The GoodKind Podcast

GoodKind

At GoodKind, we create resources that help people engage with God and one another. We do this by helping you cultivate the GoodKind of habits and holiday practices. On this podcast, we'll discuss how to be intentional with your habits and holidays, taking the opportunities of the season ahead to create meaningful moments for you and your family.

  1. 5d ago

    How Should Kids Read the Bible? A Guide to Bible Translations, Story Bibles & More

    How do you help your kids get the story of the Bible into their hearts and minds? With so many Bible translations, story Bibles, graphic novels, devotionals, and Christian books available, it can be hard to know what to choose—or how much to expect from your kids. Clayton and Chris talk through Bible translations, story-based resources, age-appropriate ways to engage with Scripture, Christian living books, and how parents can help their kids learn to discern what they hear from increasingly authoritative-sounding sources—including AI. Takeaways Choose a Bible translation your child can actually understand and engage with—the “best” Bible is the one they will read.Story Bibles and creative retellings can help kids see the big story of Scripture and understand how the Bible’s individual stories fit together.Give kids freedom to explore different kinds of Christian books while continuing to encourage regular exposure to Scripture.Bible reading doesn’t have to feel like homework; the goal is to help kids develop a genuine love for God’s Word.Kids need more than Bible knowledge—they need to understand the overarching story of Scripture and how it points to Jesus.As children increasingly turn to AI and technology for answers, parents can teach them to ask, “Who said this?” and “How do they know?” so they learn to evaluate sources and discern truth for themselves.Chapters 00:00 — Helping kids engage with the story of the Bible01:17 — An introduction to Chris Pappalardo04:40 — Bible translations: ESV, NIV, and beyond05:54 — Why every Bible translation involves interpretation07:17 — Finding the right Bible for your child's age and stage08:48 — Letting kids grow into deeper Bible reading10:11 — Story Bibles, Advent Blocks, and retelling Scripture12:20 — The Book of God and bringing biblical stories to life15:41 — Should Bible reading feel like devotional time or reading for fun?16:05 — Using graphic novels and other familiar formats to engage kids17:14 — Encouraging Bible reading without making it feel like homework18:43 — The role of regular exposure to Scripture19:27 — Learning the Bible through church, camps, sermons, and Christian books22:43 — Why story-based resources can help kids see the whole biblical narrative24:18 — Introducing kids to Christian living books25:35 — When should kids start reading Christian nonfiction?27:26 — How formative the college years can be for faith and learning28:19 — Helping kids discern what they hear from AI and other sources30:58 — Bible resources and books the guys recommend32:08 — Getting the greatest story ever into your kids' hearts Resources Looking for some of the resources mentioned in this episode? Here are the books, Bibles, and teaching resources Clayton and Chris recommend: The Action Bible — Sergio Cariello’s illustrated, graphic-novel-style Bible, recommended as an engaging option for kids who connect with visual storytelling.Kaleidoscope: Kids’ Bibles Reimagined — Bible resources designed to make Scripture faithful, accessible, and engaging for kids.The Jesus Storybook Bible — Sally Lloyd-Jones’s beloved story Bible that helps children see how every story in Scripture points to Jesus.The Book of God — Walter Wangerin Jr.’s novelized retelling of the Bible, offering a sweeping view of Scripture as one connected story.God’s Word For You — The Good Book Company’s accessible commentary series, walking through individual books of the Bible with biblical context and practical application.Tim Keller’s Sermons — A collection of sermons and teaching from Tim Keller, available through The Gospel Coalition’s sermon library.Gospel: Recovering the Power that Made Christianity Revolutionary — J.D. Greear’s book exploring the centrality of the gospel and how it transforms the Christian life.

