For The Love Of Men Podcast

Courtney Schand & Brianna Mosher
  • 5.0 (32)
  • Relationships
  • Updated Biweekly

The intention of this show is to bring together men and women in harmony and honor each other's masculine and feminine energetic cores in a polarized healthy, thriving relationship.

  1. 1d ago

    #136: How Important Is Physical Attractiveness In Modern Dating?

    Physical attraction gets talked about a lot in modern dating, but in this episode, we explore what attraction actually means beneath the surface. We unpack why so many of us chase certain looks, lifestyles, or “types” in relationships, and how those preferences are often tied to deeper emotional wounds, self-worth, and the need for validation.     We discuss: • The difference between looking conventionally attractive and looking the most like yourself • How attraction becomes more magnetic when we stop trying to appeal to everyone • The role self-acceptance plays in creating healthier relationships • Why emotional depth and authenticity matter more than appearance long term • How we lose ourselves trying to become “everyone’s type” • The freedom that comes from embracing your unique physical expression Whether you’ve struggled with body image, comparison, dating standards, or feeling like you have to look a certain way to be loved, this conversation brings a much more human perspective to attraction, confidence, and connection. Want to work with Bri and/or Courtney? Connect with Bri on Instagram:⁠⁠⁠@buildingbricoaching⁠⁠⁠ Connect with Courtney on Instagram:⁠⁠⁠@courtney_schand⁠⁠⁠ Follow the show on Instagram:⁠⁠⁠ @thefortheloveofmenpodcast⁠⁠⁠ Check out our website:⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.fortheloveofmenpodcast.com ⁠⁠⁠Looking for deeper support? Check out our Masterclasses: 1️⃣ What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It: Unlock the secrets to fulfilling your partner emotionally! Join the Masterclass! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/767199b5-47dd-4b08-a405-2854480607a6 2️⃣ Creating More Emotional Intimacy: Learn the art of building emotional safety for your Masculine partner! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/344d8ff0-6c7f-4d83-909c-b1da3e4d2a1b 3️⃣ Navigating Triggers in an Empowered Way: Transform your response to triggers and cultivate empowerment! Clientclubmembership-hmi-preview #ForTheLoveOfMen #HealthyRelationships #ModernDating #EmotionalIntimacy #SecureAttachment #DatingAndRelationships #RelationshipHealing #ConsciousDating #AttachmentStyles #EmotionalConnection #SelfWorth #RelationshipAdvice #AuthenticConnection #LoveAndGrowth #HealingInRelationships

    50 min

  2. May 22

    #135: Where to Find Good, Healthy Partners 

    In this episode, we unpack why finding healthy love is not just about where you go, but about the energy, emotional patterns, and nervous system responses you bring with you into dating. They explore the difference between attraction and activation, why unresolved wounds can make healthy people feel “boring,” and how small shifts in presence, openness, and self-awareness can completely change the way people experience you.   We talk about: - Why healthy partners may feel “boring” when your nervous system is used to chaos or inconsistency - The difference between attraction and emotional activation- How emotional wounds can shape the kinds of people you keep choosing - The role openness, presence, and energy play in dating and attraction - Why creating opportunities for connection in real life still matters (and how you can start doing it) Want to work with Bri and/or Courtney? Connect with Bri on Instagram:⁠⁠⁠ @buildingbricoaching ⁠⁠⁠Connect with Courtney on Instagram:⁠⁠⁠ @courtney_schand⁠⁠⁠ Follow the show on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@thefortheloveofmenpodcast⁠⁠⁠ Check out our website:⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.fortheloveofmenpodcast.com⁠⁠⁠ Looking for deeper support? Check out our Masterclasses: 1️⃣ What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It: Unlock the secrets to fulfilling your partner emotionally! Join the Masterclass! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/767199b5-47dd-4b08-a405-2854480607a6 2️⃣ Creating More Emotional Intimacy: Learn the art of building emotional safety for your Masculine partner! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/344d8ff0-6c7f-4d83-909c-b1da3e4d2a1b 3️⃣ Navigating Triggers in an Empowered Way: Transform your response to triggers and cultivate empowerment! Clientclubmembership-hmi-preview #HealthyRelationships #ModernDating #DatingAdvice #SecureAttachment #RelationshipHealing #HealthyLove #DatingPodcast #AttachmentStyles #EmotionalHealing #ConsciousDating #SelfAwareness #RelationshipAdvice #LoveAndRelationships #DatingCulture #EmotionalIntelligence #SomaticHealing #MenAndWomen #RelationshipGrowth #FindingLove #ForTheLoveOfMen

