The Intimacy Playground with EJ Love

EJ Love
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An adventurous podcast for leaders, lovers and curious explorers who want to go deep and feel fully alive in sex, intimacy and kinky play! EJ Love shows you what’s possible to experience through her uncensored real life erotic experiences, trauma-informed teachings, expert interviews, and intimacy practices & games you can play with and practice today. This is for the ones who are hungry for deeper intimacy, who want to feel freer sexual expression and feel erotically alive! This isn’t just a podcast you consume - it’s a playground you enter and this is your invitation to come and play...

  1. 4d ago

    The Feminine Art of Initiating Men through Conscious Sex and Intimacy

    Men often come looking for better sex, more confidence, stronger erections, more pleasure or deeper intimacy. But underneath those desires is something bigger: many men were never truly initiated into manhood, embodiment, emotional expression, intimacy and their own sexuality. Female practitioners can play a powerful role in helping them experience that missing initiation. In this episode, I share what more than 10,000 intimate sessions with men have taught me about supporting them beyond sexual performance and into deeper embodiment, healing and connection. I go into depth with: ~ What men may truly need beneath their sexual concerns ~ Shame, emotional suppression and the mother wound ~ Moving beyond performance into whole-body pleasure ~ Helping men receive without needing to perform or please ~ Sacred touch, Lingam Worship and prostate exploration ~ Reclaiming primal and penetrative energy with consent and heart ~ Conscious kink, erotic shadow work and healing role-play ~ Creating trauma-informed and deeply initiatory experiences I also share a moving letter from a man whose work with a CSE practitioner helped him reconnect with intimacy, pleasure and parts of himself he thought he had lost. This episode is especially for female conscious sexuality practitioners, tantra practitioners, intimacy coaches, sexological bodyworkers, sex workers and anyone who feels called to support men into deeper connection with their bodies, hearts and sexuality. Ready for more depth and juiciness? Explore our CSE Immersion: https://www.conscioussexualityexperience.com/oct2026 Explore our CSE Practitioner training (online or in person: https://www.conscioussexualityexperience.com/practitionertraining Follow my Substack:https://substack.com/@ejlove Men's Sex Mastery Program: https://www.ejlove.com/menssexmasteryprogram All upcoming Immersions and Trainings:https://linktr.ee/csetraining Follow CSE Trainings on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/csetrainings For my other programs and mentoring:https://linktr.ee/ejloveofficial Follow me on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/ejloveofficial Or Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/ejloveofficial Thanks for tuning in, now let’s get turned on! Keywords: men’s sexual initiation, conscious sex, conscious intimacy, female practitioners, men’s sexual healing, embodied masculinity, sexual performance, mother wound, emotional intimacy, whole-body pleasure, Lingam Worship, prostate pleasure, primal play, conscious kink, erotic shadow work, trauma-informed intimacy, CSE practitioner training

  2. Aug 24

    The VOSA Method: How to Turn Conflict and Resentment into Deeper Intimacy

    Most people don't have an intimacy problem, they have a repair problem. Which is why I created the VOSA Method - Validate, Own, Support and Agreements - a conflict-repair (and in the moment) process I created after spending my entire birthday in 2022 shut down in freeze with my then-partner. This process has changed the game not only for me, but also for my clients and their clients when it comes to repairing and coming back into connection. In this episode, I share: ~ The birthday conflict that accidentally created the VOSA Method~ How unresolved hurt and resentment are the biggest killers of intimacy~ How to use VOSA to repair conflict, rebuild trust and create deeper connection~ Simple tools to regulate your nervous system when conflict becomes overwhelming Because the connection your looking for is in the cleanup. Get the VOSA Method Cheat Sheet with a free 7 day Substack trial: https://ejlove.substack.com/p/the-vosa-method-cheat-sheet Learn more about the Conscious Sexuality Experience Immersion and Practitioner Training: https://www.conscioussexualityexperience.com Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ejloveofficial Thanks for tuning in. Now let’s get turned on! Keywords:relationship repair, conflict resolution, deeper intimacy, relationship communication, emotional validation, resentment, nervous system regulation, trauma-informed intimacy, conscious relationships, conscious sexuality

