Say It Skillfully®

Molly Tschang

Molly Tschang's Say It Skillfully® is a show that helps you benefit from Molly's guidance on the best possible ways to speak your mind at work in a positive and productive manner. She helps everyone from CEOs to interns to recognize that we are all both part of the problem as well as the solution, and that the path to solving any problem is to say what needs to be said. Molly is a rare breed: tough enough to advise CEOs and company boards, but empathetic enough to understand the human costs of not allowing talent to shine. She has helped dozens of management teams navigate the human after-effects of mergers and acquisitions, and her show brings her expert guidance to a wider audience.

  1. 4H AGO

    230 Say It Skillfully® – Sandy Ogg - A Curveball Journey to Leading with Impact

    In episode 230 of Say It Skillfully®, Molly welcomes back Sandy Ogg, CEO of Curve Sports and founder of CEO.works, for an inspiring conversation about baseball, leadership, and creating opportunity for others. Sandy shares how sports shaped his life from childhood through college, teaching lessons in teamwork, perspective, resilience, and character. He also reflects on how that lifelong connection to baseball evolved into a larger mission: helping underserved young athletes access pathways to education, growth, and opportunity. From stories of youth teams and scholar athletes to reflections on leadership, privilege, AI, and the uniquely human skills that cannot be replaced, Sandy offers a powerful reminder that success is not just about winning games — it’s about helping others discover what is possible. A heartfelt conversation on purpose, impact, and using the gifts we’ve been given to give back. Chapters 00:00 Introduction: Sandy Ogg’s Leadership and Baseball Journey 02:41 Where Sandy’s Love of Baseball Began 04:22 Baseball, Family, and the Coast Guard Academy 06:42 Lessons from Youth Sports and His Father 08:08 Learning Context Beyond Winning 11:16 Coaches, Leadership, and Team Development 13:43 Recognizing an Uneven Playing Field 16:18 Building a Team with Access and Opportunity 17:49 Scholar Athletes, Grades, and College Jerseys 20:33 Life Lessons Beyond the Field 22:05 The Parent-Coach-Athlete Triangle 24:40 Defining What Winning Really Means 26:06 Gratitude, College Jerseys, and a Doorstep Moment 27:59 Realizing the Gift Was Also for Him 30:16 Giving Back to the Sport That Gave So Much 30:50 Curve Sports Foundation and Scaling Impact 33:29 How Others Can Help Young Scholar Athletes 34:35 Scholar Athletes as a National Treasure 36:24 AI, Human Skills, and What Cannot Be Replaced 38:14 Personal Side: Trumpet, Introversion, and Creative Tinkering 42:16 Favorite Food and Childhood Memories 42:59 Top Takeaway: Learn What AI Can’t Replace 45:04 Reflecting on the Conversation 46:24 Molly’s Closing Reflection

    48 min
  2. MAR 10

    228 Say It Skillfully® – Jason Reid: Purpose, Passion & Youth Mental Health

    In Episode 228 of the Say It Skillfully® podcast, Molly welcomes back storyteller, entrepreneur, and founder of Tell My Story, Jason Reid. After the tragic loss of his 14-year-old son Ryan to suicide in 2018, Jason transformed unimaginable grief into a mission to help families better understand youth mental health and create spaces where young people feel seen, valued, and supported. In this powerful and deeply human conversation, Jason shares the inspiration behind his new film Shift: Do What Moves You, which highlights how purpose, passion, and personal interests can help young people rise above depression and anxiety. The discussion explores the importance of creating safe conversations around mental health, the role of parents in supporting their children’s emotional wellbeing, and why having a hobby or passion outside of work or school can be life-changing. Jason also reflects on personal growth, the power of curiosity, and why learning about emerging technologies like AI is essential in a rapidly changing world. From parenting insights to leadership lessons, this episode is filled with practical wisdom for anyone seeking to live more intentionally and help others do the same. Jason’s message is both hopeful and practical: finding what moves you—and encouraging others to do the same—can create profound change in both individual lives and communities. Chapters 00:00 Introduction – Molly welcomes Jason Reid 01:04 Jason on intentional living and personal growth 03:55 Why lifelong learning matters in a rapidly changing world 04:50 Jason’s focus on understanding AI and future technologies 06:09 Navigating political division and understanding different perspectives 08:44 Why everyone should start learning about AI now 09:01 Podcast recommendations for understanding AI 10:39 The origin of Tell My Story after the loss of Jason’s son Ryan 12:40 How parents can start conversations about mental health with kids 15:47 The importance of asking direct questions about suicide 18:52 Why medication alone doesn’t solve mental health struggles 20:20 The inspiration behind the film Shift: Do What Moves You 21:48 Why everyone needs a passion or purpose beyond work 24:32 Jason on hobbies, creativity, and trying new things 26:50 Expanding your life through curiosity and interests 30:05 Finding your aptitudes and creative outlets 32:35 Helping kids discover hobbies and passions 35:14 Self-care and support for adults struggling with mental health 37:06 Therapy, support networks, and unexpected help from AI 39:00 Jason’s advice for aspiring filmmakers and creators 40:57 The impact of Jason’s work and films 41:55 What Jason is most proud of as a leader 43:31 Jason’s final advice: Find what excites you in life 44:16 Closing thoughts and takeaway on AI and the future

