Our Womanity Q & A with Dr. Rachel Pope

Dr. Rachel Pope
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Dr. Rachel Pope, along with women's healthcare professionals, experts, and inspiring women address commonly asked (and not asked) questions about, health equity, sexual health, menopause, perimenopause, reproductive health care, anatomy, aging and more. Whether you have questions about periods, pregnancy, or menopause, we will do our best to address them here! 

  1. 2d ago

    19. Beyond Hot Flashes with Anna Myers, DNP

    Menopause isn't just about hot flashes and brain fog—for many women, it shows up in the bladder, pelvic floor, and bedroom long before anywhere else. In this episode, Dr. Rachel Pope sits down with co-founder of The Menopause Retreat, Anna Myers, DNP—a doctorally prepared, board-certified Women’s Health, Family Practice, and Urology Nurse Practitioner and Certified Sexual Health Counselor. Together, they dive deep into the unspoken physical and emotional challenges of perimenopause and menopause. Anna explains why women shouldn't accept bladder leakage, painful sex, or recurrent UTIs as "just part of getting older." They discuss Genitourinary Syndrome of Menopause (GSM), debunk common myths surrounding vaginal estrogen, discuss why perimenopause can be a lonely transition, and reveal what’s in store for The Reset 2027 Menopause Retreat in Florida. Key Takeaways: The Evolution of the Menopause Conversation: Women are no longer just asking "Can I have estrogen?"—they are seeking long-term quality-of-life strategies for the next 30+ years. Menopause "Below the Belt": Hormonal drops can impact the bladder and urethra before hot flashes even begin, causing urinary urgency, frequency, burning, or recurrent UTIs. Understanding GSM: Genitourinary Syndrome of Menopause (GSM) encompasses dryness, irritation, painful intercourse, delayed orgasms, urgency, and bladder symptoms. It’s a medical condition, not a personal failing. Why Systemic HRT Isn't Always Enough: Even if you wear an estrogen patch, you may still need low-dose local vaginal estrogen to treat target tissue in the vagina and urethra directly. Vaginal Estrogen Myth-Busting: Anna and Dr. Pope bust common myths regarding vaginal estrogen—explaining why it's safe, how it differs from systemic HRT, why non-sexually active women still need it, and how to navigate options beyond messy creams. The Power of Community: Perimenopause can last for years; in-person retreats provide a safe space to ask intimate questions and build resilience alongside expert clinicians.Guest Bio Anna Myers is a doctorally prepared Nurse Practitioner board-certified in Women’s Health, Family Practice, and Urology, as well as a certified Sexual Health Counselor. She brings extensive clinical expertise in sexual medicine, urogynecology, and menopause care, helping women overcome bladder issues, intimacy changes, and pelvic discomfort. She is the co-founder of The Menopause Retreat. Connect & Resources Upcoming Event: The Reset: 2027 Florida Menopause Retreat Instagram: @themenopauseretreat Facebook: Follow our Facebook page here Website: The Menopause Retreat

    19. Beyond Hot Flashes with Anna Myers, DNP

  2. Oct 12

    18. Desquamative Inflammatory Vaginitis (DIV)with Chailee Moss, M.D.

    Have you suffered from chronic vulvovaginal burning or persistent discharge that keeps getting misdiagnosed as "just another yeast infection"? In this episode, Dr. Rachel Pope sits down with Dr. Chailee Moss, an expert in vulvovaginal disorders. Dr. Moss sheds light on Desquamative Inflammatory Vaginitis (DIV)—an underdiagnosed inflammatory condition affecting 2% to 4% of women. They discuss why standard PCR vaginitis panels fail to catch DIV, the "three-legged stool" of root causes (immune overactivity, tissue hormone deficiency, and microbiome disruptions), and why in-office microscopy is crucial. Dr. Moss outlines her evidence-based treatment protocol—combining topical estrogen, clindamycin, and hydrocortisone—and explains how to prevent the resulting "yeast bomb" with suppressive antifungal therapy. Finally, they address medical gaslighting, the limits of 15-minute clinical visits, and how taking time to truly listen transforms patient outcomes. Dr. Chailee Moss, MD, is an OB/GYN specializing in vulvovaginal disorders and pelvic pain at Center for Vulvovaginal Disorders. She earned her MD at UNC Chapel Hill and completed residency at The Ohio State University as Chief Resident of Education. Key Takeaways What is DIV?: A chronic, non-infectious inflammatory condition causing severe burning and profuse, irritating green/thick discharge. Microscopy vs. PCR: Standard DNA swabs miss DIV because they do not check for white blood cells or parabasal cells; in-office wet mount microscopy is required. Treatment & Maintenance: Managed via a combination of topical estradiol, clindamycin, and hydrocortisone, often paired with weekly fluconazole to prevent yeast overgrowth. Overcoming Medical Gaslighting: Systemic time constraints often leave patients dismissed; comprehensive 60+ minute visits and written, customized care plans are key to healing.Resources Website: vulvodynia.com Instagram: @chaileemoss

