Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws Podcast

Miriam Susan
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The Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws Podcast is your sanctuary for navigating the stormy seas of toxic relationships with your in-laws. Join your host, a seasoned Catholic wife who's weathered 3 decades of turbulence, as we tackle the tough issues of dealing with your in-laws head-on. Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws is an independent podcast hosted by a Catholic laywoman. It is not an official apostolate, ministry, or publication of the Catholic Church or any diocese, and does not represent the views or teachings of any ecclesiastical authority.

  1. 1d ago

    Episode 126: Why Can't I Forgive My Toxic In-Laws?

    In this episode of the Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws Podcast, host Miriam Susan explores the difficult question: why can’t I forgive my toxic in-laws? Drawing from her own journey and nearly three decades of experience, she breaks down the myths surrounding forgiveness, clarifies the difference between forgiveness and reconciliation, and addresses the guilt and grief many women feel when dealing with toxic family members. If you’re struggling to move past the pain caused by in-laws, this episode offers practical, faith-based guidance and the validation you’ve been seeking. This podcast is the personal apostolic work of Miriam Susan, a Catholic laywoman and convert. Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws is not an official ministry, apostolate, or publication of the Catholic Church or any diocesan or ecclesiastical body. Nothing shared here should be understood as representing the official teaching authority of the Church. All content reflects the personal experience, faith journey, and perspective of the host alone. Resources & Links: If you liked this video, then you’ll love this FREE 5-Day Email Course: https://desiringpeace.com/free-course Tired of feeling like you're the only one who sees the dysfunction of your husband's family? You're not alone, and you're not crazy. Join Catholic Wives + Toxic In-Laws - a supportive community where you can finally speak honestly about your in-law struggles without judgment or being told to "just offer it up." Get validation from women who truly understand, practical boundary strategies rooted in Catholic teaching, and the peace you've been praying for. Founding member pricing is available now. Join us at toxicinlaws.com For a transcript of today's episode, visit https://www.DesiringPeace.com/episodes

    28 min

  2. Jun 6

    Episode 125: Am I the Problem?

    In this episode of the Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws Podcast, host Miriam Susan tackles the crucial question, "Am I the problem?" when navigating difficult relationships with toxic in-laws. Drawing from her own experiences and relatable examples, she helps listeners understand why asking this question is actually a sign of self-awareness and not guilt. With thoughtful reflections and scriptural wisdom, Miriam Susan offers validation and encouragement for Catholic wives who have been labeled as the source of family drama, guiding them toward clarity and peace. If you've ever wrestled with doubt in your in-law relationships, this episode will help you find reassurance and a sense of community. This podcast is the personal apostolic work of Miriam Susan, a Catholic laywoman and convert. Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws is not an official ministry, apostolate, or publication of the Catholic Church or any diocesan or ecclesiastical body. Nothing shared here should be understood as representing the official teaching authority of the Church. All content reflects the personal experience, faith journey, and perspective of the host alone. Resources & Links: If you liked this video, then you’ll love this FREE 5-Day Email Course: https://desiringpeace.com/free-course Tired of feeling like you're the only one who sees the dysfunction of your husband's family? You're not alone, and you're not crazy. Join Catholic Wives + Toxic In-Laws - a supportive community where you can finally speak honestly about your in-law struggles without judgment or being told to "just offer it up." Get validation from women who truly understand, practical boundary strategies rooted in Catholic teaching, and the peace you've been praying for. Founding member pricing is available now. Join us at toxicinlaws.com For a transcript of today's episode, visit https://www.DesiringPeace.com/episodes

    29 min

  3. May 30

    Episode 124: The Hidden Cost of Choosing Toxic Parents Over Your Children

    In this episode of the Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws Podcast, host Miriam Susan explores the hidden cost of choosing toxic parents or in-laws over your own children. She shares personal stories and practical insights on how trying to keep the peace with toxic family members can quietly drain your energy from your marriage, children, and faith. With nearly three decades of experience navigating in-law drama, Miriam encourages listeners to recognize these patterns and set healthy boundaries. This episode will help you gain much-needed awareness and clarity so you can prioritize what matters most without guilt. This podcast is the personal apostolic work of Miriam Susan, a Catholic laywoman and convert. Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws is not an official ministry, apostolate, or publication of the Catholic Church or any diocesan or ecclesiastical body. Nothing shared here should be understood as representing the official teaching authority of the Church. All content reflects the personal experience, faith journey, and perspective of the host alone. Resources & Links: If you liked this video, then you’ll love this FREE 5-Day Email Course: https://desiringpeace.com/free-course Tired of feeling like you're the only one who sees the dysfunction of your husband's family? You're not alone, and you're not crazy. Join Catholic Wives + Toxic In-Laws - a supportive community where you can finally speak honestly about your in-law struggles without judgment or being told to "just offer it up." Get validation from women who truly understand, practical boundary strategies rooted in Catholic teaching, and the peace you've been praying for. Founding member pricing is available now. Join us at toxicinlaws.com For a transcript of today's episode, visit https://www.DesiringPeace.com/episodes