    45 min
  3. FEB 17

    227 Say It Skillfully® – Riel Erickson: Courage, Failure & Leading Where the Stakes Are High

    What does it take to lead when the stakes are life-and-death, failure is inevitable, and doubt never fully disappears? In this episode of Say It Skillfully®, Molly sits down with Lieutenant Colonel Riel Erickson — one of Canada’s first female fighter pilots, senior Royal Canadian Air Force officer, instructor, and leadership mentor. Riel shares her extraordinary journey from farm life to the cockpit, revealing the internal battles behind elite performance: self-doubt, fear, identity, and resilience. She explains why embracing failure is essential to growth, how leaders create psychological safety, and what it really means to move from doing the work… to leading people… to shaping institutions. This conversation is a masterclass in grounded leadership, courage under pressure, and using humanity — not perfection — as your greatest strength. You’ll learn: • Why failure can be freeing • How to manage fear instead of eliminating it • The hidden cost of masking to fit in • What great mentors actually do • How leaders scale impact through others If you’ve ever questioned whether you belong in the room, this episode is for you. 00:00 — Introduction: Leadership Where Stakes Are High 00:01 — Riel’s Background & Breaking Barriers 02:09 — International Women’s Forum & Finding Belonging 05:57 — Early Life & Choosing the Military Path 09:17 — Culture Shock of Military Training 11:13 — Hating Pilot Training… at First 12:57 — The Freedom of Detaching Identity from Success 14:16 — “Embrace Failure” as a Life Mantra 15:18 — Discovering Love for Flying & Challenge 16:27 — Family Support & Sacrifice 19:17 — Overcoming Self-Doubt 22:29 — Managing Fear Under Pressure 26:15 — Career Path: From Pilot to Instructor to Leader 29:06 — Being the Only Woman in the Room 32:12 — Leadership & Psychological Safety 34:16 — Moving from Doing → Teaching → Leading Systems 35:32 — Work-Life Integration, Not Balance 40:07 — Mentorship That Changes Careers 44:55 — Why Mentoring Others Matters 47:10 — The Moment She Realized Her Visibility Matters

    1h 6m
  4. JAN 21

    226 Say It Skillfully® – Darcy Verhun: The Power of People-First Leadership

    In this episode of the Say It Skillfully Podcast, Molly sits down with Darcy Verhun — a rare kind of leader who builds companies by putting people first, not as a strategy, but as a way of being. From growing up between city life and the farm in Alberta, to becoming a management consultant for 25 years, to scaling a business to a $2B market cap, Darcy shares the values, habits, and leadership mindset that shaped his journey. Darcy also opens up about leading through culture change inside Canada Diagnostic Centres, why “smiling” became a serious leadership priority, and how small daily behaviors can transform an organization from the inside out. They close with a powerful “say it skillfully” moment: the one question Darcy asks at the end of meetings that can completely change outcomes — and create space for people to finally use their voice. If you’re a leader, coach, or someone trying to build a culture where people feel safe, seen, and motivated to grow — this one’s worth your time. Chapters 00:00 Intro: A leader who builds by putting people first 01:18 How Darcy and Molly met (Marshall Goldsmith connection) 02:39 Darcy’s upbringing: farm life, work ethic, and humility 06:12 The reading rule that became Darcy’s “superpower” 07:03 Sports, skiing, and coaching elite athletes 08:38 Why Darcy’s coaching style is built on stories 10:00 What Darcy learned early: honesty, caring for others, open home 12:13 Mentors and the professor who still challenges him today 14:17 MBA + the unexpected path into consulting 15:21 25 years in consulting: leadership, culture, and hard problems 16:13 The shift from advising to owning the mission 17:13 Purpose as a decision-making compass (“enhancing life”) 20:39 A defining leadership moment: doing the right thing, not the textbook thing 25:43 Entering healthcare: culture challenges + rebuilding trust 29:13 The “CDC” framework: Culture, Deliver Care, Operational Excellence 31:59 “Culture change doesn’t take years—it starts with me” 32:57 Why Darcy focused on smiling first (and why it matters) 35:03 The “High Five” habit: leaders connecting with their teams 37:14 Measuring what matters: Clinic Excellence Index 40:17 Daily Questions: Darcy’s personal growth habit 42:29 Investing in health to lead better (getting back on the bike) 43:37 The best meeting question: “Is there something you’re thinking or feeling you haven’t said?” 45:11 Reading, mountain biking, and being an introvert leader 46:09 The “candy cheat” for connecting with people 46:51 A surprising fun fact: loving winter driving 47:20 Regret: investing more in learning earlier 48:23 Proud moments: family + the people he’s worked with 49:06 Rapid fire: artist life, “Tarzan,” fries + ice cream 50:04 Final takeaway: be yourself and don’t be afraid 51:19 Closing quote + wrap

