Girls Gone Deep

Elle and Vee

Two sex-positive ladies in the ethically non-monogamous lifestyle chatting about how we use dating and sex as a space for personal development and growth, and creating the most joyous life possible. A podcast for the open-minded, curious and naughty. @girlsgonedeeppod www.girlsgonedeep.com

  1. 3D AGO

    166: What It Really Takes to Be a Good Porn Star, a Good Dom, and Actually Good in Bed feat. Small Hands

    What does it actually take to have sex on camera… on command… with a room full of people watching? In this wildly honest and unexpectedly human episode, Vee and Elle sit down with adult film star Aaron Thompson, better known as Small Hands, to pull back the curtain on what really goes down behind the scenes of porn. From being recruited into the industry by his ex-wife as “free labor” to navigating performance pressure, awkward beginnings, and the mental gymnastics of staying hard under bright lights, Aaron shares it all—no filter. But this isn’t just about sex on camera. It’s about ego, vulnerability, discipline, and the art of making someone else feel like the star. Aaron opens up about the reality of female pleasure in porn, the difference between performance and intimacy, and why being a great lover has nothing to do with a “technique” and everything to do with presence. We get into kink, consent, g******g dynamics, emotional intelligence, erectile dysfunction, and what it actually means to be a good Dom. This episode is raw, hilarious, deeply insightful—and might completely change the way you see porn, sex, and connection. Chapters Intros Meet Small Hands: How He Accidentally Became A Porn Actor  (00:00) First Scenes, Nerves, And Barely Getting Through It (05:34) Why Porn Sex Is Completely Different From Real Sex (7:08) The Truth About Female Pleasure On Camera (11:06) The Ridiculous Origin Of “Small Hands” (14:08) Having An Experience With Two Or More Men? Aarons Reveals Secret To Successful Scene (17:19) Objectification And Why Porn Is More Collaborative Than You Think (20:45) Ethical Porn Vs Toxic Porn: What’s Real (28:02) Sex Skills: Learning From Women (Not Porn) (31:27) What Makes You Good In Bed ()35:55) Romantically And Emotionally Monogamous And Sexually Non Monogamous (40:22) Dating After Porn And Emotional Availability (46:13) The Wildest Scenes He’s Ever Filmed, Waterboarding, Breath Play (51:27) Safe Words And Safe Signals In The Adult Film Industry (54:07) Dog Clickers In Kink  (56:42) Dom Energy Explained And Why It’s Service (58:37) Erectile Dysfunction And Real Talk About The Mental Game Of Being A Porn Star (01:02:57) _____ 🔥 Guest: Aaron (“Small Hands”) Instagram: @thesmallhandsSupport the show ______ How to Support the Show:  💰 Donate Here  💋Linktree: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonedeep  🎧 Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod 🛍️ Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop  — wear your kinks proudly. 🍑 Woo More Play: Shop with our affiliate link — support the pod while you stock up on your favorite pleasure essentials. 🪄 WAANDS™:  Crystal Pleasure Products HERE. Get 15% off with code GIRLSGONEDEEP 🔮 WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your game deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com  IG: @wlthegame 🔥 Naughty Disco’s Sexy NYC Dance Party: code GONEDEEP69 for 15% off any event ticket  IG: @naughtydisco 💌 Contact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

    1h 17m
  2. MAR 26

    165: So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex… Did You Actually Want It? feat. She Comes First author Ian Kerner

    This week Elle and Vee chat with Ian Kerner, a licensed psychotherapist and bestselling author of She Comes First who helps individuals and couples build deeper desire, connection, and sexual confidence. Together, they unpack how everything from your early sexual experiences to the “sex scripts” you’ve internalized may be quietly shaping your turn-ons, your relationships, and your struggles with desire, ED, and communication. From de-centering intercourse and exploring coreplay to navigating fantasies, non-monogamy, and the psychological runway of arousal, this episode is a raw, eye-opening look at what it really takes to create a sex life that actually feels good. Support the show ______ How to Support the Show:  💰 Donate Here  💋Linktree: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonedeep  🎧 Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod 🛍️ Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop  — wear your kinks proudly. 🍑 Woo More Play: Shop with our affiliate link — support the pod while you stock up on your favorite pleasure essentials. 🪄 WAANDS™:  Crystal Pleasure Products HERE. Get 15% off with code GIRLSGONEDEEP 🔮 WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your game deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com  IG: @wlthegame 🔥 Naughty Disco’s Sexy NYC Dance Party: code GONEDEEP69 for 15% off any event ticket  IG: @naughtydisco 💌 Contact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