    18. Desquamative Inflammatory Vaginitis (DIV)with Chailee Moss, M.D.

  3. Oct 1

    17. Peptides for Perimenopause & Menopause with Jackie Giannelli, FNP-BC, MSCP

    Are peptides a revolutionary biohack for longevity, skin, and fat loss, or just another unregulated social media trend? In this eye-opening episode, Dr. Rachel Pope sits down with Jackie Giannelli—board-certified nurse practitioner, Menopause Society certified specialist, and founder of the Well Versed Collective. Jackie breaks down the complex world of peptides, explaining what these amino acid chains actually do as cellular signaling molecules. Together, they cover the full spectrum of peptide medicine: from FDA-approved therapies like GLP-1s and Bremelanotide (Vyleesi) for sexual desire, to off-label regenerative peptides (BPC-157), growth hormone secretagogues (Sermorelin), and beauty peptides (GHK-Cu). They discuss the critical difference between topical vs. injectable forms, the FDA’s regulatory landscape (Category 1 vs. Category 2), the dangers of black-market "research-grade" peptides, and why hormone optimization and basic lifestyle habits must always come first. Guest Bio Jackie Giannelli, MSN, FNP-BC, MSCP, is a board-certified family nurse practitioner, Menopause Society certified specialist, and clinical strategist for Mount Sinai’s Carolyn Rowan Center for Women’s Health and Wellness. She is the founder of the Well Versed Collective and author of the midlife women’s health newsletter In the Saddle. Practicing in New York City and Connecticut, Jackie specializes in hormone optimization, peptide therapy, sexual wellness, and evidence-based longevity protocols. Key Takeaways What Peptides Actually Are: Chains of amino acids that act as cellular signaling molecules, telling cells to perform their natural functions more efficiently. Basics Before Peptides: Peptide therapy relies on existing cellular pathways; optimizing sleep, movement, nutrition, and Menopause Hormone Therapy (MHT) ensures maximum safety and efficacy. FDA-Approved vs. Off-Label: Highlighting FDA-approved peptides like GLP-1s (weight loss) and Bremelanotide/Vyleesi (HSDD) versus off-label or experimental peptides. The GHK-Cu Spectrum: Topical copper peptides have modest dermatologic data for skin quality, but injected GHK-Cu lacks human randomized controlled trials. Red Flags & Black-Market Risks: Buying "research use only" (RUO) peptides online via cryptocurrency carries high risks of contamination, lack of purity, and inaccurate dosing. Always work with licensed clinicians sourcing from 503A or 503B compounding pharmacies. Sexual Medicine & GLP-1s: High-dose GLP-1s can sometimes blunt libido and orgasm by reducing dopamine reward pathways. Strategies like microdosing, hormone optimization, or combining with Vyleesi/oxytocin can preserve sexual wellness. Cycling & Health Screenings: Growth hormone secretagogues require periodic cycling to let cells rest and mandate up-to-date cancer screenings (mammograms, etc.) prior to use.Resources & Links Mentioned Jackie Giannelli Website: jackiegiannellinp.com Social Media: Instagram @jackie.giannellinptalks Featured Longevity Practice: Kinetic Edge Health