    53 min
  5. 12/10/2025

    225 Say It Skillfully® – Ron Carucci: Nothing Is Irrevocable Except Death

    In this episode of Say It Skillfully®, host Molly Tschang engages in a deeply human, candid, and inspiring conversation with Ron Carucci — bestselling author, executive coach, and co-founder of Navalent. Together, they trace Ron’s extraordinary journey from a chaotic Long Island childhood to becoming one of the most trusted voices in leadership, organizational transformation, and personal growth. Ron opens up about the trauma and humor of growing up in a loud Italian household, discovering his love for the arts, navigating early career pivots, and finding purpose in helping leaders use their voices to serve the greater good. He shares vulnerable insights about therapy, impostor syndrome, mental health, parenting, marriage, failure, and what it means to truly “play big.” This episode offers profound lessons in honesty, self-compassion, resilience, and leading with integrity. Ron’s wisdom — centered on the belief that “nothing in life is irrevocable except death” — invites listeners to rethink how they show up in their work, relationships, and inner lives. A powerful celebration of growth, shared humanity, and the courage to become who you are meant to be. 00:00 Introduction to Ron Carucci 01:00 Growing Up in a Loud Italian Family 02:51 Childhood Dynamics, Bullying & Identity 04:36 Juilliard, Early Dreams & Family Expectations 05:44 Pivoting from the Arts to Purpose-Driven Work 06:29 A Transformational Moment with a Young Soldier 07:10 Discovering the Power of Story 07:47 Sibling Relationships & Processing Trauma 09:36 Therapy, Internal Parts & Self-Understanding 11:10 Entering the Corporate World & Early Lessons 12:24 Learning the Language of Leadership Development 13:03 Navigating Marriage, Partnership & Life on the Road 14:05 Long-Distance Love & Building a Family 15:36 Early Career Ambition & Realizations 20:12 The PepsiCo Chapter — Politics, Ego & Hard Lessons 23:09 Imposter Syndrome & Speaking Truth to Power 25:26 Struggles with Diplomacy & Authenticity 26:58 Parenting, Repair, and Generational Healing 29:15 Mentorship & the Legendary Toby 31:19 Writing as Validation, Craft, and Inner Work 34:16 Wrestling with the Mental Health of Book Writing 35:06 Tennis: Self-Care, Mental Health & Mastery 38:31 What Tennis Reveals About the Self 38:57 Symbolism in Collecting Keys, Doorknobs & Mugs 40:57 Identity, Introversion & Misconceptions 42:13 Career Do-Overs & Lessons Learned 43:44 His Proudest Accomplishment: Fatherhood 44:28 Rapid-Fire Questions 45:28 Top Takeaways & Ron’s Life Philosophy 46:36 Final Reflections & Closing

    49 min
  6. 11/11/2025

    224 Say It Skillfully® - Mini’imah Shaheed, Rose out of Concrete

    In this episode of Say It Skillfully, host Molly engages in a profound conversation with Mini’imah Shaheed, an inspiring leader in education. They explore Mini’imah’s journey from her roots in East Oakland to her impactful work in founding a school based on love and community. The discussion delves into the challenges faced in the education system, the importance of resilience, and the vision for empowering women leaders. Mini’imah shares her personal experiences, including her battle with cancer, and emphasizes the need for grace and self-compassion in leadership. This episode is a celebration of growth, community, and the transformative power of education.   Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Manaima Shaheed’s Journey 03:03 Growing Up in East Oakland 05:50 Navigating College Life at UPenn 08:48 Teach for America Experience 11:57 Teaching and Leadership in Atlanta 14:32 Challenges in Education and Systemic Barriers 17:38 Resilience and Personal Growth 20:46 Influences and Role Models 23:40 Starting a School and Educational Innovations 31:28 The Power of Love in Education 34:37 Leadership as a Labor of Love 37:29 Navigating Difficult Conversations 41:10 Exploring Hobbies and Personal Growth 43:07 Understanding Introversion and Stoicism 44:11 Reflections on Regrets and Do-Overs 45:35 Future Aspirations and Legacy Projects 48:20 Empowering Women Leaders 50:27 Celebrating Personal Accomplishments 52:08 Rapid Fire Questions and Fun Insights 54:31 Final Reflections and Takeaways