    1h 4m
  3. MAR 19

    164: Would You Rather Kink Edition: Fantasies, BDSM, Sex Toys & What Really Turns Us On

    This week, Elle and Vee chat with Tash Doherty about all the random sexy, kinky things that come up during a game of WHOREible Life (think: never have I ever, but unhinged). Playing Would You Rather with WHOREible Life cards opens the door to a wildly honest, funny, and surprisingly deep conversation about fantasies, exhibitionism, impact play, submission, and the psychology behind what turns us on. From sex toys to self-awareness to craving attention in all the right (and wrong) ways, nothing is off-limits.  Would You Rather: be a webcam girl or have a celebrity hookup? (02:51)  Tash’s real-life celebrity crush and the allure of high-brow intelligence in sex appeal. (03:20)  Fantasies, crush archetypes, and exploring sexual desires through imagination. (08:46)  The debate on camming, authenticity, and the appeal of virtual intimacy. (10:36)  Would You Rather: orgasm from impact play or receive a massage with a happy ending? (14:16)  How slowing down and self-touch rituals can lead to more intense pleasure. (16:17)  Would You Rather: f**k a sex doll or wear a vibrating butt plug? (24:14)  Exploring different toys: vibrators, butt plugs, and the importance of size and comfort. (29:21)  Would You Rather: crawl on a leash or use sex toy beads? (33:12)  Submission Fantasies: crawling, collars, and the dynamic of brat versus obedient roles. (34:52)  Brat Behavior: Power dynamics, role-playing, and the push-pull of domination and submission. (37:08) __________________________ 🔥 Get Beducated --The Sex Ed You Wish You’d Had 💦 Risk-free with a 14-day money-back guarantee. 👉 Sign up here --> Beducated.com  or here --> https://beducate.me/pd2612-gonedeep __________________________ Get More Tash Doherty: Substack: Misseducated Instagram: @tashdoherty_ Support the show ______ How to Support the Show:  💰 Donate Here  💋Linktree: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonedeep  🎧 Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod 🛍️ Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop  — wear your kinks proudly. 🍑 Woo More Play: Shop with our affiliate link — support the pod while you stock up on your favorite pleasure essentials. 🪄 WAANDS™:  Crystal Pleasure Products HERE. Get 15% off with code GIRLSGONEDEEP 🔮 WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your game deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com  IG: @wlthegame 🔥 Naughty Disco’s Sexy NYC Dance Party: code GONEDEEP69 for 15% off any event ticket  IG: @naughtydisco 💌 Contact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

    41 min
  4. MAR 12

    163: Confessions of a Porn Star: Robococks, On-Set Secrets & the Truth About the Adult Industry with Jade Greene