    39 min

  4. May 23

    Episode 123: When Toxic Grandma Makes You the Bad Guy in Front of Your Kids

    In this episode of the Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws Podcast, host Miriam Susan explores the painful reality of being made the "bad guy" by toxic grandparents in front of your own children. She shares real-life examples and practical wisdom from her decades of experience navigating these difficult family dynamics. If you've ever felt undermined by a grandparent or doubted your instincts, this episode offers validation, encouragement, and faith-based guidance to help you protect the sacred bond with your children. Resources & Links: If you liked this video, then you’ll love this FREE 5-Day Email Course: https://desiringpeace.com/free-course Tired of feeling like you're the only one who sees the dysfunction of your husband's family? You're not alone, and you're not crazy. Join Catholic Wives + Toxic In-Laws - a supportive community where you can finally speak honestly about your in-law struggles without judgment or being told to "just offer it up." Get validation from women who truly understand, practical boundary strategies rooted in Catholic teaching, and the peace you've been praying for. Founding member pricing is available now. Join us at toxicinlaws.com For a transcript of today's episode, visit https://www.DesiringPeace.com/episodes

    31 min

  5. May 16

    Episode 122: The Slow Game: How Toxic Grandparents Chip Away at Your Children Over Time

    In this episode of the Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws Podcast, host Miriam Susan explores the subtle but powerful ways toxic grandparents can erode your relationship with your children over time. Drawing from over twenty years of personal experience, she unpacks the “slow game” of micro-moves and loyalty wedges that often go unnoticed but have lasting effects. Listeners will find validation for their concerns and practical wisdom for recognizing damaging patterns, all within the framework of Catholic family values. If you’ve ever doubted your gut about changes in your children after grandparent visits, this episode is for you. Chapters:00:00 – Introduction to the slow game of toxic grandparents00:34 – Defining “toxic”: intention behind the word and scope of the series01:34 – Scriptural reflection from Sirach and the slow emergence of grandparental toxicity02:50 – Recognizing the “long game” and subtle shifts in children’s attitudes04:00 – Micro-moves: the chess analogy and small, cumulative undermining actions05:49 – The impact of a thousand minor slights: why patterns matter06:37 – Are you imagining it? Self-doubt, projection, and trusting your observations07:50 – The “loyalty wedge”: how toxic grandparents quietly split allegiance08:58 – Covert manipulation versus direct undermining—why this is so insidious10:18 – Redirection of authority: children’s innate trust and slow realignment11:54 – Disordered family roles: boundaries, authority, and God’s intended structure13:17 – How to start recognizing and naming patterns of toxic influence15:12 – Confusion and emotional fallout for children when boundaries are enforced16:44 – Collecting evidence: why noticing patterns is not about confrontation17:43 – Real-life examples of subtle grandparent undermining and its effect18:33 – When recurring boundary violations become genuinely toxic18:43 – Returning to Sirach: consistency, manipulation, and spiritual wisdom19:44 – Spotting inconsistent behavior and distinguishing “quirks” from manipulation21:31 – Community invitation: support, affirmation, and boundaries for Catholic wives22:35 – What you can control: boundaries, access, and your response23:28 – The accusation of “withholding grandkids” and reclaiming your role as protector24:33 – Disclaimer and reminder to seek professional support when needed Resources & Links: If you liked this video, then you’ll love this FREE 5-Day Email Course: https://desiringpeace.com/free-course Tired of feeling like you're the only one who sees the dysfunction of your husband's family? You're not alone, and you're not crazy. Join Catholic Wives + Toxic In-Laws - a supportive community where you can finally speak honestly about your in-law struggles without judgment or being told to "just offer it up." Get validation from women who truly understand, practical boundary strategies rooted in Catholic teaching, and the peace you've been praying for. Founding member pricing is available now. Join us at toxicinlaws.com For a transcript of today's episode, visit https://www.DesiringPeace.com/episodes

    25 min

  6. May 9

    Episode 121: Are Toxic Grandparents Running Your Parenting Show?