    58 min
  7. 09/26/2025

    223 Say It Skillfully® – Fearless Tennis & the Mental Game with Jeff Greenwald

    In this inspiring episode, Molly welcomes Jeff Greenwald — world-class coach, bestselling author, and founder of Fearless Tennis and Mental Edge Sports. Jeff shares his remarkable journey from rising junior player at the legendary IMG Academy to competing on the pro tour, and ultimately transforming setbacks into a career helping athletes master the mental side of performance.   00:00 – Intro: The Mental Game of Tennis Molly introduces Jeff Greenwald, bestselling author, world-class coach, and founder of Fearless Tennis and Mental Edge Sports, framing the conversation around performance, mindset, and authenticity.   01:16 – Jeff’s Early Journey Jeff shares how he fell in love with tennis, from choosing the sport at age 12 to training at IMG Academy and playing on the pro tour.   03:40 – Struggles on the Court Jeff opens up about being a hothead, battling frustration, and learning hard lessons after being suspended from competition — experiences that planted the seeds for his later work.   05:27 – Discovering Sports Psychology How reflection, journaling, and a deep curiosity about mind-body connection shifted Jeff’s approach to competition and eventually led him to sports psychology.   10:03 – Family Influence & Choosing Tennis Jeff reflects on his family’s role in shaping his drive, resilience, and perfectionism, and why he chose tennis over team sports.   13:09 – Life at the Academy Stories from his intense training days, the pressures of competition, and the early lessons about discipline and self-reliance.   17:14 – Contemplating Quitting the Tour Jeff recalls moments of burnout, the challenges of constant travel, and how curiosity ultimately pulled him toward coaching and psychology.   20:03 – Coaching in Germany & A Defining Match How his time coaching abroad — and one match where he dropped fully into the “zone” — revealed new possibilities and sparked his shift into mindset training.   23:12 – Building Fearless Tennis & Mental Edge Sports Jeff describes the evolution of his work, blending his personal experience with research to help athletes of all ages trust themselves under pressure.   26:43 – Playing Loose & Finding Perspective Practical insights on setting match intentions, letting go of perfectionism, and why gratitude and perspective are as important as technique.   33:16 – Handling Pressure & Negative Thoughts Jeff shares how even sports psychologists face nerves — and the tools he uses to reset and refocus in high-stakes matches.   34:42 – Writing The Mental Edge for Young Athletes Why Jeff wrote his latest book, how it helps kids, parents, and coaches, and his belief that sports can be a powerful teacher for life.   39:10 – Parenting Lessons from Sports Candid stories about guiding his own children through sports and the balance between supporting and over-coaching.   44:07 – Reflections & Accomplishments Jeff shares his biggest “do over,” his proudest achievements, and the importance of curiosity and authenticity in his ongoing journey.   46:23 – Closing Thoughts Molly and Jeff wrap up, reflecting on the energy of the conversation and the message of embracing the process, authenticity, and “incremental becoming exponential.”   Jeff opens up about his own struggles with frustration and self-doubt, and how reflection, journaling, and psychology shaped his ability to play with freedom under pressure. He discusses the importance of perspective, gratitude, and resilience — lessons that extend far beyond the court. Molly and Jeff also dive into his latest book, The Mental Edge for Young Athletes, offering practical tools for kids, parents, and coaches to navigate the challenges of competition while enjoying the journey.   Whether you’re an athlete, a parent, or simply striving for your personal best, Jeff’s insights on mindset, curiosity, and “incremental becoming exponential” will leave you inspired to embrace the process and show up authentically in every area of life.

    50 min

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Molly Tschang's Say It Skillfully® is a show that helps you benefit from Molly's guidance on the best possible ways to speak your mind at work in a positive and productive manner. She helps everyone from CEOs to interns to recognize that we are all both part of the problem as well as the solution, and that the path to solving any problem is to say what needs to be said. Molly is a rare breed: tough enough to advise CEOs and company boards, but empathetic enough to understand the human costs of not allowing talent to shine. She has helped dozens of management teams navigate the human after-effects of mergers and acquisitions, and her show brings her expert guidance to a wider audience.

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