    This week, Jade Greene shares her unconventional journey from beauty queen and professional cheerleader to erotica author and porn performer. Jade pulls back the curtain on what really happens behind the scenes of porn, from consent talks and filming mishaps to the hilarious realities of sex on camera. Between laugh-out-loud stories and honest truth bombs, this episode is a playful, unfiltered peek into sex, creativity, and living boldly.  Chapter Beauty Pageants To Pole Dancing To Accountant To Porn Star (00:00) Writing Erotica, her book series Disorderly Conduct (09:28) What A Porn Collab Really Is And The Dynamics of it (16:54) How Long A Scene Actually Takes To Film (18:38) What Jade’s Work Week Looks Like  (20:34) Live-streaming, Orgies, and Turning Followers Into Paying Fans (21:39) Working with New Adult Film Partners (25:16) Fluffers and Wife Guys (30:00) Viagra And Robocock? (31:11) Broken Dicks You Can’t Unsee (32:00)  Wine-Bottle Dick  (35:32)  Stink Dick and Set Etiquette (37:00) The Pocket P***y in a P***y (39:05) Scene Preferences: Solo or Group? (44:14) Female Orgasms, Squirting Myths, And What Porn Gets Wrong (45:48) Announcing Orgasms And Missing The Moment  (48:25)  When Porn Wants A Performance Instead Of The Real You (50:26) Favorite and Least Favorite Shoots (53:05) The Biggest Myth About Porn Stars (55:53) Where Is The Lube?! The Stuff Porn Never Shows  (57:44) Porn Stars and Open Relationships Have Something in Common (59.28) Does Family Know?  (01:00:00) Get Confident with Masturbation (01:03:00) Is Storytelling Exhibitionism? (01:06:00) Where to Find Jade (01:09:00) ________ Instagram  @authorjadegreene Twitter/X  @JadeGreeneBooks  OnlyFans  Greene Queen ________ Support the show ______ How to Support the Show:  💰 Donate Here  💋Linktree: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonedeep  🎧 Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod 🛍️ Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop  — wear your kinks proudly. 🍑 Woo More Play: Shop with our affiliate link — support the pod while you stock up on your favorite pleasure essentials. 🪄 WAANDS™:  Crystal Pleasure Products HERE. Get 15% off with code GIRLSGONEDEEP 🔮 WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your game deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com  IG: @wlthegame 🔥 Naughty Disco’s Sexy NYC Dance Party: code GONEDEEP69 for 15% off any event ticket  IG: @naughtydisco 💌 Contact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

    1h 10m
  5. MAR 5

    162: Blow Jobs, Baby! Make It Your Sexual Superpower & Feel More Confident Giving and Receiving: Talk Sex With Annette x GGD

    This week Elle and Vee join Annette Benedetti of the Talk Sex with Annette podcast for a crossover episode all about blowjobs. The girls share their top tips for giving incredible oral, from rhythm and enthusiasm to reading a partner’s reactions, and the surprisingly important etiquette of being on the receiving end. They get into the little things that make oral sex unforgettable, and the habits that can quietly ruin the vibe.  05:21 Goals for the Episode: Skills and Confidence 06:19 Confidence Through Experience and Enthusiasm 08:32 Showing Enthusiasm: No Performance Needed 10:51 Authentic Passion and Guttural Sounds 12:59 Dealing with Gag Reflex and Deep Throating 14:56 Energetic Arousal and Giving Pleasure 17:38 Confidence in Topping vs. Bottoming 19:02 Research, Practice, and Techniques 23:30 Using Lube and Spit Effectively 27:11 Variety and Rhythm in Oral Sex 30:04 Postpartum and Reconnecting with Desire 32:39 Educational Resources and Pleasure Courses 34:37 Rhythm, Pattern, and Building to Orgasm 38:28 Overcoming Gag Reflex and Limits 43:06 Circumcised vs. Uncircumcised Penises 45:19 Positioning for Comfort and Pleasure 45:49 The Power of 69 and Reciprocal Pleasure 48:07 Using Vibrators and Self-Pleasure Tools 49:03 Etiquette and Consent in Oral Sex 51:52 Communication During Oral Sex 55:09 Building Confidence and Curiosity 58:00 The Importance of Aftercare and Debriefing 59:47 Exploring Limits and Boundaries ________________________________ The Sex Ed You Wish You’d Had 👉Take the Beducated Quiz here Or click this link > https://beducate.me/pd2610-gonedeep  ________________________________ Annette Benedetti Links: Website: www.talksexwithannette.com YouTube: @talksexwithannette Instagram: @annettebenedetti Support the show ______ How to Support the Show:  💰 Donate Here  💋Linktree: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonedeep  🎧 Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod 🛍️ Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop  — wear your kinks proudly. 🍑 Woo More Play: Shop with our affiliate link — support the pod while you stock up on your favorite pleasure essentials. 🪄 WAANDS™:  Crystal Pleasure Products HERE. Get 15% off with code GIRLSGONEDEEP 🔮 WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your game deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com  IG: @wlthegame 🔥 Naughty Disco’s Sexy NYC Dance Party: code GONEDEEP69 for 15% off any event ticket  IG: @naughtydisco 💌 Contact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

