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 Welcome to We Wine Whenever where three middle age, middle class neighborhood women discuss our views on popular shows, our lives and anything else that pops up. Join in the fun and listen in to discover what its really like to be a Jersey Shore housewife as the blonde ,the brunette and the redhead  give you an unfiltered cocktail hour.Together, Wendy ,Kelli and Lori create a vibrant and entertaining podcast that covers a wide range of topics, from the latest Bravo drama to discussions on parenting, relationships, and current events. Their chemistry as co-hosts, combined with their relatability and passion, makes their podcast a must-listen for anyone looking for engaging conversations about everyday life and pop culture. We drink wine whenever and we hope you do too!

  1. 1d ago

    RHONY Nobody’s Vault Is Safe

    Send us Fan Mail RHONY S16 E1 Nobody’s Vault Is Safe RHONY S16 E1 The Price of Perfection The Real Housewives of New York City is back, and Season 16 wastes no time introducing us to a new cast and plenty of chaos. We meet Daisy, a makeup artist living in Battery Park with her adorable dog and her driver Dale, and she immediately brings some major connections with her — including Martha Stewart as a friend and client. Daisy reveals that she learned makeup at Scores, where she met Sai in their 20s, and we get a glimpse into her glamorous but unconventional life, including her eight-year-old son Quinton. Meanwhile, Sai has finally moved to Manhattan, but behind the scenes she reveals to Jessel that her marriage to David has fallen apart. She says she has been financially supporting the family, feels completely alone, and has reached the point where she has asked for a separation. Sai admits she has been pretending to be happy while trying to protect her husband, and suddenly her friendship with Jessel feels much more genuine as the two bond over what they’re both going through. We also meet Hailey, who rollerblades around Manhattan in a fur coat and keeps a separate apartment from her husband because she’s tired of feeling like a servant at home. Her quirky apartment — complete with protein bars in the oven and thousands of dollars worth of sunglasses — is definitely a vibe. Hailey opens up about her complicated relationship with her mother and how she has always felt responsible for her mother’s happiness, while Erin is struggling with her daughter acting out and gets emotional. At Jessel and Pavit’s house, Jessel is preparing a Year of the Horse celebration after what she describes as a terrible year following the death of her father. The women eventually gather for the party, where tensions immediately start bubbling. Hailey asks Jessel about IVF, only for Jessel to realize that Erin has been sharing personal information about her. A flashback confirms that Erin has been discussing Jessel’s private life, and Jessel is understandably not thrilled. Then comes the confrontation we were waiting for. Jessel tells Erin that she has heard Erin has been on a smear campaign against her, and Erin finally admits that she has called Jessel fake and a snake. Jessel even pulls out a message from Chanel Ayan warning her to “pay attention to that bitch,” which only adds fuel to the fire. Erin insists that friends should confront each other directly, while Jessel argues that Erin has no business spreading information that isn’t hers to tell. Sai sides with Jessel and makes it clear that she trusts her, which seems to make Erin even more furious. Erin calls Jessel the fakest person she knows, Jessel tells her to leave, and eventually Erin and Abe actually have to pack up and go. For a first episode, RHONY is giving us fractured marriages, questionable friendships, oversharing, old grudges, Martha Stewart, and a full-blown party showdown. Honestly, I’m not mad at it — this was a pretty great way to kick off the season. Real Housewives of New York, RHONY, reality TV, season 16, cast analysis, behind the scenes, drama, reunion, housewives, episode review Support the show https://www.wewinewhenever.com/

  2. 2d ago

    RHOC Who Invited Michael?!

