Becoming Rich

Rachel Monica

Welcome to Becoming RICH, a space for becoming rich in self-worth, love, and the life you truly desire. I’m Rachel Monica, and this podcast is your guide to deeper self-love, aligned relationships, and personal evolution. While being “rich” can mean many things, it all begins with how you see yourself and what you allow in your life. Through real conversations, personal stories, and mindset shifts, I’m here to help you choose yourself, raise your standards, and create a life that feels deeply fulfilling. 🌹 Let’s connect:Email: campolongorachel@gmail.comInstagram: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/rachelmonica.c/⁠⁠⁠TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@rachelmonica.c⁠⁠⁠YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@rachelmonica⁠⁠⁠

  1. 2D AGO

    You’re Not Being Yourself (And It’s Blocking You)

    In today’s episode, “You’re Not Being Yourself (And It’s Blocking You),” I’m breaking down one of the biggest reasons you feel unseen, disconnected, or like things aren’t fully aligning in your life… and how to shift back into the version of you that naturally attracts what’s meant for you. Because most people don’t struggle to attract what they want because they’re “not good enough”… They struggle because they’re not fully being themselves. We’re diving into the perspective shift that changes everything — from performing, filtering, and trying to be liked… into becoming someone who is fully expressed, aligned, and available to be truly seen. I also share a personal story about my relationship, and how the very parts of me I once thought would make people not like me… ended up being the exact parts my partner loves the most. We talk about: Why people-pleasing and performing block true connection  How hiding parts of yourself leads to feeling unseen and unfulfilled  Why authenticity is the energy that attracts aligned people and opportunities  The fear of being fully seen (and why it’s actually the path to freedom)  How to stop trying to be liked and start being real  Why you can’t attract your people if you’re not showing them who you are  How authenticity deepens love, connection, and self-trust  You don’t need to become someone else to attract what you want. You need to become more of who you already are. Let’s connect: 🌹 Email: campolongorachel@gmail.com  🌹 Personal Instagram @rachelmonica.c — https://www.instagram.com/rachelmonica.c 🌹 Connect with my Healer/Reiki Master, Casey (receive $$ off using my name): Email: casey@ahealersden.com

    35 min
  2. APR 23

    Why Dating Feels So Hard (And How to Change It)

    In today’s episode, “Why Dating Feels So Hard (And How to Change It),” I’m breaking down one of the biggest reasons so many people feel drained, discouraged, and defeated by dating… and how to completely shift your experience. Because dating usually isn’t hard because of dating itself… It’s hard because of the energy, pressure, fear, and meaning we attach to it. We’re diving into the perspective shift that changes everything, from seeing dating as a stressful task where you need to “find someone,” into seeing it as an opportunity for clarity, connection, growth, and enjoyment. I share how my own dating experiences changed the moment I stopped approaching it with dread, stopped believing all men were bad, and started using every interaction as information. We talk about: Why dating feels heavy when you make every date mean everything  How your mindset shapes the experiences you keep having  Why dating is meant to give you clarity on what you do and don’t want  How to stop dating to be chosen and start dating to choose  Why your reality changes when you change first  How to date from wholeness instead of loneliness This episode is about dating with power. And it’s about understanding that every experience can serve you when you know how to use it. If dating has been feeling exhausting lately… this episode will help you see it through a completely new lens. Let’s connect: 🌹 Email: campolongorachel@gmail.com 🌹Personal Instagram @rachelmonica.c — https://www.instagram.com/rachelmonica.c 🌹 Connect with my Healer/Reiki Master, Casey (receive $$ off using my name):  Email: casey@ahealersden.com

    31 min
  3. APR 15

    This Life Is Yours: The Real Meaning of Decentering Men

    In today’s episode, “This Life Is Yours: The Real Meaning of Decentering Men,” I’m taking you deeper into what this conversation is actually about. Because decentering men isn’t about rejecting love…  It’s about finally choosing yourself. We’re diving into the shift from living in quiet “waiting” energy — where your life revolves around what hasn’t arrived yet — into a life where you are fully present, fulfilled, and whole on your own. Because the truth is, a relationship is not the destination. It’s a byproduct of who you become. I share a pivotal moment in my life where I stopped doing the work to get something… and genuinely let go of the timeline, the expectations, and the idea that my life would only begin once certain things happened. We talk about: What it really means to decenter men (and why most people misunderstand it)  The subtle ways you might still be living in “waiting” energy  How to bring your attention and energy back to your own life  The identity underneath your desires — and how it shapes everything  Why true happiness isn’t found in outcomes, but in your relationship with yourself This episode is about coming home to yourself. If you’ve been feeling like you’re waiting for something to finally begin… this episode will remind you that your life is already happening. And it’s yours to fully step into. Let’s connect: 🌹 Email: campolongorachel@gmail.com 🌹Personal Instagram @rachelmonica.c — https://www.instagram.com/rachelmonica.c 🌹 Connect with my Healer/Reiki Master, Casey (receive $$ off using my name):  Email: casey@ahealersden.com

