Big Lash Energy -Confidence, Relationships & Dating Advice for Women Who Want More!

Jayna Marie
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You know you deserve more in your relationships, your confidence, and your life… so why are you settling? Big Lash Energy is fun, award winning girl talk for the woman who knows she's meant for more. More love, more joy and more self confidence...because why settle for less?! This is epic story-telling paired with wild dating stories, messy moments and belly laughs over learning things the hard way. If you've ever: * talked down to yourself * stayed too long in the wrong relationship * or felt like you lost yourself trying to be loved …this podcast will be *full* of "I needed to hear that" moments. Get ready to binge and send must-listen episodes to friends! BLE is the passion project of Jayna Marie, an award-winning host, certified life coach, adoptive single mom and makeup artist with 20+ years of experience working with women — this show blends real-life stories, hard truths, and laugh-out-loud moments to help you: * Stop over-giving and start choosing yourself * Build confidence, boundaries, and self-worth * Navigate dating, heartbreak, and modern love * Break patterns that keep you stuck * Step into your boldest, most unapologetic life *Learn to love yourself more deeply Think: therapy meets your funniest, most honest best friend over shots of tequila. No fluff. No pretending. No "perfect life" energy. If you're in your glow-up era, healing era, or "I'm done with this sh*t" era — Big Lash Energy is your permission slip to want more… and actually go get it. 🏆 RECOGNITION "Best Comedy Writing" Gold, Signal Awards 2025 "Best Self Help/ Self Improvement" Gold, Signal Awards 2025 "Most Inspirational" Silver, Signal Awards 2025 "Most Inspirational" Listeners Choice, Signal Awards, 2024 "Best Self Improvement" Listeners Choice, Signal Awards, 2024 "Best Lifestyle Podcast" (Bronze) Signal Awards, 2024 "Top 10 Best Canadian Podcast of 2024" -PodTheNorth "Best Relationship Podcast" -Ambie Nominee 2024 Subscribe to join others who want to live authentically and unapologetically. If you have a friend who could use a weekly dose of BIG LASH ENERGY, could you please do us a favour and share the show with her? Let's grow this tribe together! 🧡PLEASE REACH OUT! Online: www.hellojayna.com Instagram: @biglashpodcast or @jaynamariemakeup

  1. 2d ago

    Mexico City Is ALWAYS a Good Idea (+La Casa Azul! )

    🏆 BIG NEWS! BLE IS A 2X SIGNAL AWARDS FINALIST! Big Lash Energy has been nominated for Best Comedy Writing AND Best Host — and the Listener's Choice Awards are decided by YOU! 🧡 CLICK HERE TO VOTE FOR BIG LASH ENERGY -You can search for Big Lash Energy to see both nominations -You have to click a link in the email they send you or your vote doesnt count!  It only takes a minute, and every single vote means SO much — especially as an independent Canadian podcast competing alongside some seriously massive shows. Voting closes October 15! 🧡 YOUR VOTE HELPS! THANK YOU! ______________________________________________________ Pack your bags, gorgeous! We're going to Mexico City! This girls trip has it all...From the incredible food and streets of Mexico City to Coyoacán, Frida Kahlo's Casa Azul, Lucha Libre and the famous floating boats of Xochimilco. There were moments that were beautiful and emotional…and others that went spectacularly off the rails. Because this is Big Lash Energy, and you already know Jayna can't just go on a normal vacation. Come experience Mexico City through two best friends who went looking for art, culture, history, amazing food and a little adventure—and came home with stories they'll be telling for the rest of their lives. If Mexico City is on your travel bucket list (or you just want to come along for the chaos), this episode is your boarding pass. 🎧 Grab your passport. We saved you a seat.

  2. Sep 23

    Why I'm Obsessed With Frida Kahlo (And You Should Be Too!)

