Tales From The Lane

Kate Kayaian
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Welcome to Tales from The Lane—the podcast for high performers who are ready to build a life that's not just impressive on paper, but deeply fulfilling. I'm your host, Kate Kayaian—former professional cellist turned writer, coach, and strategist for people who've already achieved a lot… and are now asking, What's next? Each week, we dive into the mindset, habits, and strategies of high-achieving creatives, entrepreneurs, athletes, and leaders who are committed to playing at the top of their game without burning out, selling out, or slowing down their growth. You'll hear solo episodes packed with insights and tools, candid conversations with industry trailblazers, and the kind of honest talk most successful people don't get to have anywhere else. If you're here to pursue excellence on your terms—to lead, to grow, and to thrive—this is your show. Subscribe to Tales from The Lane and join a global community of high performers building meaningful, sustainable success.

  1. 3d ago

    Episode 133: What Really Happens When You Reach a Big Goal

    The Creators Leadership Mastermind, my 9-month guided mastermind group for people ready to finally move a meaningful goal from idea to reality, is open for enrollment through October 11th. If you're ready to find out what completing your big thing could set in motion, book a call with me today to get the conversation started.  We spend an enormous amount of time talking about how to reach our big goals. But what actually happens after you do? In this episode of Tales from The Lane, I'm looking at what it really feels like when something that started as a scribble in a notebook, an idea in a voice memo, or a dream you weren't quite sure you could pull off finally exists in the world. I'm sharing some of my own finish-line moments: opening the box containing the first copies of Beyond Potential, wrapping up the first year of my Virtual Summer Cello Festival, hearing the final cheers at our first Summer Pops concert, and realizing that the big moment itself isn't always where the real payoff happens. Sometimes the finish line is exhilarating. Sometimes it's strangely anticlimactic. Sometimes you're simply exhausted. But then you start noticing what changed. You trust yourself differently. You have evidence that you can make something real. Other people begin seeing you differently. New opportunities appear. Your network expands. Your tolerance for uncertainty grows. And the next big idea doesn't seem quite so impossible. I'm also sharing stories from several of my Mastermind clients whose original goals led to outcomes they couldn't possibly have predicted: an online festival that led to teaching at a dream conservatory and judging international competitions; a distinctive teaching methodology that caught the attention of a dream school; Zoom webinars that grew into national speaking opportunities; and work in dance and movement that is now taking one client around the world. Because sometimes your big project is an audition for opportunities you don't even know you're auditioning for. And perhaps the biggest shift of all is one you don't fully notice until afterward: The finish line didn't transform you. It revealed how much you'd already transformed along the way. In this episode: Why achieving a huge goal can feel surprisingly anticlimactic The unusual pride that comes from seeing your own idea become real How completing something gives you evidence for the next big thing Why experience teaches you to trust yourself when things inevitably go wrong How visible work changes the way other people perceive you The opportunities, relationships, and "street cred" that can compound from one completed goal Why you can't calculate the full ROI of a project before you begin How action changes identity Why the real payoff of a big goal is often the wake it leaves behind The finish line may last five minutes. What it changes can last for years. 📚 Get my book Beyond Potential 🎯 Interested in a 90-minute Strategy Session? Or DM me "Strategy" 📩 Subscribe to my weekly newsletter, The Weekend List 📸 Instagram: @kkayaian

    Episode 133: What Really Happens When You Reach a Big Goal

  2. Sep 28

    Episode 132: How I'm Spending the Last 100 Days of the Year

    ***The Creators Leadership Mastermind, my 9-month guided mastermind group for people ready to finally see their biggest goals come to life, is open for enrollment through October 11th. Book a call today to get the conversation started*** There are exactly 100 days left in 2026. And when I realized that while planning this week's episode, I couldn't resist turning it into a planning exercise. But this isn't a "100-day challenge," and I'm definitely not interested in squeezing every possible drop of productivity out of the rest of the year. Instead, I'm asking a different question: How can I use these 100 days well, while still enjoying the life I'm living? In this episode of Tales from The Lane, I'm taking you behind the scenes of my own Q4 planning and sharing the seven areas I'm thinking about as I decide what deserves my attention between now and the end of the year: Time. Money. Mind. People. Place. Numbers. Feeling. I'm looking at what I want to keep, stop, and start spending my time on, where I'm deliberately investing money in my own growth, what I'm willing to become a beginner at, and who I want around me as I enter a season of expansion in my work. I'm also sharing the goals and metrics I'll be watching, why my garden and dinner table belong in the plan right alongside my business goals, and the question I think matters more than all the others: How do I want to feel while I'm doing all of this? For me, the word for Q4 is energized. I don't want to reach December 31st having checked every box but completely depleted myself in the process. I want to arrive there thinking, Wow. That was fun. Look what happened. Because 100 days is long enough to make meaningful progress, but short enough that we can't spend 60 of them thinking about getting started. So grab a notebook and think through your own seven areas with me. And if you'd like to take yourself through a more complete planning process, grab my free Quarterly Retreat Planning Guide, where I'll walk you through my process of Planning, Creating, Organizing, and Optimizing. 📚 Get my book Beyond Potential 🎯 Interested in a 90-minute Strategy Session? Or DM me "Strategy" 📩 Subscribe to my weekly newsletter, The Weekend List 📸 Instagram: @kkayaian