  2. Aug 31

    Why Bedtime Brings Out the Biggest Questions

    Why do kids seem to save their biggest, strangest, and sometimes most difficult questions for bedtime? In this episode, Amy and Chris Pappalardo talk about the familiar phenomenon of the “one more question” after the lights are out—from questions about death and God to the completely unexpected question about where chicken comes from. Together, they explore why bedtime can become a uniquely safe and relational space for kids to open up. Amy and Chris consider several reasons kids may ask these questions at the end of the day: they may be stalling, feeling safe enough to let their guard down, finally free from the distractions of the day, or simply taking advantage of one of the few moments when they have a parent's undivided attention. They also talk about what parents can do when the questions are serious, difficult, or simply coming at the worst possible time. Rather than dismissing bedtime questions as a nuisance, this conversation invites parents to see them as an opportunity to listen, affirm their children's curiosity, and create space for deeper conversations—even when the timing isn't exactly ideal. Takeaways Bedtime can become a uniquely safe space where kids feel comfortable asking questions they have been carrying throughout the day.Kids may ask bedtime questions because they're stalling, but not every question is a stalling tactic.When distractions disappear, thoughts and questions that have been sitting in the background can finally come to the surface.Bedtime often provides some of the most focused, one-on-one attention parents give their kids all day.Tiredness can lower a child's inhibitions and allow unexpected or unusual thoughts to come out.A child's difficult or unexpected question can be an opportunity to recognize that they trust you enough to bring it to you.When a question is sincere, it's worth respecting the curiosity behind it—even if the timing isn't ideal.Parents don't have to answer every question immediately; sometimes it's better to table the conversation and intentionally return to it later.You don't have to have all the answers to be a safe and trustworthy person for your child to ask.Chapters 00:18 – Meet your "backup" hosts: Amy and Chris01:05 – Why kids don't want to go to bed05:14 – The bizarre questions kids save for bedtime07:19 – Why bedtime questions happen in every kind of family09:04 – Are kids just stalling?10:10 – Bedtime as a safe space11:03 – When the distractions of the day finally disappear15:19 – The uncomfortable truth about undivided attention17:04 – Why kids also open up during baths, walks, and other one-on-one moments18:10 – What tiredness does to a child's inhibitions19:17 – Amy's childhood chicken question23:24 – So what should parents actually do?24:07 – How to tell if they're stalling or genuinely curious24:34 – Why we should take our kids' questions seriously25:36 – When it's okay to table the conversation for tomorrow27:07 – Turn the question back around: “What do you think?”28:13 – You don't have to have all the answers

  3. Aug 24

    Teaching Kids About Money: Biblical Stewardship, Contentment, and Generosity

    In this episode, Clayton Greene, Amy Kavanaugh, and Chris Pappalardo explore what the Bible teaches about money and how parents can help their kids develop a healthy relationship with it. They discuss the difference between teaching financial skills and shaping a child's heart, including practical ways to teach saving, spending, giving, contentment, and stewardship. Along the way, they look at Jesus' teachings about money and consider how parents can model generosity, trust, and a healthy attitude toward God's provision. Takeaways Biblical teaching about money is ultimately about more than financial skills—it is about the heart.Parents can teach children stewardship through everyday decisions about saving, spending, and giving.Generosity is something children learn not only through instruction but by watching their parents practice it.Contentment and trust help children understand that money and possessions do not determine what they need to be happy.Biblical financial education includes both practical habits and the beliefs that shape those habits.Jesus talked frequently about money because of its connection to our hearts, priorities, and trust in God.Teaching children about money is ultimately about helping them understand God's provision and their responsibility to steward what they have.Chapters 00:00 — Introduction and episode overview36:23 — The evolution of car styles and safety considerations44:23 — Transition to the main topic: money and parenting44:23 — Teaching kids about money at different ages10:04 — The doctrinal and attitude components of financial education16:49 — Modeling generosity and an attitude toward money36:57 — Using allowances and savings to teach financial responsibility37:07 — Creating budgets and teaching about spending limits57:26 — The importance of contentment and managing expectations44:12 — Money in the Bible: Old Testament and New Testament insights04:22 — Jesus' teachings on money and possessions37:57 — Verses on generosity, contentment, and heart attitude18:05 — Practical acts of generosity and modeling giving31:35 — The relationship between money, heart, and trust18:53 — The impact of giving on the heart and priorities12:35 — Key biblical passages on money and contentment58:57 — Balancing beliefs and behaviors in financial life12:35 — The messiness of money and God's gift of provision52:54 — Summary: Money as a gift, heart posture, and generosity26:32 — Closing thoughts and episode wrap-up Keywords money, biblical money management, parenting, teaching kids about money, stewardship, generosity, contentment, financial education, Christian parenting, biblical stewardship, saving, giving, spending

  4. Aug 17

    Fall Frenzy: Embracing the Season with Rest, Rhythm, and Purpose

    In this episode, we explore how to embrace the fall season with intentionality, balancing productivity and rest, and aligning seasonal rhythms with biblical and cultural themes. Join us as we discuss practical ways to prepare for the busy months ahead and find steadiness in the season. Takeaways Fall is a season of harvest, vocation, and reaping what we have sown.Seasonal transitions give us an opportunity to reassess our rhythms, routines, and expectations.A healthy seasonal rhythm makes room for both work and rest, without haste and without neglecting what needs to be done.Fall can be a meaningful time to practice gratitude and reflect on what God has been doing in our lives.Planning ahead gives us greater perspective and helps us enter busy seasons with steadiness and joy.The goal isn't to rush through a busy season, but to learn how to live it well.Chapters 00:00 Introduction: Embracing the Fall Season 02:00 The Cultural and Biblical Significance of Fall 06:00 Preparing for the Fall: Systems and Routines 09:56 Understanding Fall as Vocation and Gratitude 15:01 The Rhythm of Without Haste, Without Rest 19:55 Practical Tips for Seasonal Preparation 24:50 Living Intentionally in Busy Seasons 29:49 The Power of Perspective and Planning 34:02 Adjusting Routines and Expectations 37:14 Embracing the Season with Steadiness and Joy Keywords fall season, seasonal rhythms, productivity, rest, biblical seasons, spiritual practices, family routines, gratitude, vocation, harvest