    1h 2m
  6. FEB 26

    161: Turned On by Watching: Cuckolding, Hot Wifing, and Tips for Bulls, Stags & Vixens

    This week Elle and Vee chat with JJ of Sexie Show podcast about all things cuckolding. From the thrill of watching, to the juicy tension of jealousy, ego, and control, the girls ask the questions on everyone's minds: why do it? What does a cuck get out of it? They get into the real difference between cuckolding and hot wifing, why so many couples are secretly curious, and how this “taboo” dynamic can actually unlock deeper trust, better communication, and unexpected emotional intimacy. JJ shares personal stories, practical tips, and the messy, vulnerable truth behind navigating power, desire, and aftercare when fantasy meets real life. What is cuckolding, and how is it different from hot wifing? (1:49) Statistics and search trends in cuckolding. (4:15) Variations and scenarios in cuckolding dynamics. (6:30) The role of the bull or stag, and power exchange. (8:21) Getting started: How to explore cuckolding safely. (12:20) Personal journey and psychological roots of cuckolding. (16:07) Physical proximity and emotional connection during scenes. (20:42) Treating bulls with respect and understanding their motivations. (25:28) Fantasies, boundaries, and communication before scenes. (30:15) Attachment styles and their impact on cuckolding. (35:21) Why would someone want to be a cuck? Voyeurism, sperm competition theory, and more. (41:21) Deep psychological benefits and overcoming insecurities. (48:59) Aftercare, emotional management, and relationship health. (57:48) Cuckolding in everyday life and relationship dynamics. (01:01:32) ____________________ Find JJ: Instagram: @sexieshow Battlestrip: follow @Chemistry-NYC on Humanitix for upcoming events Support the show ______ How to Support the Show:  💰 Donate Here  💋Linktree: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonedeep  🎧 Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod 🛍️ Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop  — wear your kinks proudly. 🍑 Woo More Play: Shop with our affiliate link — support the pod while you stock up on your favorite pleasure essentials. 🪄 WAANDS™:  Crystal Pleasure Products HERE. Get 15% off with code GIRLSGONEDEEP 🔮 WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your game deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com  IG: @wlthegame 🔥 Naughty Disco’s Sexy NYC Dance Party: code GONEDEEP69 for 15% off any event ticket  IG: @naughtydisco 💌 Contact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

    1h 6m
  7. FEB 19

    160: Sexie Show x GGD: Sex Games, Hot Takes, Soaking, and Turn-Ons

    This is a crossover episode in which Elle and Vee join Sexie Show host JJ as guests for a completely chaotic conversation packed with sex games, hot takes, and the kinds of questions that expose how well (or how poorly) you actually know your co-host. They cover everything from memorable moments from the playful dynamics of their friendship, GGD and sexual memories, breast milk play, golden showers, and soaking (yes, like the Mormons do). The conversation is filled with laughter, insights, and a candid look at their lives in the sex-positive community.  How Elle and Vee Met ... and how Elle and her friends popped Vee's cherry. (2:32) From Naughty Girl Talk to Podcasters. (4:45) Breastmilk Play. (6:15) The Best Girls Gone Deep Moments and Episodes. (9:08) Soaking: The Mormon Practice of Insertion without Moving. (11:08) How Well Do Elle and Vee Know Each Others' Sexual Personas? (12:35) "If You Could Give a Truth Serum to a Celebrity and Have Them on the Pod, Who Would You Choose?" (20:28) Sexual Hot Takes: Piss Play. (22:45) Sexual Hot Takes: Always Use Condoms. (26:57) That's So Hot Game! (28:50) Most/Least Arousing: -Body Parts. (31:50) -Things You Do With Your Mouth. (34:55) -Female Body Parts. (36:34) -Sexy Costumes. (37:59) -Overwhelming Things. (40:37) -Sex Positions. (42:54) -Porn Genres. (45:06) -Natural Disasters. (47:53) __________________________ Follow JJ! Instagram: @sexieshow Battle Strip (NYC) on Friday, February 20  Tickets: DM @sexieshow on Instagram (solo women + couples) Support the show ______ How to Support the Show:  💰 Donate Here  💋Linktree: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonedeep  🎧 Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod 🛍️ Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop  — wear your kinks proudly. 🍑 Woo More Play: Shop with our affiliate link — support the pod while you stock up on your favorite pleasure essentials. 🪄 WAANDS™:  Crystal Pleasure Products HERE. Get 15% off with code GIRLSGONEDEEP 🔮 WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your game deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com  IG: @wlthegame 🔥 Naughty Disco’s Sexy NYC Dance Party: code GONEDEEP69 for 15% off any event ticket  IG: @naughtydisco 💌 Contact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