    This isn't a history lesson. It's girl talk about one of the most fascinating women who ever lived. You know the eyebrows. You know the flower crown. You've seen her face everywhere. But trust us…facial hair was the LEAST interesting thing about Frida Kahlo. In this episode, Jayna shares five reasons she's completely obsessed with Frida—and by the end, you might be too. Her story is painful, romantic, rebellious, wildly unconventional and, at times, just the right amount of PETTY. There's a reason Jayna has this woman tattooed on her body, hanging larger-than-life in her living room…and why she may have even named someone in her family after a particularly important man in Frida's life. 👀 Come for the Frida Kahlo story. Stay for the heartbreak, resilience, audacity and the story of a woman who refused to be forgettable 🧡 If you enjoy this show and would like to show your appreciation, please click here: Buymeacoffee.com/BigLashEnergy Our not-so-secret goal is to create a tribe of badass women who find beauty in the messiest parts of life. We're learning and laughing as we go! If you know someone who could use a little BLE in their life? If so, could you pretty please share this show with them! ...let's grow this tribe together!  HOW TO CONNECT:  Find us on INSTAGRAM!  BigLashPodcast   Jaynas makeup and personal IG: JaynaMarieMakeup   We're official! Here's our website: www.biglashpodcast.com

  3. Sep 16

    Listeners Share The DUMBEST Lies That Men Have Told Them!

    Jayna asked her IG fam to share the most ridiculous lies men have told them in dating, relationships and marriage, and OH. MY. GOD. You delivered. In this hilarious listener-submission episode of Big Lash Energy, we're starting with your basic, low-budget b******t and working our way up to lies so outrageous they require commitment, creativity and an absolutely breathtaking amount of audacity. But underneath all the ridiculous excuses is a bigger question: Why do people lie even when the truth would be easier—and why do we sometimes work so hard to believe someone when our gut is already telling us something doesn't add up? Come for the dating stories, relationship drama and spectacularly bad lies. Stay for Jayna's completely unsolicited commentary. Grab a drink, get comfortable and prepare to say, "THERE IS *NO WAY* HE SAID THAT." Because, gorgeous…he really did 🧡 If you enjoy this show and would like to show your appreciation, please click here: Buymeacoffee.com/BigLashEnergy Our not-so-secret goal is to create a tribe of badass women who find beauty in the messiest parts of life. We're learning and laughing as we go! If you know someone who could use a little BLE in their life? If so, could you pretty please share this show with them! ...let's grow this tribe together!  HOW TO CONNECT:  Find us on INSTAGRAM!  BigLashPodcast   Jaynas makeup and personal IG: JaynaMarieMakeup   We're official! Here's our website: www.biglashpodcast.com

  4. Sep 9

    Men Doing Dumb Sh*t...But What's New?!

    WARNING: Adult Content! What REALLY happens at bachelor parties when the women aren't around? Apparently, sometimes it's better not to know. After last week's heartfelt relationship advice was met with near-record-breaking SILENCE, Jayna has gotten the message loud and clear: enough positive reinforcement when men behave badly...we wanna complain, damnit!  And oh does she ever. This week on Big Lash Energy, Jayna is sharing two of the craziest bachelor party stories she's ever witnessed—both involving men who proudly decided there would be NO STRIPPERS out of respect for their future wives (adorable, right?!).Except what happened instead was so bizarre, so wildly inappropriate and so spectacularly stupid that years later, Jayna still has questions. One bachelor party left behind a scene she never expected to come home to, the other left behind photographic evidence she was NEVER supposed to see and once you hear what was on those photos…you'll understand why this story has lived rent-free in her head for decades. If you love hilarious relationship stories, bachelor parties gone wrong, men behaving badly and the kind of girl talk that makes you text your best friend "YOU NEED TO HEAR THIS" --then press play! 🧡 If you enjoy this show and would like to show your appreciation, please click here: Buymeacoffee.com/BigLashEnergy Our not-so-secret goal is to create a tribe of badass women who find beauty in the messiest parts of life. We're learning and laughing as we go! If you know someone who could use a little BLE in their life? If so, could you pretty please share this show with them! ...let's grow this tribe together!  HOW TO CONNECT:  Find us on INSTAGRAM!  BigLashPodcast   Jaynas makeup and personal IG: JaynaMarieMakeup   We're official! Here's our website: www.biglashpodcast.com

  5. Sep 2

    How To Make Him More Romantic With THIS One Simple Trick!

