Can't Host: Gay, Bisexual, and Queer Men’s Sex and Relationships

George Lizos
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Can't Host is a gay and queer men’s sex and relationships podcast aiming to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, and explore the complex dynamics of gay relationships, with the aim of creating opportunities for healing and growth. We'll discuss whether size matters, question the top/bottom binary, talk about healing sexual trauma, how to overcome dick- and body-shame, falling out of love with someone, homonormativity, and more. If you're a gay guy who's frustrated with the rigid rules of the gay community, seeking more joy and authenticity in your sex life and relationships, you're in the right place! www.georgelizos.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  1. 2D AGO

    Ep.86: Queer Money Wounds, Investing, and Building Wealth with Nick Wolny

    Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠⁠⁠ Can't Host Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/ In this episode, I sit down with Nick Wolny to explore the connection between queer identity, money mindset, and building a life that actually feels aligned. We talk about shifting from “doing what we love” to “doing who we are,” and how that mindset can completely transform the way we approach career, success, and financial freedom. Nick explains why queer people are often uniquely equipped to redefine success outside traditional life scripts — and how that can become a powerful advantage when it comes to money, purpose, and lifestyle design.  We also dive into the emotional side of money, including the shame, scarcity, and limiting beliefs many queer men carry around finances and self-worth. Nick breaks down investing and financial literacy in simple, accessible language, shares the key numbers people should actually track, and offers practical steps for becoming more financially confident starting today. This episode is about more than wealth — it’s about creating a life where your money supports your fullest, most authentic queer self.  Follow and connect at @georgecanthost on Instagram for more conversations about sex, shame, healing, and freedom.  RESOURCES MENTIONED Join the Energy Work Membership: https://georgelizos.com/energy-work-membership Download the FREE Ultimate Energy Protection Toolkit audio training at https://www.subscribepage.com/energyprotectiontoolkit   Join the Can't Host Telegram group: https://t.me/+AWgYq94TARQ2ODJk Get the Can't Host T-Shirts: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/ ABOUT NICK WOLNY Nick Wolny is an author and personal finance columnist. He writes about money, technology, queer culture, and how they intertwine. He writes the finance column for Out magazine, and his first book Money Proud: The Queer Guide to Generate Wealth, Slay Debt, and Build Good Habits to Secure Your Future came out earlier this year. Website: https://nickwolny.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nickwolny/ Check ou the book Money Proud here:https://nickwolny.com/book CONNECT WITH ME   Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/georgelizos/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Facebook Group: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   MY BOOKS   Be The Guru: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj Lightworkers Gotta Work: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf Protect Your Light: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd Secrets of Greek Mysticism: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvr Ancient Manifestation Secrets: https://2ly.link/1zCVg Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    53 min

  2. MAY 1

    Ep.85: Dentist Tips for Oral Health, Bad Breath, and Better Blowjobs with Dr Brian Novy

    Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠⁠⁠ Can't Host Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/ In this episode, I sit down with dentist Dr Brian Novy to talk about something we all do but rarely think about properly — oral hygiene and oral sex. We break down the most common causes of bad breath, when you should actually brush your teeth before or after oral sex, and what’s really happening inside your mouth during a b*****b. This conversation blends science, health, and real-life practicality in a way that will completely change how you think about your oral care routine.  We also get into specific recommendations for keeping your mouth healthy while still enjoying your sex life, from toothpaste choices to toothbrush techniques and simple habits that make a big difference. If you’ve ever worried about breath, hygiene, or how to stay safe while giving oral, this episode gives you clear, no-shame answers backed by real expertise — with a few laughs along the way.  Follow and connect at @georgecanthost on Instagram for more conversations about sex, shame, healing, and freedom.  RESOURCES MENTIONED Join the Energy Work Membership: https://georgelizos.com/energy-work-membership Download the FREE Ultimate Energy Protection Toolkit audio training at https://www.subscribepage.com/energyprotectiontoolkit   Join the Can't Host Telegram group: https://t.me/+AWgYq94TARQ2ODJk Get the Can't Host T-Shirts: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/ Curaprox CS 5460 Ultra Soft Toothbrush: https://a.co/d/02OP61ry Hydroxyapatite toothpaste: https://a.co/d/06Tbhkbv ABOUT DR. BRIAN NOVY Dr. Nový has faculty appointments at Western University of Health Sciences and Harvard School of Dental Medicine. He served on the American Dental Association Council of Scientific Affairs from 2010-2014, and in 2016 was appointed the consumer representative, United States Food Drug Administration Dental Products Panel. His papers pertaining to cariology and dental materials are published in various journals including the Journal of the American Dental Association, the Journal of Dental Research, the Journal of Evidence Based Dentistry, Dentistry Today, Dental Economics, and the National Academy of Medicine. His awards include the ADA Evidence Based Practice Award, the American Dental Association Adult Preventive Care Practice of the Year, the Dugoni Award, and the Academy of General Dentistry Weclew Award, and the 2024 Yankee Dental Congress Clinician of the Year. He practices in Salem, Massachusetts. Have you ever heard that phrase, "Nine out of ten dentists recommend...?" Have you ever wondered who that tenth dentist was who didn't agree with the other nine? He's here today to talk about oral sex... Website: https://www.whollymolar.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drbriannovy/ CONNECT WITH ME   Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/georgelizos/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Facebook Group: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   MY BOOKS   Be The Guru: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj Lightworkers Gotta Work: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf Protect Your Light: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd Secrets of Greek Mysticism: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvr Ancient Manifestation Secrets: https://2ly.link/1zCVg Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    1h 13m

  3. APR 17

    Ep.84: Opening Up Your Marriage: The Truth About Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM) with Wayne Scott

    Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠⁠⁠ Can't Host Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/ In this episode, I sit down with therapist Wayne Scott to unpack what it really means to open up a relationship. We go beyond the surface-level idea of “spicing things up” and explore the deeper reasons couples consider consensual non-monogamy — from mismatched desire and evolving needs to breaking free from religious conditioning and reclaiming autonomy. We also talk about the reality that non-monogamy isn’t one fixed model but a spectrum of possibilities, and how couples can find a structure that actually feels safe and aligned for them.   We dive into the emotional and psychological side of opening a relationship, including jealousy, fear, and the gap between what the mind wants and what the nervous system can handle. Wayne shares practical tools for communication, navigating ambivalent consent, building trust over time, and setting boundaries that support both partners. We also explore how non-monogamy can surface deeper wounds — and why that can be part of the healing process. Whether you’re curious about opening your relationship or already navigating it, this episode offers a grounded, compassionate guide to doing it consciously.  Follow and connect at @georgecanthost on Instagram for more conversations about sex, shame, healing, and freedom.  RESOURCES MENTIONED Join the Energy Work Membership: https://georgelizos.com/energy-work-membership Download the FREE Ultimate Energy Protection Toolkit audio training at https://www.subscribepage.com/energyprotectiontoolkit   Join the Can't Host Telegram group: https://t.me/+AWgYq94TARQ2ODJk Get the Can't Host T-Shirts: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/ Ep.68: Bisexual in a Straight Marriage with Wayne Scott: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/ep-68-bisexual-in-a-straight-marriage-with-wayne-scott/id1653398819?i=1000704909509 Ep.22: Polyamory and Open Relationships with Jessica Fern: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-22-polyamory-and-open-relationships-with-jessica-fern/id1653398819?i=1000608984887 ABOUT WAYNE SCOTT In addition to writing a memoir, "The Maps They Gave," about one couple's adventures in relationship therapy, Wayne Scott is a psychotherapist who works with people navigating consensual nonmonogamy in many diverse and creative relationships forms. He frequently teaches other professionals how to work with these creative challenges. Website: https://waynescottlcsw.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/waynejosephscott/ Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/wayne.scott.359 Wayne's memoir: "The Maps They Gave Us": https://a.co/d/0840vOdz CONNECT WITH ME   Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/georgelizos/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Facebook Group: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   MY BOOKS   Be The Guru: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj Lightworkers Gotta Work: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf Protect Your Light: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd Secrets of Greek Mysticism: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvr Ancient Manifestation Secrets: https://2ly.link/1zCVg Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    42 min

