Tough Love

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Welcome to Tough Love, the relationship podcast with Stephanie Regan, clinical psychotherapist and relationship expert and Mairead Loughman, Matchmaker and founder of Love HQ. This podcast is the result of many conversations between us about dating and love where we found that we were both noticing the suffering, loneliness and powerlessness that can lie beneath the search for love. Although we arrive to the subject from two very different places we saw that some truths and difficulties simply never get aired and that there could be a real benefit in opening a bigger and more frank conversation on these and the realities of dating and building relationships in today's world. Our focus is to say what needs saying, hence the title ,'Tough Love', but with the purpose of empowering the listener,by hearing common sense and new perspectives. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  1. 5d ago

    S3 EP11 - Decades in Dating: How Love Shifts As We Age

    In this episode, we dive deep into the shifting dynamics of dating across generations, focusing heavily on the distinct emotional and logistical hurdles of navigating love in your 30s, 40s, 50s, and 60s. From biological clocks and vanishing friend groups to navigating adult stepchildren and establishing lifestyle boundaries, we look at what it really takes to find—and keep—love as we grow older. Key Topics Covered: Dating in Your 30s: The Pressure Cooker The sharp contrast between early 30s (hope, fun, career focus) and mid-to-late 30s. Navigating the "friend shift": Watching your social circle settle down, get married, and buy homes while you are still single. The financial drain of celebrating everyone else’s milestones (weddings, baby showers) while trying to save for your own future. Why it's crucial to be "a little selfish" with your time and energy rather than letting friends dictate your weekends just because you're single. Dating in Your 40s: The Logistical Minefield The biological clock conversation shifts from a looming deadline to a ticking reality. The misalignment between men and women in their early 40s regarding starting a family. Managing the "school-age kid" schedule: How dating looks completely different depending on whether you have kids under your roof. The emergence of a newfound confidence, career stability, and "calmness" that comes with knowing exactly who you are. Dating in Your 50s & 60s: Freedom, Baggage, and Boundaries The variety of life stages in your 50s (from parents of toddlers to parents of college students). Learning from past relationships: Why second marriages often thrive on lessons learned from divorce or separation. The rise of the "Living Apart Together" (LAT) trend: Why many older couples choose to date exclusively but maintain their own homes, space, and independent lives with their respective grandchildren. The unique hurdle of adult children: How protective or possessive adult daughters can unintentionally disrupt their parents' new romantic relationships. The power of a "young mindset": Why keeping yourself curious, vibrant, and open to the world matters far more than the number on your birth certificate. Key Takeaways & Advice Keep Going: Love is absolutely out there at every stage of life. Protect Your Energy: When entering a new relationship later in life, sometimes it is best to keep it under your hat for the first few weeks to protect the connection before introducing it to complex family dynamics. Respect Each Other's Boundaries: Successful dating in your 60s and 70s requires ensuring both partners' needs for space, family time, and exclusivity are fully aligned. Connect With Us If you would like more information or if you would like to book a private session with Mairead and Stephanie visit www.toughlove.ie Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    S3 EP11 - Decades in Dating: How Love Shifts As We Age

  2. Jun 30

    S3 EP 11 - Late Daters - Those who have postponed for various reasons.

    Late Daters - Those who have postponed for various reasons. The good girl / boy syndrome/ Duty / Fear / Separation/ Divorce/ Widows. What work must you do on the endings before beginning again.  Is it live experience or weighty baggage? Your capacity to manage. Are you ready to date.  The loneliness factor.  Have I enough going on in my life? Friends! Work? Are you as ready as you think?  Transitional relationships. Consider what you want to feel in this relationship Make a list but don't be tight to it. Make a list of positives. If you would like more information or if you would like to book a private session with Mairead and Stephanie visit www.toughlove.ie Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    S3 EP 11 - Late Daters - Those who have postponed for various reasons.