    Is your man clueless when it comes to romance? Does "date night" mean football on the couch? Is his idea of foreplay a slap on the ass? Are you experiencing a "Sex Standoff? If so, You're not alone. This week on Big Lash Energy, Jayna is diving into the sneaky (and shockingly simple) reason so many women end up married to "the least romantic man alive" — and the one shift that can completely change how he shows up for you. Using stories from her own dating history, Jayna breaks down exactly how she did it — and why it might be easier than you think. If you've ever complained about your man's lack of romance, called him out for it, or quietly accepted that "he's just not that guy" — this episode is about to change everything. Grab a pen and paper, because Jayna's teaching you how to cast a spell of your own. Funny, relatable, and just a little bit witchy — this is Big Lash Energy at its best. 🧡 If you enjoy this show and would like to show your appreciation, please click here: Buymeacoffee.com/BigLashEnergy Our not-so-secret goal is to create a tribe of badass women who find beauty in the messiest parts of life. We're learning and laughing as we go! If you know someone who could use a little BLE in their life? If so, could you pretty please share this show with them! ...let's grow this tribe together!  HOW TO CONNECT:  Find us on INSTAGRAM!  BigLashPodcast   Jaynas makeup and personal IG: JaynaMarieMakeup   We're official! Here's our website: www.biglashpodcast.com

  6. Aug 26

    My 10 Most Unhinged & Unexpected Turn Ons!

    What turns you on that makes absolutely NO sense? Forget Forearms, a sense of humour or grey sweatpants- this is NOT that list. (It's the girl talk you've been waiting for!)   Dating is strange...sometimes, attraction is triggered by the weirdest, most oddly specific things. In this hilarious and slightly spicy episode, Jayna is counting down her Top 10 Unexpected Dating Turn-Ons—the tiny traits, behaviours and quirks that can take a man from "he's cute" to "...wait, why are my nipples hard?" From intelligence and oddly sexy signs of competence to one VERY questionable theory that introduces the BLE besties to a brand-new phrase—"he's serving sashimi energy"—this list gets increasingly difficult to defend. And just when you think you've figured out Jayna's type, there's a bonus turn-on so specific that men usually think she's joking. She is NOT.   Plus, stay until the end when Jayna shares YOUR strangest turn-ons—and apparently some of you are attracted to things that require further investigation.    Funny, flirty and completely unscientific, this episode is proof that attraction doesn't always follow the rules. Sometimes your body simply holds a meeting without you and announces: "Yep. We're into that now."   So what's YOUR most unexpected turn-on? Listen, laugh, compare notes—and prepare to discover that your weird little thing might not be so weird after all. 🧡 If you enjoy this show and would like to show your appreciation, please click here: Buymeacoffee.com/BigLashEnergy Our not-so-secret goal is to create a tribe of badass women who find beauty in the messiest parts of life. We're learning and laughing as we go! If you know someone who could use a little BLE in their life? If so, could you pretty please share this show with them! ...let's grow this tribe together!  HOW TO CONNECT:  Find us on INSTAGRAM!  BigLashPodcast   Jaynas makeup and personal IG: JaynaMarieMakeup   We're official! Here's our website: www.biglashpodcast.com

  7. Aug 19

    Still Sad About It? 3 Reasons To Quit Being A Little B*TCH!

    If you're *still* sad about that heartbreak, the disappointment, the weight you haven't lost or losing a friend, then this one's for you.   You've cried the tears, replayed what happened 700 times, talked your friends' ears off, and given yourself plenty of time to lick your wounds.Yes, what happened to you matters. Your heartbreak is real. Your disappointment is valid. And sometimes you absolutely need to cry, grieve, feel sorry for yourself and take some time to recover. …but then what?    In this hilarious, heartfelt and slightly unhinged pep talk, Jayna shares three reasons to quit being a little b*tch, get out of your own way and stop allowing anyone or anything from your past to hijack your future. We're talking heartbreak, healing, confidence, letting go, wasted time, unrealized potential—and why waiting until you're completely "over it" might be keeping you from the life you could already be living.    If you've been feeling stuck, struggling to move on, waiting to feel ready or simply need someone to lovingly grab you by the shoulders and say "BABE. ENOUGH!"…turn this one all the way up.   You don't have to be done grieving to start living.   Now pull up those big-girl panties. We've got winning to do! 🧡 If you enjoy this show and would like to show your appreciation, please click here: Buymeacoffee.com/BigLashEnergy Our not-so-secret goal is to create a tribe of badass women who find beauty in the messiest parts of life. We're learning and laughing as we go! If you know someone who could use a little BLE in their life? If so, could you pretty please share this show with them! ...let's grow this tribe together!  HOW TO CONNECT:  Find us on INSTAGRAM!  BigLashPodcast   Jaynas makeup and personal IG: JaynaMarieMakeup   We're official! Here's our website: www.biglashpodcast.com