  4. APR 3

    Ep.83: Dom Tops vs Dumb Tops: Consent, Control, and Real Connection in Bed

    Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠⁠⁠ Can't Host Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/ In this raw and thought-provoking solo episode, I unpack a sexual experience that forced me to confront a deeper truth about dominance, consent, and connection. What started as a hookup quickly revealed a pattern many of us have encountered but rarely name — the difference between someone embodying dominance and someone simply performing it. I share what happened, how my body responded before my mind could catch up, and why the real win was not abandoning myself in the moment.  From there, I break down the psychology behind the experience, introducing concepts like sexual attunement, enthusiastic consent, somatic boundaries, and relational safety. I explore the rise of the so-called “dumb top” as a cultural pattern in gay sex, how pornified scripts are shaping behavior, and why dominance without responsiveness is not power but disconnection. This episode reframes what actually makes someone good in bed, challenges the myth that communication kills the vibe, and names the invisible emotional labor many bottoms carry. If you’ve ever left a sexual encounter feeling off but couldn’t explain why, this episode will give you the language — and the permission — to trust your body.   Follow and connect at @georgecanthost on Instagram for more conversations about sex, shame, healing, and freedom.  RESOURCES MENTIONED Join the Energy Work Membership: https://georgelizos.com/energy-work-membership Download the FREE Ultimate Energy Protection Toolkit audio training at https://www.subscribepage.com/energyprotectiontoolkit   Join the Can't Host Telegram group: https://t.me/+AWgYq94TARQ2ODJk Get the Can't Host T-Shirts: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/ Ep.58: Zodiac Signs in Bed: Kinks, Fetishes, Dick Size with Danny Santos: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-58-zodiac-signs-in-bed-kinks-fetishes-dick-size/id1653398819?i=1000677916697 CONNECT WITH ME   Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/georgelizos/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Facebook Group: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   MY BOOKS   Be The Guru: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj Lightworkers Gotta Work: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf Protect Your Light: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd Secrets of Greek Mysticism: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvr Ancient Manifestation Secrets: https://2ly.link/1zCVg Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    35 min

  5. MAR 20

    Ep.82: Straight Guy Talks Anal Play, Rimming & the Male G-Spot with Tony Demetriou

    Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠⁠⁠ Can't Host Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/ In this open and unfiltered episode, I sit down with a straight friend to talk about a topic many men are curious about but rarely discuss publicly: anal pleasure. We explore the realities of anal play from a straight man’s perspective, including curiosity around rimming, prostate stimulation, and the male G-spot. Together, we unpack the stigma many straight men feel around exploring their bodies and how cultural expectations around masculinity often shut down conversations about pleasure.  We also discuss how curiosity, trust, and communication can open the door to new experiences in the bedroom. From overcoming shame to understanding how the prostate works, this episode challenges outdated ideas about male sexuality and encourages men to explore pleasure without fear of labels or judgment. If you’ve ever wondered why anal play still feels taboo for so many straight men, this conversation offers an honest look at what happens when those barriers start to break down.  Follow and connect at @georgecanthost for more conversations about sex, shame, healing, and freedom: https://www.instagram.com/georgecanthost/ Join the Can't Host Telegram group: https://t.me/+AWgYq94TARQ2ODJk RESOURCES MENTIONED Ep.51: C**k Rings for Harder Erections and Longer Orgasms with Dr. Elliot Justin: https://shows.acast.com/cant-host/episodes/66867b5704b201dd3472a0b2 Buy a FirmTech ring and get 10% off using coupon code canthost or via this affiliate link: https://myfirmtech.com?sca_ref=6026421.q59KYoO7dcIljU&utm_source=george-lizos&utm_medium=web&utm_campaign=affiliate Energy Work Membership: https://georgelizos.com/energy-work-membership Download the FREE Ultimate Energy Protection Toolkit audio training at https://www.subscribepage.com/energyprotectiontoolkit   ABOUT TONY DEMETRIOU Tony’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tony.dtriou.lyrs/   CONNECT WITH ME   Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/georgelizos/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Facebook Group: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   MY BOOKS   Be The Guru: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj Lightworkers Gotta Work: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf Protect Your Light: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd Secrets of Greek Mysticism: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvr Ancient Manifestation Secrets: https://2ly.link/1zCVg Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    1h 11m

