For The Love Of Men Podcast

Courtney Schand & Brianna Mosher
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  • Relationships
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The intention of this show is to bring together men and women in harmony and honor each other's masculine and feminine energetic cores in a polarized healthy, thriving relationship.

  1. Sep 11

    #142: 5 "Feminine Energy" Teachings That May Be Keeping You From Finding Healthy Men

    In this episode, we unpack five popular dating and feminine energy teachings that can sound empowering on the surface but may create very different results in practice. We talk about princess treatment, the “sprinkle sprinkle” mindset, rotational dating, and the difference between protecting yourself and actually being open to a healthy partnership. We discuss:  Why “he should do everything for me” can sometimes come from hurt and overgiving rather than healthy feminine energy.What healthy men actually want in return when they’re investing in a woman, and why emotional depth and reciprocity matter.Why focusing too heavily on a man’s ability to provide financially can leave out the emotional connection, intimacy, and closeness we actually want.How rotational dating can keep us focused on being good at dating instead of building the skills needed for a secure, long-term relationship.The difference between maintaining our independence and making enough room in our lives to actually build an interdependent partnership with someone.   We’re not saying feminine energy, being provided for, or receiving from a man are bad things. The bigger question throughout this conversation is: What are we optimizing for? Because if what we truly want is a healthy, secure relationship, the dating strategies we use need to help us build toward that relationship, not just help us feel successful while dating. #DatingAdvice #FeminineEnergy #HealthyRelationships #ModernDating #RelationshipAdvice #HealthyMasculinity #SecureRelationships #DatingMindset #EmotionalIntimacy #RelationshipSkills #SecureAttachment #IntentionalDating #Interdependence #ForTheLoveOfMenPodcast Want to work with Bri and/or Courtney? Connect with Bri on Instagram:⁠⁠⁠ @buildingbricoaching⁠⁠⁠ Connect with Courtney on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@courtney_schand⁠⁠⁠ Follow the show on Instagram:⁠⁠⁠ @thefortheloveofmenpodcast ⁠⁠⁠Check out our website:⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.fortheloveofmenpodcast.com ⁠⁠⁠Looking for deeper support? Check out our Masterclasses: 1️⃣ What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It: Unlock the secrets to fulfilling your partner emotionally! Join the Masterclass! Clientclubmembership-hmi-preview 2️⃣ Creating More Emotional Intimacy: Learn the art of building emotional safety for your Masculine partner! Clientclubmembership-hmi-preview 3️⃣ Navigating Triggers in an Empowered Way: Transform your response to triggers and cultivate empowerment! Clientclubmembership-hmi-preview

  2. Aug 28

    #141: Perimenopause: What the Men Need to Know

    There’s a lot we’re never really taught about how a woman’s body changes as she gets older. So when those changes start happening, it can be easy to wonder, Is this normal? Is something wrong? And what does this mean for my relationship?    What perimenopause can actually look like and some of the changes women might not expect. What really happens to libido and sexuality as women get older. How men can support the women they love through this transition without feeling like they have to fix everything. Why both partners need their own support and space as the relationship begins to change. The simple check-ins and conversations that can help couples stay close through a changing season.    Shannon Hamaker is back with us to talk about the different seasons of a woman’s life, particularly the transition into perimenopause and menopause. We get into the changes women may start noticing, what happens with sex and desire, and how both partners can navigate this season without turning against each other.In This Episode, We Talk About:We also talk about something that doesn’t get said enough: this stage of life isn’t necessarily the beginning of losing something. For many women, it can be a time of knowing themselves better, caring less about what everyone else thinks, and discovering a different kind of confidence, pleasure, and connection. Looking for deeper support? Check out our Masterclasses: 1️⃣ What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It: Unlock the secrets to fulfilling your partner emotionally! Join the Masterclass! ⁠https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/767199b5-47dd-4b08-a405-2854480607a6⁠ 2️⃣ Creating More Emotional Intimacy: Learn the art of building emotional safety for your Masculine partner! ⁠https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/344d8ff0-6c7f-4d83-909c-b1da3e4d2a1b⁠ 3️⃣ Navigating Triggers in an Empowered Way: Transform your response to triggers and cultivate empowerment! ⁠https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/764d6284-6af5-456e-928f-14554f56c17f #Perimenopause #Menopause #WomensHealth #HormonalHealth #HormoneChanges #SexAndIntimacy #SexualWellness #HealthyRelationships #RelationshipAdvice #IntimacyInRelationships #MensHealth #MasculineEnergy #UnderstandingWomen #MidlifeRelationships #ForTheLoveOfMenPodcast