  8. Aug 12

    From Bully To Bestie...Our Most Uncomfortable Conversation YET!

    "I used to be the mean girl." --A Confession most people would take to the grave but that's exactly how Arzo opens up this week's episode—and what follows is one of the most honest, uncomfortable conversations Jayna has ever had on the show. Our host shares a bullying story of her own—one she's never told publicly—and together they dig into a question worth sitting with: what if the "bad kid" isn't the one who deserves less compassion, but more? This episode isn't about excusing bullying. It's about understanding it—and proving that people, even the ones we've written off, are capable of real change. This isn't a conversation that's only meant for highschoolers. Bullying doesn't end at graduation. It just gets sneakier. Whether you've been bullied, been the bully, or just believe people deserve room to grow—this conversation will stay with you. 🧡 If you enjoy this show and would like to show your appreciation, please click here: Buymeacoffee.com/BigLashEnergy Our not-so-secret goal is to create a tribe of badass women who find beauty in the messiest parts of life. We're learning and laughing as we go! If you know someone who could use a little BLE in their life? If so, could you pretty please share this show with them! ...let's grow this tribe together!  HOW TO CONNECT:  Find us on INSTAGRAM!  BigLashPodcast   Jaynas makeup and personal IG: JaynaMarieMakeup   We're official! Here's our website: www.biglashpodcast.com

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You know you deserve more in your relationships, your confidence, and your life… so why are you settling? Big Lash Energy is fun, award winning girl talk for the woman who knows she's meant for more. More love, more joy and more self confidence...because why settle for less?! This is epic story-telling paired with wild dating stories, messy moments and belly laughs over learning things the hard way. If you've ever: * talked down to yourself * stayed too long in the wrong relationship * or felt like you lost yourself trying to be loved …this podcast will be *full* of "I needed to hear that" moments. Get ready to binge and send must-listen episodes to friends! BLE is the passion project of Jayna Marie, an award-winning host, certified life coach, adoptive single mom and makeup artist with 20+ years of experience working with women — this show blends real-life stories, hard truths, and laugh-out-loud moments to help you: * Stop over-giving and start choosing yourself * Build confidence, boundaries, and self-worth * Navigate dating, heartbreak, and modern love * Break patterns that keep you stuck * Step into your boldest, most unapologetic life *Learn to love yourself more deeply Think: therapy meets your funniest, most honest best friend over shots of tequila. No fluff. No pretending. No "perfect life" energy. If you're in your glow-up era, healing era, or "I'm done with this sh*t" era — Big Lash Energy is your permission slip to want more… and actually go get it. 🏆 RECOGNITION "Best Comedy Writing" Gold, Signal Awards 2025 "Best Self Help/ Self Improvement" Gold, Signal Awards 2025 "Most Inspirational" Silver, Signal Awards 2025 "Most Inspirational" Listeners Choice, Signal Awards, 2024 "Best Self Improvement" Listeners Choice, Signal Awards, 2024 "Best Lifestyle Podcast" (Bronze) Signal Awards, 2024 "Top 10 Best Canadian Podcast of 2024" -PodTheNorth "Best Relationship Podcast" -Ambie Nominee 2024 Subscribe to join others who want to live authentically and unapologetically. If you have a friend who could use a weekly dose of BIG LASH ENERGY, could you please do us a favour and share the show with her? Let's grow this tribe together! 🧡PLEASE REACH OUT! Online: www.hellojayna.com Instagram: @biglashpodcast or @jaynamariemakeup

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