In this follow-up episode, Tammy gently expands on her recent conversation with relationship clarity coach Bre Waltas, diving deeper into how growing up in dysfunctional or chaotic homes shapes our identity, attachment patterns, and nervous system responses. Tammy explores why survival, not self-discovery, becomes the priority in childhood trauma — and how that survival wiring follows us into adulthood. She explains how identity loss, people-pleasing, emotional hypervigilance, and trauma bonds are not personal failures, but intelligent adaptations the body learned to stay safe. Listeners will learn: Why familiar pain can feel safer than unfamiliar peaceHow trauma bonds are driven by nervous system chemistry, not weaknessWhy logic and willpower alone cannot break unhealthy attachment cyclesHow healing begins by shifting from “What’s wrong with me?” to “What did my body learn?”How to gently rebuild identity through self-awareness, safety, and compassion Tammy reminds listeners that healing is not about becoming someone new — it is about returning to the authentic self that was always there before survival took over. She also speaks to the power of being a cycle breaker, choosing conscious healing, and moving from survival into thriving. This episode is an invitation to come home to yourself with grace, courage, and self-trust. Hey there, I’m so glad you’re here and tuning in! If this episode spoke to your heart, just know there’s even more support waiting for you. If you would like to ask a question, and hear the answer in a future episode, please leave your question here: https://www.speakpipe.com/Tammyvincentcoaching I work with people who are ready to heal from the inside out — especially those dealing with chronic stress, anxiety, inflammation, gut issues, or burnout. If you’ve been struggling with symptoms your doctors can’t fully explain, it may be that your past is still living in your body. Unhealed emotional wounds and nervous system dysregulation often show up as physical and mental health challenges — and I’m here to help you break that cycle. If you are curious about where you stand energetically, or just need a frequency boost, book your FREE biofrequency voice scan here: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/complimentary-scan-demo As an international inspirational speaker, NLP Practitioner, Trauma-Informed Coach, Neurofit Trainer, and Best-Selling Author, I bring both deep personal experience and professional training to the work I do. I believe in prevention, not just intervention — and use a body, mind, and spirit approach to guide others toward becoming the happiest, healthiest versions of themselves. My holistic toolbox includes nervous system regulation, trauma-informed coaching, nutritional support, and natural healing strategies, 🔑 Start Your Healing JourneyFind ALL THE THINGS HERE: Anything that I have to offer is right here 🧠 Work With Me – Head-to-Toe Wellness Consultation Let’s explore what’s really going on in your body, mind, and spirit. During this free discovery call, we’ll assess where you are and what tools can support your healing. 👉 Book your session: a...
