Butt Honestly with Doctor Carlton and Dangilo

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Doctor Carlton, The internet's favorite gay, Mayo Clinic trained board certified gastroenterologist and mouthy yet sensitive gay guy, Dangilo Brian Bonilla tackle the messy life challenges that Sex, Socializing, Love and Butt Stuff present in the lives of LGBTQ+ men and their friends.

  1. 1D AGO

    Lazy Guts, Slick Situations & Splat Speaks-89

    Hello Booty Gang, and welcome back to another episode of BUTT HONESTLY with Dr. Carlton and Dangilo—where the questions are specific, the answers are thoughtful, and the tone is… professionally unhinged. This week, we kick things off with a listener asking about “lazy gut”—what it means, what’s myth versus medicine, and how it intersects with some very advanced extracurricular activities. Then we slide into a practical (and surprisingly common) question: can STIs stick to silicone lube? It’s part chemistry lesson, part public health PSA, and fully in line with the show’s mission of keeping things sexy and smart. And yes… we hear from a listener named Splat—who writes in with a response to last week’s conversation about straight men. The name alone deserves airtime, and the message does not disappoint. Outside the inbox, the guys take a moment to highlight some important news out of Florida, where lawmakers have restored funding for HIV/AIDS medication programs—a reminder that access to care is not just policy, it’s personal. Of course, no episode would be complete without tackling a timeless debate: hairy, trimmed, or shaved? The answers are passionate, the opinions are strong, and no one leaves unchanged. As always, they wrap things up with their Love Language of the Week, because after all the science, sass, and Splat… we still believe in connection. Press play. It’s educational, it’s entertaining, and it’s Butt Honestly at its finest. 🍑🎙️ Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    1h 1m

  2. MAR 11

    DL Guys, D**K Pics & The Side Piece-88

    Hello Booty Gang, and welcome back to another episode of BUTT HONESTLY with your hosts Dr. Carlton and Dangilo—where curiosity is encouraged, dignity is optional, and the inbox continues to keep us very busy. This week the mail sack delivers a listener who believes straight men might quite literally be full of crap.  Then we tackle what may be the longest listener email in Butt Honestly history. We’re not saying it required an intermission… but we did briefly consider snacks. The guys break down the situation piece by piece with their signature blend of compassion, curiosity, and occasional side-eye. We also get an update in the continuing saga of TMVII, proving once again that the Booty Gang never fails to keep the storylines alive. Along the way, the boys dive into an essential modern topic: the correct way to take a dick pic. Lighting, angles, confidence, and perhaps a little restraint—consider this your unofficial masterclass in photographic decision-making. And because no episode is complete without a little lived experience, one of the guys shares a dating story that reminds us all that romance in the modern age is equal parts hope, confusion, and occasionally a very fast exit. As always, they wrap things up with their Love Language of the Week, sending you off with a little sweetness after all the sass. It’s thoughtful, ridiculous, educational, and exactly what you expect from BUTT HONESTLY—the podcast that proves sometimes the most honest conversations start with the words, “Okay… hear me out.” 🍑🎙️ Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    1h 16m

  3. MAR 4

    It's All About The Asset* with Chad O’Connell- 87

    Hello Booty Gang, and welcome back to another episode of BUTT HONESTLY with Dr. Carlton and Dangilo—where curiosity is encouraged, judgment is canceled, and occasionally we learn something about our bodies we wish we hadn’t Googled during lunch. Joining us is Chad O’Connell, founder and CEO of Asset*, the brand behind some of the internet’s most talked-about intimate wellness products. Many of you have seen the products online, but here’s the real endorsement: we’ve actually used them. Yes, we believe in research. Dr. Carlton in particular has become something of a fan of their Hole Serum—for purely educational purposes, of course. This week the boys tackle headlines that feels like it came from the Department of “Well… That’s New.” There’s a sexually transmitted fungal infection making the rounds in Minnesota, and Dr. Carlton breaks down what it is, what it isn’t, and why panic is rarely the most effective treatment plan. From there, a Booty Gang member writes in with a question about doxy use within an open relationship—because modern love requires communication, boundaries, and sometimes a very well-timed prescription. The guys unpack how couples navigate prevention, responsibility, and the fine art of staying both adventurous and medically boring. Then we bring back the beloved segment “Ready Set Confess,” where listeners send in their stories, secrets, and occasional moral dilemmas that leave Dr. Carlton blinking slowly and Dangilo asking follow-up questions no one was prepared for. But the real treat this week is our guest. Because every once in a while we invite someone who isn’t just talking about culture—they’re building it. www.thatasset.com @Thatasset on IG https://www.instagram.com/thatasset  Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    1h 1m