    43 min

  3. May 8

    #134: The Healthy Way Forward

    Modern dating can feel exhausting when every conversation seems to push people toward extremes. Men against women. Feminine versus masculine. Traditional versus modern. In this episode, we slow that all the way down and explore what it actually looks like to create a healthier third way forward. We talk about moving beyond reactive narratives, honoring both masculine and feminine experiences without villainizing either, and why emotional maturity is often the real bridge between division and genuine connection.   We talk about: - Why living in dating extremes often keeps people stuck in pain instead of moving them toward healthy love - What it means to hold multiple perspectives without abandoning your own truth - How nervous system work, emotional maturity, and self-awareness create safer relationships - The difference between fighting against what you do not want versus intentionally building what you do want - Why healthy modern relationships require more nuance, courage, and critical thinking than outdated binaries Want to work with Bri and/or Courtney? Connect with Bri on Instagram:⁠⁠⁠@buildingbricoaching⁠⁠⁠ Connect with Courtney on Instagram:⁠⁠⁠@courtney_schand⁠⁠⁠ Follow the show on Instagram:⁠⁠⁠@thefortheloveofmenpodcast⁠⁠⁠ Check out our website:⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.fortheloveofmenpodcast.com ⁠⁠⁠Looking for deeper support? Check out our Masterclasses: 1️⃣ What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It: Unlock the secrets to fulfilling your partner emotionally! Join the Masterclass! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/767199b5-47dd-4b08-a405-2854480607a6 2️⃣ Creating More Emotional Intimacy: Learn the art of building emotional safety for your Masculine partner! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/344d8ff0-6c7f-4d83-909c-b1da3e4d2a1b 3️⃣ Navigating Triggers in an Empowered Way: Transform your response to triggers and cultivate empowerment! Clientclubmembership-hmi-preview #ForTheLoveOfMen #ModernDating #HealthyRelationships #MasculineAndFeminine #EmotionalMaturity #DatingAdvice #RelationshipHealing #ConsciousRelationships #HealthyMasculinity #FeminineEnergy #SelfAwareness #DatingCulture #EmotionalIntelligence #SecureRelationships #HealthyLove #RelationshipGrowth #ModernRelationships #ThirdWayForward #MenAndWomen #RelationshipPodcast

    31 min

  4. Apr 24

    #133: Signs You're in the Right Dynamic

    Dating can feel confusing when you’re not sure if what you’re experiencing is growth or a sign that something just isn’t right. In this episode, we pick up from where we left in the last episode, and bring clarity to that gray area. We talk about what it actually feels like to grow with someone versus growing apart, how the right relationship expands you instead of shrinking you, and why trusting your own experience is often the most important piece when you’re trying to decide what to do next.   - The difference between healthy challenge and emotional exhaustion - How to recognize when you’re growing together vs slowly growing apart - Why trying to “fix” or carry a partner keeps you stuck - When support like therapy helps and when it adds more confusion - What the right relationship actually feels like day to day    We talk about:Want to work with Bri and/or Courtney? Connect with Bri on Instagram:⁠⁠⁠@buildingbricoaching⁠⁠⁠ Connect with Courtney on Instagram:⁠⁠⁠@courtney_schand⁠⁠⁠ Follow the show on Instagram:⁠⁠⁠@thefortheloveofmenpodcast⁠⁠⁠ Check out our website:⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.fortheloveofmenpodcast.com ⁠⁠⁠Looking for deeper support? Check out our Masterclasses: 1️⃣ What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It: Unlock the secrets to fulfilling your partner emotionally! Join the Masterclass! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/767199b5-47dd-4b08-a405-2854480607a6 2️⃣ Creating More Emotional Intimacy: Learn the art of building emotional safety for your Masculine partner! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/344d8ff0-6c7f-4d83-909c-b1da3e4d2a1b 3️⃣ Navigating Triggers in an Empowered Way: Transform your response to triggers and cultivate empowerment! Clientclubmembership-hmi-preview #HealthyRelationships #DatingClarity #RelationshipGrowth #EmotionalAwareness #SelfTrust #ModernDating #LoveAndGrowth #RelationshipAdvice #DatingMindset #EmotionalIntelligence #SecureAttachment #ConsciousDating #HealingAndGrowth #KnowYourWorth #RelationshipStandards #InnerWork #LoveWithClarity #HealthyLove #GrowthInLove #DatingWisdom