    Fall Frenzy: Embracing the Season with Rest, Rhythm, and Purpose
  5. Aug 10

    Why Do Christians Sing? The Power of Singing in Worship

    Why do Christians sing together when we gather for worship? And why can something as ordinary as singing feel surprisingly strange in our highly individualistic culture? In this episode, Clayton, Amy, and Chris explore the biblical, communal, and formative power of singing—and why singing has remained such a central part of Christian worship throughout history. From karaoke and kids' camp to the Psalms and congregational worship, they talk about why singing is so deeply human, what Scripture says about singing, and how music can shape our hearts and theology. They also explore the vulnerability of singing alongside other people, why everyone is welcome—and necessary—and how singing can engage our heart, mind, soul, and strength in a unique way. Whether you're a confident singer, someone who would rather never hold a microphone, or somewhere in between, this conversation is an invitation to embrace the strange, beautiful, communal practice of singing—and to sing with joy wherever you are. Takeaways Singing is a deeply human activity that has been part of Christian worship throughout Scripture and history.The Bible doesn't give us a detailed formula for exactly what Christian singing should sound like, but it consistently assumes and demonstrates that God's people will sing.Congregational singing can feel strange because modern Western culture is highly individualistic and communal singing is no longer an everyday experience for most people.The “weirdness” of singing together can actually be part of its beauty—it pulls us out of our individualism and reminds us that Christian worship is communal.Singing has a unique ability to engage the heart, mind, soul, and strength all at once.Songs can help form our children's faith by putting Scripture, theology, and worship into their hearts in a memorable way.Congregational singing requires both humility and vulnerability. The best singer and the worst singer in the room are both invited to participate.Everyone is welcome in congregational singing—and everyone is necessary. The song isn't complete until the whole body participates.Singing together is different from singing alone because it reminds us that worship isn't just about our individual experience; we're worshiping alongside the people God has given us.We don't have to be good singers to make a joyful noise. We can sing at church, at home, in the car, and maybe even at karaoke.Sometimes changing how we think about an experience can change how we experience it—so instead of saying “I'm nervous,” try saying, “I'm excited.”Chapters 00:18 – The band is back together after summer01:59 – Summer highlights, kids' camps, and Professor Slingshot05:20 – Family rhythms, Alaska, and getting back into a school routine10:31 – Why we're talking about singing12:09 – Why do people sing together?14:45 – Why is singing part of Christian worship?17:07 – Singing, prayer, and the way Scripture teaches us to worship18:05 – Why congregational singing feels strange in an individualistic culture20:12 – The beauty of singing together before modern technology21:47 – How singing engages heart, mind, soul, and strength25:10 – How singing can shape our children's faith26:40 – The humility and vulnerability of singing with other people29:02 – Everyone is welcome—and everyone is necessary29:57 – Why you should sing at home, in the car, and at church30:38 – A surprising lesson from karaoke: “I'm excited”

  6. Aug 3

    The Philosophy of Education (Part 2): School Choice — Public, Private, or Homeschool?

    Choosing how to educate your kids can feel overwhelming—especially when every option seems to come with strong opinions and stereotypes. In this episode, Clayton, Amy, and one of our favorite guest hosts, Arthur Tew, each represent a different schooling experience (public, private Christian, and homeschool) and have an honest, good-humored conversation about why faithful families often arrive at different decisions. Rather than debating which option is "right," they challenge one another to acknowledge the common stereotypes surrounding each choice—and then explain the truths, misconceptions, and tradeoffs behind them. Along the way, they discuss parental responsibility, Christian formation, diversity, academics, and the reality that no educational model is perfect. Whether you've already made your decision or you're still wrestling through it, this conversation is an invitation to think intentionally, hold your convictions with humility, and extend grace to families who make different choices. Takeaways Faithful Christian families can thoughtfully arrive at different school choices.Every educational model has strengths, weaknesses, and tradeoffs.Homeschooling has evolved significantly over the past two decades.Private Christian schools often require financial sacrifice—not just financial privilege.Diversity of people, perspectives, and learning styles is worth considering in every schooling decision.Parents remain the primary influence on their children's formation, regardless of where they're educated.Difficult conversations are inevitable—and parents should be prepared to have them.The goal isn't finding the "perfect" school, but being intentional about your family's values and your children's formation.Grace and humility go a long way when talking about deeply personal parenting decisions. Chapters 00:00 – Why school choice feels so personal02:50 – Arthur shares why his family homeschools06:40 – Amy's journey from public school to private Christian school11:20 – Clayton explains why his family chose public school13:10 – Ground rules: agreeing with stereotypes before defending them14:15 – "Homeschoolers are awkward." Is there any truth to it?21:15 – Do homeschoolers actually learn math?24:15 – "Private school is only for wealthy families."29:10 – What private schools can unintentionally lack34:20 – Are private school parents afraid of the real world?39:20 – "Public school is basically glorified daycare."42:40 – Should kids be exposed to hard realities while they're young?47:40 – The responsibility every parent has, regardless of school choice49:30 – Final encouragement: be intentional, not judgmental

