Growth Instigators Hotline

Aaron Havens
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Welcome to the Growth Instigators Hotline, where we ignite your personal and professional development. For more resources, visit growthinstigators.com. Keep instigating growth in all you do.

  1. 2d ago

    You'll feel better for it

    There’s a number you’ve been avoiding, and it’s still doing what it’s doing without you. It might be your bank balance, your weight, your sales pipeline, a health metric, or the conversation you keep postponing because you already know what you’re going to hear. I call it “the number,” and the hard truth is simple: avoiding it doesn’t make it smaller, easier, or safer.  I break down why we dodge the very information that could help us most, and how that avoidance quietly taxes us every day. That low-level mental buzz of “I should probably look at that” steals energy, focus, and confidence. The surprising payoff is that checking the number is usually less scary than the story we build around it, and the moment it becomes real, it becomes workable. Clarity beats fog every time.  You’ll hear a practical, five-minute challenge to open the account, step on the scale, ask the question, or pull the report, without turning it into a shame spiral. We’re not chasing perfection here, we’re choosing honesty and then taking one step forward from where we actually are, not from where we’ve been pretending to be. If you want support while you face it, I also share how to get me in your corner as a growth coach.  If this helps, subscribe for more short, direct coaching, share it with a friend who’s dodging a “number,” and leave a review so more people can find the show. What’s the one thing you’ll look at honestly today? https://growthinstigators.com/

    You'll feel better for it

  2. Oct 13

    Sometimes The Smartest Move Is To Stop

    We challenge the reflex to push harder when something stops working and explain why extra effort can become the obstacle. We use a simple proverb and one powerful question to help us choose a smarter path instead of grinding ourselves down. • the idea that more effort is not always the answer • how hard work can become a blindfold that hides the real problem • the “chase two rabbits” proverb as a warning about scattered focus • the quiet power move of stopping long enough to ask better questions • a practical gut check on whether work is moving us forward or wearing us down You can find me over at growthinstigators.com. Click on book a call, and I'd love to chat with you. https://growthinstigators.com/

    Sometimes The Smartest Move Is To Stop

  3. Oct 8

    What If Being “Done Learning” Is Aging You Faster

    The fastest way to stall your growth is shockingly simple: start believing you can’t be taught. Aaron Havens delivers a sharp, motivating message on how experience can quietly turn into certainty and why that mindset, not your age or skill level, is the moment you stop getting better. We talk through the weird thing that happens when you’ve been doing something for years. You collect wins, scars, and stories, and without realizing it, you start guarding your reputation instead of expanding your ability. Aaron brings in Henry Ford’s idea that “anyone who keeps learning stays young,” and flips it into a practical leadership lesson: staying curious is a form of staying alive. Whether you’re building a career, leading a team, or trying to improve as a parent or partner, coachability is the skill beneath all other skills. You’ll also hear why humility isn’t weakness, it’s leverage. The strongest professionals can sit in the expert seat and still ask, “Teach me that.” They let a younger coworker, a new hire, or even their own kid show them a better way without shrinking their identity. That posture keeps your growth mindset real, your personal development active, and your work relevant as the world changes. Take the question Aaron asks and use it as a reset: what’s one area where you’ve quietly decided you have nothing left to learn? If this helped, subscribe for more, share it with a friend who’s “already good at it,” and leave a review so more people can find the show. https://growthinstigators.com/

    What If Being “Done Learning” Is Aging You Faster

  4. Sep 30

    Stop Winging It

    Winging it can feel like confidence: stay loose, keep options open, decide in the moment. But there’s a side of “flexibility” we don’t like to admit the part where other people are stuck guessing, waiting, redoing work, and carrying stress we never named. Message 627 is a short, sharp reminder that our habits don’t exist in a vacuum, especially when we lead teams, build companies, or share life with people who care about the outcome. I walk through why improvisation often “works” for the person doing it while quietly exhausting everyone nearby. When direction changes aren’t communicated, the cost shows up as confusion, second-guessing, and emotional labor. I also add a hard truth to the classic Benjamin Franklin line about preparation: when we don’t plan, we’re usually not the only ones who eat the failure. The most affected people are often the best ones the reliable teammates, partners, and friends who can’t stand to let things drop. Then we flip the frame. A little clarity isn’t rigidity or control. It’s refusing to make someone else carry the weight of your vagueness. Two minutes of clear direction, a quick plan, or a simple “here’s what I need” can protect trust, reduce burnout, and improve communication fast. If you want help building that clarity muscle, I share where to find me. Subscribe, share this with someone who leads, and leave a review if it helps and what’s one thing you’ll make clearer today? https://growthinstigators.com/