    Episode 132: How I'm Spending the Last 100 Days of the Year

  3. Sep 21

    Episode 131: How to Try Again (Differently) with Author, Steve Kamb

    What happens when something you really, really wanted doesn't work out? You don't get tenure. The business fails. The career you spent decades building no longer fits. A relationship ends. Or maybe you simply realize that the version of success you've been working toward isn't something you want anymore. For high achievers, failure can become tangled up with identity surprisingly quickly. We know how to work harder. We know how to persevere. But what happens when trying harder isn't actually the answer? This week on Tales from The Lane, I'm joined by Steve Kamb, author of the new book How to Try Again and founder of Nerd Fitness. Steve originally set out to write a book about behavior change and what happens when we fail to follow through on our goals. Then his own life went sideways. Personal and professional failures changed the book, and ultimately changed the way Steve thought about success, identity, resilience, and what it actually means to begin again. We talk about Steve's PACT framework: Pause, Accept, Change, Try, and why sometimes the most productive thing you can do is stop pushing forward long enough to figure out whether you're even still headed in the right direction. We also dig into what happens when achievement becomes part of your identity, why acceptance is very different from giving up, how to examine a past failure like a detective instead of a prosecutor, and the surprisingly difficult question: If you succeed at what you're doing now, will you actually want the life that success creates? Steve shares his own experience spending years in the wrong role inside the company he founded, eventually "firing himself" so he could return to the creative work that made him feel alive. And if you're currently somewhere between the person you used to be and the person you're becoming, we also talk about the deeply unglamorous but very real "caterpillar goo" stage of reinvention, when the old identity is breaking down and the new one hasn't quite formed yet. This is a conversation about failure, yes. But even more, it's about giving yourself permission to change your mind, choose another path, and try again differently. Connect with Steve Instagram: @SteveKamb Threads: @SteveKamb Substack: @SteveKamb LinkedIn: Steve Kamb Get the Book: How to Try Again Connect with Kate: 📚 Get my book Beyond Potential 🎯 Interested in a 90-minute Strategy Session? or DM me "Strategy" 📩 Subscribe to my weekly newsletter, The Weekend List 📸 Instagram: @kkayaian

    Episode 131: How to Try Again (Differently) with Author, Steve Kamb

  4. Sep 14

    Episode 130: How to Build Your Next Chapter While Living Your Current One

    You want to write the book. Build the business. Prepare the audition. Launch the festival. Make the career pivot. There's just one problem: your current life is already full. A lot of deep-work advice assumes that you have three or four beautiful, uninterrupted hours available to disappear into your studio, office, or writing room. But what happens when you're trying to build something new while still working your current job, raising children, caring for parents, leading a team, maintaining relationships, and generally keeping your existing life running? In Episode 130 of Tales from The Lane, Kate explores the messy in-between period when your identity has begun to change, but your circumstances haven't caught up yet. You know where you want to go, but you still have to build the bridge from here to there. Kate shares practical ways to create meaningful deep-work time inside a packed life, including how to protect small blocks before attempting large ones, determine your "minimum useful block," work with your actual energy, decide what you'll do before the clock starts, create a tiny re-entry ritual, and measure progress by what moved rather than how many hours you worked. Because three focused 45-minute sessions a week add up to roughly 117 hours of concentrated work over a year. That's enough time to create something substantial. Most importantly, Kate challenges the fantasy that your real work can begin only after your life becomes less complicated. Your current life does not have to disappear before your next life can begin. Those small blocks aren't only producing the book, business, body of work, or career pivot. They're producing evidence of the person you're becoming. If this episode has you excited about what's next, enrollment is open for the Creators Leadership Mastermind, officially beginning in October. But you don't have to wait until then to start benefiting from the group, office hours, conversations, and accountability. The Creators Leadership Mastermind is designed for people with a meaningful project, goal, or next chapter they're ready to actually follow through on. Book a short call with Kate to learn more and see whether the room is right for you. 📚 Get my book Beyond Potential 🎯 Interested in a 90-minute Strategy Session? or DM me "Strategy" 📩 Subscribe to my weekly newsletter, The Weekend List 📸 Instagram: @kkayaian

