EncourageMoment Podcast

Kind Organizing

The podcast for moms to receive a much needed boost in your day with words of encouragement and practical tips to easily organize and manage your home without stress. How do I keep my home organized when I don't know where start? I've tried everything and still feeling overwhelmed in my home, I'm so resentful of the constant house work-how can I manage all of this? I hear you, I've been there, and you're in the right place. The EncourageMOMent podcast is a home and life organizing show packed with actionable tips to help you feel good in your home, and great about yourself in the process. This show will serve busy women with homes that feel overwhelming, to help you get greater clarity and organized ease. Whether you feel chronically unorganized, have ADHD and find traditional systems challenging, or simply want to learn some tips and tricks to keep your home organized and functioning well, join me on the podcast where we'll discuss ways to make your home work for you- so you finally find a sense of peace in your home. I'm Elena, mom of 3 and host of the Kind Organizing Podcast- now renamed the EncourageMOMent Podcast. I dealt with home overwhelm for years, struggling with complicated systems that simply didn't work long term. I discovered ways to more easily manage the chaos of every day life and I'm here to help. Home organization can (and should) feel like self care, not added pressure. Welcome to the EncourageMOMent podcast, where I help stay-at-home and work-from-home moms create peaceful, balanced homes through practical organizing tips, mindset shifts, and self-compassion. If you feel overwhelmed by daily clutter, struggle with self-blame, people pleasing, boundary setting or want to build kindness toward yourself while managing the chaos of motherhood and home life, this podcast is for you. Join me for heart-led conversations, quick car chat episodes, and actionable strategies to help you bring more ease, clarity, and confidence to your home and your life. Whether you're seeking mindset coaching, creative ideas, or community support, the EncourageMOMent podcast offers inspiration and tools to make your organizing journey authentic and sustainable. New episodes drop regularly to encourage steady progress, little by little. Tune in and start transforming your home- and your mindset- today. Hit subscribe so you don't miss any new episodes, and for more information find me on Instagram @encouragemomentco I'm so glad you're here!

  1. 3d ago

    Notice and Do: How to Raise Capable Kids and Share the Mental Load with Sam Kelly

    Welcome back to The Encourage Moment Podcast. Today's conversation is one I cannot wait for you to hear. I'm joined by Sam Kelly, founder of Notice and Do and author of the upcoming book, Notice and Do. If you are tired of carrying the mental load at home, feeling unseen in the invisible work of motherhood, or wondering how to get your kids to help without constant reminders, bribes, battles, or resentment—this episode is for you. Sam shares a practical and deeply compassionate approach to helping children become proactive contributors at home. Instead of simply assigning chores, Notice and Do teaches kids how to recognize what needs to be done and take action. The goal is not perfection—or turning children into little adults. It is building capability, empathy, responsibility, self-discipline, and a stronger sense of teamwork within the family. We also talk about the difference between invisible labor, the mental load, and emotional labor; why kids should learn to share the brain work of a home without carrying the emotional burden of parenting; and how this shift can help moms feel more seen, supported, and less alone. Sam offers especially helpful insight for families raising children with ADHD or other neurodivergent needs. You'll hear a simple first step you can try today: a "noticing walk" through your home that helps kids learn what to look for, where things belong, and how to contribute without being micromanaged. This episode is full of practical tools, scripts, encouragement, and hope for parents who want to end the cycle of burnout and raise children who understand that caring for a home is shared family work. In this episode, we discuss: • What invisible labor is—and the difference between mental load and emotional labor • Why so many moms feel exhausted, unseen, and quietly resentful • How to explain the mental load to children in age-appropriate ways • Why chores need a "glow up" and how family work benefits kids • How to help kids become proactive instead of waiting to be told what to do • The Notice and Do method for teaching children responsibility at home • Why it is never too late to start, even with older kids and teens • Practical support for children with ADHD, including autonomy, structure, and motivation • How to use "The Big Three" to build everyday family responsibilities • Why external motivation and self-discipline are not bad parenting • How sharing household labor can create more connection, capacity, and creative freedom • Moving from martyrdom to mentorship—and ending generational patterns of invisible labor Sam's work is a powerful reminder: you are not complaining when you name what you carry. You are explaining your reality, asking for needed support, and creating a healthier path for your family. Connect with Sam Kelly and learn more about Notice and Do:   Sam's website On Instagram: @samkelly_world If this conversation encouraged you, please share it with another parent who may need to hear that they do not have to carry it all alone.