    52 min

  5. Apr 10

    #132: SIgns You’re in the Wrong Dynamic

    In this episode, we are unpacking one of the most confusing parts of dating: how to tell whether you’re in the wrong relationship… or just being triggered in a right one. Because those two can feel very similar. We are talking about: - The difference between your triggers and genuine incompatibility - How to tell if it’s you, them, or just the dynamic not working- What healthy dynamics actually feel like (and why they can feel unfamiliar) - Subtle red flags like overexplaining, emotional exhaustion, and shrinking - Why feeling constantly misunderstood is a sign of misalignment - The difference between a healthy partner and the right partner for you - The trap of falling in love with someone’s potential- When growth in a relationship is aligned vs when it feels like self-abandonment - Letting go without needing to villainize the other person  Want to work with Bri and/or Courtney? Connect with Bri on Instagram:⁠⁠⁠ @buildingbricoaching⁠⁠⁠ Connect with Courtney on Instagram:⁠⁠⁠ @courtney_schand⁠⁠⁠ Follow the show on Instagram:⁠⁠⁠ @thefortheloveofmenpodcast ⁠⁠⁠Check out our website:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ www.fortheloveofmenpodcast.com⁠⁠⁠ Looking for deeper support? Check out our Masterclasses: 1️⃣ What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It: Unlock the secrets to fulfilling your partner emotionally! Join the Masterclass! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/767199b5-47dd-4b08-a405-2854480607a6 2️⃣ Creating More Emotional Intimacy: Learn the art of building emotional safety for your Masculine partner! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/344d8ff0-6c7f-4d83-909c-b1da3e4d2a1b 3️⃣ Navigating Triggers in an Empowered Way: Transform your response to triggers and cultivate empowerment! Clientclubmembership-hmi-preview #ForTheLoveOfMen #DatingDynamics #HealthyRelationships #ModernDating #RelationshipAdvice #EmotionalAwareness #AttachmentStyles #SelfGrowth #LoveAndDating #RelationshipHealing

    38 min

  6. Mar 27

    #131: Redefining "good enough" in Modern Dating (standards vs highlight reel for men and women)

    When “high standards” start turning into pressure to be perfect, fully healed, or completely ready before you even let yourself connect, dating can feel confusing. In this episode, we unpack what “good enough” really means in modern dating, why so many people stay stuck in perpetual preparation, and how intimacy is often built not through getting everything right, but through being willing to stay present, honest, and human. Tune in to learn more about: The difference between healthy standards and perfectionism How people use self-development to avoid actually getting in the game Why intimacy grows in the messy middle, not in polished perfection How unhealed wounds can disguise themselves as standards Why many women confuse safety with being rescued How men can get stuck trying to be the perfect regulator instead of bringing their real depth Why emotional depth is one of the most attractive qualities in a partner How staying in the conversation can build more clarity than leaving too soon Why mutual growth is one of the real purposes of relationship Want to work with Bri and/or Courtney? Connect with Bri on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@buildingbricoaching⁠⁠⁠ Connect with Courtney on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@courtney_schand⁠⁠⁠ Follow the show on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@thefortheloveofmenpodcast⁠⁠⁠ Check out our website:⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.fortheloveofmenpodcast.com⁠⁠⁠ Looking for deeper support? Check out our Masterclasses: 1️⃣ What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It: Unlock the secrets to fulfilling your partner emotionally! Join the Masterclass! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/767199b5-47dd-4b08-a405-2854480607a6 2️⃣ Creating More Emotional Intimacy: Learn the art of building emotional safety for your Masculine partner! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/344d8ff0-6c7f-4d83-909c-b1da3e4d2a1b 3️⃣ Navigating Triggers in an Empowered Way: Transform your response to triggers and cultivate empowerment! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/764d6284-6af5-456e-928f-14554f56c17f #ModernDating #DatingStandards #FeminineEnergy #MasculineEnergy #HealthyRelationships #EmotionalIntimacy #DatingAdvice #SelfGrowthJourney #SecureAttachment #ConsciousDating

    39 min

  7. Mar 13

    #130: What’s In It For Me? (Transactional Dating)