  3. Jul 9

    The DFBSCTA Conversation Everyone Needs to have Before Sex

    This is the conversation that changed my sex life! I believe everyone should be going through this communication framework before any intimate, sensual, sexual, tantric or kinky experience. I go into depth with: ~ The DFBSCTA framework: Desires, Fears, Boundaries, Sexual Health, Communication, Triggers/Trauma and Aftercare~ How these conversations create the “fence of the playground” so you can play more freely, safely and deliciously~ How to ask for what you want in the moment without making the other person wrong~ Why safe words, traffic lights and communication protocols are not just for BDSM (and how to create them) ~ How trauma responses can show up during intimacy and how to support someone with care~ Why aftercare and debriefing are essential for deeper trust, safety and pleasure This episode is for anyone who wants to experience deeper intimacy, safer exploration, better communication and more erotic aliveness in their sex, kink, tantra, relationships or professional intimacy work. It’s especially for practitioners, lovers, couples, sex workers, tantra practitioners, doms, subs, coaches and anyone who wants to create experiences where desire, boundaries, safety, pleasure and consent are truly honoured. Ready for more depth and juiciness? Follow my Substack:https://substack.com/@ejlove Check out my Women’s Sexual Healing Program:https://www.ejlove.com/soulgasmic-woman All upcoming Immersions and Trainings:https://linktr.ee/csetraining Follow CSE Trainings on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/csetrainings For my other programs and mentoring with me:https://linktr.ee/ejloveofficial Follow me on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/ejloveofficial Or Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/ejloveofficial Thanks for tuning in, now let's get turned on! Keywords:conscious sexuality, intimacy communication, consent, boundaries, safe words, traffic light system, BDSM communication, tantra, kink, sensual massage, erotic play, trauma-informed intimacy, trauma responses, nervous system safety, sexual healing, aftercare, desire, pleasure, embodiment, dom self, praise kink, procrastination, erotic aliveness, CSE immersion, CSE practitioner training, intimacy coaching, tantric sexuality, sexual health, safer sex, embodied consent, kink scene negotiation, conscious sex, pleasure dom, submissive communication, intimacy framework

  4. Jun 26

    My Tantric Queen Fantasy: Four Men, One Night, All For Me

    This is the episode where I share one of the most memorable and transformational erotic experiences of my life - my Tantric Queen Worship Experience Fantasy with four men completely in service to me and my pleasure! I talk about: Why I created this experience and what led me here (burnout, people-pleasing, and wanting to fully claim my desires)How I found these four men willing to worship me - yes, reallyThe Queen Tantric Worship Experience in delicious detailWhat this experience healed in me and what it unlockedHow you can start claiming YOUR desires and what's possible when you doThis episode is for anyone who has ever struggled to ask for what they want, who often gives more than they receive, or who is ready to claim their desire to receive pleasure unapologetically! Tantric Queen Playlist - https://open.spotify.com/playlist/5eoZC4JByCvDBNiiqK1hj4?si=bb2f94e827dc47bb Ready for more? I invite you to come and experience this for yourself in my Playground... All upcoming Immersions and Trainings: https://linktr.ee/csetraining and follow us at https://www.instagram.com/csetrainings For my other programs and mentoring with me: https://linktr.ee/ejloveofficial Follow me on instagram at https://www.instagram.com/ejloveofficial or facebook at https://www.facebook.com/ejloveofficial Thanks for tuning in, now let's get turned on! Keywords: tantric worship, queen archetype, erotic experience, desire, receiving pleasure, conscious sexuality, embodiment, people pleasing, burnout recovery, claiming desire, dom surrender, sacred sexuality, intimacy coaching, boundaries, consent, sexual healing, erotic empowerment, pleasure, tantric breathwork, fantasy

  5. 07/18/2024

    Being a Conscious Male Escort with Ty Jones, George Goulburn and Tyler Banks

    In this episode, I have the pleasure of speaking with three male escorts who have all attended our Conscious Sexuality Experience training. I asked them all the most curious questions that people wanted to know about what it’s like being a male escort:  How did you get into the industry? Why do you do what you do?  What types of women book your services? What are they looking for?  How do you do this work when you have a partner?  What’s been some of your most memorable client experiences?  What kind of conscious sexuality experiences fo you offer your clients? How has this helped them?  We also chatted about how the Conscious Sexuality Experience Training has had a significant impact on their work, particularly in terms of educating their clients about their desires and boundaries and supporting them to feel loved and safe exploring their sexuality.  Download the Deep Intimacy Playbook - https://www.conscioussexualityexperience.com/intimacyplaybook FOR UPCOMING IMMERSIONS AND TRIANINGS: ⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/csetraining⁠⁠⁠ and follow us at ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/csetrainings⁠⁠⁠ For my other programs and mentorship from me: ⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/ejloveofficial⁠⁠⁠ Follow me on instagram at ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/ejloveofficial⁠⁠⁠ or facebook at ⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/ejloveofficial ⁠⁠⁠or tiktok at ⁠⁠⁠https://vm.tiktok.com/ZSetkLDw4/⁠⁠⁠ CONNECT WITH THE MALE ESCORTS Instagram:   Ty Jones - https://www.instagram.com/tyjones_01/ , https://www.instagram.com/pleasureheals_/  George Goulburn - https://www.instagram.com/george_goulburn/,  Tyler Banks - https://www.instagram.com/tylerbanksesct/  Websites:  Ty - https://www.pleasureheals.com.au, https://ivysociete.com/escorts/profile/ty-jones  George - https://www.georgegoulburn.com/  Thanks for tuning in, now let’s get turned on! Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Guests and the Importance of Healing Services in the Sex Industry 04:19 Personal Stories: How the Guests Entered the Industry 06:02 Motivations and Passion for Supporting Women's Healing and Growth 15:59 Why Women Book Male Escorts and the Types of Women They Serve 22:45 Creating a Safe and Healing Experience: Communication, Boundaries, and Trauma Response 26:07 Respecting Boundaries and Trauma Responses 27:43 The Importance of Connection and Intimacy 35:59 Standout Client Experiences 01:00:29 The Impact of the Conscious Sexuality Experience Training Keywords conscious sex, male escorts, healing, connection, intimacy, companionship, trauma, triggers, communication, boundaries, aftercare, boundaries, trauma responses, consent, sex industry, demographics, connection, intimacy, physical attraction, client experiences, relationships, Conscious Sexuality Experience Training, communication, intention, safety