  2. Oct 8

    Women, Sales and Money Noise

    In this impromptu episode, I'm sharing an honest conversation about women, sales, receiving money, and the internal "noise" that can make charging for our work feel complicated. This was based on what I shared in Instagram stories yesterday and the DM's I received after with some version of "I relate!!" I deeply believe that meaningful work deserves to be compensated- and I have no problem encouraging other women to charge well for what they offer. But when it comes to selling my own work, especially person-to-person, I've noticed that old messages around sales can surface: fear of being pushy, fear of rejection, and discomfort with being in a receiving position. We explore what it could look like to sell with integrity, warmth, and genuine service- without adopting the transactional, pressure-based approach so many of us have been taught to associate with sales. If you're a heart-centered woman building something meaningful, this episode is an invitation to get curious about your own money stories, sales beliefs, and capacity to receive. In this episode: • Why "sales as service" can still feel difficult when it comes to your own work • The traditional sales messaging that can create resistance for empathetic, heart-centered people • Why selling to a business can feel different than selling directly to an individual • The question: "What am I gaining by believing this?" • How giving things away can sometimes protect us from vulnerability and rejection • Why making more money can create more opportunities to support your family, community, and causes you care about • The possibility of earning well through work that feels joyful, light, and aligned • Why pricing our work appropriately can help normalize women being compensated for their gifts Mentioned in this episode: • We Should All Be Millionaires by Rachel Rodgers • Connect with me on Instagram: @EncourageMomentCo A question to consider What "money noise" or sales beliefs are you ready to notice, question, and release? If this episode resonated with you, I'd love to hear your story. Send me a message on Instagram at @EncourageMomentCo

  3. Sep 16

    How to Practice Self-Compassion When Your Inner Voice is Critical | Reparenting, Attachment & Kind Self Talk

    If your inner voice is more critical than kind, this episode is for you. In today's EncourageMOMent Podcast, we're talking about self-compassion, harsh self-talk, childhood attachment, and how to begin creating a kinder inner voice—even if you didn't grow up with one. When we were raised around criticism, yelling, insecurity, or conditional love, it can be hard to believe that we are worthy without constantly proving ourselves. But it is never too late to build a new template. We'll explore why secure attachment and a sense of belonging can shape confidence, emotional regulation, and resilience-and why those of us who did not receive that foundation early in life may need to lovingly re-parent ourselves now. Most importantly, this episode offers a practical place to start: small, believable moments of self-kindness. Instead of forcing affirmations that your brain may not yet believe, learn how to pause during a shame spiral-whether you are running late, forgot something, made a mistake, or feel behind-and speak to yourself with the same compassion you would offer a child, best friend, partner, or beloved pet. In this episode, we discuss: • How childhood experiences can shape your inner critic • Secure attachment, belonging, and emotional resilience • Why self-criticism can leave you depleted and dysregulated • The connection between harsh self-talk, overwhelm, burnout, and shame • How therapy and inner-child work can support self-compassion • Why you do not need to "earn" your worth through productivity • A simple baby-step practice for shifting critical self-talk • How kindness helps you access practical solutions instead of staying stuck in shame • Reparenting yourself with compassion, patience, and love You are not a walking to-do list. You are human, worthy, and allowed to make mistakes. A kinder relationship with yourself is not fluffy or superficial—it changes how you parent, work, connect, rest, and show up in the world. Books mentioned in episode are by Eli Harwood and Brene Brown- highly recommend both. Connect with us on Instagram: @encouragementco   Listen for the free self-compassion audio resource linked in the episode notes, and explore the EncourageMOMent audio program for more support.

  4. Sep 8

    Habits are Helpers with Monica Packer of About Progress (Part 2)

    In part 2 of our conversation Monica Packer discusses how to build habits without shame or all-or-nothing thinking in ways that are built for our real lives. Her new book Sticky Habits is out TODAY!! And is truly incredible. Hands down the best habit book I've ever read. If you have read habit books, made a fresh-start plan, tried to overhaul your routine, and then blamed yourself when it did not last, this episode is for you. Monica shares a shame-free, flexible approach to habit formation that accounts for real life: unpredictable schedules, caregiving, limited energy, changing seasons, anxiety, and the mental load so many women carry. Monica's central reframe is simple and powerful: habits are helpers. Their job is not to prove your discipline, worth, or productivity. Their job is to support you in feeling more like yourself. "Habits are helpers. Their only job is to support us—to help us feel like ourselves." "You want sustainability far more than you do intensity, especially in the beginning." You do not need routines, habits, or a home that demand you become someone else. You deserve support that meets you in the life and season you already have. Connect with Monica Monica's book: Sticky Habits  Monica's website: About Progress Follow Monica on Instagram: @aboutprogress Let me know your thoughts @encouragemomentco, and be sure to send this a fellow women who could use this wisdom in her life today, So glad you're here! xo, E

  5. Sep 3

    Ambition and Motherhood: A New Way to Think About Both with Dr. Anne Welsh

    In this episode, Elena sits down with Dr. Anne Welsh to talk about one of the most loaded topics for modern mothers: how to hold ambition and motherhood at the same time. Together, they unpack the guilt, burnout, resentment, and pressure that can show up when women feel they have to choose between being a good mom and pursuing meaningful work. Dr. Anne shares insights from her book and offers a powerful reframing: ambition is not the enemy of motherhood, and self-care is not selfish. In fact, taking care of yourself can be an act of care for your entire family. This conversation is honest, validating, and full of permission for women who want to pursue big dreams without abandoning their families or themselves. In this episode, you'll hear about: Why so many mothers feel caught between ambition and motherhood The guilt that comes from believing good moms must always be physically present How self-care supports the whole family, not just the mother Why thriving moms often create thriving kids The difference between healthy striving and unhealthy striving How resentment can point to unmet needs or unrealistic expectations Why boundaries are essential for sustainable success How motherhood can actually fuel ambition What it means to ask for what you want instead of settling for leftovers Why rest, play, and refueling are part of a sustainable life Links & Resources:   Get Your Copy of Dr. Anne's Book; Ambitious Mother: https://www.drannewelsh.com/ambitious-mother-book   Follow Dr. Anne on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drannewelsh/   Follow on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drannewelsh/   Visit Dr. Anne's Website: https://www.drannewelsh.com/   Let me know your thoughts at @encouragemomentco and be sure to share with any friends navigating both ambition and motherhood who need some encouragement today