    Send us Fan Mail RHOC S20 E10 Who Invited Michael?! RHOC S20 E10 Forbidden Fruit In Real Housewives of Orange County Season 20, Episode 10, “Forbidden Fruit,” the women split up for two very different getaways. Tamra, Heather, Carmela, and Gina head to Santa Barbara, while Vicki hosts Emily, Shannon, and Jenn at her La Quinta desert home. Before they even get settled, the drama surrounding Heather and Carmela continues, with Emily revealing that Heather has been talking about Carmela behind her back while simultaneously using her as a real estate agent. Carmela admits that what bothers her most is the contradiction between Heather privately texting her about how excited she is to see her while apparently calling her “trashy” behind the scenes. Gina is determined to get Heather to acknowledge the hypocrisy, while Tamra points out that this seems to be a pattern with Heather. Meanwhile, Vicki’s relationship drama with Jenn becomes another topic of conversation, with Vicki admitting that Jenn is “low-hanging fruit” when she gets frustrated—which does not exactly make her look better. The two groups continue their separate adventures, with Vicki’s group enjoying her gorgeous desert home, playing golf, making pizzas, and trying to “whoop it up,” while the Santa Barbara group explores Solvang and gets into the Heather/Carmela situation over lunch. Gina confronts Heather about going apartment shopping with Carmela after allegedly calling her trashy, and Heather insists she was simply looking for a rental for Max in an area where Carmela specializes. Carmela is sitting right there trying to understand why everyone is still talking about a conflict she thought had already been addressed. Back in La Quinta, the conversation turns toward Vicki’s behavior, particularly her tendency to go after Jenn and her unwillingness to share much about her own life. Emily calls out the imbalance in the friendship, while Vicki becomes increasingly defensive. Even Shannon, usually Vicki’s biggest ally, tries to explain where the women are coming from, but Vicki refuses to hear it and accuses everyone of bringing negative energy into her home. And then everything completely falls apart. Vicki retreats to her bedroom, complaining that the women are disrespecting her in her own house, just as Michael arrives home. The atmosphere immediately changes, with Shannon wondering if they should simply leave and Emily and Jenn sensing that something is very wrong. Vicki eventually comes back out and tells everyone that Michael is there and that they can “get the f**k out,” before walking away and telling production that she is done. It is an absolutely chaotic ending to an already messy episode, and Vicki somehow manages to become the least welcoming host imaginable in a house she invited everyone to stay in. Between the Heather and Carmela fallout, the ongoing Vicki/Jenn tension, and Michael’s mysterious appearances, “Forbidden Fruit” delivers plenty of reasons to pour a glass of wine and ask: what the hell just happened? Real Housewives of Orange County, RHOC, reality TV, season 20, episode 10, Forbidden Fruit, Bravo, reality show analysis, housewives drama, TV discussion Support the show https://www.wewinewhenever.com/

  3. 5d ago

    RHUGT Lisa Wu Who?