    What’s in it for me? When the masculine or feminine approaches dating with this question in the background, it is rarely about selfishness. More often, it comes from past relationships where someone felt like they gave more than they received. In this conversation, we explore why this mindset can show up for both men and women, how unresolved relationship pain can make dating feel transactional, and why understanding reciprocity is often the first step toward creating a healthier, more balanced way of relating. We unpack: - Why people begin asking “what’s in it for me” in dating - How past relationship experiences can shape current expectations - The difference between healthy boundaries and protective dating - Why reciprocity is essential for a balanced partnership - What men are often seeking beneath the surface in relationships - What women are often protecting when they approach dating cautiously - How appreciation fuels generosity in the masculine - Why scorekeeping can quietly erode connection - The importance of getting clear about what you want to give in partnership - How shifting your perspective can open the door to healthier relationships Want to work with Bri and/or Courtney? Connect with Bri on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@buildingbricoaching⁠⁠⁠ Connect with Courtney on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@courtney_schand⁠⁠⁠ Follow the show on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@thefortheloveofmenpodcast⁠⁠⁠ Check out our website:⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.fortheloveofmenpodcast.com⁠⁠⁠ Looking for deeper support? Check out our Masterclasses: 1️⃣ What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It: Unlock the secrets to fulfilling your partner emotionally! Join the Masterclass! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/767199b5-47dd-4b08-a405-2854480607a6 2️⃣ Creating More Emotional Intimacy: Learn the art of building emotional safety for your Masculine partner! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/344d8ff0-6c7f-4d83-909c-b1da3e4d2a1b 3️⃣ Navigating Triggers in an Empowered Way: Transform your response to triggers and cultivate empowerment! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/764d6284-6af5-456e-928f-14554f56c17f #MasculineAndFeminine #ModernDating #RelationshipDynamics #HealthyRelationships #DatingMindset #EmotionalConnection #RelationshipGrowth #ConsciousDating #ReciprocalLove #DatingAwareness

    1h 3m

  8. Feb 27

    #129: Why You’re Not Attracting the Feminine Woman You Want

    In this episode, we respond to questions from last week and turn the focus toward men. We unpack what may be blocking men from attracting and building with the kind of feminine women they say they truly want, and why disowning your desire in an attempt to “not be that guy” can quietly shut down the chemistry you’re craving. Healthy feminine desire responds to grounded masculine desire. But only when it’s congruent. Tune in to learn more about:- The fixed beliefs that quietly shape your dating results - Why saying “this is just how dating is” keeps you stuck in that paradigm- The difference between more skills and deeper embodiment- How presence creates feminine nervous system safety- Why women respond to congruence more than perfect words- The masculine role of creating clarity without pressure- How disowning your sexual desire can kill polarity- Why feminine desire responds to being genuinely desired- The danger of bracing for emotional reactions instead of trusting her capacity- How grounded masculine energy invites openness, play, and real intimacy If this conversation resonates, share it with someone who’s ready to shift their experience of dating from frustration to ownership. And if you want to go deeper into masculine embodiment or feminine security work, check out the resources below. Want to work with Bri and/or Courtney? Connect with Bri on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@buildingbricoaching⁠⁠⁠ Connect with Courtney on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@courtney_schand⁠⁠⁠ Follow the show on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@thefortheloveofmenpodcast⁠⁠⁠ Check out our website:⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.fortheloveofmenpodcast.com⁠⁠ Looking for deeper support? Check out our Masterclasses: 1️⃣ What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It: Unlock the secrets to fulfilling your partner emotionally! Join the Masterclass! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/767199b5-47dd-4b08-a405-2854480607a6 2️⃣ Creating More Emotional Intimacy: Learn the art of building emotional safety for your Masculine partner! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/344d8ff0-6c7f-4d83-909c-b1da3e4d2a1b 3️⃣ Navigating Triggers in an Empowered Way: Transform your response to triggers and cultivate empowerment! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/764d6284-6af5-456e-928f-14554f56c17f #MasculineEnergy #FeminineEnergy #DatingMindset #HealthyMasculine #EmbodiedMasculine #FeminineDesire #DatingWithIntention #ModernDating #RelationshipDynamics #ConsciousDating

    42 min
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The intention of this show is to bring together men and women in harmony and honor each other's masculine and feminine energetic cores in a polarized healthy, thriving relationship.

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  • Creator
    Courtney Schand & Brianna Mosher
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2026
  • Episodes
    134
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Courtney Schand & Brianna Mosher
  • Show Website
    For The Love Of Men Podcast

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