  3. Aug 14

    #140: How To Enjoy More Sex As You Get Older Ft. Shannon Hamaker

    Sex and intimacy can change over the course of a relationship, even when the love between two people is still very much there. In this episode, we’re joined by sex and relationship coach Shannon Hamaker to explore what can sit underneath that disconnect. In This Episode, We Discuss: How the ways we learned to protect ourselves can affect sex, intimacy, and our ability to stay present with a partner.Why pressure around sex can cause the other partner to pull away or go into protection mode, even when they still want closeness and connection.How to talk about what is happening in your body without blaming or criticizing your partner.Why removing pressure and old stories can sometimes do more for intimacy than trying to add date nights, lingerie, or other quick fixes.How planning intimacy can actually build anticipation and connection in a long-term relationship.Shannon also shares her own experience of navigating a libido mismatch in her marriage and what changed when she and her husband stopped trying to manage each other and began taking responsibility for their own patterns, emotions, and nervous systems.#SexAndIntimacy #HealthyRelationships #RelationshipAdvice #EmotionalIntimacy #SexualWellness #NervousSystemRegulation #SomaticHealing #RelationshipHealing #CouplesCommunication #IntimacyInRelationships #HealthyMasculinity #HealthyFemininityWant to work with Bri and/or Courtney? Connect with Bri on Instagram:⁠⁠⁠@buildingbricoaching⁠⁠⁠ Connect with Courtney on Instagram:⁠⁠⁠@courtney_schand⁠⁠⁠ Follow the show on Instagram:⁠⁠⁠@thefortheloveofmenpodcast⁠⁠⁠ Check out our website:⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.fortheloveofmenpodcast.com ⁠⁠⁠Looking for deeper support? Check out our Masterclasses: 1️⃣ What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It: Unlock the secrets to fulfilling your partner emotionally! Join the Masterclass! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/767199b5-47dd-4b08-a405-2854480607a6 2️⃣ Creating More Emotional Intimacy: Learn the art of building emotional safety for your Masculine partner! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/344d8ff0-6c7f-4d83-909c-b1da3e4d2a1b 3️⃣ Navigating Triggers in an Empowered Way: Transform your response to triggers and cultivate empowerment! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/764d6284-6af5-456e-928f-14554f56c17f

  4. Jul 31

    #139: How to Approach Women Without Being Awkward Ft. Dylan Miracle

    Asking a woman out shouldn't feel like a performance. Yet for so many of us, dating has become something we overthink. We worry about saying the right thing, making the perfect first impression, or avoiding rejection altogether.In this episode, we sit down with social confidence coach Dylan Miracle to unpack what actually makes someone magnetic. We explore why genuine confidence isn't about having the perfect line, but about learning how to connect with people naturally, approach conversations with curiosity instead of pressure, and become someone others genuinely enjoy being around.  We Discuss:  Why trying to be liked often pushes people away and what authentic confidence actually looks like. How to start conversations naturally without relying on pickup lines or awkward introductions. Practical ways to handle rejection, build an abundance mindset, and stop putting so much pressure on every interaction. The social cues that tell you when someone is open to being approached and how to approach respectfully. Where to meet quality partners offline and why becoming more social naturally improves your dating life.    Connect with Dylan Miracle Instagram: Instagraminstagram.com/conversationalfreedom TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@conversationalfreedom We discuss:Want to work with Bri and/or Courtney? Connect with Bri on Instagram:⁠⁠⁠⁠ @buildingbricoaching⁠⁠⁠⁠ Connect with Courtney on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠@courtney_schand⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow the show on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠@thefortheloveofmenpodcast ⁠⁠⁠⁠Check out our website:⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.fortheloveofmenpodcast.com⁠⁠⁠ Looking for deeper support? Check out our Masterclasses: 1️⃣ What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It: Unlock the secrets to fulfilling your partner emotionally! Join the Masterclass! ⁠⁠⁠Clientclubmembership-hmi-preview⁠ 2️⃣ Creating More Emotional Intimacy: Learn the art of building emotional safety for your Masculine partner! ⁠⁠⁠Clientclubmembership-hmi-preview⁠ 3️⃣ Navigating Triggers in an Empowered Way: Transform your response to triggers and cultivate empowerment! ⁠⁠⁠Clientclubmembership-hmi-preview #DatingAdvice #DatingTips #HealthyRelationships #ModernDating #Confidence #SocialSkills #CommunicationSkills #SelfGrowth #PersonalDevelopment #EmotionalIntelligence #AuthenticConnection #RelationshipAdvice #MeetingPeople #DatingConfidence #ForTheLoveOfMenPodcast