    Stop Winging It

  5. Sep 28

    Get Clear On Who You Are

    The fastest way to lose your life on paper is to keep saying “yes” in tiny moments you barely notice. We dig into how it happens, not through one big mistake, but through a thousand little pulls: cover this, jump on that, be here, take this on. None of it is necessarily bad, and a lot of it is even good. But every request quietly tugs you in a direction, and if you don’t know yours, you drift toward whatever is loudest.  We walk through a simple, powerful idea: when you know who you are, the world can’t talk you into being someone else. That kind of identity clarity is more than motivation, it’s a practical decision-making tool. When you’re clear on your values, what you’re for, and who you’re becoming, you stop agonizing over every ask. You’re not bargaining with guilt or convenience. The right opportunities get a clean yes, and the wrong ones start to bounce off because they no longer match your direction.  We close with a challenge that turns insight into action: if you got crystal clear on who you are, what’s the first thing you’d finally say no to? Hit play, take the question seriously, then share it with someone who needs a stronger anchor. Subscribe for more, and if this helped, leave a review so more people can find the Growth Instigators Hotline. https://growthinstigators.com/

    Get Clear On Who You Are

  6. Sep 23

    The Power Of Stepping Back

    The fastest way to feel like a great leader is to fix everything. The most effective way to build strong people is to stop doing that. We dig into a deceptively simple idea: stepping back can be an act of real care because it creates the room someone else needs to step up. We talk through the subtle trap of “helpful” leadership and how it can turn into enabling without you noticing. When you constantly jump in, take over, or do it better and faster, you may be removing the exact practice someone needs to grow. Competence is built through repetition, mistakes, and recovery. Whether you’re managing a team, mentoring a new hire, parenting, or leading a volunteer group, this message hits the core of empowerment, delegation, and a true growth mindset. We also explore the uncomfortable motive behind overhelping: sometimes we step in to soothe our own discomfort, not to serve the other person’s development. Then we offer a practical challenge and a pointed question you can use today to spot where you’re stealing someone’s learning. If you care about leadership development, coaching, and building self-sufficient teams, this one is a must-listen. Subscribe, share this with someone who leads, and leave a review with the moment that made you rethink how you “help.” https://growthinstigators.com/

    The Power Of Stepping Back

  7. Sep 16

    Structure Creates Freedom

    Freedom sounds like no rules, no routine, no structure. But live that way for a week and see what shows up: surprise bills, slipped priorities, and that constant feeling of reacting to problems you could have prevented. We dig into a deceptively simple idea that flips the whole story, structure isn’t the opposite of freedom, it’s what makes freedom possible. Aaron Havens (Growth Instigators Hotline, Message 624) unpacks why “Discipline equals freedom” is not a motivational poster, it’s a strategy for real life. When you build systems during calm moments, you buy yourself breathing room when the storm hits. We talk about the habits you do not have to think about, the routines that run themselves, and why a little intentional structure can feel like getting your life back rather than losing flexibility. You’ll leave with a clear reflection question to apply today: what’s one area where a little structure would actually give you more freedom, not less? If you want support building the kind of routines and systems that stick, Aaron shares how he helps as a growth coach with one-on-one work, team support, and retreats. Subscribe for more quick, practical coaching, share this with a friend who feels buried by chaos, and leave a review with the one routine you’re committing to next. https://growthinstigators.com/

    Structure Creates Freedom

  8. Sep 15

    One Breath Before You Move

    Your biggest mistakes rarely happen because you moved too slowly. They happen because pressure convinces you that speed equals strength, and you sprint past the truth sitting right in front of you. We unpack a simple but counterintuitive idea: the moment you most want to speed up is usually the moment you most need to slow down.  When something goes sideways and everyone is waiting, hurry can feel like leadership. But we look at what’s really driving that rush. A lot of the time it isn’t courage at all. It’s fear in a convincing disguise, and fear is a terrible driver. It points you toward motion, not direction. We talk through how speed under stress hides warning signs, muffles that quiet “something’s off” signal, and sets you up for cleanup work you never needed to create. If you care about decision making under pressure, leadership, productivity, and stress management, this is a fast listen with a lasting reset.  We also borrow a hard earned principle often associated with Navy SEAL wisdom: slow is smooth, and smooth is fast. Slowing down doesn’t mean freezing or being passive. It means creating just enough space to see clearly and act on purpose. The practical takeaway is a one breath pause, followed by one question: are we moving toward something meaningful, or just moving to make discomfort stop? If you want support building that kind of clarity when the pressure spikes, I share how to connect with me for growth coaching. Subscribe, share this with someone who’s sprinting right now, and leave a review so more people can find it. https://growthinstigators.com/

    One Breath Before You Move
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Welcome to the Growth Instigators Hotline, where we ignite your personal and professional development. For more resources, visit growthinstigators.com. Keep instigating growth in all you do.

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  • Creator
    Aaron Havens
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    628
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