    52 min
  8. FEB 12

    159: No More Bullsh*t: Radical Honesty, Emotional Affairs & Modern Marriage feat. JC Wilde

    This week Elle and Vee have a deep, free-flowing and wide-ranging chat with JC Wilde, writer and director of the film Wild Fire. They speak about emotional affairs and the radical honesty that nearly burned her marriage down, and then what happens when you stop performing “perfect partner” and start saying the thing that scares you most. Inspired by real-life truth-or-dare confessions, Wild Fire sparks a raw conversation about open relationships, people-pleasing, projection, and the freedom of a no-more-bullsh*t kind of love.  This is a conversation that will stick with you long after it's finished, from how you approach relationships to noticing how ENM and queer relationships are depicted in film and TV. Evolving Sexuality & Identity Labels: how sexual orientation labels can help us discover ourselves, and how sexuality evolves over time. (1:55) Wild Fire: an ensemble film about seven acquaintances exposing frightening truths, lies, secrets, and emotional affairs in their intimate relationships. (7:55) Truth or Dare & Sexual Desire: What do you want in bed that you’re afraid to ask for? (12:20) The “No More B******t” Relationship Approach: radical honesty, direct communication, and deeper intimacy. (15:15) Ethical Non-Monogamy in Film & TV: how Friends and Sex and the City got open relationships wrong 20 years ago. (22:25) Realistic Portrayals of Queer Relationships & Non-Traditional Love: The L Word, Easy, The Overnight. (27:58) “Intimate Friends” vs. Romantic Partners: why emotionally intimate friendships matter. (36:52) Traditional vs. Nontraditional Relationship Dynamics: why ENM and polyamory spaces spark deeper conversations. (40:32) What Drives Emotional Intimacy? Why we crave deeper, more vulnerable conversations. (42:29) Projection & Judgment in Relationships: how criticism reveals more about you than your partner. (46:00) Challenging Monogamy: “Why limit love?” Rethinking traditional relationship models. (48:56) Radical Honesty & Radical Truth-Telling: burning away illusions to live authentically in love. (53:01) Sex/God Documentary: JC’s upcoming film on sex, God, and spirituality. (56:55) ______________________________ 🎥 Watch Wild Fire 🔥  Follow JC Wilde: @halfjackgeneration Support the show ______ How to Support the Show:  💰 Donate Here  💋Linktree: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonedeep  🎧 Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod 🛍️ Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop  — wear your kinks proudly. 🍑 Woo More Play: Shop with our affiliate link — support the pod while you stock up on your favorite pleasure essentials. 🪄 WAANDS™:  Crystal Pleasure Products HERE. Get 15% off with code GIRLSGONEDEEP 🔮 WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your game deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com  IG: @wlthegame 🔥 Naughty Disco’s Sexy NYC Dance Party: code GONEDEEP69 for 15% off any event ticket  IG: @naughtydisco 💌 Contact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

    1h 1m
4.4
out of 5
253 Ratings

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Two sex-positive ladies in the ethically non-monogamous lifestyle chatting about how we use dating and sex as a space for personal development and growth, and creating the most joyous life possible. A podcast for the open-minded, curious and naughty. @girlsgonedeeppod www.girlsgonedeep.com

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