The GoodKind Podcast

GoodKind

At GoodKind, we create resources that help people engage with God and one another. We do this by helping you cultivate the GoodKind of habits and holiday practices. On this podcast, we'll discuss how to be intentional with your habits and holidays, taking the opportunities of the season ahead to create meaningful moments for you and your family.

  1. 2d ago

    Summer Fun: Are We Teaching Kids That Fun Is Something You Buy?

    Summary Are we accidentally teaching our kids that fun is something you buy, schedule, or constantly optimize? In this episode, Clayton, Chris, and Amy explore the pressure many parents feel to create memorable experiences, especially during the summer months, and how that pressure can shape the way our children think about fun, boredom, and togetherness. The conversation examines the value of unstructured time, the role boredom plays in creativity and growth, and why some of our most meaningful family memories come from simply being together rather than consuming the next great experience. Takeaways When every moment has to be entertaining, kids can begin to expect fun instead of learning how to create it. Boredom is not a parenting failure—it often becomes the starting point for creativity, imagination, and independence. Constantly escalating experiences can unintentionally teach children that ordinary life is never enough. Some of the best family memories are formed through presence and connection, not expensive activities or perfectly planned events. Parents don't have to carry the burden of making every summer day unforgettable. Chapters 00:00 — Is Fun Something You Buy? 05:35 — The Pressure to Create Memorable Experiences 11:12 — Why Boredom Is Actually Good for Kids 16:54 — Expectations, Consumption, and Family Culture 24:08 — Teaching Kids to Create Their Own Fun 31:08 — What We're Changing After This Conversation

    35 min
  2. Jun 1

    More Than Morality: What Makes Christianity Different?

    What’s the difference between being a good person and being a Christian? In this conversation, Clayton, Chris, and Amy wrestle with a question many parents eventually face: if our neighbors, friends, and classmates seem kind, generous, and moral, what actually makes Christianity different? Along the way, they explore how Christian values have shaped our culture, why outward behavior doesn’t tell the whole story of a person’s faith, and how grace—not performance—is at the center of the Christian story. This episode is a thoughtful discussion about faith, morality, judgment, humility, and the challenge of helping our kids understand what it means to follow Jesus in a world where many people look similar on the surface. What’s the difference between being a good person and being a Christian? In this conversation, Clayton, Chris, and Amy wrestle with a question many parents eventually face: if our neighbors, friends, and classmates seem kind, generous, and moral, what actually makes Christianity different? Along the way, they explore how Christian values have shaped our culture, why outward behavior doesn’t tell the whole story of a person’s faith, and how grace—not performance—is at the center of the Christian story. This episode is a thoughtful discussion about faith, morality, judgment, humility, and the challenge of helping our kids understand what it means to follow Jesus in a world where many people look similar on the surface. Takeaways Many of the values we consider "common sense" today—kindness, equality, compassion, and dignity—have deep roots in a Christian understanding of the world.It’s possible for someone who isn’t a Christian to appear more moral than someone who is, because we rarely know the full story of a person’s heart, struggles, or spiritual journey.Christianity isn’t ultimately about being a good person; it’s about receiving grace and being transformed by Jesus over time.The closer we get to people, the more we discover that surface-level similarities often hide deeper differences in beliefs, priorities, and motivations.Humility grows when we recognize that, apart from God’s grace, we are capable of the same failures we often judge in others.Faith changes people, but that change is usually seen most clearly through a person's long-term direction rather than isolated moments.One of the most important conversations parents can have with their kids is helping them understand the difference between earning God's love and responding to God's love.Chapters 00:00 — Sports, Parenting, and a Bigger Question 04:16 — Good People vs. Christians 11:34 — How Christianity Shaped Our Culture 18:38 — Morality, Faith, and Grace 27:54 — Faith, Works, and Spiritual Growth 32:34 — Why We Need Better Conversations

    34 min
  3. May 25

    Academic Achievement: School, Stress, and the Pressure to Perform

    In a culture that constantly pushes achievement, performance, and productivity, many families are left asking an important question: What is school actually for? In this episode, we explore the growing pressure kids face academically and socially—and the ways parents can unintentionally reinforce the idea that grades, accomplishments, and success determine a child’s worth. We discuss how to pursue excellence without making achievement the center of family life, and why character, emotional health, relationships, faith, and identity matter just as much as academic performance. This conversation is not anti-school or anti-achievement. It’s an invitation to think more holistically about what we hope our children become—and how we can help them flourish as whole people, not just high performers. Takeaways School matters, but academic success was never meant to carry the full weight of a child’s identity or future happiness. Parents often communicate priorities unintentionally through stress, praise, schedules, and expectations. Emotional health, friendships, faith, creativity, and character formation deserve just as much attention as grades and accomplishments. Children need space to fail, grow, rest, and develop resilience without feeling like every outcome defines them. Celebrating small wins and everyday growth can help shift family culture away from constant performance pressure. Excellence is a healthy goal, but it becomes unhealthy when achievement starts replacing connection, joy, or peace. One of the most important things parents can do is remind kids that they are loved for who they are—not simply for what they achieve. Chapters 00:00 – Introduction and the pressure surrounding achievement05:42 – What is the primary purpose of school?12:18 – When grades and performance become identity19:37 – The emotional and relational cost of achievement culture27:11 – Helping kids pursue excellence without burnout34:45 – Why character and faith matter beyond academics41:26 – Celebrating growth, effort, and small wins48:03 – Practical ways families can reduce pressure and build healthier rhythms Recommended Resources Cart-echism Questions from GoodKindhttps://goodkind.shop/blogs/goodkind-core/catechisms-for-kids-questions-every-parent-should-be-asking-their-kids-about-their-faith-and-identity Celebrating the Small Wins Podcast Episode from GoodKindhttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/beyond-good-grades-celebrating-small-wins-in-parenting/id1626299321?i=1000744792956