    17. Peptides for Perimenopause & Menopause with Jackie Giannelli, FNP-BC, MSCP

  4. Sep 21

    16. The Menopause Retreat: Neo Tantra with Shari Adler

    Are fatigue, burnout, and shifting hormones making you feel like your inner light is dimming? In this heartwarming and deeply grounding episode, Dr. Rachel Pope sits down with her longtime friend Shari Adler—a certified perimenopause and menopause health coach, wellness facilitator, and former Pfizer corporate leader. Shari shares her personal journey from corporate burnout and caregiver fatigue to discovering somatic practices, trauma-informed coaching, and Neo-Tantra. Together, they break down the common misconceptions surrounding Tantra, distinguishing traditional classical practices from contemporary methods that cultivate presence, breathwork, and emotional connection. Shari explains how low estrogen, sandwich-generation stress, and systemic depletion cause women to feel disconnected from their bodies—and how simple embodiment practices can restore intimacy, desire, and life force energy during perimenopause and menopause. The episode wraps up with a short, soothing live embodiment exercise you can practice anywhere. Guest Bio Shari Adler is a certified perimenopause and menopause health coach, wellness facilitator, and somatic practitioner. With 15 years of corporate leadership experience at Pfizer in people development and program management, Shari combines her corporate background with extensive training from the Integrative Women's Health Institute, The Embody Lab, and the Institute for Integrative Nutrition. She specializes in guiding women through midlife transitions using trauma-informed somatic practices, mindfulness, energy work, and Neo-Tantra. Key Takeaways The "Dimmed Light" of Midlife: Hormonal depletion paired with "sandwich generation" stress (balancing kids, aging parents, and peak career demands) frequently leads to pre-burnout, apathy, and physical exhaustion. Classical Tantra vs. Neo-Tantra: Classical Tantra (originating in the 5th century) is a rigorous, text-based spiritual study focused on mantras and deities, whereas Neo-Tantra integrates psychology, breathwork, conscious relating, and somatic movement to release stagnant energy. Tantra is Not Just for Couples: Neo-Tantric principles are fundamentally about self-connection, presence, and building internal energy—making them deeply transformative for single women and partnered individuals alike. Integrative Approach to Sexual Wellness: Somatic and energy practices work best alongside medical interventions like Menopause Hormone Therapy (MHT), offering a holistic pathway back to vitality. Redefining Pleasure: Pleasure does not require penetrative sex or orgasms; it can be as simple as feeling soft fabric against your skin, savoring chocolate, or enjoying the warmth of the sun. Upcoming Live Event Details Event Title: Awaken Your Aliveness: A Women's Workshop in Feminine Embodiment Date: October 16th Location: Cleveland, Ohio area What to Expect: Join Shari Adler, Anna Myers and Dr. Rachel Pope for a transformative, in-person gathering designed to help you slow down, build internal energy, and reconnect with your body. You'll learn simple, practical somatic and breathwork exercises that fit seamlessly into busy daily routines—giving you actionable tools to reclaim your vibrancy through perimenopause, menopause, and beyond.   Reserve Your Spot: Get Tickets on Eventbrite: bit.ly/4diQ0NO

    16. The Menopause Retreat: Neo Tantra with Shari Adler

  5. Sep 14

    15. Is There An Evolutionary Purpose of Menopause Symptoms with Dr. James Simon

    Why do menopausal women experience hot flashes, poor sleep, and low libido? In this captivating discussion, Dr. Rachel Pope sits down with renowned physician and researcher Dr. James Simon to explore his groundbreaking paper, The Evolutionary Origin and Significance of Menopause. Dr. Simon presents an evolutionary perspective: 50,000 years ago, a low-estrogen state served a crucial adaptive function during exclusive breastfeeding. Hot flashes generated torso heat to warm infants in cold environments, sleep vigilance protected against cave intruders, and low libido prevented rapid subsequent pregnancies in resource-scarce environments. Because ancient humans rarely lived past reproductive age, menopause is essentially the body entering a "perpetual postpartum state"—a low-estrogen phase without the original evolutionary objective. The discussion covers hormone replacement therapy (MHT) (HRT) nuances, the dual nature of progesterone, and how evolutionary biology helps reframe modern women's health. Dr. James Simon is a Washington, D.C.-based physician specializing in patient-focused care across the female reproductive lifecycle—from adolescence to childbirth and through menopause. Through extensive clinical research, Dr. Simon has contributed to major medication breakthroughs in women’s sexual health and menopause management. Key Takeaways The Postpartum–Menopause Parallel: postpartum and menopause are the only two life stages where estrogen levels drop so significantly. The Evolutionary Purpose of Hot Flashes: Heat radiating from the chest level was designed to warm a newborn held against a mother’s body in harsh, prehistoric conditions. Sleep Disturbances as Survival Tools: Light sleep and hypervigilance in low-estrogen states kept postpartum mothers alert to newborn cries or cave threats. Libido & Reproduction: Reduced sexual desire and vaginal dryness during lactation protected the infant by preventing early secondary pregnancies when calories were scarce. Perpetual Breastfeeding Mode: Menopause triggers the exact biological mechanisms of lactation, but without the recovery cycle younger women experience post-weaning. Individualized Hormone Therapy: MHT/HRT offers vast benefits for healthy menopausal women, but medical intervention must be tailored—especially when evaluating the mixed benefits and side effects of oral progesterone.Resources Mentioned Research Paper: The Evolutionary Origin and Significance of Menopause (Dr. James Simon et al.)

