Butt Honestly with Doctor Carlton and Dangilo

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Doctor Carlton, The internet's favorite gay, Mayo Clinic trained board certified gastroenterologist and mouthy yet sensitive gay guy, Dangilo Brian Bonilla tackle the messy life challenges that Sex, Socializing, Love and Butt Stuff present in the lives of LGBTQ+ men and their friends.

  1. 1D AGO

    Bimbofication, Flooding and Beer Can Thickness- 92

    Hello Booty Gang, and welcome back to another episode of BUTT HONESTLY—where the inbox is thriving, the opinions are measured (mostly), and the phrasing… is unforgettable. This week, the guys dive into a fresh batch of listener emails that range from heartfelt to highly specific. We kick things off with a note from Australia, where one listener writes in to say thank you for a recent conversation—proving that sometimes this podcast is not just chaotic, but actually… helpful. Growth! Then things take a turn (as they do) with a listener navigating a partner’s body modification that’s causing a bit of unexpected wear and tear. Dr. Carlton brings the medical insight, Dangilo brings the commentary, and together they unpack the delicate balance between curiosity, comfort, and knowing your limits. And finally… we have a Booty Gangster who confidently reports that he “flooded his partner’s face.” Interpret that as you will—the guys certainly do. It’s a moment of storytelling, reflection, and a reminder that phrasing is everything. Outside the inbox, the boys weigh in on the Bryan Noem “bimbofication” incident, offering their signature mix of cultural commentary and side-eye. Dr. Carlton also gives his review of Pillion—spoiler alert: thoughts were had, opinions were formed, and no one is walking away neutral. As always, the episode wraps with the guys’ Love Language of the Week, because after all the chaos, commentary, and questionable wording, we still believe in connection… even if it’s complicated. Press play. It’s thoughtful, it’s messy, and it’s Butt Honestly at its most delightfully unfiltered. 🍑🎙️ Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    1h 11m

  2. APR 1

    Butt Balls, Spaniards and P-Spots-91

    Hello Booty Gang, and welcome back to another episode of BUTT HONESTLY—where the carry-on is full, the questions are layered, and the science is… unexpectedly specific. This week, Dr. Carlton returns from Spain with stories that are equal parts cultural immersion and… extracurricular exploration. From darkrooms to sex clubs to a suspiciously high concentration of very friendly bears, let’s just say the trip was educational. The flight over? Memorable. The kind of memorable where you question your seating choices and your life decisions simultaneously Back in the studio, the guys dive into a wild New Scientist article featuring an extremely detailed study of the male anatomy—because nothing says intellectual curiosity like peer-reviewed curiosity. It’s science, it’s fascinating, and it’s just clinical enough to make you feel smarter while listening. In the inbox, a Booty Gang member opens up about being in a long-term relationship while feeling pulled toward unexplored fetishes—raising the age-old question: how do you honor your desires without detonating your stability? The guys approach it with honesty, nuance, and just enough realism to keep things grounded. Another listener writes in asking about the new A-Ball alternative to douching, and yes—this turns into exactly the kind of conversation you think it will. Informative, slightly skeptical, and deeply Butt Honestly. As always, the episode wraps with the guys’ Love Language of the Week, because after travel chaos, scientific deep dives, and emotional honesty, we all deserve a little connection. Press play. It’s worldly, weirdly educational, and just the right amount of inappropriate. 🍑🎙️ Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    1h 13m