  3. Feb 12

    S3 E10 - Love & Logic: Your Most Asked Dating Questions Answered

    Both Stephanie and Mairead share their big personal news. We answer our most asked questions as a Clinical Psychotherapist and Matchmaker! If you would like more information or if you would like to book a private session with Mairead and Stephanie visit www.toughlove.ie Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  4. 03/20/2025

    S3 E9 - Lonliness

    On this week’s podcast Stephanie and Mairead are discussing loneliness. The many times that loneliness is more likely to happen.The food map of your connections. The micro connections of your day.Why are we, in Ireland more lonely than our European neighbours.How we can include others and do we forget to do that? Alone and lonely are not the same thing. Do you date from a place of loneliness.The power and enormous value of volunteering The wonderful way women support women.Be kind to others - maybe there is something that you don’t know. Actively include others - playing your part. The loneliness that is part of being in a bad relationship! If you would like to book a private consultation with Stephanie and Mairead visit www.toughlove.ie Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    S3 E9 - Lonliness

  5. 03/15/2025

    S3 E8 - Anxiety

    On this week's Tough Love podcast Stephanie and Mairead are discussing anxiety. - What is anxiety? - Why you have to take responsibility for your mental health for the sake of your relationship. - Why sleep is a barometer of your mental health. - Some techniques that Stephanie and Mairead recommends if you have anxiety  Emotional Freedom TechEMDRTappingBox Breathing - What can you do if someone you love has anxiety? - What does it feel like to have anxiety? - Effects of alcohol on mental health. - Panic attacks? - Do not ignore the symptoms of anxiety, identify the source, visit your GP and consider a therapist. - Remember, you will find your sparkle again!  If you would like to book a private consultation with Stephanie and Mairead visit www.toughlove.ie Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    S3 E8 - Anxiety

  6. 03/07/2025

    S3 E7 - Bullying

    On this week's episode of Tough Love podcast we discuss bullying. -What we saw over the weekend in Zelensky's meeting with Trump. -Stephanie and Mairead discuss their experiences of being bullied. -How bullying affects you long term -Stephanie's experience of working as a clinical psychotherapist and dealing with bullying in the workplace. -Bullying, stress undealt with leads to burnout. -Recording the pattern, notes and facts of your bullying. - Stephanie's experience of employee assistance programmes. -Why do people bully? If you would like to book a private consultation with Stephanie and Mairead, visit www.toughlove.ie Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    S3 E7 - Bullying

  7. 03/02/2025

    S3 E6 - Catfishing - The emotional and psychological scam of our time.

    On this week's episode of Tough Love podcast Stephanie and Mairead discuss catfishing. What is it Catfishing What are the Red Flags?What are the motivations? What are the impacts on the one catfished? Discussion of the Johnny B story. And Analysis of the motivations of Nicky - the Johnny B catfishThe legalitiesWhat to watch out for ?How to keep yourself safe? If you would like to book a private session with Stephanie and Mairead to discuss any area of your life visit www.toughlove.ie Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    S3 E6 - Catfishing - The emotional and psychological scam of our time.

  8. 01/29/2025

    S3 - E5 The Comparison Trap: How It Affects Love, Life, and Mental Health

    This week on Tough Love podcast, Stephanie and Mairead are speaking about comparing yourself to friends, family and in relationships. How to use comparing in a healthy way to grow instead of in a harmful and unhelpful way. If you would like to book a private session with Mairead and Stephanie visit www.toughlove.ie  Thank you and we hope you enjoy this episode.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    S3 - E5 The Comparison Trap: How It Affects Love, Life, and Mental Health
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About

Welcome to Tough Love, the relationship podcast with Stephanie Regan, clinical psychotherapist and relationship expert and Mairead Loughman, Matchmaker and founder of Love HQ. This podcast is the result of many conversations between us about dating and love where we found that we were both noticing the suffering, loneliness and powerlessness that can lie beneath the search for love. Although we arrive to the subject from two very different places we saw that some truths and difficulties simply never get aired and that there could be a real benefit in opening a bigger and more frank conversation on these and the realities of dating and building relationships in today's world. Our focus is to say what needs saying, hence the title ,'Tough Love', but with the purpose of empowering the listener,by hearing common sense and new perspectives. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Information

  • Creator
    Collaborative Studios
  • Years Active
    2022 - 2026
  • Episodes
    47
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Shane Dempsey
  • Show Website
    Tough Love

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