    Send us Fan Mail RHUGT Lisa Wu Who? RHUGT Season 5, Episode 5 — “To Peach Her Own” The Alter Ego party continues with the Housewives bringing plenty of drama along with their costumes. Teresa decides she wants to have Lisa Barlow’s back, remembering how Kenya once defended her on an Ultimate Girls Trip, so she recruits Drew Sidora to join her. Meanwhile, Candiace gets plenty of attention from photographer Derrick Blanks, which immediately seems to irritate Gizelle. The Atlanta legends begin arriving, including 50 Cynt Cynthia Bailey, Kim Zolciak, Sheree Whitfield, Lisa Wu, and finally NeNe Leakes, who makes quite the entrance. Porsha is thrilled to have her Atlanta OGs in the room, but NeNe’s speech quickly causes tension when she praises Kim and Sheree for their contributions to Atlanta while seemingly forgetting Lisa Wu. When Lisa calls her out, NeNe initially refuses to acknowledge that she hurt her feelings, although Sheree tries to get her to simply apologize. The night gets even messier as the SLC drama follows Lisa Barlow to Miami. Lisa is clearly frustrated that her castmates aren't happy for her, while Teresa continues defending her against Heather, who confronts Lisa about allegedly treating her like a mean girl. Heather also makes comments about Lisa’s appearance and whether she has had work done, which only adds fuel to the fire. Teresa calling Heather out for “false accusations” is especially rich considering her own history with accusations about John Fuda. Meanwhile, Kyle is exhausted by being put in the role of referee and admits that Lisa has always been sweet to her. The Atlanta reunion of sorts also gives NeNe and Marlo a chance to bury the hatchet, while Vicki is having a completely different experience. She feels invisible, doesn't think anyone wants her there, and even tells Teresa she feels ugly and wants to leave. Honestly, Vicki needs to stop waiting for everyone else to entertain her and start engaging with the women herself. The next morning, the Housewives head to the airport for Miami, but Lisa is late getting onto the bus and Gizelle immediately lets her have it. Gizelle demands an apology, accusing Lisa of being self-absorbed and disrespectful for making everyone wait. Lisa insists that getting glam wasn't the reason she was late and refuses to apologize until she feels the apology is sincere, which only makes Gizelle and the others more frustrated. Once they arrive in Miami, Luann brings up the situation again while teasing that she would happily take an “old Cuban or a young Cuban,” and plans are made for a beach day and a party. Lisa continues to lean on Teresa, while Gizelle, Luann and Porsha discuss whether Lisa is simply refusing to admit when she's wrong. What should have been a fun Housewives vacation continues to feel like an extension of the individual franchises' unresolved feuds—which may be entertaining, but it definitely isn't the carefree Ultimate Girls Trip experience we were promised. Real Housewives, Ultimate Girls Trip, Season 5, cast drama, reality TV analysis, Bravo, behind-the-scenes, episode review Support the show https://www.wewinewhenever.com/

  4. Sep 8

    RHOC Ring Around the OC

    Send us Fan Mail RHOC Ring Around the OC RHOC S20 E9 Ring of Fire The drama around Heather Dubrow and Carmella continues to grow as Gina starts questioning where she stands with Heather. The issue is that Heather previously called Carmella “trashy,” yet is now developing a friendship with her and even using Carmella’s real-estate expertise to help find an apartment. Emily isn't buying the sudden change of heart and presses Heather about what she really thinks of Carmella. At Jennifer’s garden gathering, Heather finally pulls Carmella aside and admits she prejudged her, apologizing for saying she didn’t belong in the group and for calling her trashy. Carmella accepts the apology, but the bigger question becomes whether Heather’s apology will actually repair things with Gina and Emily.  Meanwhile, the Tres Amigas are once again on shaky ground. Shannon isn't ready for a one-on-one lunch with Tamra, so Tamra bails on the plans and sends flowers with a particularly shady message signed “Tamra Grudge.” Vicki gets pulled into the middle and ends up discussing the latest rumors surrounding her relationship with Michael. Tamra claims Michael has essentially given Vicki a 90-day window to “not piss him off” if she wants that engagement ring, sending the women into a frenzy over whether Vicki is actually engaged—or whether a ring was given and then taken back. Vicki insists the whole thing has been exaggerated and becomes increasingly frustrated that everyone is discussing her relationship.  The episode wraps around birthdays, strained friendships and an attempted dose of positive energy that doesn't exactly work. Shannon's birthday celebrations are overshadowed by her ongoing issues with Tamra, while Jennifer's energy-healing gathering gives the women another opportunity to air their feelings. Vicki ultimately finds herself at the center of the “ring” controversy again, furious that her personal relationship has become group gossip. Carmella, meanwhile, continues her tradition of extravagant gifts, giving Vicki and Shannon Dior presents. With Heather trying to clean up her Carmella mess, Gina questioning her friendship with Heather, and Vicki desperately trying to keep Mike out of the Housewives drama, “Ring of Truth” leaves plenty of unresolved tension heading into the next episode.  Real Housewives of Orange County, RHOC, reality TV, episode review, drama, relationships, Shannon, Tamra, Vicky, Heather, OC Support the show https://www.wewinewhenever.com/