    15. Is There An Evolutionary Purpose of Menopause Symptoms with Dr. James Simon

  6. Aug 10

    14. Finding Real Perimenopause Care with Julia Granacki

    Why is finding a healthcare provider who truly listens during perimenopause so difficult? In this episode of Our Womanity, host Dr. Rachel Pope sits down with NBC-HWC health coach and certified Pilates instructor Julia Granacki to unpack the systemic hurdles women face when seeking midlife care. From her own sudden, mask-and-glove hot flash in a deli line during COVID to being dismissed by her longtime OBGYN because her periods were still regular, Julia shares her personal journey through perimenopause and how it inspired her to build a multidisciplinary coaching practice alongside Dr. Anna Barbieri. Together, Dr. Pope and Julia break down the "period myth" in perimenopause diagnostic criteria, the staggering gap in physician menopause training, how to spot predatory midlife wellness upsells, and how Julia's three-part framework—Validate, Educate, Advocate—helps women reclaim agency over their health. Meet Julia Julia Granacki, NBC-HWC, is a National Board Certified Health and Wellness Coach, comprehensive Pilates instructor (Kane School of Core Integration), and founder of The Age Craft Practice. Trained through the Institute for Integrative Nutrition and Harvard Medical School’s Sustainable Nutrition Program, Julia works alongside Dr. Anna Barbieri as part of a multidisciplinary perimenopause and menopause care team in New York City. She is the host of the Agecraft After Dark podcast and former co-host of Circling the Drain. Key Takeaways Research and clinical criteria often require menstrual changes to diagnose perimenopause, yet symptoms like sleep disruption, anxiety, body composition shifts, and hot flashes frequently appear years while cycles remain a clockwork 28 days. The Medical Education Deficit: 80 percent of US OBGYN residents report little to no formal training in menopause management, while only 1 in 5 practicing OBGYNs report receiving formal training. Discrepancies in insurance reimbursement between female and male anatomy procedures, paired with 15-minute appointment caps, force many specialists into membership or private models to deliver adequate care. As midlife awareness grows, vulnerable women are increasingly targeted with costly, unverified tests (such as Dutch tests), unnecessary compounding setups, and aggressive aesthetic upsells. Julia's coaching framework acts as a "midlife doula" service—validating symptoms as real, providing verified Menopause Society guidelines, and empowering women with the agency needed to advocate for themselves in clinic visits. How quality telehealth platforms are helping close the care gap for women living in midlife medical "deserts" across the country.Resources Connect with Julia Granacki: juliagwellness.com Podcast: Agecraft After Dark: juliagwellness.com/podcast Find a Certified Specialist: Menopause Society Certified Practitioner (MSCP) directory at menopause.org Connect with Dr. Rachel Pope: @drrachelpope on Instagram | ourwomanity.comPlease like, subscribe, leave a 5-star review, and share this episode with anyone navigating perimenopause or midlife health transitions!