    Episode 130: How to Build Your Next Chapter While Living Your Current One

  5. Sep 7

    Episode 129: My Favorite Back-to-School Rituals for Grown-Ups

    Remember the thrill of a brand-new Trapper Keeper, freshly sharpened pencils, new clothes, new classes, and walking into school knowing you were officially one grade older? Why did we stop getting that feeling just because we grew up? In Episode 129 of Tales from The Lane, Kate takes a playful look at the internet's obsession with "September resets" and asks what back-to-school season could look like for those of us whose lives require slightly more maintenance than washing the duvet cover, restocking the fridge, and taking a hot-girl walk. Because while a Saturday reset probably isn't going to overhaul a grown-up life, there is something powerful about using these natural moments of transition to notice where we are, shake up our routines, and decide who we want to become next. Kate shares seven ways she's harnessing that back-to-school energy this September, including: Choosing something new to learn or improve Picking up an "extracurricular" purely because it's fun Finding your grown-up version of the new Trapper Keeper Refreshing your wardrobe without buying an entirely new one Using scent to mark a new season Renewing old friendships and making room for new ones Creating your own step-up ceremony to celebrate how much you've grown Kate also reflects on her own six-year evolution from professional cellist and teacher to coach, author, speaker, podcaster, and entrepreneur, and the throughlines she can finally see emerging from all of the experiments along the way. Because you didn't become the person you are today overnight. And you're not done becoming her. If this episode has you excited about what's next, enrollment is open for the Creators Leadership Mastermind, officially beginning in October. But you don't have to wait until then to start benefiting from the group, office hours, conversations, and accountability. The Creators Leadership Mastermind is designed for people with a meaningful project, goal, or next chapter they're ready to actually follow through on. Book a short call with Kate to learn more and see whether the room is right for you. 📚 Get my book Beyond Potential 🎯 Interested in a 90-minute Strategy Session? or DM me "Strategy" 📩 Subscribe to my weekly newsletter, The Weekend List 📸 Instagram: @kkayaian

    Episode 129: My Favorite Back-to-School Rituals for Grown-Ups

  6. Aug 31

    Episode 128: How to Design Your Calendar for the Results You Want

    What if you could predict where you'll be six months from now simply by looking at your calendar today? In this episode of Tales from The Lane, Kate walks through four common ways we manage our calendars, from allowing everyone else to determine how we spend our days to creating wildly ambitious schedules that leave no room for being human. Then she shares a practical framework for building a calendar around the results you actually want: WHO: Who needs your time and attention? WHY: Why do you want what you say you want? WHAT: What actually deserves a place in this season of your life? WHEN: Where will it realistically fit? HOW: What habits, systems, and accountability will help you follow through? This isn't about optimizing every minute of your day. It's about building a week that can actually support the life you say you want. And at the end of the episode, Kate gives you one question to answer: If I keep spending my time this way, am I going to like the results I have a year from now? Ready to make your biggest goal part of the plan? Enrollment is open for the Creators Leadership Mastermind, officially beginning in October. But you don't have to wait until then to start benefiting from the group, office hours, conversations, and accountability. The Creators Leadership Mastermind is designed for people with a meaningful project, goal, or next chapter they're ready to actually follow through on. Book a short call with Kate to learn more and see whether the room is right for you. 📚 Get my book Beyond Potential 🎯 Interested in a 90-minute Strategy Session? or DM me "Strategy" 📩 Subscribe to my weekly newsletter, The Weekend List 📸 Instagram: @kkayaian