  6. MAR 6

    Ep.81: A Straight Guy and a Gay Guy Compare Sex Notes with Tony Demetriou

    Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠⁠⁠ Can't Host Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/ In this candid and hilarious episode, I sit down with my straight friend Tony Demetriou to compare sex notes from a straight and a gay perspective. We talk about the first time we discovered masturbation as teenagers, whether guys actually talk about sex with their male friends, and how our sexual attitudes were shaped by masculinity, shame, and social expectations. What starts as a fun comparison quickly turns into a deeper conversation about vulnerability, communication, and the pressures men feel around sex.  We also dive into topics most men rarely talk about openly: overcoming shame around being submissive in bed, the impact of toxic masculinity on how men approach intimacy, and how every person’s desires and turn-ons are different. Along the way, we discuss roleplaying, sexual fantasies, my experiences with threesomes and orgies, Tony’s reflections on one-night stands, and why great sex is less about technique and more about connection and communication.  Follow and connect at @georgecanthost for more conversations about sex, shame, healing, and freedom: https://www.instagram.com/georgecanthost/ Join the Can't Host Telegram group: https://t.me/+AWgYq94TARQ2ODJk RESOURCES MENTIONED Ep.75: The Ultimate BDSM Topping Guide with Janet W Hardy: https://shows.acast.com/cant-host/episodes/6932f2a738a11f5f3e0929b3 Ep.74: The Ultimate BDSM Bottoming Guide with Janet W Hardy: https://shows.acast.com/cant-host/episodes/691f4ea7d35aa096b558653a Energy Work Membership: https://georgelizos.com/energy-work-membership Download the FREE Ultimate Energy Protection Toolkit audio training at https://www.subscribepage.com/energyprotectiontoolkit   ABOUT TONY DEMETRIOU Tony’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tony.dtriou.lyrs/   CONNECT WITH ME   Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/georgelizos/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Facebook Group: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   MY BOOKS   Be The Guru: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj Lightworkers Gotta Work: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf Protect Your Light: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd Secrets of Greek Mysticism: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvr Ancient Manifestation Secrets: https://2ly.link/1zCVg Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    49 min

  7. FEB 20

    Ep.80: How to Have Mind-Blowing Sex

    Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠⁠⁠ Can't Host Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/ In this deeply personal solo episode, I share how therapy helped me see how much of my life has revolved around my relationship with sex, control, and fear. I talk openly about being a side, fearing bottoming, stepping into my Top era, and realizing how past sexual trauma shaped my ability to receive pleasure. This episode is about what happens when you finally feel safe enough to let go of performance, shame, and control — and start experiencing real connection.  I also share a recent sexual experience that became unexpectedly healing. Through trust, communication, patience, and mutual respect, I discovered what mind-blowing sex actually means: presence instead of performance, consent instead of pressure, curiosity instead of fear. We talk about lessons on communication, safety, experimenting responsibly, and allowing yourself to receive pleasure without shame. This episode is for anyone navigating sex after trauma, learning to trust their body again, or wanting deeper intimacy.  Follow and connect at @georgecanthost on Instagram for more conversations about sex, shame, healing, and freedom.  RESOURCES MENTIONED Join the Energy Work Membership: https://georgelizos.com/energy-work-membership Download the FREE Ultimate Energy Protection Toolkit audio training at https://www.subscribepage.com/energyprotectiontoolkit   Join the Can't Host Telegram group: https://t.me/+AWgYq94TARQ2ODJk Get the Can't Host T-Shirts: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/ Ep.77: Sex Shame, Only Fans, and My Top Era – https://shows.acast.com/cant-host/episodes/696122921f21449d6de7dc0f   Ep.20: Safe Anal Sex Practices with Dr. Evan Goldstein – https://shows.acast.com/cant-host/episodes/66867b5704b201dd3472a0d2   CONNECT WITH ME   Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/georgelizos/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Facebook Group: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   MY BOOKS   Be The Guru: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj Lightworkers Gotta Work: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf Protect Your Light: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd Secrets of Greek Mysticism: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvr Ancient Manifestation Secrets: https://2ly.link/1zCVg Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    35 min