  7. Jul 27

    The Philosophy of Education (Part 1): Education vs. Formation

    What is school actually for? After a previous conversation about testing and public education sparked unexpected interest in homeschooling, Clayton sits down with friend and homeschool dad Arthur Tew for a follow-up discussion. Rather than debating homeschool versus public school, they dig into a deeper question: What is the purpose of education in the first place? Together, they explore the difference between education and formation, why children are learning long after the school bell rings, and how parents can intentionally shape their kids through family, church, neighbors, mentors, and everyday life. Whether your children attend public school, private school, or homeschool, this conversation offers a refreshing reminder that raising capable, wise, Christlike adults is about far more than academics. Takeaways Children are being formed every hour of every day—not just during classroom instruction—so parents should think beyond school when considering how their kids are growing.The goal of parenting isn't simply to raise high-achieving students; it's to raise adults who are wise, resilient, and enjoyable to be around decades from now.Every environment shapes our children, from teachers and classmates to neighbors, church communities, coaches, and trusted adults who invest in their lives.Homeschool and traditional school each have strengths and challenges, but neither guarantees a particular outcome. Intentional parenting matters more than the educational model itself.Giving kids opportunities to interact with adults, serve others, and navigate different social situations may be just as formative as what they learn in a textbook.Parents don't have to outsource all of their children's education. Some of the most important lessons are taught through conversations, shared experiences, and everyday life together.Chapters 00:00 Why this conversation needed a follow-up 02:45 Should kids ever miss school? 05:30 Is education really a child's "work"? 08:45 The difference between education and formation 12:00 Why school isn't the only place kids learn 16:15 What we're actually trying to raise: capable adults 20:30 Homeschool, public school, and controlling the environment 23:00 The surprising influence of neighbors, church, and mentors 26:10 Why other trusted adults matter so much 27:40 Parents still have to explain what their kids are experiencing

  8. Jul 20

    From the Vault - Can Christians Cuss?

    Originally published September 2025 · One of our most requested episodes We're bringing back one of our favorite (and most requested!) conversations from last year! Content warning: While we don't use any explicit language in this episode, the discussion centers around cussing, profanity, and the words we choose to use. Parents may want to preview the conversation before listening with younger children. We think it's helpful for kids over age 10 to listen in! Is cussing always sinful? Does the Bible actually prohibit certain words, or is it more concerned with the heart behind our speech? In this episode, Clayton, Amy, and Chris tackle a surprisingly nuanced question that many Christian families have wrestled with. Together they explore the difference between profanity, vulgarity, cursing, and coarse language while considering biblical teaching, cultural expectations, and the intentions behind our words. Rather than simply asking, "Can Christians say these words?" the conversation invites us to ask a deeper question: How can our speech reflect the character of Christ? Takeaways Not all "bad words" are bad for the same reasons—profanity, vulgarity, and cursing each carry different meanings.Scripture is more concerned with speech that builds others up than with maintaining a list of forbidden words.Context and intent matter when evaluating the appropriateness of language.Christians are called to use words that bless rather than curse.Teaching kids about language is more effective when we explain why words carry meaning, not just which words they're not allowed to say.Replacement words may solve a habit, but they don't necessarily address the heart behind our speech.Grace and charity should shape how we respond to people whose convictions about language differ from our own.Whether you've wondered where the line is, or you've never really questioned it at all, this episode is an honest, thoughtful, and often funny conversation about language, holiness, and the power of our words. Thanks to everyone who's asked us to bring this one back—we're excited to share it again with both new listeners and longtime friends of the podcast.

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At GoodKind, we create resources that help people engage with God and one another. We do this by helping you cultivate the GoodKind of habits and holiday practices. On this podcast, we'll discuss how to be intentional with your habits and holidays, taking the opportunities of the season ahead to create meaningful moments for you and your family.

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