  3. MAR 25

    Turning Point U.S. GAY with Lauren Banall A.K.A Erica Qwerk - 90

    Hello Booty Gang, and welcome back to another episode of BUTT HONESTLY—where the conversations are as bold as they are necessary, and the guests always bring something a little extra to the table. This week, Dr. Carlton and Dangilo are joined by the sensational Lauren Banall, alongside her brilliantly unhinged alter ego Erika Qwerk, the comedic force behind Turning Point U.S. GAY—a sharp, satirical take that proves parody might the the voice of the resistance. The energy? Chaotic good. The humor? Smart, biting, and just the right amount of awareness and brilliance.  But as always, the show balances the sparkle with education and empathy. The guys tackle some serious and important listener questions this week, starting with one about anal Pap smears—what they are, why they matter, and why taking care of your health is always in style, no matter how unglamorous the appointment may sound. Then, in a more vulnerable and deeply human moment, they respond to a listener navigating bottoming after experiencing trauma. It’s a thoughtful, compassionate conversation about rebuilding trust with your body, moving at your own pace, and understanding that healing isn’t linear—and that’s okay. Dr. Carlton brings clinical insight, while Dangilo brings empathy, honesty, and the reminder that you’re not alone in figuring it out. Throughout it all, Lauren adds their signature wit and insight, proving that humor and healing can absolutely share the same stage. And because this is still Butt Honestly, the episode closes with the guys’ Love Language of the Week—a little levity, a little sweetness, and a reminder that connection, in all its forms, is worth the work. Press play. It’s smart, it’s funny, it’s heartfelt—and it might just be one of those episodes that stays with you a little longer than expected. 🍑🎙️ https://www.instagram.com/laurenbanall/ Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    59 min

  4. MAR 18

    Lazy Guts, Slick Situations & Splat Speaks-89

    Hello Booty Gang, and welcome back to another episode of BUTT HONESTLY with Dr. Carlton and Dangilo—where the questions are specific, the answers are thoughtful, and the tone is… professionally unhinged. This week, we kick things off with a listener asking about “lazy gut”—what it means, what’s myth versus medicine, and how it intersects with some very advanced extracurricular activities. Then we slide into a practical (and surprisingly common) question: can STIs stick to silicone lube? It’s part chemistry lesson, part public health PSA, and fully in line with the show’s mission of keeping things sexy and smart. And yes… we hear from a listener named Splat—who writes in with a response to last week’s conversation about straight men. The name alone deserves airtime, and the message does not disappoint. Outside the inbox, the guys take a moment to highlight some important news out of Florida, where lawmakers have restored funding for HIV/AIDS medication programs—a reminder that access to care is not just policy, it’s personal. Of course, no episode would be complete without tackling a timeless debate: hairy, trimmed, or shaved? The answers are passionate, the opinions are strong, and no one leaves unchanged. As always, they wrap things up with their Love Language of the Week, because after all the science, sass, and Splat… we still believe in connection. Press play. It’s educational, it’s entertaining, and it’s Butt Honestly at its finest. 🍑🎙️ Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    1h 1m

  5. MAR 11

    DL Guys, D**K Pics & The Side Piece-88

    Hello Booty Gang, and welcome back to another episode of BUTT HONESTLY with your hosts Dr. Carlton and Dangilo—where curiosity is encouraged, dignity is optional, and the inbox continues to keep us very busy. This week the mail sack delivers a listener who believes straight men might quite literally be full of crap.  Then we tackle what may be the longest listener email in Butt Honestly history. We’re not saying it required an intermission… but we did briefly consider snacks. The guys break down the situation piece by piece with their signature blend of compassion, curiosity, and occasional side-eye. We also get an update in the continuing saga of TMVII, proving once again that the Booty Gang never fails to keep the storylines alive. Along the way, the boys dive into an essential modern topic: the correct way to take a dick pic. Lighting, angles, confidence, and perhaps a little restraint—consider this your unofficial masterclass in photographic decision-making. And because no episode is complete without a little lived experience, one of the guys shares a dating story that reminds us all that romance in the modern age is equal parts hope, confusion, and occasionally a very fast exit. As always, they wrap things up with their Love Language of the Week, sending you off with a little sweetness after all the sass. It’s thoughtful, ridiculous, educational, and exactly what you expect from BUTT HONESTLY—the podcast that proves sometimes the most honest conversations start with the words, “Okay… hear me out.” 🍑🎙️ Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    1h 16m

