteries, and hope these two find in the Bible. 

  1. 4d ago ·  Video

    “How Do We Fight Like Christians?” Matthew 18:15-20 | Episode 275

    What happens when someone hurts us? Jesus’ instructions in Matthew 18:15–20 offer a surprisingly practical approach to conflict, accountability, and reconciliation. Peter Walsh and Rob Schwartz discuss why talking TO someone matters more than talking ABOUT them, how storytelling can break down tribal divisions, and why the goal of confrontation is less about winning the argument and more about regaining the person. Questions for Reflection Themes & Application Jesus gives a remarkably practical, step-by-step process for dealing with conflict: begin with the person rather than beginning with an audience. Why is our instinct so often to tell other people about a conflict before speaking directly to the person involved? What might change if we actually followed Jesus’ order of operations?Immediately before this passage, Jesus tells the Parable of the Lost Sheep, in which the shepherd refuses to accept losing even one member of the flock. How does that story change the way we hear Jesus’ instructions about confronting someone who has sinned? What does it suggest about the ultimate purpose of accountability and church discipline?The episode repeatedly distinguishes reconciliation from proving who is right. What would change in our families, churches, workplaces, friendships, or political conversations if our primary question became “How can this relationship be healed?” rather than “How can I prove my position?” Personal Reflection Rob suggests that as long as he continues carrying resentment toward someone, he remains bound to that person. Have you ever discovered that anger or resentment was keeping you emotionally connected to someone long after the original conflict ended? What might it mean to be “loosed” from that relationship without pretending the hurt never happened?Peter discusses the ways our minds can develop deeply ingrained responses to people and ideas until we stop actually listening. Who are you most likely to stop listening to because you believe you already know what they are going to say? What would genuine curiosity toward that person require?Peter and Rob playfully use sports rivalries to illustrate our instinct toward tribal identity. What tribes do you belong to? When does belonging become a way of deciding who is “us” and who is “them”? Broader Spiritual Considerations Peter explores different Christian understandings of excommunication and church discipline, from Roman Catholicism and the Southern Baptist Convention to the Episcopal tradition. What is the proper role of boundaries within a Christian community? Can excluding someone ever serve the larger goal of reconciliation?Peter observes that “casting people out of the community doesn’t cast out the trauma.” What is the difference between removing a person and actually healing what happened? How can communities maintain necessary boundaries without imagining that exclusion itself creates healing?Jesus concludes this teaching with “Where two or three are gathered in my name, I am there among them.” We often quote this verse about small worship gatherings, but here it appears in the middle of a teaching about conflict and reconciliation. What might it mean to believe that Christ is especially present between people attempting the difficult work of reconciliation? References & Resources Vocabulary Ecclesia (ἐκκλησία) — A Greek word meaning an assembly or gathering, commonly translated as “church.”Excommunication — Exclusion from communion or participation within a religious community. Narrative Theology — An approach that recognizes story and lived experience as important ways of understanding God, ourselves, and one another. Restorative Justice & Reconciliation South African Truth and Reconciliation Commission — A court-like restorative justice body assembled in South Africa in 1996 after the end of apartheid. Authorised by Nelson Mandela and chaired by Desmond Tutu, the commission invited witnesses who were identified as victims of gross human rights violations to give statements about their experiences, and selected some for public hearings. Perpetrators of violence could also give testimony and request amnesty from both civil and criminal prosecution.Thinkers & Theologians Pádraig Ó Tuama — Irish poet, theologian, and conflict mediator whose work explores storytelling, disagreement, and how people and communities can engage conflict without allowing it to become destructive. (Visit his website)Ó Tuama's "Prayer for Reconciliation" (Read the prayer)Pop Culture Encanto (2021) — Rob uses Bruno and the Madrigal family to illustrate the necessity of bringing what has been hidden back into relationship. (Watch the trailer)Learn more about St. Mark's at https://www.stmarksnewcanaan.org

