Wolves In The City

with Lee Gray and Jay Jay Revlon

Wolves in the City is a podcast about sex, dating, relationships, nightlife and the chaos of being Black and queer in the city. Hosted by Lee Gray and DJ Jay Jay Revlon, two friends with very different perspectives and absolutely no interest in keeping things polite. Funny, honest, occasionally unhinged - and probably not one to play out loud at work.

  1. 2d ago

    #37 Mama, Am I Ugly?

    Lee and Jay Jay Revlon get into politics, representation, racism, bullying and the ever-growing question of who actually gets to feel safe and seen. From election results changing the mood to the anxiety of immigration uncertainty, they talk about what’s happening in the world — and how much of it follows you home. They also get into Black women, beauty standards, social media algorithms and why the people being represented online don’t always reflect the people actually watching. Then it’s time for a conversation about bullying. What responsibility do teachers have? What happens when the bullying doesn’t stop when the school bell rings? And are schools actually prepared for the fact that kids can now be followed home by harassment online? And, because no Wolves episode is complete without one, AITA gets VERY messy. A boyfriend. Two exes. Their children. One house. And a new girlfriend who apparently did not get the full briefing before moving in. So… who’s the a*****e? 🐺 Wolves In The City Follow us on Instagram: @wolvesinthecitypod Follow us on TikTok: @wolvesinthecitypodcast Watch on YouTube: Wolvesinthecity Become a Wolf / support the podcast: https://www.patreon.com/c/WolvesInTheCity

  2. Oct 30

    #36 The Bussy Recession

    Is Gen Z actually angry at the world, or are they just broke, stuck at home and not getting any? 👀 This week on Wolves in the City, Lee Gray and Jay Jay Revlon get into the state of the world, from riots and looting across Europe to the cost of housing, education and why young people are fed up. Lee has a theory that might explain at least some of it: THE BUSSY RECESSION. Because when you can't afford to move out, go on a night out or buy a drink, what exactly is there to look forward to? The girls compare their own nights out back in the day with what Gen Z is dealing with now. Plus, Jay Jay debuts a new curly wig with wispy bangs (naturally), and the conversation turns to Big Brother UK. Omar, the record Ofcom complaints, allegations of coercive and controlling behaviour, and whether the other housemates should have stepped in. What does it all say about young men, relationships and society at large? We've got questions. And this week, AITA is back with Lee in the hot seat. After Jay Jay faced the music last episode, Lee spills the tea on a housemate feud involving slammed doors, a banged-up fridge, a relocated fridge and one insult too many. Jay Jay delivers the verdict. Will Lee be vindicated, or is he the problem? 💀 🐺 Wolves in the City — joy, chaos and conversation, as always. Join the pack:Instagram: www.instagram.com/wolvesinthecitypodTikTok: www.tiktok.com/@wolvesinthecitypodcastYouTube: www.youtube.com/@Wolvesinthecity Support the podcast on Patreon: www.patreon.com/cw/WolvesInTheCity

  3. Oct 23

    #35 Good Grief

    This week, the Wolves are getting into grief, interracial relationships, and a taxi ride that went COMPLETELY left. 🐺😭 Lee and Jay Jay talk about how losing people changes you as you grow up, before getting into the racial dynamics that can make interracial relationships and family life a whole lot more complicated than they need to be. Because apparently, loving somebody isn’t always enough to keep the family drama at bay. 👀 Then Jay Jay tells us what REALLY happened during a taxi ride that left him feeling trapped — and admits that he might have made the situation even worse himself. Was he justified, or did he do too much? We’re putting it to the AITA test. As always, expect honest conversations, questionable behaviour, and opinions that absolutely did not need to be kept to ourselves. Join the conversation: 📩 Email: wolvesitcpodcast@gmail.com📲 TikTok: @wolvesinthecitypodcast📸 Instagram: @wolvesitcpodcast🐺 Follow to Wolves in the City for more conversations, chaos and AITA verdicts. Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/WolvesInTheCity

  4. Oct 16

    #34 Give Me Some Space, Baby!