    Episode 128: How to Design Your Calendar for the Results You Want

  7. Aug 24

    Episode 127: The Success Cycle: When to Invest, When to Test, and When to Rest

    Are you supposed to be hustling right now...or resting? Should you be launching something, learning something, or stepping away for a while? Spend enough time watching other successful people online, and you'll find completely contradictory advice. One person is pulling all-nighters during a massive launch. Someone else is spending the summer at the lake house while their business runs without them. Another successful creator disappears for months, only to emerge with a new book, project, or idea. So...which one are we supposed to be doing? In this episode of Tales from The Lane, Kate introduces a framework she's noticed playing out again and again in successful careers, businesses, creative practices, and even in nature: Invest. Test. Rest. You'll learn how to recognize which phase you're currently in, why each one matters, and what happens when you get stuck in one phase for too long. Kate shares how investing in Beyond Potential eventually created opportunities for speaking, coaching, and visibility; why learning without eventually testing what you've learned can leave even incredibly smart people frustrated; and why rest isn't something you earn after you've exhausted yourself. It's an essential part of the cycle that allows you to evaluate what happened and prepare for what comes next. You'll also hear: How to tell the difference between a purchase and an investment Why successful careers require repeated periods of learning and experimentation The danger of becoming a perpetual student Why testing requires visibility, action, and sometimes a little hustle How intentional rest helps you capture what you've learned How Invest, Test, and Rest can overlap in different areas of your life A simple exercise for identifying your next investment, experiment, and period of rest Ready to invest in your next level? The Creators Leadership Mastermind is designed for people with a meaningful project, goal, or next chapter they're ready to actually follow through on. Book a short call with Kate to learn more and see whether the room is right for you. 📚 Get my book Beyond Potential 🎯 Interested in a 90-minute Strategy Session? or DM me "Strategy" 📩 Subscribe to my weekly newsletter, The Weekend List 📸 Instagram: @kkayaian

    Episode 127: The Success Cycle: When to Invest, When to Test, and When to Rest

  8. Aug 17

    Episode 126: What Nature Can Teach Us About How We Work, with Mary Cay Durrant

    This week on Tales from The Lane, I'm joined by speaker, facilitator, and transformational leadership guide Mary Cay Durrant, whose work has touched thousands of senior leaders at more than 100 organizations, including Deloitte, Pepsi, KPMG, Children's Hospital Los Angeles, and Seattle Children's Hospital. Mary Cay spent years succeeding inside the corporate world while privately realizing that something was missing: joy, wonder, and a sense of being fully alive. An unexpected experience with horses changed the way she thought about leadership, work, and transformation and eventually led her to develop her Vibrant W.O.R.K. model, a framework inspired by living systems, neuroscience, and the patterns we see everywhere in nature. In this conversation, we explore: Why successful people can become disconnected from their own sense of aliveness What nature can teach us about careers, change, and letting go Why telling yourself the truth is often the beginning of transformation Mary Cay's four-part Vibrant W.O.R.K. model How to distinguish hard work that's draining you from hard work that's growing you Why relationships matter even more when you're becoming someone new The fascinating transformation of a caterpillar and what its "imaginal cells" can teach us about reinvention Why Mary Cay thinks we should pay more attention to ROE: Return on Energy How wonder, play, curiosity, and experimentation can change the way we experience work And perhaps most importantly, we talk about something that so many mid-career high achievers need to hear: Sometimes transformation really does feel like beating your wings against the inside of a cocoon. You can't see what's waiting on the other side yet. But that doesn't mean the work isn't working. Follow Mary Cay Durrant on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marycaydurrant/ Check out her website: MaryCayDurrant.com   📚 Get my book Beyond Potential 🎯 Interested in a 90-minute Strategy Session? or DM me "Strategy" 📩 Subscribe to my weekly newsletter, The Weekend List 📸 Instagram: @kkayaian

    Episode 126: What Nature Can Teach Us About How We Work, with Mary Cay Durrant
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Welcome to Tales from The Lane—the podcast for high performers who are ready to build a life that's not just impressive on paper, but deeply fulfilling. I'm your host, Kate Kayaian—former professional cellist turned writer, coach, and strategist for people who've already achieved a lot… and are now asking, What's next? Each week, we dive into the mindset, habits, and strategies of high-achieving creatives, entrepreneurs, athletes, and leaders who are committed to playing at the top of their game without burning out, selling out, or slowing down their growth. You'll hear solo episodes packed with insights and tools, candid conversations with industry trailblazers, and the kind of honest talk most successful people don't get to have anywhere else. If you're here to pursue excellence on your terms—to lead, to grow, and to thrive—this is your show. Subscribe to Tales from The Lane and join a global community of high performers building meaningful, sustainable success.

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  • Creator
    Kate Kayaian
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    134
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    © 2024
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