  2. Aug 25 ·  Video

    "Get In Line" Matthew 16:21-28 | Episode 274

    This week, we move from Peter’s confession of faith to the difficult reality of what following the Messiah actually means. Peter Walsh, Elizabeth Garnsey, and Rob Schwartz explore why Jesus tells Peter, “Get behind me, Satan”, how love and good intentions can become stumbling blocks, and what it means to lose our lives in order to find them. Questions for Reflection Themes & Application Peter’s desire to protect Jesus comes from a place of love, yet it still puts him at odds with Jesus. When can our good intentions actually become stumbling blocks? How do we discern the difference between loving someone and trying to control the path they take?The episode interprets Jesus’ command, “Get behind me, Satan,” as a call for Peter to get back into the proper position of a disciple: behind the teacher rather than out in front. What might it look like for us to “get back behind Jesus” when our own expectations, fears, or ambitions begin leading the way?Elizabeth suggests that Jesus’ goal is much larger than producing individually humble or virtuous people: “The whole point is to create a new world and a new humanity.” How does that change the way we understand taking up the cross and following Jesus? Personal Reflection Peter wants Jesus to conform to his own idea of what a Messiah should be. When have you wanted Jesus to want the same things you wanted? Has your understanding of what following Jesus means ever had to change?Jesus asks his followers to consider what they are willing to lose and what they believe is truly worth gaining. What are you most reluctant to let go of? Security? Status? Being right? Control? Approval? Comfort? Something else?The conversation suggests that spiritual maturity involves becoming more authentically ourselves rather than trying to perform an idealized version of holiness. Have you ever found yourself “performing” goodness, humility, faith, or spirituality? What might authentic discipleship look like instead? Broader Spiritual Considerations Peter notes that Jesus’ language of losing oneself in order to find oneself has parallels in other religious traditions, while Jesus specifically adds “for my sake.” What makes Christian self-emptying different from simply denying or erasing ourselves?Bob Dylan’s Gotta Serve Somebody becomes a shorthand for one of the passage’s existential questions: Who or what ultimately directs your life? If everyone “serves” something, what are some of the gods our culture invites us to serve?The episode ends by acknowledging Christians around the world for whom persecution and the possibility of losing one’s life are not metaphors. How should Christians who live with relative safety hear Jesus’ command to “take up your cross” without trivializing the experiences of people facing literal violence or persecution? References & Resources Vocabulary Skandalon (σκάνδαλον) — A Greek word meaning a stumbling block, obstacle, or something that causes another to fall. Peter, previously named the “rock,” becomes an obstacle when he tries to redirect Jesus away from the way of the cross.Mimetic Desire — René Girard’s theory that human beings often learn what to desire by observing and imitating the desires of others. The person we imitate can consequently become both our model and our rival.Kenosis — From the Greek for “emptying.” In Christian theology, it commonly describes Christ’s self-emptying and self-giving way of being, and can also describe the spiritual practice of relinquishing ego, status, or control.Passion Prediction — Jesus’ prediction of his coming suffering and death. Matthew 16:21 also includes the promise that he will be raised on the third day, making it simultaneously a prediction of resurrection.The Way of the Cross — The pattern of discipleship modeled by Jesus in which self-giving love, rather than domination or self-preservation, becomes the path toward true life. Pop Culture Spider-Man (2002)Bob Dylan “Gotta Serve Somebody" Historical & Geographical Context Caesarea Philippi — The episode discusses its pagan religious history, Roman imperial associations, Herod, Philip, and the ruins surrounding Jesus and the disciples. Christian Persecution Open Doors World Watch List — Peter references statistics on Christians experiencing persecution and discrimination worldwide to remind listeners that “taking up the cross” is not merely metaphorical for many Christians. (Read the latest 2026 statistics) Clothing “Jesus Was A Liberator of the Oppressed” Shirt Learn more about St. Mark's at https://www.stmarksnewcanaan.org

  3. Aug 18 ·  Video

    "Whose Church Is It Anyway?" w/ Msgr. Rob Kinnally | Matthew 16:13-20 | Episode 273