    33 min
  4. APR 8

    Why Your Manifestation Isn’t Working: A Lesson On Declaration

    In today’s episode, “Why Your Manifestation Isn’t Working: A Lesson On Declaration,” I’m breaking down the one shift that changes everything when it comes to calling in what you desire. Because manifestation isn’t about wanting more, visualizing harder, or doing all the “right” things… It’s about deciding. We’re diving into what it actually means to declare something, why most people stay stuck in the energy of “almost,” and how your reality begins to shift the moment you become unavailable for anything less than what you’ve chosen. Because the truth is, manifestation isn’t responding to your wishes. It’s responding to your certainty. I share personal moments in my life where everything changed the second I got fully clear, fully decided, and stopped leaving room for anything else. We talk about: The difference between wanting vs deciding  Why manifestation feels slow when you’re still in “maybe” energy  How declaring collapses timelines and shifts your reality faster  What it actually means to embody the version of you who already has it  And the subtle ways you might be blocking your own manifestations without realizing it This episode is about clarity. It’s about choosing your reality on purpose. And it’s about understanding that the life you want isn’t something you wait for… it’s something you decide. And as always… this conversation goes both ways. Because the same certainty you’re trying to call into your life… Is the certainty you’re being asked to step into. If you’re manifesting, feeling stuck, or ready to finally see real movement in your life, this episode will shift the way you approach everything. Let’s connect: 🌹 Email: campolongorachel@gmail.com 🌹Personal Instagram @rachelmonica.c — https://www.instagram.com/rachelmonica.c 🌹 Connect with my Healer/Reiki Master, Casey (receive $$ off using my name):  Email: casey@ahealersden.com

    26 min
  5. APR 1

    3 Things You Need in a Man (And His Ex Will Reveal All of Them)

    In today’s episode, “3 Things You Need in a Man (And His Ex Will Reveal All of Them),” I’m breaking down one of the fastest and most revealing ways to truly understand someone before you get too deep. We’re diving into the three foundational traits that determine the quality of any relationship:  emotional maturity, self-awareness, and emotional intelligence. Because the truth is, you don’t need to guess who someone is.  You can hear it in the way they speak. I walk you through how to listen differently when you’re dating, what it means when someone speaks from blame vs reflection, and why the way someone talks about their past is a direct reflection of their current emotional state. We talk about:  The difference between emotional maturity and emotional reactivity  Why self-awareness is the key to breaking relationship patterns  How to spot emotional intelligence (or the lack of it) early  And the subtle signs that tell you whether someone has actually done the work This episode is about discernment.  It’s about choosing from clarity, not potential.  And it’s about raising your standards in a way that’s grounded, not reactive. And as always… this conversation goes both ways. Because the same awareness you’re looking for in someone else… is the same awareness you’re being called to embody. If you’re dating, healing, or calling in aligned love, this episode will shift the way you see people and the way you see yourself. Let’s connect: 🌹 Email: campolongorachel@gmail.com 🌹Personal Instagram @rachelmonica.c — https://www.instagram.com/rachelmonica.c 🌹 Connect with my Healer/Reiki Master, Casey (receive $$ off using my name):  Email: casey@ahealersden.com

    21 min
  6. MAR 25

    How Healing & Consciously Manifesting Brought Me My Dream Relationship

    In today’s episode, “How Healing & Consciously Manifesting Brought Me My Dream Relationship,” I’m sharing a deeply personal life update and the truth behind what it actually took to attract the kind of love I used to only talk about. This episode is about more than just a relationship. It’s about embodiment. It’s about becoming the version of yourself who no longer settles, no longer chases, and no longer questions their worth. I open up about who I used to be in love, the patterns, the overthinking, the emotional unavailability I kept attracting and the internal shifts that changed everything. From choosing myself in moments where I used to abandon myself, to moving from “wanting” love into truly knowing it was mine. We talk about the energetics of attraction, what it means to become a match for the relationship you desire, and why detachment isn’t about giving up, it’s about trusting that what’s meant for you will not miss you. This episode is your proof that the work works but not in the way you think. It’s not about doing more… it’s about becoming different. If you’re on your own journey of self-love, healing, or calling in aligned love, this conversation will remind you that nothing is missing and the version of you who has it all already exists within you. Let’s connect: 🌹 Email: campolongorachel@gmail.com 🌹Personal Instagram @rachelmonica.c — https://www.instagram.com/rachelmonica.c 🌹 Connect with my Healer/Reiki Master, Casey (receive $$ off using my name):  Email: casey@ahealersden.com

    28 min

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Welcome to Becoming RICH, a space for becoming rich in self-worth, love, and the life you truly desire. I’m Rachel Monica, and this podcast is your guide to deeper self-love, aligned relationships, and personal evolution. While being “rich” can mean many things, it all begins with how you see yourself and what you allow in your life. Through real conversations, personal stories, and mindset shifts, I’m here to help you choose yourself, raise your standards, and create a life that feels deeply fulfilling. 🌹 Let’s connect:Email: campolongorachel@gmail.comInstagram: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/rachelmonica.c/⁠⁠⁠TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@rachelmonica.c⁠⁠⁠YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@rachelmonica⁠⁠⁠