    In this episode, Lee Gray and Jay Jay Revlon get into a little listener feedback before diving into a bigger conversation about queer spaces, allyship, and who actually gets to take up space in venues that were created to make LGBTQ people feel safe. 👀 Then, we get into the age-old debate about birthdays, weddings, and who should really be paying. Should your friends be footing the bill for your birthday dinner, or are we doing a little too much?! And of course, we end with another messy AITA — this time, a mother decides that a full evening flight is the perfect time to teach her child how to read out loud. On a plane. Full of people. 😭 Is she just being a good parent, or is everybody else entitled to a little peace and quiet? You know we had to discuss it. 🐺 🐺 Get more Wolves in the City on Patreon:https://www.patreon.com/c/WolvesInTheCity

  5. Oct 9

    #33 Masc 4 Masc Only, Honey!

    In this episode, Lee Gray and Jay Jay Revlon get into queer internet culture, growing up online, and some of the things that look VERY different when you look back on them as an adult. They talk about older men pursuing teenagers online and at house parties, why those situations could be difficult to recognise at the time, and what we can learn from those experiences now. The conversation then turns to masculinity and femme presentation in queer culture. Are people just expressing themselves, or are we still performing what society expects a man to be? 👀 And of course, we couldn't leave without getting into another messy AITA — this time, a stepfather who doesn't want to take his stepson to Universal Studios for his birthday. Is he wrong for that, or does being a stepparent come with certain responsibilities? 👀 Join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/WolvesInTheCity

  6. Oct 2

    #32 Fishy Behaviour

    Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/WolvesInTheCity Lee Gray and Jay Jay Revlon are talking EJ Johnson, ballroom culture and transphobia — particularly the way it shows up in nightlife, queer spaces and, of course, the internet. They also get into whether dating a white person can actually come with social or career advantages 👀 And then, because you know we had to, we finish with another AITA — this time it’s all about family money, rent and whether adult children actually owe their parents anything. Messy? Absolutely. Are we going to agree? Probably not. 😭 Wolves in the City 🐺 Instagram: @wolvesitcpodcast TikTok: @wolvesinthecitypodcast YouTube: Wolvesinthecity

  7. Sep 25

    #31 Say No To Monogamy : Part 2

    Beyoncé, leaving London, monogamy, and a messy AITA 👀 The Wolves are back with another one! 🐺 In this episode, Lee and JJ get into a wild mix of celebrity encounters, leaving London, relationships, nightlife, and whether monogamy is actually making a comeback. JJ spills the tea on unexpectedly hosting a Cecred brand event with Beyoncé and Miss Tina, before the conversation turns to why both of them left London and what life feels like in Europe and New York compared to the city they once called home. And of course, we couldn't leave without getting into another messy AITA — because sometimes you just need to know… are you actually the a*****e? 👀 You know we had to discuss it. 📩 Email us: wolvesitcpodcast@gmail.com 🎵 TikTok: @wolvesinthecitypodcast 📸 Instagram: @wolvesitcpodcast ▶️ YouTube: Wolvesinthecity

  8. Sep 18

    #30 Hello, is anyone there?

    After 5 years, the Wolves are back, back, BACK! 🐺 We’re back to bring a little joy, chaos and conversation to these crazy streets of darkness. In this episode, Lee and JJ reconnect after five years and get into the loss of an OG Wolf, Karnage Kills, how much has changed since we were last here, and why Black creatives don’t seem to be getting the work they used to. We also introduce our brand new AITA — Am I The A*****e? segment, where one listener wants to know: is it wrong to demand your bed back from your partner’s elderly relatives? 👀 You know we had to discuss it. 📩 Email us: wolvesitcpodcast@gmail.com 🎵 TikTok: @wolvesinthecitypodcast 📸 Instagram: @wolvesitcpodcast ▶️ YouTube: Wolvesinthecity

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Wolves in the City is a podcast about sex, dating, relationships, nightlife and the chaos of being Black and queer in the city. Hosted by Lee Gray and DJ Jay Jay Revlon, two friends with very different perspectives and absolutely no interest in keeping things polite. Funny, honest, occasionally unhinged - and probably not one to play out loud at work.

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  • Creator
    with Lee Gray and Jay Jay Revlon
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    39
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © with Lee Gray and Jay Jay Revlon
  • Show Website
    Wolves In The City

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