    Who is St. Peter: faithful disciple, flawed human being, first pope, symbol of the Church, or somehow all of the above? Fr. Peter Walsh welcomes Msgr. Rob Kinnally of St. Aloysius Catholic Church for an ecumenical conversation about one of the New Testament’s most famous and contested passages. Together they explore Peter’s confession, the meaning of “the rock,” how faith grows and changes, and what Catholics and Anglicans might learn from one another about authority, tradition, and the Church. And beneath it all is the question Jesus still asks: “Who do you say that I am?” Questions for Reflection Themes & Application Msgr. Rob describes Peter as the “quintessential knucklehead,” someone capable of profound faith and profound failure. What might Peter teach us about being a disciple without having everything figured out? What does Jesus mean when he gives Peter the authority to “bind and loose”? Who should have the authority to interpret Scripture for the Church today?Roman Catholic and Anglican traditions understand Peter and church authority differently. What can Christians learn from one another without pretending those differences don’t matter? Personal Reflection Questions If Jesus asked you today, “Who do you say that I am?”, what would your answer be?Where do you recognize yourself in Peter: conviction, doubt, impulsiveness, courage, fear, growth, or something else?Have disagreements within Christianity ever made faith more difficult for you? Have relationships with Christians from other traditions ever strengthened it? Broader Spiritual Considerations If Peter can proclaim Jesus as Messiah and later deny knowing him, what does that suggest about the relationship between belief and discipleship?Is “the rock” Peter himself, Peter’s confession, Christ, or some combination of these? What changes depending on how we answer?Peter suggests that Christian division itself has become a barrier to belief. What responsibility do churches have to make Christian unity visible to the wider world?  References & Resources Vocabulary Christology: The study of who Jesus Christ is, particularly questions about his identity, humanity, divinity, and saving significance. Ecclesiology: The theological study of the Church: what the Church is, where its authority comes from, and how it should be structured and governed.Petros / Petra (Πέτρος / πέτρα): Greek words behind Matthew’s wordplay, “You are Peter (Petros), and on this rock (petra) I will build my church.”Cephas / Kepha (כיפא / Kēphas): The Aramaic name meaning “rock” associated with Peter. Msgr. Rob raises the Aramaic background as important because the distinction between Petros and petra found in Greek does not work in quite the same way in Aramaic. Magisterium: From Latin magister, “teacher.” In Roman Catholic theology, the Church’s teaching authority, exercised particularly through the pope and bishops. Msgr. Rob connects it with Scripture, tradition, and the continuing guidance of the Holy Spirit. Books & Theologians Avery Dulles, Models of the ChurchAvery Dulles, Models of RevelationEvelyn Underhill, Mysticism: A Study in the Nature and Development of Spiritual ConsciousnessKathryn Tanner, Christ the Key Memorable Moments “Pope Francis adds feast of Martha, Mary, and Lazarus to Church calendar” (Read more)“Common Declaration by Pope Francis and Archbishop of Canterbury Justin Welby” (Read more)Learn more about St. Mark's at https://www.stmarksnewcanaan.org

  4. Aug 11 ·  Video

    "Conquered by Love" Matthew 15:10–28 | Episode 272

    This week, Jesus encounters a persistent Canaanite woman who refuses to take no for an answer. Peter Walsh and Elizabeth Garnsey wrestle with a provocative question: Does this woman learn something from Jesus, or might Jesus and his disciples learn something from her? Along the way, they explore what comes from the heart, the boundaries we draw around God’s mercy, and the surprising grace of having our point of view conquered by love. Questions for Reflection Themes & Application The Canaanite woman refuses to accept the boundaries that seem to determine who deserves Jesus’ attention and mercy. Who are the people today whom religious communities are still tempted to keep outside the boundaries of belonging?Peter and Elizabeth offer different interpretations of Jesus’ encounter with the Canaanite woman: is Jesus himself being changed, or is he intentionally creating a moment that will change his disciples? What difference does each interpretation make for how we understand Jesus?The episode contrasts the Pharisees, who are offended by Jesus, with the outsider who persistently seeks him. What might this suggest about the relationship between religious certainty and openness to encountering God in unexpected places?  Personal Reflection Questions Peter asks, “How many times do we grow because our point of view gets conquered?” When has changing your mind actually been an important part of your spiritual growth? The Canaanite woman persists through silence, rejection, and insult. When have you had to persist in asking for something that mattered deeply to you?Jesus teaches that defilement comes from the heart rather than external observance. What attitudes or reactions within yourself are hardest for you to examine honestly? Broader Spiritual Considerations What does it mean for Christian faith if Scripture gives us a Jesus who can appear challenging, harsh, or even capable of learning rather than the “airbrushed Jesus” Peter describes? Jesus repeatedly returns to Hosea’s declaration, “I desire mercy, not sacrifice.” What would change if mercy, rather than correctness, became one of our primary measures of faithfulness?The episode ends with the idea of allowing ourselves to be “conquered by love.” What might that look like not simply as an individual spiritual practice, but as a way for communities and churches to live? References & Resources Books & Thinkers René Girard, I See Satan Fall Like Lightning Places & Art St. Peter’s Church, Jaffa — Peter references the artwork behind the altar depicting Peter’s vision of the sheet descending from heaven in Acts 10. Vocabulary Kynárion (κυνάριον) — The Greek word translated as “dogs” in Matthew 15:26–27. It is a diminutive form of the Greek word for dog and can refer to a small or household dog. Importantly, as Peter and Elizabeth note, the comparison remains belittling regardless of the nuance. Skandalízō (σκανδαλίζω) — The Greek verb behind language of being “offended” or “caused to stumble.” Peter and Elizabeth connect it with Matthew’s recurring theme of “scandal” and offense, particularly the disciples’ warning that the Pharisees were offended by Jesus’ teaching. Mimetic Desire — A concept associated with René Girard describing the way human beings learn what to desire through others, which can produce rivalry and competition. Elizabeth connects Girard’s analysis of coveting with Jesus’ insistence that destructive behavior ultimately originates in the desires of the heart. Clothing Rob’s “Be Kind” T-shirt, The Happy GiversLearn more about St. Mark's at https://www.stmarksnewcanaan.org