  6. MAR 4

    It's All About The Asset* with Chad O’Connell- 87

    Hello Booty Gang, and welcome back to another episode of BUTT HONESTLY with Dr. Carlton and Dangilo—where curiosity is encouraged, judgment is canceled, and occasionally we learn something about our bodies we wish we hadn’t Googled during lunch. Joining us is Chad O’Connell, founder and CEO of Asset*, the brand behind some of the internet’s most talked-about intimate wellness products. Many of you have seen the products online, but here’s the real endorsement: we’ve actually used them. Yes, we believe in research. Dr. Carlton in particular has become something of a fan of their Hole Serum—for purely educational purposes, of course. This week the boys tackle headlines that feels like it came from the Department of “Well… That’s New.” There’s a sexually transmitted fungal infection making the rounds in Minnesota, and Dr. Carlton breaks down what it is, what it isn’t, and why panic is rarely the most effective treatment plan. From there, a Booty Gang member writes in with a question about doxy use within an open relationship—because modern love requires communication, boundaries, and sometimes a very well-timed prescription. The guys unpack how couples navigate prevention, responsibility, and the fine art of staying both adventurous and medically boring. Then we bring back the beloved segment “Ready Set Confess,” where listeners send in their stories, secrets, and occasional moral dilemmas that leave Dr. Carlton blinking slowly and Dangilo asking follow-up questions no one was prepared for. But the real treat this week is our guest. Because every once in a while we invite someone who isn’t just talking about culture—they’re building it. www.thatasset.com @Thatasset on IG https://www.instagram.com/thatasset  Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    1h 1m

  7. FEB 25

    Leather, Legacy Honey Davenport- 86

    Welcome back to another episode of BUTT HONESTLY with your ever-curious hosts, Dr. Carlton and Dangilo—where the stethoscopes are polished and the tea is always piping. This week, the boys roll out the rhinestone-studded red carpet for a guest who does not simply enter a room—she arrives. We are thrilled to welcome the incomparable Honey Davenport. You know her from RuPaul’s Drag Race, but that’s just the glitter on top. Honey is a recording artist, actor, DJ, dancer, pageant queen (20 crowns and counting, because moderation is overrated), activist—and, casually, the reigning Mr. Palm Springs Leather 2026. Yes, darling. Multifaceted doesn’t even begin to cover it. In this episode, Honey talks about artistry without apology, activism with impact, and what it means to command both the stage and the leather community with equal authority. From pageant polish to political purpose, she shares how performance and power can live in the same perfectly contoured face. Dr. Carlton and Dangilo, of course, do what they do best—ask the smart questions, toss in the dry humor, and occasionally clutch their pearls in admiration. It’s a conversation about legacy, community, resilience, and yes, a little bit of fabulous mischief.  Press play. Because when Honey Davenport is in the building, you don’t just listen—you witness. 🍯✨🍑 Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    1h 27m

  8. FEB 18

    Disco Dosing and DoxyPep-85

    Welcome back to another episode of BUTT HONESTLY—where the slopes are slippery and apparently so is the competition. This week, the guys ski straight into the headlines with chatter about Olympic ski jumpers allegedly getting a little… plumped before takeoff. Is it aerodynamics? Is it vanity? Is it just very enthusiastic tailoring? We investigate! In the mail sack, we’ve got a Booty Gangster with a less-talked-about diagnosis—H. pylori—because sometimes the real party is in your stomach. Another listener wants to know how to properly Doxy PEP for vacation (nothing says “bon voyage” like a pill schedule), and someone else writes in about a LOUD MOAN in the dark that may or may not have caused a mild panic. Subtlety? Never heard of her. The guys also unpack the cancellation of Boots—but why though? Industry tea is spilled respectfully-ish. And with Valentine’s Day upon us (aka Singles Awareness Day, aka Buy Yourself the Flowers Day), Dr. Carlton and Dangilo reflect on love, lust, and the art of pretending you “didn’t want to go out anyway.” As always, they wrap it all up with Love Language of the Week—because whether you’re plumped, PEP’d, pylori-positive, or passionately loud, you still deserve connection. Press play. It’s competitive out here. 🎿🍑 Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    1h 21m
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Doctor Carlton, The internet's favorite gay, Mayo Clinic trained board certified gastroenterologist and mouthy yet sensitive gay guy, Dangilo Brian Bonilla tackle the messy life challenges that Sex, Socializing, Love and Butt Stuff present in the lives of LGBTQ+ men and their friends.

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