  6. Aug 26

    How to Build Lasting Habits Without Shame or All-or-Nothing Thinking with Monica Packer of About Progress (Part 1)

    In Part 1 of this conversation, Elena sits down with Monica Packer, author of Sticky Habits, to talk about sustainable habits for women, perfectionism, invisible labor, and why all-or-nothing thinking keeps so many of us stuck. If you have read habit books, made a fresh-start plan, tried to overhaul your routine, and then blamed yourself when it did not last, this episode is for you. Monica shares a shame-free, flexible approach to habit formation that accounts for real life: unpredictable schedules, caregiving, limited energy, changing seasons, anxiety, and the mental load so many women carry. Together, Elena and Monica explore why habits should not be designed only for your best days. They should support you on your hard days, too. Monica's central reframe is simple and powerful: habits are helpers. Their job is not to prove your discipline, worth, or productivity. Their job is to support you in feeling more like yourself. In this episode: Why traditional habit advice can leave women feeling like the problem The hidden pressure behind "just be more disciplined" messaging Why women's lives often include more invisible labor, interruptions, unpredictability, and energy demands How perfectionism creates an all-or-nothing habit cycle Why "doing nothing" can be another expression of perfectionism The difference between habit intensity and sustainable consistency Why small wins—such as one sentence in a journal or 10 minutes of movement—count How to choose a meaningful personal "why" for a habit Why habits can be a foundational form of self-care Why willpower is not a personality trait—and is often better understood as available energy How to build habits that support your real season of life Memorable quotes: "Habits shouldn't be designed to be possible only on your best days. They should be designed to support you on your worst days." "Habits are helpers. Their only job is to support us—to help us feel like ourselves." "You want sustainability far more than you do intensity, especially in the beginning." "The process to dramatic change is actually small wins building over time." "It's not a willpower problem. It's an energy problem." A note from Elena: This conversation resonated deeply with my work in Kind Organizing. When an organizing system—or a habit system—does not work in your real life, the answer is not more shame or trying harder. The answer is a kinder, more flexible system that supports your actual capacity. You do not need routines, habits, or a home that demand you become someone else. You deserve support that meets you in the life and season you already have. Connect with Monica Monica's book: Sticky Habits  Monica's website: About Progress Follow Monica on Instagram: @aboutprogress Next episode: Come back for Part 2 of Elena's conversation with Monica Packer, where they continue exploring compassionate habit-building, perfectionism, self-care, and practical ways to create change that can actually last. If this episode helped you, please share it with a friend who is tired of starting over, and I'd be honored if you'd leave a rating or review! xo, E

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The podcast for moms to receive a much needed boost in your day with words of encouragement and practical tips to easily organize and manage your home without stress. How do I keep my home organized when I don't know where start? I've tried everything and still feeling overwhelmed in my home, I'm so resentful of the constant house work-how can I manage all of this? I hear you, I've been there, and you're in the right place. The EncourageMOMent podcast is a home and life organizing show packed with actionable tips to help you feel good in your home, and great about yourself in the process. This show will serve busy women with homes that feel overwhelming, to help you get greater clarity and organized ease. Whether you feel chronically unorganized, have ADHD and find traditional systems challenging, or simply want to learn some tips and tricks to keep your home organized and functioning well, join me on the podcast where we'll discuss ways to make your home work for you- so you finally find a sense of peace in your home. I'm Elena, mom of 3 and host of the Kind Organizing Podcast- now renamed the EncourageMOMent Podcast. I dealt with home overwhelm for years, struggling with complicated systems that simply didn't work long term. I discovered ways to more easily manage the chaos of every day life and I'm here to help. Home organization can (and should) feel like self care, not added pressure. Welcome to the EncourageMOMent podcast, where I help stay-at-home and work-from-home moms create peaceful, balanced homes through practical organizing tips, mindset shifts, and self-compassion. If you feel overwhelmed by daily clutter, struggle with self-blame, people pleasing, boundary setting or want to build kindness toward yourself while managing the chaos of motherhood and home life, this podcast is for you. Join me for heart-led conversations, quick car chat episodes, and actionable strategies to help you bring more ease, clarity, and confidence to your home and your life. Whether you're seeking mindset coaching, creative ideas, or community support, the EncourageMOMent podcast offers inspiration and tools to make your organizing journey authentic and sustainable. New episodes drop regularly to encourage steady progress, little by little. Tune in and start transforming your home- and your mindset- today. Hit subscribe so you don't miss any new episodes, and for more information find me on Instagram @encouragemomentco I'm so glad you're here!

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