  5. Aug 4

    "Stepping Out of the Boat" Matthew 14:22-33 | Episode 271

    What happens when we step out in faith but start to sink? In his final episode of “Rev’d Up for Sunday”, John Kennedy joins Peter Walsh and Elizabeth Garnsey to explore Jesus walking on water, Peter’s risky leap of faith, and what this story reveals about fear, failure, spiritual growth, and the surprising gentleness of Jesus. Along the way, the clergy reflect on the making of a disciple and the journey that continues even when it’s time to say goodbye. Questions for Further Discussion Themes & Application Water can symbolize chaos, danger, and the unknown, while the boat has traditionally been an image of the Church. What might this story teach us about the purpose of Christian community when the world around us feels turbulent or uncertain?Peter emphasizes the courage it takes for Peter to step out of the boat, while Elizabeth wonders whether he ever needed to leave it because Jesus was already coming toward him. What can these two interpretations teach us about the difference between taking a faithful risk and trusting God to meet us where we already are?John suggests that Peter begins to sink when fear and self-consciousness redirect his attention away from Jesus. How can fear, anxiety, or excessive self-consciousness prevent us from becoming the people God is calling us to be? Personal Reflection Questions Peter’s impulsiveness can lead him into trouble, but that same energy also enables him to take courageous steps that the other disciples do not. What quality in yourself have you sometimes regarded as a weakness that might also contain a gift?The conversation contrasts Jesus’ gentleness with the harsh internal voice that tells us, “You can’t do that,” “You’re weak,” or “You’re bad.” When you fail or make a mistake, which voice are you more likely to hear? How might you learn to recognize the gentler voice of Christ?Peter’s spiritual development happens through repeated moments of courage, misunderstanding, failure, forgiveness, and growth. Looking back on your own life, where can you recognize ways you have changed spiritually that you could not see while the change was happening? Broader Spiritual Considerations The clergy suggest that failure is not an interruption of Peter’s discipleship but actually part of how he becomes a disciple. How might the Church change if Christians treated failure as part of spiritual formation rather than something to hide or feel ashamed of?Peter introduces Jung’s idea of the shadow, suggesting that qualities we suppress or “domesticate” may contain powerful energies that need to be integrated rather than eliminated. How might Christian spirituality help us bring our whole selves before God rather than dividing ourselves into acceptable and unacceptable parts?John reflects on St. Mark’s and the podcast as communities that helped form him, often in ways he only recognized afterward. What role do communities play in shaping our faith, identity, and vocation? Can a place remain spiritually “home” even when we are called to leave it? References & Resources Books Thomas Keating, Crisis of Faith, Crisis of Love  Thinkers Carl Jung (the shadow and integration of the psyche)Sigmund Freud (id, ego, and superego)Alan Watts (self-consciousness and the centipede analogy) Music QUOTE: Leonard Cohen, “There is a crack, a crack in everything That’s how the light gets in.” from AnthemRed Hot Chili Peppers, 2012 Rock & Roll Hall of Fame induction (Josh Klinghoffer joined the Chili Peppers in 2009 and was inducted with the band in 2012, becoming, at the time, the youngest-ever Rock & Roll Hall of Fame inductee.) Film, Television, & Popular Culture The Odyssey (2026)Looney Tunes (Wile E. Coyote and the Road Runner)Learn more about St. Mark's at https://www.stmarksnewcanaan.org