  5. Sep 3

    RHUGT NeNe’s Back—and Vicki Is Smitten

    Send us Fan Mail RHUGT NeNe’s Back—and Vicki Is Smitten RHUGT S5 E4 Meet Me at the Alter….Ego Party The Housewives have officially landed in Atlanta, and considering they were just in Orange County and Beverly Hills, the amount of traveling they’ve done in two days is borderline exhausting. The day starts with a drag brunch at Lips before everyone rushes off for the Alter Ego Party. Luann is fully embracing her Countess persona, while Vicki reveals that her alter ego is Jackie O and recounts the infamous van ride home from the White Party, where she apparently wanted everyone to participate in the “quiet game.” Meanwhile, Lisa and Teresa are thrilled by how much fun they’ve been having together, with Teresa calling their friendship a “breath of fresh air.” Then comes the big surprise: NeNe Leakes arrives at the drag brunch, and the energy immediately changes. The ladies reminisce about classic Atlanta moments, from “Who gon’ check me, boo?” to “Close your legs to married men,” before the drag queens take the stage and impersonate the Housewives. NeNe’s return is easily the emotional highlight of the episode. Everyone is thrilled to see her, especially Luann, who gets visibly emotional about their friendship. NeNe admits she was nervous about coming back and talks about how strange it felt to leave Housewives behind, initially feeling relieved before eventually realizing that she missed being part of it. The conversation takes a more serious turn as NeNe opens up about Gregg’s death and the memories they shared with Kyle and Mauricio, leading to some genuinely touching moments. NeNe also reveals that she has been dating Nyoni on and off for four years, although she has no desire to get married again. She wants to be treated like a wife without necessarily becoming one, and once Nyoni arrives, Vicki is suddenly VERY interested. The ladies then head off to get ready for the Alter Ego Party, with costumes ranging from Teresa as the Queen of Jersey and Gizelle as Diana Ross to Vicki’s Jackie O and Porsha’s Stepford Wife/Lucy-inspired look. The party brings plenty of unfinished business, particularly when Kyle confronts Ashley about her history with Mauricio. Kyle makes it clear that, regardless of the circumstances, she believes there are certain boundaries you don't cross within the Housewives sisterhood, especially while she and Mauricio are still technically married. Ashley offers her side of the story and even manages to throw Stacy under the bus in the process, but ultimately Kyle and Ashley seem to move forward. Meanwhile, the Salt Lake City contingent brings its own drama, with Gizelle filling Heather and Angie K in on her issues with Whitney and Bronwyn, while Heather remains suspicious of Lisa. Heather eventually approaches Lisa to clear the air, but based on the conversation, it seems Heather may have made the entire situation much bigger than it actually was. With NeNe back, Candiace in the building, old grudges resurfacing, and Vicki suddenly captivated by Nyoni, Atlanta proves to be the perfect setting for this group to create even more chaos.  keywords Real Housewives, reality TV, show analysis, drama, comedy, social dynamics, behind-the-scenes Support the show https://www.wewinewhenever.com/

  6. Sep 1

    RHOC S20 E8 Who’s Really Being Aggressive?

