The Steadfast Podcast

Steadfast Christian Counseling
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The Steadfast Podcast is a Christian counseling podcast that brings you practical, faith-rooted conversations on emotional health, relationships, trauma, anxiety, parenting, and church life. Hosted by Jessie Evans, LPC, founder of Steadfast Christian Counseling in Charleston, South Carolina, each episode offers approachable insights from licensed counselors and trusted voices in mental health. You’ll hear about real-life struggles and practical tools — all grounded in a trauma-informed, Christ-centered perspective. Whether you’re navigating anxiety, learning about attachment, strengthening

  1. 6d ago

    Why Is It So Hard to Just Say the Thing? Breaking the Passive-Aggressive Cycle with Tiff Holdgate

    “I’m fine.” “Whatever.” “Do what you want.” Sometimes the shortest responses carry the most unspoken feelings. So why is it so hard to just say what we need? Jessie Evans and Tiff Holdgate unpack the passive-aggressive patterns that show up in marriage, parenting, and everyday relationships. They explore how childhood experiences and attachment styles can shape the way we communicate, the difference between needing space and giving the silent treatment, and how to stop expecting others to read our minds. With relatable examples and practical ways to ask for help, express frustration, and respond to indirect comments, this conversation offers a starting point for breaking the cycle and building more honest, emotionally safe relationships. You don’t need perfect words to say something real. Meet Tiff Holdgate, LPCS Tiff Holdgate, LPCS, works with adults, providing a safe and supportive space for healing and personal growth. She uses a range of therapeutic approaches, including Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Internal Family Systems (IFS), EMDR, and Brainspotting, to tailor her work to each client’s unique needs. Tiff specializes in addressing anxiety, depression, trauma, abuse recovery, grief, and religious trauma. If you’re ready to take the next step toward healing and wholeness, Tiff is here to walk alongside you. Contact her today to begin your journey. If you’re looking for Christian counseling in Charleston, SC, our team at Steadfast Christian Counseling would love to walk with you. 🌿 Learn more: www.steadfastchristiancounseling.com 📅 Book your free consultation here: https://sccandcic.janeapp.com 📸 Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/steadfastchristiancounseling/ 💙 Find us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/people/Steadfast-Christian-Counseling/100088672554550/

    Why Is It So Hard to Just Say the Thing? Breaking the Passive-Aggressive Cycle with Tiff Holdgate

  2. Oct 13

    Is It Shyness or Selective Mutism? With Jess Howell

    Your child talks nonstop at home but goes quiet at school, church, or around family. How do you know when it’s more than shyness—and how can you help without adding pressure? In this episode of The Steadfast Podcast, Jess Howell, LPC, and Jessie Evans explore selective mutism and the anxiety that can make speaking feel impossible. They discuss what parents might notice, when to seek professional support, and simple ways to make everyday interactions feel safer. You’ll hear about: • The difference between shyness and selective mutism • Building connection without putting kids on the spot • Using descriptions and simple choices to reduce pressure • Giving children time to respond before jumping in • Helping kids build their “brave muscles” • Working with counselors and teachers for support This conversation offers a compassionate starting point for parents who want to better understand their child and help them take small, supported steps toward finding their voice. Meet Jessica Howell Jessica Howell, LPC, works with adults, offering a compassionate and supportive environment for healing and growth. She utilizes Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), EMDR, and Person-Centered Therapy to meet her clients' individual needs and goals. Jessica specializes in addressing anxiety, depression, trauma, recovery from sexual abuse, and religious trauma. If you’re ready to start your journey toward healing, Jessica is here to support you every step of the way. Reach out today to take the first step. If you’re looking for Christian counseling in Charleston, SC, our team at Steadfast Christian Counseling would love to walk with you. 🌿 Learn more: www.steadfastchristiancounseling.com 📅 Book your free consultation here: https://sccandcic.janeapp.com 📸 Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/steadfastchristiancounseling/ 💙 Find us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/people/Steadfast-Christian-Counseling/100088672554550/