    In this episode of the Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws Podcast, host Miriam Susan explores the challenges of dealing with toxic grandparents who try to overstep their boundaries and influence your parenting decisions. She draws on personal stories and Catholic teaching to help you recognize unhealthy patterns and reclaim your God-given authority as a parent. If you're struggling with in-laws who undermine your rules or make you feel guilty for setting boundaries, this episode will offer practical encouragement and scriptural support. Resources & Links: If you liked this video, then you’ll love this FREE 5-Day Email Course: https://desiringpeace.com/free-course Tired of feeling like you're the only one who sees the dysfunction of your husband's family? You're not alone, and you're not crazy. Join Catholic Wives + Toxic In-Laws - a supportive community where you can finally speak honestly about your in-law struggles without judgment or being told to "just offer it up." Get validation from women who truly understand, practical boundary strategies rooted in Catholic teaching, and the peace you've been praying for. Founding member pricing is available now. Join us at toxicinlaws.com For a transcript of today's episode, visit https://www.DesiringPeace.com/episodes

    30 min

  7. May 2

    Episode 120: Why You Keep Letting It Go with Toxic In-Laws

    In this episode of the Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws Podcast, host Miriam Susan explores why so many Catholic wives continually "let it go" when dealing with toxic in-laws, especially toxic grandparents. Drawing from her own decades of experience and listener questions, Miriam Susan unpacks the confusion that comes from mixed signals and offers practical insights on reclaiming your peace and trusting your instincts. If you often downplay hurtful behavior because of occasional kindness, this episode will help you recognize harmful patterns and encourage you to set healthier boundaries with charity and self-respect. Resources & Links: If you liked this video, then you’ll love this FREE 5-Day Email Course: https://desiringpeace.com/free-course Tired of feeling like you're the only one who sees the dysfunction of your husband's family? You're not alone, and you're not crazy. Join Catholic Wives + Toxic In-Laws - a supportive community where you can finally speak honestly about your in-law struggles without judgment or being told to "just offer it up." Get validation from women who truly understand, practical boundary strategies rooted in Catholic teaching, and the peace you've been praying for. Founding member pricing is available now. Join us at toxicinlaws.com For a transcript of today's episode, visit https://www.DesiringPeace.com/episodes

    22 min

  8. Apr 25

    Episode 119: When Keeping the Peace with Toxic Family Costs You Everything

    In this episode of the Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws Podcast, we explore the hidden costs of maintaining peace with toxic family members. Miriam Susan discusses the importance of prioritizing your own family's well-being and spiritual health over toxic dynamics, offering insights on setting boundaries and reorienting loyalty. Chapters: 00:00 - Introduction to the series on toxic families as idols 2:25 - The high cost of trying to keep peace with toxic family members 3:21 - Scriptural reflection from Galatians on seeking human approval 4:20 - How self-erasure manifests in toxic family dynamics 5:28 - The ripple effect of losing oneself and the false peace it creates 6:17 - The importance of honoring parents without enabling toxic behaviors 7:12 - Practical ways to reflect well on difficult in-laws and set boundaries 8:36 - Is the peace we seek genuine or just an absence of conflict? 10:10 - The treadmill of emotional exhaustion and running in place 11:27 - Recognizing honesty in calling out toxic peacekeeping efforts 12:22 - Patterns of reciprocal relationships with toxic family members 13:23 - Addressing the pattern of favoritism and enmeshment in family culture 14:40 - Redefining loyalty and proper family order in Christ’s design 15:39 - The importance of physical distance and emotional reorientation 16:28 - How to shift loyalty from parents to your spouse and children 17:34 - The challenge of breaking lifelong programming and family cycles 19:04 - Viewing your role as part of divine planning for generational change 20:16 - The reassurance: it’s not about you, but about spiritual warfare 21:20 - Invitation to join the community for support and practical training Resources & Links: If you liked this video, then you’ll love this FREE 5-Day Email Course: https://desiringpeace.com/free-course Tired of feeling like you're the only one who sees the dysfunction of your husband's family? You're not alone, and you're not crazy. Join Catholic Wives + Toxic In-Laws - a supportive community where you can finally speak honestly about your in-law struggles without judgment or being told to "just offer it up." Get validation from women who truly understand, practical boundary strategies rooted in Catholic teaching, and the peace you've been praying for. Founding member pricing is available now. Join us at toxicinlaws.com For a transcript of today's episode, visit https://www.DesiringPeace.com/episodes

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The Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws Podcast is your sanctuary for navigating the stormy seas of toxic relationships with your in-laws. Join your host, a seasoned Catholic wife who's weathered 3 decades of turbulence, as we tackle the tough issues of dealing with your in-laws head-on. Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws is an independent podcast hosted by a Catholic laywoman. It is not an official apostolate, ministry, or publication of the Catholic Church or any diocese, and does not represent the views or teachings of any ecclesiastical authority.

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