  6. Jul 28

    "The Feeding of the Five Thousand" Matthew 14:13-21 | Episode 270

    When Jesus feeds five thousand people, is the greatest miracle the multiplication of bread... or the transformation of human hearts? John Kennedy and Elizabeth Garnsey explore one of Jesus' most familiar miracles through fresh eyes. They discuss abundance versus scarcity, the meaning of compassion, connections to Moses and the Eucharist, and what this story reveals about the Kingdom of God. Whether you've heard this Gospel a hundred times or are encountering it for the first time, you'll discover new ways to think about generosity, trust, and what it means to truly be fed. Questions for Further Discussion Themes & Application The conversation suggests that Jesus feeds more than empty stomachs. In what ways are people spiritually hungry today, and how does Christ continue to nourish them?How does the image of Jesus' compassion, literally "his heart going out" to the crowd, reshape your understanding of God's character?The discussion connects this miracle to the Eucharist. How does Holy Communion deepen your understanding of this Gospel story? Personal Reflection Questions What does it mean to live from a mindset of abundance rather than scarcity? Where do you most often find yourself slipping into scarcity thinking? Where in your life do you feel spiritually hungry right now?The disciples only had five loaves and two fish, yet Jesus used what they offered. What small gift, talent, or opportunity in your life might God be able to use in ways you cannot yet imagine? What fears make it difficult for you to share your time, resources, compassion, or attention with others?What would it look like this week to let your heart become more like Christ's, moved by compassion before judgment or convenience? Broader Spiritual Considerations The clergy suggest that the Kingdom of God moves humanity beyond a simple "winner versus loser" way of living. Where do you see signs of that Kingdom already emerging in today's world?The Feeding of the Five Thousand echoes Israel's story of manna in the wilderness and points ahead to the Eucharist. Why do you think Scripture so often uses meals to reveal who God is?If compassion is at the heart of Jesus' ministry, what might it mean for the Church to become known first and foremost for compassion rather than ideology, certainty, or institutional success?Learn more about St. Mark's at https://www.stmarksnewcanaan.org

  7. Jul 21

    "The Kingdom Hidden in Plain Sight" Matthew 13:31-33, 44-52 | Episode 269

    What if the biggest spiritual truths are hidden inside the smallest stories? Elizabeth Garnsey and Rob Schwartz explore six memorable parables from Matthew 13, discovering how mustard seeds, yeast, treasure, pearls, and fishing nets reveal a Kingdom that grows quietly, transforms lives, and often goes unnoticed. Questions for Further Discussion Themes & Application Throughout these parables, Jesus compares God's kingdom to ordinary things: seeds, yeast, treasure, pearls, fishing nets, and household treasures. Why do you think Jesus chose everyday experiences rather than grand religious images?The mustard seed and yeast both suggest that God's work often begins quietly and almost invisibly. Where have you seen small acts of love or faith eventually grow into something much larger?The treasure and the pearl both involve giving up everything for something of greater value. What does it mean today to "reorder your priorities" around the Kingdom of God? Personal Reflection Questions Elizabeth described the Kingdom less as a place and more as an entirely different way of seeing and living in the world. How does that change the way you hear these parables?Have you ever unexpectedly stumbled upon something that transformed your life, or has your faith journey been more like a long search for a priceless pearl?Jesus ends by encouraging disciples to bring out "what is new and what is old." What wisdom from the past do you want to preserve, and what new insights might God be inviting you to embrace? Broader Spiritual Considerations Modern culture often celebrates dramatic breakthroughs and instant success. How do Jesus' images of gradual, hidden transformation challenge those expectations?Why do you think people are often drawn toward certainty and clear boundaries, while Jesus repeatedly tells stories that leave room for mystery and paradox?Which of these six parables speaks most powerfully to the world we live in today, and why?Learn more about St. Mark's at https://www.stmarksnewcanaan.org

  8. Jul 14

    "The Parable of the Wheat and the Weeds" Matthew 13:24-30,36-43 | Episode 268

    How does Jesus’ parable about wheat and weeds relate to the forces of good and evil , and what’s all this talk about fire?! John Kennedy and Rob Schwartz wrestle with this challenging parable while exploring themes of justice, patience, and the surprising humility Jesus calls us to embrace. What does it really means to leave judgement to God? Questions for Further Discussion Themes & Application Why does Jesus tell us to let the wheat and weeds grow together instead of pulling the weeds immediately?What does this parable teach us about the difference between identifying evil and appointing ourselves as judges?How do patience and trust become acts of faith when the world feels full of injustice? Personal Reflection Questions Are there "seeds of destruction" you recognize growing in your own life, such as resentment, fear, pride, or bitterness?What practices help you cultivate the "wheat" instead?Is there someone you've written off as beyond redemption? What might this parable challenge you to reconsider? Broader Spiritual Considerations Why do human beings seem so naturally drawn toward dividing the world into heroes and villains?What can this parable contribute to modern conversations about polarization, cancel culture, and public shaming?What parallels can be found between this parable and other traditions that emphasize inner transformation over condemning others?Learn more about St. Mark's at https://www.stmarksnewcanaan.org

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Listen along as the priests of St. Mark's, New Canaan (Peter Walsh & Elizabeth Garnsey) gear up for Sunday. Each week the preacher will lead a discussion of the scriptures of the day. Sometimes irreverent, often witty, always filled with love for our Lord: don’t miss these conversations about the questions, mysteries, and hope these two find in the Bible. 

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    2021 - 2026
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