The Naked Connection: Master Sex, Dating & Relationships

Kirsten Trammell
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Welcome to The Naked Connection, the show for motivated men who want to build deeper connections and have better communication and sex with women. Your host, Kirsten, is on a mission to help you become legendary in bed and build meaningful romantic connections. Kirsten is a Tantric Practitioner who studied under leading experts in somatic practices, tantric traditions, and clinical psychology, and she holds a Master's in Clinical Counseling. If you are ready to replace the pressure to perform with pleasure, be confident in sex and dating, easily communicate with the woman you want, and build a lasting relationship…this podcast is a must-listen! It is time to experience what is truly possible. Now, let's get some!

  1. 4D AGO

    How to Make Her Actually Want Anal Sex

    What if her "no" to anal isn't rejection… but information? This episode will teach you how women experience anal sex, what actually creates desire for it, and why pressuring the act kills attraction. You'll learn how to talk about anal without manipulation, and the exact progression that allows curiosity to replace resistance. Whether you're in a long-term relationship or dating someone new, this episode gives you a grounded, honest path forward. 🔥 Just how good are you in bed? Take the Sex IQ Test and uncover your strengths (and growth edges) in bed. Visit https://thenakedconnection.com/quiz 🧠 Connect with Kirsten T for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ ❓Have a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here:  https://thenakedconnection.com/question 🎓 Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover

    36 min

  2. JAN 6

    This One Pattern Creates Sexless Marriages w/Dr. Alexandra Stockwell

    When you stop saying what you want, desire doesn't disappear. It goes underground. If you are a man who feels disconnected in your relationship, unsure how to express desire without pressure, or quietly compromising more than you admit, this episode will change how you see intimacy. You'll learn how emotional honesty fuels attraction, how to talk about sex without killing the mood, and why withholding yourself for "peace" slowly erodes connection. Learn why most men unknowingly trade desire for harmony, how to reconnect to what you actually want, and how authentic communication can reignite sex without forcing anything. Whether you're married, partnered, or questioning what intimacy could feel like again, this episode offers a grounded, practical path back to connection. Stop managing the relationship. Start being in it.   Connect with Dr. Alexandra Stockwell How to Ask your Woman for Sex (so she's more likely to say Yes): www.alexandrastockwell.com/yes   🔥 Just how good are you in bed? Take the Sex IQ Test and uncover your strengths (and growth edges) in bed. Visit https://thenakedconnection.com/quiz 🧠 Connect with Kirsten T for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/   ❓Have a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here:  https://thenakedconnection.com/question 🎓 Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover

    55 min

  3. 12/30/2025

    End Performance Anxiety in 3 Simple Steps

    Performance anxiety is sabotaging your sex life and creating the exact outcomes you fear. If you struggle with staying hard, coming too fast, or avoiding intimacy because you're worried about failing, you'll learn the Tension Release Protocol, how to interrupt the Inner Critic loop in 3 seconds, and why removing expectations dissolves anxiety faster than fighting it. 🔥 Just how good are you in bed? Take the Sex IQ Test and uncover your strengths (and growth edges) in bed. Visit https://thenakedconnection.com/quiz   🧠 Connect with Kirsten for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/   ❓Have a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here:  https://thenakedconnection.com/question   🎓 Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover   CHAPTERS 00:00 Understanding Performance Anxiety 00:57 Introduction to The Naked Connection 01:08 The Tension Release Protocol 04:33 Step 1: The Three Second Reentry 08:02 Step 2: Zero Expectation Touch 12:22 Step 3: Partner Focused Reframe 17:31 Recap and Final Thoughts

    23 min

  4. 12/23/2025

    How to Role Play in Bed (Especially When You've Never Done It Before)

    Predictable sex is killing the excitement in your relationship and you don't even realize it. Whether you've never tried roleplay or think it's too cringe, this episode gives you practical scenarios, a step-by-step process to prepare and how to enroll your partner into your fantasy. Stop taking sex so seriously and start having fun with it!   🔥 Just how good are you in bed? Take the Sex IQ Test and uncover your strengths (and growth edges) in bed. Visit https://thenakedconnection.com/quiz   🧠 Connect with Kirsten T for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/   ❓Have a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here:  https://thenakedconnection.com/question 🎓 Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program:  https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover

    38 min

  5. 12/16/2025

    Why Most Men Ruin Foreplay and How to Fix It in 3 Stages

    Rushing foreplay is killing her arousal and you don't even realize it. If you want to guarantee her pleasure and deepen intimacy, in this episode you'll learn the 3-Stage Intentional Foreplay Blueprint, how to ground her nervous system before building arousal, and why mapping her body with curiosity creates better orgasms than any technique. Whether you're struggling to make her orgasm or just want to level up your skills, this episode shows you exactly how to turn foreplay from a chore into the most powerful part of sex. Stop performing and start connecting.   🔥 Just how good are you in bed? Take the Sex IQ Test and uncover your strengths (and growth edges) in bed. Visit https://thenakedconnection.com/quiz 🧠 Connect with Kirsten for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en   ❓Have a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here:  https://thenakedconnection.com/question   🎓 Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover

    26 min

  6. 12/09/2025

    Here is Why Nothing Feels Good Anymore

    If you are a man struggling with focus, intimacy issues, or feeling empty after quick hits of pleasure, in this episode, you'll learn how porn addiction rewires your brain, how to spot the subtle signs porn might be affecting your relationships, and why community is essential for breaking free. Learn how neural pathways become deeply grooved habits and what actually lives on the other side of recovery. Whether you are battling compulsive behaviors alone or ready to build deeper connection with your partner, this episode has insight for you. The isolation stops when you understand what's actually happening in your brain.   Connect with Jeremy Lipkowtiz https://www.instagram.com/jeremylipkowitz/?hl=en https://www.unhookedacademy.com/   🔥 Just how good are you in bed? Take the Sex IQ Test and uncover your strengths (and growth edges) in bed. Visit https://thenakedconnection.com/quiz 🧠 Follow for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ ❓Have a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question 🎓 Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover

    51 min

  7. 12/02/2025

    How To Give Her 3 Different Unexpected Types Of Orgasms

    If you are struggling with inconsistent results in the bedroom, in this episode, you will learn different types of female orgasm, how to create emotional intimacy during sex. Tune in to learn the three distinct orgasmic experiences women can have and how emotional connection unlocks each type. Whether you are single and learning or in a long-term relationship wanting deeper intimacy, this episode will transform how you approach female pleasure. Stop focusing on technique and start mastering connection.   🔥 Just how good are you in bed? Take the Sex IQ Test and uncover your strengths (and growth edges) in bed. Visit https://thenakedconnection.com/quiz 🧠 Follow for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/   ❓Have a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here:  https://thenakedconnection.com/question 🎓 Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover

    19 min

  8. 11/25/2025

    How to Improve Your Sex Life Through Gratitude Practices

    What you take for granted right now is probably what you'll miss most when it's gone. If you are a man who wants deeper intimacy and presence in your relationships, tune in to learn how taking things for granted destroys connection, how to practice gratitude that actually shifts your sex life. Learn why presence is the foundation of sexual mastery and how 30 seconds of appreciation changes everything in bed. Whether you are single and feeling like you're missing out or in a relationship that's lost its spark, this episode has insight for you. Your capacity for pleasure, your partner's willingness to be vulnerable, even your freedom—these aren't guaranteed. Stop waiting until it's too late to appreciate what's right in front of you.    🔥 Just how good are you in bed? Take the Sex IQ Test and uncover your strengths (and growth edges) in bed. Visit https://thenakedconnection.com/quiz   🧠 Connect with Kirsten for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/   ❓Have a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here:  https://thenakedconnection.com/question 🎓 Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover

    21 min
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Welcome to The Naked Connection, the show for motivated men who want to build deeper connections and have better communication and sex with women. Your host, Kirsten, is on a mission to help you become legendary in bed and build meaningful romantic connections. Kirsten is a Tantric Practitioner who studied under leading experts in somatic practices, tantric traditions, and clinical psychology, and she holds a Master's in Clinical Counseling. If you are ready to replace the pressure to perform with pleasure, be confident in sex and dating, easily communicate with the woman you want, and build a lasting relationship…this podcast is a must-listen! It is time to experience what is truly possible. Now, let's get some!

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