    14. Finding Real Perimenopause Care with Julia Granacki

  7. Aug 3

    13. Sleep & Menopause with Dr. Andrea Matsumura

    Five years without a full night’s sleep isn't "just aging"—it’s a health crisis. In this episode of Our Womanity, host Dr. Rachel Pope sits down with double board-certified sleep physician Dr. Andrea Matsumura to break down the biological drivers of midlife sleep loss, why Menopause Hormone Therapy (MHT) doesn't always stop insomnia, the hidden risk of female sleep apnea, and practical tools you can use tonight. Meet The Guest Dr. Andrea Matsumura, MD is a double board-certified sleep medicine physician, Chief of Sleep Services for Monarch MD, and creator of the Dream Sleep Method. Featured in The New York Times, CNN, and Shape, Dr. Matsumura specializes in hormone-informed and behavior-driven approaches to women's sleep. Key Takeaways Progesterone vs. Estrogen: Progesterone helps with sleep onset; estrogen supports sleep maintenance and REM. Crashes in perimenopause lead to both falling-asleep and staying-asleep issues. Why MHT Isn't Always Enough: While MHT mitigates hot flashes, it cannot replace every lost estrogen receptor signal in the brain's sleep centers. The 3:00 AM Cortisol Spike: Women can lose up to 50% of natural melatonin by age 50. Without melatonin to buffer cortisol’s natural middle-of-the-night rise, the body triggers a sympathetic "fight-or-flight" response at 3:00 AM. Midlife Sleep Apnea Risks: Falling hormones reduce airway elasticity and respiratory drive, raising midlife women’s Obstructive Sleep Apnea (OSA) risk to 40%-60%. Undiagnosed Symptoms: 9 out of 10 women with sleep apnea go undiagnosed because female symptoms present as insomnia, fatigue, morning headaches, and mood shifts rather than classic snoring.Actionable Tools 20-Minute Rule: If awake for over 20 minutes at 3:00 AM, get out of bed. Do something quiet in low light until sleepy to break the anxiety-bed association. Sleep Compression: Set a strict wake-up time to build "sleep pressure," adjusting bedtime in 15-minute increments. "Sleep is the OG longevity tool. If you don't have the core foundation of sleep, pain is worse, emotional regulation is off, and medications don't work as well." - Dr. Andrea Matsumura Resources & Links Dr. Andrea Matsumura: Monarch MD/Newsletter: monarchmd.com Upcoming Book: When Women Stop Sleeping by Dr. Andrea Matsumura (releasing next year) Find a Specialist: Locate a Menopause Society Certified Practitioner (MSCP) at menopause.org Connect with Dr. Pope: @drrachelpope on InstagramSupport The Podcast Please like, subscribe, leave a 5-star review, and share this link with anyone struggling with midlife sleep!

    13. Sleep & Menopause with Dr. Andrea Matsumura

  8. Jul 14

    12. She's Just Under Construction: A Partner's Complete Guide to Perimenopause

    "Your partner is not broken. Your relationship is not unsalvageable. She is simply going through one of the most profound biological transitions of a human life—and she shouldn't have to navigate it alone." — Dr. Rachel Pope Why This Guide ExistsWhy is it that the most common question women in menopause support groups ask is: "How do I explain this to my partner?" How do you explain that the irritability, the sleep loss, the brain fog, and the sudden physical changes are not personal attacks or signs of a relationship unraveling, but rather the result of a massive, systemic neurological and hormonal transition? To bridge this gap, board-certified OBGYN and sexual medicine specialist Dr. Rachel Pope created this comprehensive audio guide. Written with equal measures of clinical precision and direct, honest language, this guide is designed specifically for the partner who loves a woman in transition. It is not designed to help you "fix" or "manage" her; it is designed to help you understand the profound science of what she is experiencing so you can show up as a true, informed partner. What You Will Learn in This Guide: Perimenopause: The actual timeline (it can last 4 to 10 years), ovarian decline, the pituitary "shout" (FSH), and why standard blood tests frequently miss it. Physical Body Transition: The real thermoregulatory science of hot flashes, night sweats, sleep architecture changes, metabolic shifts (visceral fat distribution), and cardiovascular safety. Psychological Landscape: Why her brain is not betraying her. The neurochemical connection between fluctuating estrogen, serotonin, GABA, sudden anxiety, panic, and "brain fog." Sex, Desire, Intimacy: Demystifying Genitourinary Syndrome of Menopause (GSM), painful intercourse, the drop in testosterone, and the crucial shift from spontaneous to responsive desire. Practical Protocols for Partners: How to own the cognitive labor of the household, optimize the bedroom temperature (65°F to 68°F), utilize better intimacy tools (like UberLube), and support her medical treatment decisions (including Menopause Hormone Therapy).The Partner’s Quick Communication Cheat Sheet:Instead of saying the wrong thing, try shifting your language to show partnership: Instead of: "You're being so emotional about this." Try: "I can see this is hard. I'm here, and I'm not going anywhere."Instead of: "Is it your hormones again?" Try: "What does support look like for you right now?"Resources Locate a Menopause Society Certified Practitioner (MSCP) near you at menopause.org Follow @drrachelpope on Instagram Love, Sex, and MenopauseIf you found this guide helpful, please leave us a 5-star review and share this episode with a friend or partner who needs to hear it!

    12. She's Just Under Construction: A Partner's Complete Guide to Perimenopause
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Dr. Rachel Pope, along with women's healthcare professionals, experts, and inspiring women address commonly asked (and not asked) questions about, health equity, sexual health, menopause, perimenopause, reproductive health care, anatomy, aging and more. Whether you have questions about periods, pregnancy, or menopause, we will do our best to address them here! 

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