    Is It Shyness or Selective Mutism? With Jess Howell

  3. Oct 6

    How to Find the Right Therapy for You with Tiff Holdgate

    How do you find a therapist who’s actually right for you? Whether you’re starting therapy for the first time or wondering if it’s time for a change, knowing what to look for can make the process feel less overwhelming. In this episode of The Steadfast Podcast, Jessie Evans and Tiff Holdgate break down how to find the right therapy for your needs, personality, and season of life. They explore different therapeutic approaches, why connection with your therapist matters, and the questions you can ask before committing. You’ll learn: • How to identify what you need from therapy • The differences between talk therapy, skills-based approaches, and trauma-focused work • Green flags and red flags in the therapeutic relationship • What to ask during a consultation • What the letters LPC, LPCA, and LPCS mean • When it might be time to find a different therapist You’re allowed to ask questions, speak up when something isn’t working, and find someone who feels like the right fit. Meet Tiff Holdgate, LPCS Tiff Holdgate, LPCS, works with adults, providing a safe and supportive space for healing and personal growth. She uses a range of therapeutic approaches, including Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Internal Family Systems (IFS), EMDR, and Brainspotting, to tailor her work to each client’s unique needs. Tiff specializes in addressing anxiety, depression, trauma, abuse recovery, grief, and religious trauma. If you’re ready to take the next step toward healing and wholeness, Tiff is here to walk alongside you. Contact her today to begin your journey. If you’re looking for Christian counseling in Charleston, SC, our team at Steadfast Christian Counseling would love to walk with you. Learn more: www.steadfastchristiancounseling.com Book your free consultation here: https://sccandcic.janeapp.com Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/steadfastchristiancounseling/ Find us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/people/Steadfast-Christian-Counseling/100088672554550/

    How to Find the Right Therapy for You with Tiff Holdgate

  4. Sep 29

    Mistakes Make Me Better

    What if making a mistake didn’t mean you failed? In this episode, Jessie talks about why mistakes are part of growth, not proof that something is wrong with you. She shares how perfectionism can turn self-reflection into shame, why healthy relationships need repair instead of perfection, and what it looks like to get back up after something doesn’t go the way you hoped. From taking risks in business to apologizing in relationships, Jessie explores how mistakes can teach us, stretch us, and make us better—if we’re willing to be honest, learn the lesson, and try again. Because the goal isn’t to never mess up. The goal is to know what to do when you do. If you’re looking for Christian counseling in Charleston, SC, our team at Steadfast Christian Counseling would love to walk with you. Learn more: www.steadfastchristiancounseling.com Book your free consultation here: https://sccandcic.janeapp.com Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/steadfastchristiancounseling/ Find us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/people/Steadfast-Christian-Counseling/100088672554550/ Free Kitchen Reflection Guide Jessie created a simple four-step reflection tool to help you pause, check in, and decide how you want to show up in the middle of everyday life. Print it out, stick it on your fridge, and use it whenever you need a quick reset. Download the free Kitchen Reflection Guide: https://link.mytherapyflow.com/widget/form/Zmgwx48V1NL9CkMdudLv

  5. Sep 22

    The Difference Between Self-Editing and Self-Abandonment

    What if changing how you show up doesn’t mean you’re being fake—it means you’re being intentional? In this episode, Jessie talks about the idea of the “self-edit” and why being authentic doesn’t mean acting on every feeling, impulse, or reaction. Sometimes the way we instinctively respond comes from insecurity, jealousy, defensiveness, or simply wanting to be liked or right. Jessie explores the difference between changing yourself to fit in and making thoughtful changes because you know who you want to be. She also digs into the difference between being nice to yourself and being kind to yourself, why kindness sometimes means telling yourself the truth, and how to hold yourself accountable without slipping into shame. You don’t have to show up perfectly. You can notice what didn’t feel right, make an edit, and keep going. If you’re looking for Christian counseling in Charleston, SC, our team at Steadfast Christian Counseling would love to walk with you. 🌿 Learn more: www.steadfastchristiancounseling.com 📅 Book your free consultation here: https://sccandcic.janeapp.com 📸 Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/steadfastchristiancounseling/ 💙 Find us on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/people/Steadfast-Christian-Counseling/100088672554550/