    36 min
  4. Summer Pt. 1: Embracing the Pace of Summer

    May 18

    Summer Pt. 1: Embracing the Pace of Summer

    Summer has a way of sneaking up on us. One minute it feels like spring, and the next everyone is mentally checked out for vacation mode. In this episode, Clayton, Amy, and Chris talk about the rhythms of “Summer One” — that magical stretch between Memorial Day and July 4th where life feels lighter, slower, and full of possibility. They explore why paying attention to seasons matters for family life and spiritual habits, how “season mixing” keeps us from enjoying the moment we’re actually in, and practical ways to make the most of summer at home. From pool bags and porch dinners to sunglasses and laundry shortcuts, this episode is all about embracing the pace of summer and creating meaningful moments with your family before the chaos of “Summer Two” arrives. Takeaways Summer has its own rhythm, and families thrive when they lean into it instead of resisting it.“Season mixing” happens when we try to live like it’s still spring instead of embracing summer’s slower pace.Small environmental shifts — like eating outside or setting up a pool bag station — help create meaningful moments naturally.Summer is a great time to simplify routines and let go of unnecessary pressure.Paying attention to timing, rhythms, and seasonal habits can help families feel more connected and present.Chapters 00:00 — Summer Sneaks Up on Us 05:44 — The Six Seasons of the Year 08:58 — What Is “May-cember”? 12:08 — Why Season Mixing Doesn’t Work 15:13 — Defining “Summer One” 18:09 — What Summer One Feels Like 20:12 — Practical Ways to Embrace Summer 31:05 — Adjusting Rhythms and Expectations

    44 min
  5. May 10

    Ask the Seminarians: How Do You Explain Difficult Bible Stories to Kids?

    Content Warning: We're talking about difficult passages in the Bible, and while appropriate for most listeners, we want you to know there are light references to sex, drunkenness, war, and other topics from Scripture. In this Ask the Seminarians episode, Chris and Amy tackle one of the hardest parts of reading the Bible with kids: what do we do with the difficult stories? From Noah’s flood to animal sacrifice, dysfunctional families, war, judgment, and all the deeply awkward “bedroom ick” moments in Scripture, they explore how parents can approach challenging passages without fear. Along the way, they unpack the tension between protecting children and preparing them for the real world, offering practical wisdom for navigating hard conversations in age-appropriate ways. Rather than avoiding difficult stories altogether, Chris and Amy argue that the Bible’s honesty about human brokenness is actually one of the reasons we can trust it. This conversation is equal parts thoughtful, funny, and reassuring for parents who have ever panicked mid-Bible story and thought, “Wait… how am I supposed to explain THIS?” Takeaways Difficult Bible stories aren’t a mistake to hide from — they reveal the Bible’s honesty about the real world.Parents don’t have to answer every hard question perfectly or immediately.Sometimes “I don’t know” is a faithful and healthy response.Kids need age-appropriate truth, not sanitized fairy tales.The goal isn’t to avoid hard conversations forever, but to gradually dig deeper as kids mature.The brokenness in Scripture points us toward God’s redemption, not human heroes.Curiosity is a gift — and difficult questions can become meaningful discipleship moments.00:00 — Welcome Back + “Digital Flesh” Clayton04:18 — Why Noah’s Ark Is Actually Terrifying08:22 — Categories of Difficult Bible Stories13:18 — Skip, Sanitize, Dig In, or “IDK”?17:03 — Animal Sacrifice and Kids’ Questions19:54 — What Do You Do With the Weird Sex Stuff?24:26 — Age-Appropriate Truth vs Sanitizing Scripture26:12 — Parenting Different Kids Differently27:28 — Why the Cross Is Already a Hard Story31:27 — The Pressure Parents Feel to Have Answers33:00 — Why Difficult Stories Matter36:43 — The Danger of “Bible Heroes” Theology

    40 min
  6. Apr 20

    From the Vault: Why Saturdays Don’t Feel Restful Anymore (and What to Do About It)

    This week, we’re revisiting a conversation that feels more relevant than ever. In this episode of The GoodKind Podcast, Clayton, Chris, and Amy explore the rhythm of Saturdays—what they used to be, what they’ve become, and why so many of us feel caught between rest and responsibility. From childhood memories of slow, unstructured weekends to the reality of full calendars and family logistics, Saturdays often carry more weight than we expect. The conversation digs into the tension between productivity and presence, and how cultural expectations have quietly reshaped one of the most meaningful days of the week. You’ll also hear a thoughtful look at the idea of Sabbath—not as another obligation, but as an invitation. What might it look like to approach Saturdays with more intention, more connection, and a clearer sense of what actually restores us? Whether your weekends feel rushed, full, or somewhere in between, this episode offers a framework for rethinking how you spend them—and why it matters. Takeaways Saturdays didn’t lose their meaning—we just filled them upWhat felt like freedom as kids often becomes pressure as adultsRest doesn’t just happen—it has to be chosen and protectedProductivity isn’t wrong, but it can quietly take overSabbath isn’t about rules—it’s about rhythmA meaningful Saturday is less about doing more and more about being presentThe way we spend our weekends shapes the tone of our entire weekConnection—with God and with each other—is what actually restores us

    27 min
5
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20 Ratings

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At GoodKind, we create resources that help people engage with God and one another. We do this by helping you cultivate the GoodKind of habits and holiday practices. On this podcast, we'll discuss how to be intentional with your habits and holidays, taking the opportunities of the season ahead to create meaningful moments for you and your family.

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