    Send us Fan Mail RHOC Who’s Really Being Aggressive? RHOC S20 E8 Sangria Sangria RHOC Season 20, Episode 8, “Sangria Sangria,” kicks off with the women recovering from Vegas and dealing with the fallout from their trip. Vicki, Emily, and Tamra head to We Vitalize for IV treatments while Emily vents about Shane’s new role as a stay-at-home dad. Meanwhile, Heather meets Carmella at the Oppenheim Group to help find a rental for Max in San Diego, but their conversation quickly turns to Heather’s growing frustration with Emily. Heather feels Emily has been assassinating her character, while Emily claims Heather has made disparaging comments about Carmella behind her back. Shannon and Jenn take their dogs to training, with Shannon revealing that Troy has destroyed more than $12,000 worth of shoes. The Heather drama continues as Tamra and Emily accuse her of controlling conversations and dominating group situations, while Heather insists that Emily does many of the same things she criticizes her for doing. Vicki then visits Shannon and helps her tackle her finances, going through a budget worksheet as Shannon admits she has accumulated debt and closed her business. The lighter moments arrive when the women head to Carmella’s house for a pool day, although the mood gets complicated when Danny arrives. Gina admits she feels uncomfortable around him because of his past infidelity, and Emily wastes no time asking him when he cheated on Carmella. Carmella insists that their relationship is in a good place and says Danny stepped up with the kids while she was away. The women also question Vicki’s claims that she and Carmella are basically the same person, especially after Vicki’s behavior toward Carmella in Vegas. Heather attempts to introduce her own version of sangria, much to everyone’s confusion, while the conversation eventually circles back to Vegas and the unresolved issues surrounding Heather’s behavior. By the end of the episode, the Heather controversy reaches another level as Emily and Tamra confront her about being aggressive and controlling in Vegas. Tamra even reenacts Heather pointing and yelling at Vicki, while Heather fires back that Emily and Tamra have been aggressive toward her repeatedly. Tamra brings up Heather comparing her outbursts to her father, prompting Heather to firmly shut down the conversation. Meanwhile, Carmella seeks reassurance from Vicki about their relationship after returning from Vegas feeling heavy-hearted, and Vicki insists she never mom-shamed her. The episode closes with conversations about trust and infidelity, as Shannon shares a disturbing story about discovering that David was still in contact with his mistress. Carmella admits she may have damaged her relationship with herself the most, while Emily’s takeaway from the entire day is considerably simpler: she needs to go home and have sex with Shane.  keywords Real Housewives of Orange County, RHOC, reality TV, season 20, episode 8, drama, social dynamics, cast insights, reality TV analysis Support the show https://www.wewinewhenever.com/

  7. Aug 27

    RHUGT S5 E3 Porsha Brings the Pepper

    Send us Fan Mail RHUGT S5 E3 Porsha Brings the Pepper RHUGT Season 5, Episode 3 — “White Lies” The Housewives head to Kyle Richards’ legendary White Party in Beverly Hills, and the guest list is packed with familiar faces, including Eileen Davidson, Camille Grammer, Adrienne Maloof, Crystal Kung Minkoff, Denise Richards, Meredith Marks and Faye Resnick. Kyle is still wrestling with how she and Mo’s relationship got to this point, while Mo arrives late—and commits the ultimate White Party offense by wearing a beige blazer. Porsha brings plenty of comic relief, telling Gizelle that she “brought the pepper” to the sea of white people, while Teresa’s questionable white dress has us wondering if she’s doing any favors for the Garden State. Meanwhile, the Salt Lake City women are keeping their distance, and Gizelle immediately senses an opportunity to investigate the tension between Lisa, Meredith, Whitney and Bronwyn. The biggest entertainment of the night comes courtesy of Luann, who celebrates the 20th anniversary of RHOBH with an absolutely wild performance involving a zipline and a very questionable contraption. Vicki is visibly confused, Kyle compares Luann to the many entertainers who have performed at her parties, and the Housewives’ past performances remind us that maybe some things are better left in the Bravo archives. Luann also confronts Erika over calling her rude at BravoCon, explaining that Erika had ghosted her after Luann repeatedly tried to make plans. Erika explains that her life was falling apart at the time and insists it wasn’t personal, leading to a surprisingly amicable resolution. But the real fireworks come from Gizelle, who is determined to uncover exactly what Whitney and Bronwyn have been saying about Lisa and Meredith—and Porsha is more than happy to provide the receipts. The episode also gives us some emotional Beverly Hills history as Kyle gathers the original and longtime Housewives to celebrate 20 years of the franchise. Camille opens up about the devastating circumstances surrounding her divorce from Kelsey Grammer, while Camille’s speech to Kyle calls her an icon, survivor and force of nature. Kyle reflects on everything she has experienced since the show began and admits she never imagined RHOBH would last more than a few months. Of course, the night eventually devolves back into classic Housewives chaos, with Luann continuing to sing, Vicki refusing to join her for a drink, Teresa singing along while Vicki visibly suffers, and Gizelle declaring Vicki a “wet blanket.” As the group heads to Atlanta, Lisa is already getting emotional and it looks like the next round of drama is about to begin. Real Housewives, Ultimate Girls Trip, Season Five, cast analysis, reality TV, housewives drama, Bravo, TV recap Support the show https://www.wewinewhenever.com/