  6. Sep 15

    You Don’t Have to Fit In: Raising Girls Who Know They Belong

    What happens when fitting in starts costing you pieces of who you are? In this episode of The Steadfast Podcast, Jessie talks about mean girl culture, belonging, confidence, and the pressure girls feel to change themselves in order to be accepted. She shares what she’s teaching her own daughters about opening the circle, celebrating other women, using their voices, and knowing they never have to audition for belonging. Because real confidence isn’t about fitting in. It’s about knowing who you are and making room for others to do the same. If you’re looking for Christian counseling in Charleston, SC, our team at Steadfast Christian Counseling would love to walk with you. 🌿 Learn more: www.steadfastchristiancounseling.com 📅 Book your free consultation here: https://sccandcic.janeapp.com 📸 Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/steadfastchristiancounseling/ 💙 Find us on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/people/Steadfast-Christian-Counseling/100088672554550/

  7. Sep 8

    What Does Winning Look Like for You?

    What does winning actually look like for you? In the Season 4 premiere of The Steadfast Podcast, Jessie Evans explores a question she’s been thinking about all summer: how do we define winning when life is about so much more than measurable outcomes? Jessie shares how the Steadfast team thinks about success, impact, and the kind of people they want to become. She also invites you to consider how you want to show up in your own relationships, family, work, community, and everyday life. In this episode, Jessie talks about moving beyond the “scoreboard,” defining success through your values, making a meaningful impact on the people around you, and building the resilience to keep growing even when things don’t go the way you hoped. As Season 4 begins, expect more practical conversations designed to help you take big ideas and actually do something with them. So, what does winning look like for you? If you’re looking for Christian counseling in Charleston, SC, our team at Steadfast Christian Counseling would love to walk with you. 🌿 Learn more: www.steadfastchristiancounseling.com 📅 Book your free consultation here: https://sccandcic.janeapp.com

  8. Apr 27

    Making Sense of Your Story with Adam Young

    In this final episode of Season 3 of The Steadfast Podcast, Jessie Evans, LPC and Annalise sit down with Adam Young to talk about why our stories matter. Adam helps us understand that “story work” is not just about remembering the big timeline of our lives. It is about honoring the specific memories, wounds, joys, and moments that shaped how we experience ourselves, God, our relationships, and even our bodies today. Together, they explore trauma, kindness toward younger parts of ourselves, faith integration, parenting, the wisdom of the body, and why healing does not happen in isolation. You’ll also hear Adam’s powerful framework for healing:feeling your feelings and moving your body with others. To learn more about Adam’s work, check out:🌐 https://adamyoungcounseling.com🎙️ The Place We Find Ourselves Podcast📖 Make Sense of Your Story (available on Amazon) If you are in South Carolina and would like a counselor to walk with you as you begin making sense of your story, Steadfast Christian Counseling in Charleston, SC would love to help. 🌿 www.steadfastchristiancounseling.com

    Making Sense of Your Story with Adam Young
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The Steadfast Podcast is a Christian counseling podcast that brings you practical, faith-rooted conversations on emotional health, relationships, trauma, anxiety, parenting, and church life. Hosted by Jessie Evans, LPC, founder of Steadfast Christian Counseling in Charleston, South Carolina, each episode offers approachable insights from licensed counselors and trusted voices in mental health. You’ll hear about real-life struggles and practical tools — all grounded in a trauma-informed, Christ-centered perspective. Whether you’re navigating anxiety, learning about attachment, strengthening

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  • Creator
    Steadfast Christian Counseling
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    76
  • Rating
    Clean
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    © Steadfast Christian Counseling
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    The Steadfast Podcast

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