  4. FEB 25

    Leather, Legacy Honey Davenport- 86

    Welcome back to another episode of BUTT HONESTLY with your ever-curious hosts, Dr. Carlton and Dangilo—where the stethoscopes are polished and the tea is always piping. This week, the boys roll out the rhinestone-studded red carpet for a guest who does not simply enter a room—she arrives. We are thrilled to welcome the incomparable Honey Davenport. You know her from RuPaul’s Drag Race, but that’s just the glitter on top. Honey is a recording artist, actor, DJ, dancer, pageant queen (20 crowns and counting, because moderation is overrated), activist—and, casually, the reigning Mr. Palm Springs Leather 2026. Yes, darling. Multifaceted doesn’t even begin to cover it. In this episode, Honey talks about artistry without apology, activism with impact, and what it means to command both the stage and the leather community with equal authority. From pageant polish to political purpose, she shares how performance and power can live in the same perfectly contoured face. Dr. Carlton and Dangilo, of course, do what they do best—ask the smart questions, toss in the dry humor, and occasionally clutch their pearls in admiration. It’s a conversation about legacy, community, resilience, and yes, a little bit of fabulous mischief.  Press play. Because when Honey Davenport is in the building, you don’t just listen—you witness. 🍯✨🍑 Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    1h 27m

  5. FEB 18

    Disco Dosing and DoxyPep-85

    Welcome back to another episode of BUTT HONESTLY—where the slopes are slippery and apparently so is the competition. This week, the guys ski straight into the headlines with chatter about Olympic ski jumpers allegedly getting a little… plumped before takeoff. Is it aerodynamics? Is it vanity? Is it just very enthusiastic tailoring? We investigate! In the mail sack, we’ve got a Booty Gangster with a less-talked-about diagnosis—H. pylori—because sometimes the real party is in your stomach. Another listener wants to know how to properly Doxy PEP for vacation (nothing says “bon voyage” like a pill schedule), and someone else writes in about a LOUD MOAN in the dark that may or may not have caused a mild panic. Subtlety? Never heard of her. The guys also unpack the cancellation of Boots—but why though? Industry tea is spilled respectfully-ish. And with Valentine’s Day upon us (aka Singles Awareness Day, aka Buy Yourself the Flowers Day), Dr. Carlton and Dangilo reflect on love, lust, and the art of pretending you “didn’t want to go out anyway.” As always, they wrap it all up with Love Language of the Week—because whether you’re plumped, PEP’d, pylori-positive, or passionately loud, you still deserve connection. Press play. It’s competitive out here. 🎿🍑 Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    1h 21m