  8. Aug 24

    RHOC S20 E7 Carmela's Kool-Aid and Vicki's Scooter

    Send us Fan Mail RHOC Carmela's Kool-Aid and Vicki's Scooter RHOC S20 E7 All Bets Are Off Vegas Day 2 takes the RHOC ladies to the Grand Canyon, where the group tackles the Skywalk, zip-lining, and a Hualapai cultural experience. Shannon arrives with a scooter for Vicki and immediately crashes into her, setting the tone for another chaotic day. While Emily, Jen, Vicki, and Shannon brave the zip line—with Vicki and Shannon eventually backing out—Heather, Tamra, Gina, and Carmela participate in the cultural experience. Tamra gets emotional as she reflects on how she is trying to stop letting insignificant things trigger her, but the biggest drama of the day comes when Shannon breaks down over the room situation. Feeling lonely and overlooked, Shannon finally confronts Heather, who once again gets defensive before insisting Shannon should simply talk to her—exactly what Shannon is trying to do. Carmela also finds herself in the hot seat after the women question why she is focusing so much on building a business team with her ex rather than strengthening friendships within the group. Vicki goes especially hard, questioning Carmela's choices as a mother and accusing her of leaving her children behind while traveling. Heather eventually shuts Vicki down, and Shannon comes to Carmela's defense. Carmela is understandably furious, especially because she feels judged by women who don't know the circumstances of her family. Gina points out that she experienced something similar when she first joined the group, while Tamra recognizes that Vicki is struggling because Carmela has come into the group making an immediate impression—and bringing plenty of gifts. Even after an entertaining scavenger hunt involving nicknames, swag, and another zip-line challenge, the tension between Vicki and Carmela remains unresolved. By the final night, however, Vicki attempts to make peace with Carmela, admitting that she came on too strong and apologizing for making her feel horrible. Carmela opens up about how Danny stepping up with the kids has made her realize she may need to soften and show more gratitude, especially after infidelity has made her more guarded. Emily relates, sharing that she eventually had to soften with Shane and recognize the importance of initiating and appreciating their relationship. Meanwhile, the conversation turns to marriage and intimacy, with Jen encouraging Tamra to reconnect physically with her husband and Heather suggesting that sometimes you actually have to schedule time for sex. The episode ends on a surprisingly tender note when Heather tells Shannon that she simply hasn't met the person who deserves her yet, leaving Shannon emotional as the women remind her that she deserves a great love.  keywords Real Housewives of Orange County, RHOC, reality TV, drama, episode analysis, housewives, TV discussion Support the show https://www.wewinewhenever.com/

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 Welcome to We Wine Whenever where three middle age, middle class neighborhood women discuss our views on popular shows, our lives and anything else that pops up. Join in the fun and listen in to discover what its really like to be a Jersey Shore housewife as the blonde ,the brunette and the redhead  give you an unfiltered cocktail hour.Together, Wendy ,Kelli and Lori create a vibrant and entertaining podcast that covers a wide range of topics, from the latest Bravo drama to discussions on parenting, relationships, and current events. Their chemistry as co-hosts, combined with their relatability and passion, makes their podcast a must-listen for anyone looking for engaging conversations about everyday life and pop culture. We drink wine whenever and we hope you do too!

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