  5. Jul 18

    #138: What She's Really Scanning for When You Approach (It's Not Smoothness)

    In this episode, we explore what attraction feels like from a woman's perspective and why so many men may be focusing on the wrong things. We unpack the role of presence, emotional safety, curiosity, and authenticity, while explaining why genuine connection consistently outweighs polished lines or social performance.   Why women often experience attraction very differently than men think they do. The surprising quality that creates attraction long before looks ever do. Why trying to impress everyone can actually make you less attractive. What women are really feeling when a man approaches them. The simple conversation habit that instantly makes someone more memorable. Why focusing on connection instead of getting a phone number changes everything. How authenticity naturally stands out in a dating world full of performance.   We discuss:Want to work with Bri and/or Courtney? Connect with Bri on Instagram:⁠⁠⁠@buildingbricoaching⁠⁠⁠ Connect with Courtney on Instagram:⁠⁠⁠@courtney_schand⁠⁠⁠ Follow the show on Instagram:⁠⁠⁠@thefortheloveofmenpodcast⁠⁠⁠ Check out our website:⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.fortheloveofmenpodcast.com⁠⁠⁠ Looking for deeper support? Check out our Masterclasses: 1️⃣ What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It: Unlock the secrets to fulfilling your partner emotionally! Join the Masterclass! Clientclubmembership-hmi-preview 2️⃣ Creating More Emotional Intimacy: Learn the art of building emotional safety for your Masculine partner! Clientclubmembership-hmi-preview 3️⃣ Navigating Triggers in an Empowered Way: Transform your response to triggers and cultivate empowerment! Clientclubmembership-hmi-preview #DatingAdvice #ModernDating #HealthyRelationships #RelationshipAdvice #DatingTips #EmotionalSafety #AuthenticConnection #ConfidenceInDating #MasculineEnergy #FeminineEnergy #DatingMindset #SelfAwareness #CommunicationSkills #PersonalGrowth #ForTheLoveOfMen

  6. Jun 19

    #137: Why Being Steady Beats All the Perfect Lines in Dating

    Dating advice is everywhere, but not all of it leads to the kind of relationship people say they want. In this episode, we explore the difference between performing attraction and building genuine connection. We talk about why so much modern dating advice encourages people to create tension, mystery, or emotional distance, and why those strategies often attract the very dynamics they're hoping to avoid. We also unpack the role of congruence, steadiness, and emotional safety in creating meaningful relationships, and why being yourself consistently is far more attractive than trying to say or do all the "right" things.In this episode, we discuss: Why performative dating advice can undermine genuine intimacyThe difference between attraction, emotional volatility, and real connectionWhat congruence looks like and why women instinctively respond to itHow steadiness, reliability, and consistency build trust in early datingWhy healthy relationships create freedom, growth, and deeper self-expression     Want to work with Bri and/or Courtney? Connect with Bri on Instagram:⁠⁠⁠ @buildingbricoaching⁠⁠⁠ Connect with Courtney on Instagram:⁠⁠⁠ @courtney_schand⁠⁠⁠ Follow the show on Instagram:⁠⁠⁠ @thefortheloveofmenpodcast⁠⁠⁠ Check out our website:⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.fortheloveofmenpodcast.com ⁠⁠⁠Looking for deeper support? Check out our Masterclasses: 1️⃣ What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It: Unlock the secrets to fulfilling your partner emotionally! Join the Masterclass! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/767199b5-47dd-4b08-a405-2854480607a6 2️⃣ Creating More Emotional Intimacy: Learn the art of building emotional safety for your Masculine partner! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/344d8ff0-6c7f-4d83-909c-b1da3e4d2a1b 3️⃣ Navigating Triggers in an Empowered Way: Transform your response to triggers and cultivate empowerment! Clientclubmembership-hmi-preview #ForTheLoveOfMen #DatingAdvice #HealthyRelationships #SecureAttachment #DatingAndRelationships #RelationshipPodcast #ModernDating #EmotionalIntimacy #HealthyLove #RelationshipGoals #DatingMindset #SecureRelationships #MasculineAndFeminine #RelationshipGrowth #EmotionalConnection #DatingTips #RelationshipHealing #AuthenticConnection #LoveAndRelationships #RelationshipEducation

  7. Jun 5

    #136: How Important Is Physical Attractiveness In Modern Dating?