  6. 09/20/2023

    Porn Addiction and Trauma - the Impacts on Men's Brains, Sexual Performance and Intimate Relationships

    In this episode Anna Morrigan and I go deep on:  1. How to know when watching porn has actually become an addiction  2. The real reason men can become so easily dependent on porn  3. The massive impacts porn dependency has on men’s brains, their sexual intimacy, performance and their relationships 4. How men can be re-traumatising themselves every time they watch porn Join my 4 Week Men’s Sex Mastery Program that will help you heal porn addiction, rewire the neurological pathways of the brain and master your sexual energy - ⁠https://www.ejlove.com/menssexmasteryprogram⁠  Get the Deep Intimacy Playbook - https://www.conscioussexualityexperience.com/intimacyplaybook⁠ FOR UPCOMING IMMERSIONS AND TRAININGS: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/csetraining⁠⁠⁠⁠ and follow us at ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/csetrainings⁠⁠⁠⁠ For my other programs and mentorship from me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/ejloveofficial⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow me on instagram at ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/ejloveofficial⁠⁠⁠⁠ or facebook at ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/ejloveofficial ⁠⁠⁠⁠or tiktok at ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://vm.tiktok.com/ZSetkLDw4/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  Thanks for tuning in, now let’s get turned on!

  7. 07/29/2023

    How a Man's Mother Wound Impacts their Intimacy with Women

    In this episode EJ covers:  1. The Unconscious Unhealed Mother Wound Behaviours and How they Impact Men’s Relationships with Women  2. The 6 Different Mother-Son Dynamics that are Playing out Repeated Patterns in Relationships 3. How this Unhealed Wound Impacts Men’s Intimacy and can be a cause of ED, PE and how it can also Create Kinks and Fantasies that lead to Addictions 4. The Unconscious Loyalty Men have towards their Mothers that creates blocks to being available for & receiving love and having intimacy.  5. The Vital Piece of Men’s Initiation that is missing in most Men’s Work that will actually Heal this Mother Wound (and how I think women are here to help men with this) This is one you will not want to miss - be prepared to have your 👀 opened! Start healing today with our Men's Sex Mastery Program - https://www.ejlove.com/menssexmasteryprogram   Get the Deep Intimacy Playbook - https://www.conscioussexualityexperience.com/intimacyplaybook⁠ FOR UPCOMING IMMERSIONS AND TRIANINGS: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/csetraining⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and follow us at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/csetrainings⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ For my other programs and mentorship from me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/ejloveofficial⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow me on instagram at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/ejloveofficial⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or facebook at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/ejloveofficial ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠or tiktok at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://vm.tiktok.com/ZSetkLDw4/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  Thanks for tuning in, now let’s get turned on!

  8. 06/29/2023

    That Time I Hired a Male Escort for Healing

    In this episode I share the amazing conscious experience I had with a male escort and answer so many of the questions that you had for me about this including: 1. Why I decided to Hire a Male Escort 2. How I found Him and Why I chose this Escort 3. What I wanted to get out of the experience 4. The juicy details of what happened and my reflections and learnings. 5. My personal recommendations of Conscious Male Escorts Get the Deep Intimacy Playbook - https://www.conscioussexualityexperience.com/intimacyplaybook⁠ FOR UPCOMING IMMERSIONS AND TRIANINGS: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/csetraining⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and follow us at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/csetrainings⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ For my other programs and mentorship from me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/ejloveofficial⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow me on instagram at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/ejloveofficial⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or facebook at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/ejloveofficial ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠or tiktok at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://vm.tiktok.com/ZSetkLDw4/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  Thanks for tuning in, now let’s get turned on!

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An adventurous podcast for leaders, lovers and curious explorers who want to go deep and feel fully alive in sex, intimacy and kinky play! EJ Love shows you what’s possible to experience through her uncensored real life erotic experiences, trauma-informed teachings, expert interviews, and intimacy practices & games you can play with and practice today. This is for the ones who are hungry for deeper intimacy, who want to feel freer sexual expression and feel erotically alive! This isn’t just a podcast you consume - it’s a playground you enter and this is your invitation to come and play...

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