  6. FEB 11

    Twinks, Warts and Watery Arrests-84

    Welcome back to another episode of BUTT HONESTLY, where the mail sack is heavy. This week, we’re opening letters that range from medically curious to emotionally tender to “wait… what happened on that cruise?” A Booty Gangster writes in with a post–anal wart surgery question—because nothing says self-care like proper aftercare. Dr. Carlton delivers the calm, clinical reassurance you need, while Dangilo reacts the way you probably did in your car. We also hear from a listener trying to figure out where they fit within the community—socially, sexually, spiritually, existentially… you know, light stuff. The guys get real (but not too real) about belonging, labels, and the myth of having it all figured out. Then there’s the story of “the twink who got away.” Was it fate? Bad timing? A missed DM? Or simply upper body strength limitations? We unpack the romance, the regret, and the delusion with the tenderness it deserves. And because no gay week is complete without at least one headline, the boys discuss this year’s Atlantis Cruise arrest—proving once again that what happens at sea… sometimes requires legal counsel. Outside the inbox, the guys weigh in on The Traitors and other TV obsessions, dissecting strategy, betrayal, and why reality television is somehow more stable than most dating situations. It’s thoughtful commentary, but with more side-eye. As always, we close with Love Language of the Week—because after surgery talk, cruise chaos, and lost twinks, we still believe in connection. Even if it’s complicated. Even if it sailed away. Press play. Your curiosity already has. 🍑🎙️ Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    1h 15m

  7. FEB 4

    Leather, Letters, and Low Chemistry-83

    Welcome back to BUTT HONESTLY, where the inbox is full, the opinions are louder, and the hole—emotionally speaking—is packed this week. We’re drowning in messages from the Booty Gang, starting with a listener in Minneapolis who’s discovered a surprisingly creative way to resist ICE (no spoilers, but it’s giving civic duty with flair). Then we head south to Austin, where a friend has some very real, very personal questions about their recent JPOUCH surgery—medical, intimate, and exactly why this show exists. And because balance is important, we also hear from a listener with firsthand experience in a group that gets a little… HANDY. Educational? Sure. Eye-opening? Absolutely. On the road again, Dr. Carlton recaps his trip to Mr. Chicago Leather, bringing boots-on-the-ground reporting and just enough detail to make you grateful this is an audio medium. The guys weigh in on the Grammys and Dangilo fills us in on the latest O’so Sucia event, including what happens when the vibe is hot but the chemistry is… well like a missing persons ad. It’s one of those episodes that swings effortlessly between politics, medicine, pop culture, and horny confusion—with professionalism optional and opinions fully formed. As always, the episode wraps with Love Language of the Week, because after all that leather, feedback, and secondhand awkwardness, we still believe in feelings. Press play. Your earbuds can handle it. 🎧🍑 Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    1h 15m

  8. JAN 28

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    Hello, Booty Gang—sound the alarms and clutch your pearls, because the whole gang is back in the studio. That’s right: Dr. Carlton, Dangilo, and Producer Tony are all present, accounted for, and emotionally unprepared. This week’s episode has everything: travel tales, worked holes (allegedly), international steam, and listener feedback that proves you are paying attention—and taking notes. Dr. Carlton kicks things off with a Palm Springs recap that can only be described as restorative, adventurous, and very hydrating. Let’s just say the desert wasn’t the only thing getting worked, and leave it there before the HOA gets involved. Meanwhile, Producer Tony returns freshly marinated from Italy and wastes zero time taking us inside a Florence bathhouse experience that answers the age-old question: Is the Renaissance alive and well? (Spoiler: yes, and she’s naked.) In listener land, the Booty Gang is fired up. We’ve got two thoughtful, spicy reactions to our reaction to the Las Culturistas vs. Jasmine Crockett moment—because nothing says community like layered discourse with a side of shade. Add in a Booty Gangster who is struggling with dryness (we’re talking Sahara, not personality), and another listener sliding into Dr. Carlton’s inbox with questions about Spring Blooms that are less “fresh florals” and more “is this normal?” It’s a classic Butt Honestly episode: equal parts sex-ed, group chat chaos, cultural commentary, and lovingly inappropriate oversharing. Educational? Yes. Unhinged? Occasionally. Entertaining? Always. So settle in, hydrate accordingly, and enjoy an episode that proves once again—when the whole crew shows up, things get slippery fast. 🍑🎙️ Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    1h 6m
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Doctor Carlton, The internet's favorite gay, Mayo Clinic trained board certified gastroenterologist and mouthy yet sensitive gay guy, Dangilo Brian Bonilla tackle the messy life challenges that Sex, Socializing, Love and Butt Stuff present in the lives of LGBTQ+ men and their friends.

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