    Physical attraction gets talked about a lot in modern dating, but in this episode, we explore what attraction actually means beneath the surface. We unpack why so many of us chase certain looks, lifestyles, or “types” in relationships, and how those preferences are often tied to deeper emotional wounds, self-worth, and the need for validation.     We discuss: • The difference between looking conventionally attractive and looking the most like yourself • How attraction becomes more magnetic when we stop trying to appeal to everyone • The role self-acceptance plays in creating healthier relationships • Why emotional depth and authenticity matter more than appearance long term • How we lose ourselves trying to become “everyone’s type” • The freedom that comes from embracing your unique physical expression Whether you’ve struggled with body image, comparison, dating standards, or feeling like you have to look a certain way to be loved, this conversation brings a much more human perspective to attraction, confidence, and connection. Want to work with Bri and/or Courtney? Connect with Bri on Instagram:⁠⁠⁠@buildingbricoaching⁠⁠⁠ Connect with Courtney on Instagram:⁠⁠⁠@courtney_schand⁠⁠⁠ Follow the show on Instagram:⁠⁠⁠ @thefortheloveofmenpodcast⁠⁠⁠ Check out our website:⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.fortheloveofmenpodcast.com ⁠⁠⁠Looking for deeper support? Check out our Masterclasses: 1️⃣ What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It: Unlock the secrets to fulfilling your partner emotionally! Join the Masterclass! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/767199b5-47dd-4b08-a405-2854480607a6 2️⃣ Creating More Emotional Intimacy: Learn the art of building emotional safety for your Masculine partner! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/344d8ff0-6c7f-4d83-909c-b1da3e4d2a1b 3️⃣ Navigating Triggers in an Empowered Way: Transform your response to triggers and cultivate empowerment! Clientclubmembership-hmi-preview #ForTheLoveOfMen #HealthyRelationships #ModernDating #EmotionalIntimacy #SecureAttachment #DatingAndRelationships #RelationshipHealing #ConsciousDating #AttachmentStyles #EmotionalConnection #SelfWorth #RelationshipAdvice #AuthenticConnection #LoveAndGrowth #HealingInRelationships

  8. May 22

    #135: Where to Find Good, Healthy Partners 

    In this episode, we unpack why finding healthy love is not just about where you go, but about the energy, emotional patterns, and nervous system responses you bring with you into dating. They explore the difference between attraction and activation, why unresolved wounds can make healthy people feel “boring,” and how small shifts in presence, openness, and self-awareness can completely change the way people experience you.   We talk about: - Why healthy partners may feel “boring” when your nervous system is used to chaos or inconsistency - The difference between attraction and emotional activation- How emotional wounds can shape the kinds of people you keep choosing - The role openness, presence, and energy play in dating and attraction - Why creating opportunities for connection in real life still matters (and how you can start doing it) Want to work with Bri and/or Courtney? Connect with Bri on Instagram:⁠⁠⁠ @buildingbricoaching ⁠⁠⁠Connect with Courtney on Instagram:⁠⁠⁠ @courtney_schand⁠⁠⁠ Follow the show on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@thefortheloveofmenpodcast⁠⁠⁠ Check out our website:⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.fortheloveofmenpodcast.com⁠⁠⁠ Looking for deeper support? Check out our Masterclasses: 1️⃣ What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It: Unlock the secrets to fulfilling your partner emotionally! Join the Masterclass! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/767199b5-47dd-4b08-a405-2854480607a6 2️⃣ Creating More Emotional Intimacy: Learn the art of building emotional safety for your Masculine partner! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/344d8ff0-6c7f-4d83-909c-b1da3e4d2a1b 3️⃣ Navigating Triggers in an Empowered Way: Transform your response to triggers and cultivate empowerment! Clientclubmembership-hmi-preview #HealthyRelationships #ModernDating #DatingAdvice #SecureAttachment #RelationshipHealing #HealthyLove #DatingPodcast #AttachmentStyles #EmotionalHealing #ConsciousDating #SelfAwareness #RelationshipAdvice #LoveAndRelationships #DatingCulture #EmotionalIntelligence #SomaticHealing #MenAndWomen #RelationshipGrowth #FindingLove #ForTheLoveOfMen

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The intention of this show is to bring together men and women in harmony and honor each other's masculine and feminine energetic cores in a polarized healthy, thriving relationship.

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  • Creator
    Courtney Schand & Brianna Mosher
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2026
  • Episodes
    140
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Courtney Schand & Brianna Mosher
  • Show Website
    For The Love Of Men Podcast