获取全部文本资料公众号搜索:yymaster888 Hey, Dad. How are you doing? Is lunch ready? I am really hungry. No, it's not ready. And what is this mess? Why haven't you cleaned your room? Me clean my room? Why would I do that? Jenna does it for me. Jenna the housekeeper. No, you have to clean your room, Brian. Why? It's her work and she's a woman. Men don't clean. Relax that. What? Men don't clean? Where did you get that from? Who told you something like that? Oh, calm down, Dad. Forget it. I have to tell you something. Listen. I met this beautiful girl. She's in fourth grade. I like her a lot. She's my new girlfriend. Well, not yet, but she will be. I told her to go out with me. We will go to the movies. That's why I want to ask you for something. I need money, please. Just $50. You met a beautiful girl. You're talking about Patty, right? Your girlfriend. Patty? No, of course not. She's not my girlfriend anymore. I haven't told her yet, but she will know. I don't care. I like the other girl. Wait a minute. Patty is still your girlfriend then. And you're cheating on her? That's what you mean, right? You are dating a different girl and Patty doesn't know it. Well, kind of. But yeah, it's normal. We are men. We usually do that. You told me I have to start behaving like a man. Well, I did it. Are you proud of me? Are you kidding? That's not what being a man means. You are wrong. I never told you to do those kind of things. I don't do those kind of things. Don't get angry, Dad. I read that in a book. I thought I was doing the right thing. Oh my god. All right. I will have to tell you what being a real man means, son. A real man is a man with genuine self-confidence and true masculinity. He's a man who knows his own mind and knows what he's about in life and he's not afraid to stand up for what he believes in. And very important, it's not all about looks, money, and his status. If you ask a guy to describe a real man, he will often begin to imagine a handsome man with a high-paying job, a chiseled jaw, and a great sense of fashion. That's what is fed to us via the media. TV commercials, glossy magazine ads, billboards, and Hollywood movies in general all send out the message that success with women comes down to being a good-looking guy who earns a lot of money. Most women are interested in who a guy is on the inside, not just how he presents himself on the outside. If a rich, good-looking guy approaches a woman and then struggles to string a sentence together because he's shy and nervous, most women aren't going to be interested. Fighter spirit. Failures are nothing but great stories to be told once you are successful. Real men fall. They fail, but they never stop. No matter how hard life punches you, a real man strikes back even harder every time until he succeeds. A real man is a survivor. Standing up for your beliefs. A real man isn't ashamed of who he is. He embraces himself and wouldn't compromise his beliefs for any acceptance from the world around. He has the guts to stand against all odds to support what he truly believes in. Integrity. A real man doesn't demand respect. He commands it. He always keeps his words. When he makes a promise, he keeps it. He knows the importance of words and chooses them carefully. That's what builds his character. Also important, mental strength. It is hard to break a man. He may be sensitive, but he's strong enough to not let his emotional breakdowns get the better of him. His mind is his superpower. Every rough race in life only makes him stronger than ever before. Taking what is yours. Nobody in this world has the power to rob a man of what he truly deserves in life. A real man never lets anybody take him for a ride. He knows how to take what belongs to him. Accepting failure. A real man doesn't play the blame game. He has the courage to own up to his mistakes. He knows that his problems are consequences of his own doings. Yeah. Rather than talking about how unfair life is, he accepts his failure and works towards taking life by the horns. Knowing your worth. A real man always knows his true worth. He knows what he's good at and he knows what he deserves in life. He knows what he's born to do and he excels at it. Knowing what is right. A real man is wise enough to separate his personal bias from what is right. He's always informed enough to take the right decision. A real man is not defined by brawn. You don't need to have a killer body to be macho, neither a beard. It's the attitude that counts. Being violent with people or abusing them is not a sign of strength. It is in fact a proof of your weakness as a man. You know how they say boys don't cry? Well, that's nonsense. You know why? A real man is never insecure about being judged for his sensitive side. Men aren't heartless. A real man respects everyone, including, of course, his girlfriend. He takes care of her. He never makes her cry and he protects her all the time. That's what a real man does. So stop saying you are a real man because you can be with more than one girl at the same time. That's for cowardly and stupid people. Do you understand what I'm talking about? Yes, Dad. I'm sorry. I thought I was a real man, but now I know. Don't worry, son. You're still a teenager. You will learn with time, I am sure. We all make mistakes. Now, go talk to this girl and to Patty. Tell them the truth. Tell her to forgive you and face the consequences. That's what a real man does. Go. What a sunny day. I think I will make some lemonade. Do you want some? Yes, Dad. Thank you. By the way, why do you always wear a suit? What do you mean? I always wear like this. Don't you like it? It's a nice suit. Yeah, it's nice, but it's not cool. It's sunny, Dad. Don't you think you should be wearing a t-shirt, shorts, or sandals? You don't work today. Yeah, I don't work today, but I always wear like this. Well, not always. There was a time I didn't use to wear formal, when I was studying at the university. Really? I don't believe you. I always remember you wearing this suit. Oh, it was before you were born. Before I met your mother. In fact, there is a good reason why I always wear formal. It all started in the university with your mom. Seriously, you never told me about your story. My mom and you. Tell me. It was a long time ago when your mother and I studied at the university. We studied together. The first day of classes, I didn't notice her. I met a lot of people, my partners. But I don't know where your mother was. She said she was there, but I don't remember. Anyway, as I told you before, I used to wear jeans, baggy pants, and t-shirts. Soon I met your mother in one of our classes. We were friends, not best friends—at least not immediately. I had other friends. I spent time with them and with your mom. I talked to her, but only about the classes, homework, projects, and exams. The first time I saw her, I thought she was a nice person. But just that. I didn't find her so beautiful. I mean, she was beautiful and I knew it, but there was nothing special about her that made me fall in love with her. She used to wear glasses to study. I called her "Glasses." That was her nickname. Soon we became good friends. We used to talk a lot. We studied for the exams together at the library. We sat together. With time, we became best friends. We loved to spend time together, but only as friends. One day she had a problem. She said her glasses were broken, and they were. So she wasn't wearing her glasses that day. That's when I noticed something. I could see her eyes. I had never seen her eyes like that before. She was always wearing glasses. Man, she had the most beautiful eyes I had ever seen in my life. Seriously, I don't know what had happened, but I liked her as a woman. I started to see her as a woman, not like a friend anymore. I liked her a lot. And she was an awesome girl. I knew it. She was very intelligent. I had to study hard to pass my exams, but she didn't have to do it.