  8. FEB 6

    Ep.79: Mostly Straight Men, Masculinity, and the Future of Sexual Fluidity with Dr. Ritch Savin-Williams

    Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠⁠⁠ Can't Host Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/ In this episode, I’m joined by Rich Savin, author of Mostly Straight, to explore a growing and often misunderstood group of men whose sexuality doesn’t fit neatly into gay straight or bisexual labels. We talk about what “mostly straight” actually means, how men who identify this way describe their attractions, and what distinguishes this identity from bisexuality or homosexuality. Rich shares insights into why there are now more mostly straight young men than gay and bisexual men combined, and what cultural and generational shifts may be driving this change. We also dive into how mostly straight men navigate attraction in real life, including whether desire is emotional aesthetic or sexual, and how masculinity shapes what feels possible or acceptable to express. We explore internal conflict and stigma, respond to critiques that the label avoids queerness, and look at differences across race class and geography. Finally, we zoom out to the future, discussing how male sexual fluidity may evolve over the next decade and what parents educators and queer communities can learn from this research. This episode bridges academic insight with real-world relevance for anyone curious about how male sexuality is changing. Follow and connect at @georgecanthost on Instagram for more conversations about sex, shame, healing, and freedom.  RESOURCES MENTIONED Join the Energy Work Membership: https://georgelizos.com/energy-work-membership Download the FREE Ultimate Energy Protection Toolkit audio training at https://www.subscribepage.com/energyprotectiontoolkit   Join the Can't Host Telegram group: https://t.me/+AWgYq94TARQ2ODJk Get the Can't Host T-Shirts: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/ ABOUT RITCH SAVIN-WILLIAMS Ritch C. Savin-Williams, Ph.D., is a prominent developmental psychologist and Professor Emeritus at Cornell University specializing in sexual minority youth, sexual fluidity, and LGBTQ+ studies. A licensed clinical psychologist, he has authored numerous books, including Bi: Bisexual, pansexual, fluid, and nonbinary youth (2021) and Mostly Straight: Sexual Fluidity among Men (2017).  Website: https://psychology.cornell.edu/ritch-savin-williams Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/ritch.savinwilliams/ Book: Mostly Straight: https://a.co/d/01kadaas CONNECT WITH ME   Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/georgelizos/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Facebook Group: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   MY BOOKS   Be The Guru: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj Lightworkers Gotta Work: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf Protect Your Light: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd Secrets of Greek Mysticism: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvr Ancient Manifestation Secrets: https://2ly.link/1zCVg Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    59 min
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Can't Host is a gay and queer men’s sex and relationships podcast aiming to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, and explore the complex dynamics of gay relationships, with the aim of creating opportunities for healing and growth. We'll discuss whether size matters, question the top/bottom binary, talk about healing sexual trauma, how to overcome dick- and body-shame, falling out of love with someone, homonormativity, and more. If you're a gay guy who's frustrated with the rigid rules of the gay community, seeking more joy and authenticity in your sex life and relationships, you're in the right place! www.georgelizos.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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